You’re My Obsession

Let’s be honest…..How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it?  Imagine for a moment that if you had one particular piece on, you know the one, that could literally stop traffic because it was so hot…”would it satisfy my man?” “would it turn him on?” The answer is….YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal. Women are a mans obsession. They dream about it, fantasize and they want to roll-play.

When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so….it’s time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has for so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you’re reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. They know which buttons to push and just the perfect pieces to wear. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there’s no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered!

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let’s try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with…..1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3)  it totally drives a man crazy.

The Ultimate…Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh….ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes…When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what’s under her attire that’s got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5-year-old trying to wear the right mix, use your “Garanimal” instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day….and the men adore it. 

Dressing Down…? Too Sexy

Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what’s going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly….take it off nice and slow….allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

Why are Guys all “Gung Ho” on Lingerie?

Some guys don’t see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman’s body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light…he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after…Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,…but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They’ll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties…..

It’s hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really….if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie…..Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don’t you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren’t bragging that the sex was good, no no no…..they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be “not so obvious” she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that….kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are readiing…. this it means, dress the part…be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it’s all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn’t afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you’ll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you’re invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety….this is a one man showing, just for you,…so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we’ve got a long way to go and you ain’t seen nothing yet!

Let’s Play Dress Up…..Who do “you” want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play “doctor and nurse,” perhaps you are his housekeeper “french maid?” What about the “naughty school girl” or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the “corrections officer” is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn’t have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie….with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him…..you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie…we sell the handcuffs too!

~MssDelicious

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Are You Getting What You Want in Bed?

Some people tend to tip-toe around it…I say, “Why beat around the bush?” Let me ask you a question? Are you getting what you want in bed?…And by that I simply mean “are you getting sex the way you like it?”  Sure, you and your partner make love regularly but are you really satisfied with what you do together? If your answer is “Yes, I am perfectly content with my sex life,” then that’s great… but if your answer is closer to “Umm… well…not so much” then perhaps it’s time for a change.

Here are some tips for getting what you want in your sex life and enjoying it with your partner. Know that if you wish for your parter to feel comfy with you and adhere to your needs, you must not make demands in the bedroom. That only makes your partner feel tense and afraid to try new things in fear of doing something wrong, or not doing these sexual favors to your standards. Guess what? Standards go out the window in the bedroom…it’s all about you and your partner and it’s about learning and growing together. You can’t expect to always get things right on the first try can you? It’s like my grandmother used to say…Sex is like falling off a horse,…you get back on and ride him again. Practice makes perfect! Don’t be afraid to get naughty and do things out of the ordinary. Have fun, life is far too short to be boring.

 

Know what you want

This sounds painfully obvious, but it’s not as simple as you may think. There are numerous reasons why it can be hard to answer the question, What do I want? Some people shut down their desires because they feel funny about them. Others have a very limited knowledge of the countless ways that humans can express themselves sexually. Many individuals don’t understand their bodies very well so they don’t know how to work them properly either. Listen to your body…it will talk to you!

 

Understanding what you want requires being open to your most personal thoughts and feelings. There is no need to be judgmental about desire. What do you fantasize about, either during lovemaking or when you’re alone? Fantasies are often crazy and unrealistic, but there may be elements that could easily be acted out in the bedroom. If you believe that you are lacking in sexual knowledge, then give yourself permission to learn more through reading books, watching movies, or surfing the web.

 Ask for what you want

Now that you have a good idea of what you want, share it with your partner. Try to frame your request in a positive way. Don’t complain about how dissatisfied you are with the status quo. Instead, talk about how much you love your private time together and how it exciting it would be if he or she did a certain thing. If he or she seems unwilling to consider your request, then you need to find out why. Once you understand your partner’s hesitation, you may be able to come up with a compromise that would be rewarding for both of you. 

Give your partner what he or she wants

Listen, If you’re getting what you want, it’s only fair that your partner gets what he or she wants, right? A sexual relationship should be mutually satisfying or it will hit the rocks pretty quickly. Give your partner an opportunity to talk about his or her own desires and do your best to fulfill them. Ladies, don’t withhold sex as a punishment. If something is bugging you, fix the real problem instead of letting your resentment spill over into the bedroom. And gentlemen, you need to understand that pleasing and fully satisfying your partner is the most effective way of getting more sex. My advice…let your guard down and get risqué! 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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What Is Foreplay?

