Ladies how do we become more confident? It all ties in with several abilities to find this inner beauty that we all have., some of us keep it buried deep. He gals…time to let it out! We all know that saying about humans needing to be touched? Why though? What is it exactly that men and women need that will attribute to these needs? Physical contact is important for both our mental and physical well-being, science tells us. It’s not unusual for individuals to go for long periods of time without even getting a hug from another person. When in a relationship we may take kisses and hugs for granted,take it from me, we take many things for granted. I used to…then I learned what it was doing to my relationship. You can change your ways. When we are single, we may lament the loss of touch and sensuality in our lives. So, how does a single person find the nurturing and sensual feelings of touch without going the route of one night stands and dirty flings. That’s not an easy one, nor is finding a partner who would contribute to all of your needs and desires.
Love Yourself…Pamper your Body
Take care of YOU! Splurge and go to a spa! Let someone else pamper you while you relax and enjoy the hell out of it…don’t you think that you deserve it? I do. One of the best ways to receive touch is to go for a healing massage. Beyond the obvious relaxation of working out tension in your body, massage is a healthy, sensual form of touch. If you aren’t ready to experience a full body massage, try a chair massage, or even a manicure or pedicure. The attention and mini massages you receive during these treatments can also provide a nurturing touch. Other spa treatments you can try include facials, body wraps and spa scrubs. Any of these will reconnect you to your body in a therapeutic way. Remember…your body is your temple. Treat it well.
Satisfy your Senses..
Our sensuality doesn’t stop at touch. Try new foods with rich flavors or spices and see how your tongue (and your stomach) can be touched in a sensual way. Sharing that experience with others also awakens joy – for to eat and laugh and talk with others is a deeply sensual experience. How do you touch? Run through the sand, feel the breeze in your hair, the rain on your back and the sun on your face. Indulge in the beauty you transpire, both on the inside as well as out.
Now ask yourself? ….What Makes A Person Attractive?
I am sure that many people would answer the above question with a description of physical qualities. But in reality attractiveness comes from so many other qualities. In fact, people who display confidence and a loving and playful personality are usually considered to be attractive, regardless of their outward appearance. It’s a different kind of beauty and charisma that comes from within. These same people have very a sensual quality. If it is a woman we are talking about men seem to be magically drawn to her. They may even be surprised at the attraction because her outward appearance may be very different from their usual preference.
Want my 4-1-1 on this? Becoming More Sensual
Let’s start by discussing what makes a person feel confident. No brainer…How about ” love thyself?” You’ve heard it before and I am sure you will hear it again and again; you have to love yourself first. Get to know yourself inside and out. Fall in love with what you find. You are a wonderful person to start with and you can easily make yourself better. We have all heard the saying, “Fake it ’til you make it.” I usually say you should not fake anything but this is definitely an exception to that.
To those of you whom doing understand confidence and what it does for ones true self, lets talk about it a little bit. Some women pretend or act like a self-confident, playful and loving person, by doing so, they become inclined to think that the more it will become a part of them. Soon they will find that the qualities are not fake at and that they truly are more self-confident. Every woman must dig deep to find that level of confidence. Your new personality traits will be attractive and other people will naturally be drawn to you. Lets face it…Moods are contagious so if you exhibit wonderful qualities such as that of being playful and loving other people will desire to share in that. This might happen without the other person realizing or understanding the dynamics at play but the important thing is that it works. Lets get to the just of it all, shall we? Confident people use their voice, facial expressions, their eyes and their hands in sensual, attractive ways all the way down to your lingerie you are wearing. Confidence comes from within, and if you are confident in your seductive black boy shorts and a lace bra, you can do anything…when you like how you look, it inspires you to want to show it! Simply Delicious Lingerie has always felt that the woman needs to love who she is first and foremost. Being sensual is a way to seduce without being obvious. Relationships and sensuality are preludes to wonderful sexual relationships.