Like all drugs, however, that love high can make us do crazy things. You all have a friend who impulsively flew off to some far away place to marry a guy/woman they barely knew because he was under the influence of love. Does that last? Spur of the moment? I say, yes….if it is truly love then it will last as long as you continue to connect and communicate. Otherwise, it will have been a trip that you’ll regret in the not so far off future.
When we are in lust, or in the process of falling in love, we tend to overlook so many negative things about that person because so much feels right. We actively throw away any bad data that could ruin our high. We ignore what’s right in front of us. We do! I’ve done it…haven’t you? If you’ve made poor choices because you’ve let a love high influence you, you’re not alone. You already know that relationships entered into hastily, based upon the love high, never last. They can’t. Once you come down from that high, you’ll have to scale the Mt. Rushmore of data that you threw out. And trust me, it’s steep.Whether you’re in love right now or you’re out there looking to answer the age-old question “ are they the one?” the most important thing you need to know is yourself. The best way to figure out if someone is “the one” is to sort through the women/men who are clearly not right for you.
What do you want, and need? Make a list…., once you will have a much better sense of what you
need in a relationship, and whether that love high you’re feeling is real or based primarily on lust. We often make mistakes entering into relationships because we are not aware of our needs. We tend to get caught up in the moment and to overlook the things that are most important to us. Take it slow….why the urgency to rush into anything? My grandmother used to always say that good things come to those who wait.
I waited a long time, and then one day when I was least expecting it….it happened. I found someone who was so much like myself in so many ways that it almost scared me, actually, it does scare me,
…nevertheless, I refuse to not put my best foot forward and give this a shot….I owe it to myself to find happiness, and I hope that happiness finds me in return. You should do the same.
So the next time you are with somebody and you start to wonder if he/she is the one, check your list! Make sure that the person possesses the qualities you’re seeking in a partner. If you’re missing a core ingredient, the relationship will never work out. If you consult your list, you won’t find yourself in a relationship with a person who is like a best friend but with whom the sex is so bad you can’t take it anymore, and you won’t be in a relationship where the sex is fantastic, but the woman isn’t emotionally stable and doesn’t make you feel comfortable. Do some soul searching to know exactly what you need. If you’re in a relationship, see if the woman/man you’re seeing fulfills your criteria. You can only get what you desire if you’re able to identify it. Is it love, or is it lust?
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