If you were to ask me what is foreplay? My response would be something like this;

It is said that with human sexual behavior, foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people, meant to build up sexual arousal. Foreplay takes place in preparation for sexual intercourse or another act meant to bring about mutual sexual gratification or orgasm. Isn’t that about how you would sum it up? I pondered that statement for a bit and while thinking about it, I opened an email from someone who shared with me what it is that he desires in a woman. He said to me today; “Foreplay does not start in the bedroom. It is in the way a woman’s hand is taken to walk down the steps, the pleasure that she gets knowing you will open a door for her, or pull out her chair. It is the joy she sees that you take in finding surprises that simply delicious her. It is  the thousand little gestures, a tone of voice, the subtle way you touch her arm or the back of her neck…romance and sensuality run deep in his soul. In my personal opinion, that was…Very well said!

For the longest time, foreplay was considered to be something that a man had to do to get his partner ready for sexual intercourse. It’s no longer just a mans world and we women like to play all the same. Today, foreplay has become an integral part of the whole lovemaking experience. It is true that impromptu sexual encounters without foreplay can sometimes be some of the best sexual experiences ever!

So, psychologically, foreplay lowers inhibitions and increases the emotional comfort level between partners. Physically, it helps to produce an erection in men, allowing them to penetrate an orifice, and it helps to promote vaginal lubrication in women, which allows penetration to take place comfortably. Foreplay can take many forms, and can take place, up to a point at least, in public. This kiss has many of the characteristics of foreplay; whether or not kissing is foreplay depends on where the couple goes from here.

If the potential partner accepts the sexual invitation, foreplay has begun. Accepting the invitation is often indicated by reciprocating with similar behavior.At some point, foreplay typically becomes physical. Simple and seemingly innocuous acts, such as straightening someone’s clothing or hair, bumping into someone while walking, stroking someone’s arm, or whispering in someone’s ear can constitute foreplay. Holding hands, other touching (especially of the face), kissing, biting, massaging, or scratching any area of the body can all qualify as foreplay.

There is no such thing as the ultimate foreplay, and it is not about pressing the right buttons in any particular order. There is no order. The direction you take is simply up to you and the mood tone.  It is about understanding what makes your partner get hot and delivering the things that make her experience intense pleasure. All women are different. None of us are the same. We all like what we like, and why not, we are women and part of being a woman is not always knowing what we want. What I do know is that when a man does something to make us feel good, we respond. Some women get off on being lightly kissed all over their necks while others enjoy direct oral stimulation.

There are many ways to give your partner extreme sensations, but one thing is for sure: It all begins in her brain. Women, just like men love to have our egos stroked too. So go ahead, tell her how beautiful she is and how much you appreciate her sexy body. By complimenting her appearance, especially if her confidence level is low, you are giving her added security and excitement, as well as giving her good reasons to go all out with the foreplay. There is no right or wrong moves to foreplay. It’s all about eye contact and body language. Use it, and if you don’t know how for God sakes, Learn! How important is foreplay to men you wonder? For some men it means nothing, to many it is something that yet although it seems so easy to find, women have a difficult time surrendering to a man what it is that he seeks and desires most. It is in the touch, the eyes, and in your smile.

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Tips for the Guys…How to Improve Your Sex Life

There are not many men that I know of who think that they need to improve their sex life, but fellas…read this, you just might want to hear what women think? A frequent complaint of women is that their partner doesn’t give them enough foreplay…hey some, or most women LOVE foreplay…Or he rushes through lovemaking and leaves them feeling a little frustrated. There’s no marathon here guys so whats the rush we ask? It’s not a hard and fast rule, but generally women become aroused more slowly and take longer to achieve orgasm than men. And this difference is sometimes a source of conflict. If only there were a way for a man to put on the brakes until his partner catches up with him in terms of sexual excitement. Actually, there is. Here’s how men can become better lovers simply by learning to slow down.

First, let’s clarify what we mean by slowing down. We are actually referring to prolonging erection and delaying ejaculation. Are you still with me here? Let’s face it, gentlemen. Once orgasm has occurred, the erection goes away and so does your interest in sex – temporarily, at least. At that point all you really want to do is roll over and go to sleep….hello? We need more…so take your time and for goodness sakes make it last.

When you have the ability to consciously slow down and make the erection last, you can enjoy intercourse longer and provide your partner with more pleasure. Instead of rushing towards a climax, you are in control. You can take the time to bring your partner to a higher state of arousal so that she is longing for even more.

Slowing down and respecting your partner’s pace of arousal will give her more sexual fulfillment. Why is it important to make your partner happy in bed? For one thing, it shows that you care about how she feels. For another thing, she will be more enthusiastic about having sex in the future when she knows she will be thoroughly satisfied by the experience. Sounds like a win-win situation!

