Relationships…Let’s Compare Apples

Apples and Wine…A great combination, but I’m talking about the mixture in the fine making of a relationship… Lets do a little comparison shall we?

 It has been said that “Women are like apples on trees.” The best ones are wayyyyyyyy way up at the top of the tree . Most men don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and breaking something the fear of picking the best one and really getting hurt later. So what do they do? Instead, they often take the apples on a lower branch or even from the ground that aren’t as good, but much easier! Boys will be boys….always wanting something out of reach that they cannot grasp., and girls often love playing hard to get waiting for them to chase us….as we get older, so dos the game of life, only now it gets a lot more intense, and the stakes are higher! Back to the story before I lose my train of thought…..

The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they’re amazing. They are the creme de le creme of the fruit tree…..they just happen to be so high up that they put themselves out of reach.  They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top because they value quality.Women do the same thing as apples…..we climb up so high on our pedestal that man don’t dare try to reach us….oh they admire us from a far, but they aren’t quite sure how to get our attention long enough to get us to come down. Every now and then, we see a man who is far better in many ways than any of the other suitors, and we decide to come down and meet him near the middle….

 As with a kind of relationship….you only get out of it what you put into it. If you want a lot, you have to work hard and give a lot, on the other hand if you are insecure and unsure of what your wants and needs are, get ready for some possible heart ache and a big fat let down. If you want a great guy you have to pick yourself up by the seat of your pants and show him you are here to win his love and affection! CONFIDENCE is what you’ll need. If you don’t  have it,…ya better learn how to get it. Nothing says “WOW” to a man better than a woman who rolls in and take control. It shows not only your bold strong side but the sassy in you as well.

Some woman are shy and skeptical,and very picky, no way will the settle….They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top f the tree!

 Now let s talk about men,…..Hmmmm…Ok, here I believe that men are like a fine wine. In comparison, They all start out like grapes, and it’s our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you’d like to have dinner with. If they make it to the dinner party they are doing well, or as good as can be expected. Cut them some slack though….Take it slow and get to know him…find out his likes and dislikes….hobbies, and ask about his family. It’s always good to know a little about his back ground and what kind of upbringing he comes from. Doesn’t it matter or will it make you see him differently? Perhaps, but not in a bad way…hey, not everyone was raised with a caring, loving family in a happy environment,..but it doesn’t mean that this personal isn’t or can’t be totally amazing solo. Communication and trust are key. I can’t say it enough. SHare a bottle of wine with a special someone and get to the heart of who “he”  really is.  I prefer having dinner with a man who also enjoys a fine red; my choice; Frog’s Leap Rutherford Cabernet Sauvignon 2005. I am spoiled by wines now, yet I still like to embark on new delicacies of flavor. I’m not just talking about wine anymore, I am talking about men too!

 Ladies, make a selection and stick with it. It’s like wine, ….choosing a man. Although with wine you can sample it over and over again….men, not so much. They can pick up what you’re laying down so beware and remember….. Rome wasn’t built over night…. Should you even think about pulling a fast one, it may very well back fire, leaving you without the man, and back to square one again. Don’t try to climb that mountain so quickly, you will get weak, and your base will crumble……Don’t you desire something a bit more adherent to a solid relationship? Sometimes it’s better to start out really slow and be friends. The best relationships do come from a lot of time put into a friendship.

 What do you get when you mix good a little fruit with some red or white wine, a fabulous sangria! I guess what I am trying to say here is don’t be afraid to take risks sometimes…live life like there is no tomorrow once in a while, and for God sakes, climb that apple tree and pick your prize apple. She’s waiting….for YOU! Hey,…If the man is trying to get your attention,….and you wish to be noticed……maybe you should let him shake your tree?

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