If you’re like many men, you’ve accidentally conditioned yourself to climax quickly. After all, when you masturbate in spare moments during the day, you learn to get things done fast, right? But when there’s a partner involved, you have to override that conditioning somehow.

Thinking about other non-sexual things is something a lot of men do to slow down their rate of arousal. As you probably know, your body reaches a certain point when ejaculation can’t be delayed any longer – it will happen. The trick, my friend, is to get close to that point but never quite there, allowing yourself to achieve orgasm only when you decide the time is right.

There are specific exercises you can do to prolong an erection and delay ejaculation. You may find it worthwhile to do a little research on the topic. For example, Tantric sex includes certain practices that help you control your sexual response, making it last as long as you want it to. In fact, it may come as a surprise to you but men can actually climax without ejaculation and without losing the erection. Men who’ve learned this skill often describe the experience as a whole-body orgasm.

The idea might seem strange or even unnatural at first. But you’ll soon realize the benefits of slowing down and delaying ejaculation. Possessing this type of self-control definitely puts you a cut above the average fellow. Your partner is certain to appreciate passion that lasts a little longer and gives her more pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

Foods That Can Improve Your Erection

Some call them the food and drinks of love…others, just a quick fix for some sexy satisfaction! When you don’t know whose word to take on this subject, you need to go directly to the core of the question to receive the proper answer, and in my case, I got 10 of them. Take a peek and see if you’ve experienced any that work for you? If so, share with me in the comment section if you will so that others can give them a try? So mates, partners, lovers and spouses, when you want a little action or to see a little jump in his step…try one of these on him and see if that does the trick? In the event that one or more of these work, be prepared for a long playful and very eventful evening!

1. Coffee. The caffeine kick from a cup of Java boosts your metabolism, gets your blood pumping and could also enhance endurance by releasing fat stores, giving you the energy to last all night. This is a 50/50. It works for some, and others not so much. Only you know how your own body works?

2. The blueberry is a sexual super-food often referred to as ‘nature’s little blue pill’ because of its remarkable similarities to the wonder drug ‘Viagra’. However, unlike ‘Viagra’, blueberries are cheap, readily available and able to be consumed in bulk! So not only does this produce a massive amount of oxidants that fight off cancer cells, like a pop up tent, it perks a man up in no time flat.

3. Watermelons. Watermelon and other fruits listed above contain bio-active phyto-nutrients. Watermelons contain concentration of lycopene (as do tomatoes) , beta carotene and a particularly important phyto-nutrient called citrulline.  Citruline, like Viagra, causes the blood vessels to relax, producing erections. I never knew this…

4. Chillies. Spice up your love life with chillies. Just be very careful…you want to end up in the sack, not on the can. When your face flushes after eating a curry, that’s the blood vessels expanding thanks to the effect of the chillies. And it’s not just the blood vessels in your face that get the boost. Biologically speaking a hard-on is simple hydraulics – more liquid (blood) being forced into little tubes (blood vessels) in your penis – so what you need is a strong heart and smooth, healthy pipework.

5. Bananas. Who would have thought? The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the “Apple” they started covering their “nudity” with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.

6. Chocolate. For an simple pleaser, try a rich chocolate dessert to inspire your lust. Whether it is the serotonin in chocolate that gets you going or merely the sensual pleasure of eating it, chocolate has been celebrated throughout the ages as a sexual stimulant. The Aztecs considered it the food of the gods; tribal leaders consumed it in mass quantities to keep them going with hundreds of sex partners…and honestly, hundreds of people can’t all be wrong, right?

7. Ginseng. Find this aphrodisiac in its many forms at grocery stores in Chinatown. It is known to be especially powerful for men and can be consumed directly as a dried root or cooked into soups, teas and meat dishes. Add bits of fresh root or ginseng powder when cooking rice to infuse the starch with an earthy, bitter-sweet flavor–then brace yourself for the full effect. Make sure that you know what you are getting yourself into though, as once you start this, sister, there is NO turning back!

8. Red wine. Red wine is one of the most potent sources of the antioxidant known asresveratrol. According to researchers in a recent survey from Northwestern University, this powerful antioxidant actually increases estrogen production, leading to a heightened sexual appetite. That means she may just want to skip right to you for dessert. Warning….Be careful: Too much wine, too fast, can lead to drowsiness, and the dreaded, “Not tonight, I’m too tired,” line.

9. Salmon. The omega-3 fatty acids in oily fish make the blood less sticky, enhancing blood flow to the parts that matter. Eat fish like salmon, mackerel, trout and fresh tuna twice a week to keep your arteries well-oiled and your penis ready to go and on standby alert!

10. Truffles. The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. Black truffles are popular through fall and winter and may last even longer. White truffles might only be on the menu for one month in late fall.The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch making someone a very erect playful guy.

 ***Might we recommend this? See our Cooking and Wine Expertise Guru for a delicious dish with salmon and bluberries that is sure to get your man into bed with delight tonight! (Baked Salmon w/Blueberries)

 

What about Bedroom Etiquette?

How Long Do You Wait?

You are dating someone new. How long do you wait until you have sex? (No, this is not a trick question.) This is a personal choice really. As a guy, you may have little or no qualms about having sex as soon as possible. If you’re a women you are usually a little more reticent to give it up right away. A younger person may answer this question differently from an older person. Nowadays, it seems fairly common for people to hook up on a first date or after only a few. Is this this right choice for you? You get to decide and it will happen if and only when you say it will. No if’s and’s or but’s about it!

Who Provides the Birth Control?

Again, this is to be negotiated. Unfortunately, many wait until the peak of passion to whisper breathlessly to the other person, “Did you bring a condom?” If you want to have sex, don’t assume your partner is prepared, always have your birth control handy. This can totally blow the moment. All that sexual tension and passion up in a cloud of smoke because no one has protection. Buy it for the “just in case” it ever happens days and leave it in your night stand next to the bed for heaven sakes!

Negotiating the Relationship

When you have sex with someone for the first time, it is good to then discuss your expectations as well as the other persons. Is this a one-night stand? Do you want to hook up again? Do you want to date? I’ve known guys who have hooked up with girls who then assume that they own the men. This is not healthy nor wise and it leaves a clinger to be dealt with. Avoid hurt feelings by talking about expectations about the relationship up front as soon as possible.

The Right to Spend the Night?

Just because you’ve had sex with someone doesn’t mean they want you to spend the night. While some may feel entitled to spend the night with their sexual partners this privilege should not be assumed. Always ask permission and clear out quickly if permission is not granted.

Listen up; Dinner Does Not Entitle Sex. If you buy dinner for a date it doesn’t entitle you to sex. A bottle of wine does NOT entitle you to sex either. Respect her/him if you think they has fine qualities and remember that she/he may be a true gift. You might not think you are ready  for a soild relationship, but ponder this; what if this was the right person for you and you (out of fear, or your own insecurities) passed this wonderful person by to “buy more time” for your social life of being a player? This may seem like a 1950’s convention that doesn’t need to be written but believe me, there are some really old-fashioned, sexist types out there who think this is true..but you really have no right to spend the night.

Say Thank You

If you’ve had good sex with a partner, thank him or her! Really, and why not!? If someone has pleased you sexually be appreciative by thanking him or her, it is only polite, plus they’ll not only admire you they will have their ego stroked and everyone loves that. It boosts our confidence and reminds us that we are still good…and we all love knowing that, don’t we?

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WhAt is SaFe SeX?

From the time I was a young girl, I heard about it, and knew of it, but quite honestly, my parents never taught us kids what sex was in a true essence so imagine when we discovered it how wonderful it was? Yes, wonderful all right, then 9 months later I was walking the floors with a colicky baby that cried and took my social life away. I was young …Yes, naive? Very much…My thoughts were, “It won’t happen to me…” So I did what most girls do. I gave into temptation.

 

Let me tell you about temptation. First off if you are a young lady reading this and you think that having a baby is easy… Call me, I’ve got news for you! Your life is OVER…or at least until that baby is raised and supporting itself. Raising a child is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. You learn to immediately put YOUR NEEDS on the back burner for at least 20 years! Now multiply that, ..I have 2. No, I was not a single mother, I did marry the man who knocked me up as so many people called it. I actually loved him and we were planning to marry, just not yet. At 19 though, do we really know what love is? I look at my kids now, who turned out GREAT and I pat myself on the back for everything that went right when so, so many things could have gone wrong. I guess that’s where values came in.I was raised with plenty of them, minus the 

‘sex talk’ speech, and that carried on to my children who are now 27 and 25. I look at them through a “mothers eyes” and think that they would be too young to have a baby. I wouldn’t change my life for anything and to those who laughed and mocked me when I was 19 and learned of my pregnancy I say to them, “what do you think of me now?” I have kids living in two of the largest cities of the USA with excellent college degrees, my son now having just finished his 2nd BS. They have great paying jobs that they LOVE because I taught them to work hard, dream big and never ever settle.

 

I’m 47 now and would actually love grandchildren. I figure, shit, if I could practically raise two kids alone during the toughest times in their early teens after a divorce, I can certainly take on the role  as a single grandparent! That probably won’t happen. Neither of my kids want kids at this time of their life. Why….well, they say there are 2 reasons; 1) they are selfish and want to explore and travel the world (wonder where they got that from?) and 2) They don’t want to the responsibility just yet. (they tell me all the time that they cannot imagine how their father and I did it at such a young age.) Looking back now, I wonder the same thing, but we did. As a parent you make sacrifice after sacrifice and you go without because that’s the avenue that you chose the day you had sex and got pregnant. What used to be all about “you” now because all about “them.” Some say that they lost a bit of their life when they had a baby. I disagree, but I recommend waiting until you have cash in the bank and are truly 110% focused. My son asked me one day when he finally put two and two together counting days and months on the calendar….”Mom, was I a mistake?” What does a mother say to that? The only thing I said was “Honey, NO, but if you were a mistake you were the best damn mistake I ever made!” It’s the truth. My kids taught me to not be selfish and I learned the true meaning of “unconditional love~” There is NO book that can teach you that.

 

Sex is a beautiful thing, what I suggest is to just think long and hard gals before you do it, because like me, who thought “it won’t happen…” it just might. Then what are you going to do? Getting on to why we’re really here…it’s discovering and learning about sex. For goodness sake, make sure you know your partner. One night stands are fun and all sure, BUT in comparison to my life, that one night might affect the rest of your life, and I don’t mean with a pregnancy, I mean if you are too quick to “do” and too stupid to “think” you can end up with a serious STD. These days, they are everywhere. If you have one, don’t hide it. Make sure that you tell your partner. After having had this conversation with a very close friend, I learned that although I wouldn’t have wanted a man to know my secrets, but IF I had something, the practical and honest thing to do would be to get it out in the open. Why did I think differently than her? For a few reasons, I can count on less than two hands the number of men I have slept with in my lifetime and she…well, she could write a book on the men of her life. My values were different, and again it goes back to the fact that I was quite naive.

 

Now, lets talk cold hard facts about the attributes of sex, and the misleading topics. To the women who are reading this that think by having a baby at a young age it will solve all of your financial problems I say WTF are you thinking? Here’s where I’m coming from on this matter.  My son, when he was 23 years old informed me that his best friend, a cute gal who was 20 got pregnant. She was a single mother and realized that the state would help her out, and bring her HIGH TAX RETURNS, food stamps, WIC and so much more…so what did she do? Within 5 years she had 3 more babies. It’s nice to know isn’t it that our hard earned tax dollars are going to these young women who would rather sit around with a bunch of babies that they really can’t take care of because they can get their hair and nails done on us, on OUR dollars. Give me a break! No one gave me anything. We worked our asses off for what we had and when our kids got sick, they got their medicine but their father and I didn’t eat for a week. I had to work two jobs to put two kids through college and these women that thought it was ok to get pregnant to cheat the system, well, their kids will get a free ride in college, where as you and I will be paying parent loans until we’re dead!  Sad, but true. I don’t think that any child should suffer or miss out because their parents didn’t have brains, but hopefully they will learn from this and not follow in the same pattern. Am I being harsh, you bet I am!

 

If you are a parent and you have kids, teach them all that you can about sex so that they know you did a great job raising them, and add this finishing touch that might change their life and allow them to do things the right way. Save them from what I went through at such a young age. Please do not misconstrue what I am saying, I have NO REGRETS. I followed the path and I am who I am today because of my past. Babies are a joy, but babies shouldn’t be having babies! If I knew then what I know now….well, you know how that saying goes?

 

So let’s talk safe sex shall we? What is it? Safe sex is the practice of using precautions when having sex. The reason for this is to avoid getting or passing on a sexually transmitted disease (STD) or other infection. STDs are contagious diseases caused by germs, usually bacteria or viruses. They are usually passed to others through sexual intercourse or other sexual contact. STDs include Chlamydia, genital warts, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis B and C, herpes, and human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). Some STDs in females, if not treated, can make you infertile (not able to have babies). HIV infection can cause acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS), which may be fatal. Body fluids can contain the germs that cause STDs. They include saliva, urine, blood, vaginal fluids, and semen.

• Safe sex precautions decrease or prevent the exchange of body fluids during sexual contact. There are a number of measures you can take to practice safe sex. The safest measure is complete abstinence (not having sex with anyone). Other measures include limiting your number of sexual partners and avoiding vaginal and anal intercourse. The most important measure when having intercourse is to use a condom (rubber). Avoid sexual contact with anyone who has an untreated STD or while they are being treated. Certain safe sex practices may also be used to help prevent pregnancy.

Safe sex means taking precautions during sex that can keep you from getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI), or from giving an STI to your partner.

STIs are also referred to as sexually transmitted diseases, or STDs. (sexually transmitted disease) These diseases include genital herpes, genital warts, HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis B and C, and others.

Information

A sexually transmitted illness (STI) is a contagious disease that can be transferred to another person through sexual intercourse or other sexual contact. Many of the organisms that cause STIs live on the penis, vagina, anus, mouth, and the skin of surrounding areas.

Most of the diseases are transferred by direct contact with a sore on the genitals or mouth. However, some organisms can be transferred in body fluids without causing a visible sore. They can be transferred to another person during oral, vaginal, or anal intercourse.

Some STIs can also be transferred by nonsexual contact with infected tissues or fluids, such as infected blood. For example, sharing needles when using IV (in the vein) drugs is a major cause of HIV and hepatitis B transmission. An STI can also be transmitted through contaminated blood transfusions and blood products, through the placenta from the mother to the developing baby, and sometimes through breastfeeding.

The following factors increase your risk of getting an STI:

• Not knowing whether a partner has an STI or not
• Having a partner with a history of any STI
• Having sex without a male or female condom
• Using drugs or alcohol in a situation where sex might occur
• If your partner is an IV drug user
• Having anal intercourse

How do I practice safe sex?

Don’t do it! Sex isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. haha, just kidding…If abstaining from sexual activity with a partner is not practical for you, you should do all of these:

• Avoid activities or items that can pass germs: Avoid vaginal or anal hand intercourse, mouth to mouth or french (wet) kissing, or using saliva (spit) as a lubricant. Do not use dildos, vibrators, and other sex toys on both yourself and your sex partner.
• Condoms and barriers:These are usually made from latex. If you are allergic to latex, use a non-latex product such as polyurethane.
  • Condoms: Use a condom every time you will have vaginal or anal sex. Condoms for both men and women are available. Condoms can prevent germs from spreading and help keep a woman from getting pregnant.
  • Barriers: An oral barrier, such as a dry condom or latex square, must be used when doing oral sex.
• Limit sexual partners: Have sex with a single partner or avoid multiple sex partners. Also avoid having sex with strangers or those with unknown sexual history.
• Testing and treatment:
  • Screening tests: If you are sexually active, you should get tested for STDs on a regular basis. This is very important if you have multiple sexual partners. You may have an STD and not know it. If you are pregnant, you will be screened for STDs to prevent passing them to your unborn baby.
  • Suspected infections: Get tested if you think or know you had contact with someone who has STD. See a caregiver if you think you have an STD for early treatment. Tell all your sexual partners if you are diagnosed with STD so that they may also be tested and treated. Do not have sex while you are being treated or with a partner who is being treated. Do not have sex until your caregiver tells you it is safe to do so.

• One last note; Before you sleep with someone, think about how many partners he may or may not have had in the past, because what you don’t know, is that now, they are part of you as well.

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The G-Spot

Soooo many women read articles to learn about this, and yet only few experience the true stimulation that this type of erotic blow can endure….It’s time to get to the basics and learn where it is, how it operates, and how to master it.The G-Spot to so many is a complete mystery, but in reality is easy to find and easy to stimulate. Let’s take a look at how? The two sexual positions below, are guaranteed to stimulate the G-Spot and give a woman fantastic orgasms. Lets give you an exact road map on how to find it and then show you how to stimulate it….. then you can be the judge. We welcome your comments and would love to hear from the women who already know of their g-spot and from those who just discovered the sense of pleasure they got when they did hit to bulls eye!

 What is the G-spot?

 The “G” in the word G-spot is for the discoverer of a mysterious area found in the vagina. His name was Ernst Grafenberg, hence the “G” in his honor.

Actually the G-spot is an area, not a spot, and could be considered bean shaped.

Technically it’s the woman’s analog to the man’s prostate, and known as the Para urethral gland. It appears as spongy tissue about 30 centimeters from the vagina’s entrance, located on the frontal vaginal wall (facing the abdomen and not the back).

This area is about the size of  a nickle and can easily be distinguished from other parts of the vaginal wall by its ridges. Moreover, as the woman becomes sexually excited, these ridges become harder and more pronounced, as they are composed of erectile tissue (as are the penis and nipples). With enough stimulation, the G-spot area engorges with blood, becomes highly sensitive, and can (and will) cause a profound orgasm if stimulated correctly.

The Best Way to Find the G-spot!

Here is a simple but powerful technique, to find and stimulate the G-spot and give you partner a mind blowing orgasm.

With the woman placed on her back, legs spread at a comfortable distance, begin to lubricate her vaginal opening. This may be done manually (with the hand and fingers), or with the tongue (cunnilingus). As the vagina become moist and as the labia gentle part, insert a well lubricated (saliva is sufficient in this case) finger.

The index finger is ideal. Thinking as the vagina a clock, the G-spot will be about 30 cm (give or take 3 cm) from 11:45 to 12:15. It is on the upper wall (opposite the belly button) and you will feel the ridges. This is the general area.

You can test the area by gently tapping with your index finger (or index and 2nd finger if it pleases the woman) in rhythmical method. The first “ouu” will indicate you have found it. To increase its general stimulation, use your thumb (also well lubricated) to gently stimulate the clitoris, as many anatomists believe the G-spot is actually the root area of the clitoris itself. The ridges will become more pronounced. Usually as this point, the woman will be most desirous for normal penetration.

 Two Famous Sex Positions to Stimulate the G-spot

1. Women on Top

Any of the variations of the woman on top will usually stimulate the G-spot, as the woman on top positions gives the woman the control she needs to direct the penis to its target.

A most successful woman on top positions is where the woman mounts the man, facing him in a sitting up position at first, but slowly lowering herself to the man’s chest.

The uterus will shorten, and the man’s penis will be pushing directly on the G-spot. Her orgasm will follow very quickly, and multiple orgasms are possible with the man having good self-control

2. From Behind

The so-called doggy style is also good (although not as good as the woman on top) for stimulation of the G-spot. The man’s penis will actually be bent downwards (the vagina has the power to bend the erect penis) and the strong rhythmical thrusting of the man can also highly stimulate the G-spot. FINALLY!

Once a woman has experienced an orgasm from dual clitoral and G-spot stimulation, and having experienced the enormous pleasure it brings, she will wish to join with that man that brought to her such satisfaction, again and again (and again)

 

The G-Spot is shrouded in mystery but it shouldn’t be! Its easy enough to find and easy enough to stimulate and any women will appreciate a man who can do this! Finding the “G” is exciting and stimulating to say the least…..lets take a ride on the “G”…and I’m not referring to the train in NYC. It’s time to head south!

 

 

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Advertising Sex?

What A Lot of People Know

One of the best methods for selling a product or service, is to show a beautiful person in skimpy clothing. Why? Because usually people don’t care about the product or service at first, they only care about seeing more pictures of the beautiful model in the advertisement. An example, would be the Evolution of advertising that I discussed a while back, showcasing the trend and downward spiral of their advertising techniques. That is one of the most prime examples that anyone could ever show, because I have no doubt if you’ve surfed the Internet you’ve probably stumbled on one of the ads at some point.

Recently I had a discussion with friends about what a person would notice first upon entering a website, a picture of a beautiful woman, or the title of the article. What was he or she wearing, was it sexy, sassy, seductive, and sensual, or was it quite provocative? Does it really matter which of these it was? It just was!  According a recent poll 100% of the people surveyed voted for noticing the beautiful woman before the article title…does that really surprise you? Lingerie is, and probably will always be one of the leaders in the industry for sex and sex appeal. There is quite a difference however in the companies that advertise it and how they go about it.

 I was never one for raunchy and trashy….does that sell? You bet it does, but I was raised more so with the flair to be classy and simple. I like the no make up, or very little, simple baby doll, teddy, or two piece bra and panty sets with garters and thigh highs look….I am still that old fashion gal that has respect for herself, and I take pride in my appearance, therefore my models should keep the look the same. We are selling alluring, intriguing and sexy, not trashy. We use great product placement  and our advertising is only with reputable companies. The lingerie that I sell, for the most part, middle class and even some high-end material but we try to keep it at a mediocre budget. I’m not out to take the world by storm…and drain your wallets, I’d much rather prefer customers remembering me for my morals, value, and although mature look. Oh sure some of what I sell one might not consider ” entirely respectable”….that is the person’s choice that is purchasing it. It is by no means dirty or trashy. Every woman has to find that one piece that fits her physique best. I believe that my business will succeed and do quite well, putting a women’s integrity first is and always has been motto, but if she has the confidence to wear that sexy lingerie that turn heads,…all the power to her!

 My personal conclusions? Yes, sex sells. There is a lot of money to be made by using sexually driven advertisements, but for me, I only have one problem. I have morals, and for some reason that’s always been a wall that I only peek around from time to time, but never climb over. Well, I’m not sure how long that wall will last, because from what I’ve noticed so far, is that this can be a potential money-maker if used properly. So in truth, there is a substantial reason as to why advertising companies have used attractive and beautiful people for the advertising, it’s an attention getter!

 Ask Yourself This Question…..

When you see lingerie articles, what catches your attention first? Was it the article title, or the picture of the beautiful woman with cleavage and her booty? If this is anything like the other study I did earlier concerning the article title verse the beautiful women…. then I’m pretty sure it’s going to be the woman again. Do you see the advertising power here? I do! Sure there are those who say that advertisers only use pretty girls to sell….and they also say that there are other ways in the industry o f doing so……Really? Because last time I saw an ad for farm equipment it was boring to me,…now put a gal in a bikini set on that tractor with a cowboy hat on and watch your revenue soar! Can you say cha ching?

 

 

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What would YOU call it? Sex or Making Love?

Ok, so You’ve had sex. You’ve been laid, screwed,  however you want to call this kettle black….it is what it is. However, it’s been a long time since I’ve made love, and I kind of miss it. Some people might argue that there’s no difference – physically, they are the same. But emotionally, passionately, and mentally, the two deeds are very different. They say that women develop more of a physical attachment to a partner once they make love….so fellas, if you aren’t ready to cross that line of friendship, DON’T DO IT! We gals take this personal and think that things are about to change in a relationship and often we read much deeper into this matter than you think. Don’t break the cardinal rule if you don’t want her as a mate/lover. If you do…you’ll only end up with a damaged friendship and an angry scorned woman who has no clue what just happened…she will be left with an emotional scar, and it will be ALL YOUR FAULT!

 1. How About the First Time?

The first time you make love with your partner, it’s usually a very special moment. It’s also a moment or several that you feel awkward and weird too…don’t you? He is seeing you naked for the first time, and you aren’t sure how he’ll feel? Lovemaking is often planned out in advance, especially in new relationships. There’s often sensual foreplay, and your bodies fit together perfectly like a puzzle.

 If it’s your first time with a new partner and you’re just having sex, it may be spontaneous. Your partner may not be your boyfriend, or even your crush, and the decision to go all the way is frequently a hormonal (thanks, booze!) impulse. First time sex can be sloppy and awkward as you try to find the right position, and after everything’s said and done, it feels like there was something missing….duhhh, there was a lot missing.

 2. Drunken Sex?

I’ve heard of drunken sex, but I’ve never heard of inebriated love-making. If anyone has experienced the urban legend of wasted love-making, I’d love to hear about it?

 3. The Setting.

What you do and where you do it make the world of difference. If you’re about to get naughty in a dim room filled with candles, on a bed covered with rose petals, you’re probably going to make love. If you’re going to do it in the backseat of a car, an airplane bathroom, (and who hasn’t dreamed of becoming a member of the mile high club?) as Aerosmith sang once….”Love on an Elevator“, or another compact space that may have legal repercussions attached, it’s sex. How about the dining room table, the counter top, or in a storage closet? Sure, sex on the beach or in the woods may sound like a fairy tale scenario, but dirt in sand in uncomfortable places can ruin the romance. I don’t know about you but I don’t want to be picking dirt or sand out of my ass for no one. We all love the adventure though….it adds spice to your love life. What were you wearing? Any time you have a romantic evening set, you should only be wearing something from Simply Delicious Lingerie. Ok, so I am bias.

 4. The Aftermath…

Lovemaking includes mutual orgasms, followed by spooning and cuddling. If you’re in a relationship, your boyfriend’s post-sex behavior could include promptly rolling over and falling asleep, or the phrase “That was great,” despite the fact that you didn’t get off. If you’re single, you’ll take the walk of shame after a long night of sex. In those rare occasions that you’ve made love to someone without commitment, it could turn into breakfast in the morning, a few more rounds, and maybe even a new relationship.

In my opinion, in case you were wondering…it’s far more common to have sex than to make love. However, this means that when you do find yourself both emotionally and physically stimulated with a partner you care for very deeply, you appreciate the art of lovemaking so much more than that one-night stand a few months ago with some guy that you can’t even remember his name.

 

 

 

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