What do Women Want…Really?

1. Intimacy, and LOTS of it!

Woman and men are soooooooo different as far as relationships go. Listen up men, because frankly, we are not that hard to figure out. The main thing women want from men is time. It’s real simple. You need to make us a priority in your life. This is number one on the list also intimacy. If you get too busy and forget us we get resent full and argumentative at times. We are simple. It does not take a lot of money to spend time with us. We like attention and affection. A kiss goodbye, a phone call just to see how are day is going. We want to feel important in your life. Basically communication. We do love to be adored!!! You don’t have to lavish us with expensive gifts but once in a while is nice! Act like you care, and spend quality time with us showing it. Life is not all about beer and ballgames.

 2. Love…this goes clearly without saying.

Most importantly we just want to be loved. We want to feel loved by you, is that so much to ask? The actions and words have to match up. If they don’t we will question it. We do not want to guess or play mind games. If you show it we will return it. We want the man to chase us and pursue us. We know its modern times but we want you to be the aggressor. We love it. We want to be swept off our feet. The more romantic the better. If your not the romantic type become the romantic type! It’s real simple boys. You can get to our hearts through our emotions. If you want us to know, show it. If not, please, don’t waste our time.

 3. SEX…Yum!

The next is sex. We like to be loved and feel a certain closeness with our partner. Don’t be shy in this area. We really do want to know what you want and feel. Most important we want you to know as well. We do not want a wham bam thank you mam!! A 10 min quickie is not what we want at all. We want foreplay, and lots of it. Well, wait a minute, that depends on which woman you ask, because quite frankly, I can take it or leave it…most women that I know of want a lot of it, personally, I like a little, but don’t want to be teased all night. I get bored quite easily. If you’re a bad lover we won’t tell you, we will just fake it. You will know because we will just roll over and pretend to be tired. We definitely want to be pleased and have an orgasm(s). We love to be kissed passionately. Especially on the neck and other places, you get the picture. After love-making we love to talk and be held close. This is a must!!! I guess that the bottom line is really quite simple; we want to feel like we matter in your life! We want to be asked for our opinion. We want to be an equal. A compliment goes a long ways.

 4. Support…It’s quite crucial to a relationship!

What do I mean by support? We want a man to hold his own. We want his love and support. If we have something special to tell you, we want you to listen and encourage us. We also want to lean on you when we are down and out. Cheer us up! Tell us something funny so we can laugh, but always know that we are there to listen no matter what. It’s a two-way street, you can’t have it just one certain way…share your issues, problems and communicate. It is key.

5. Truth…Yeah, how ’bout it?

We just want our man to be honest with us. If your late, tell us why. Oh hey trust me… there is no reason to lie about it. We have women’s intuition. I prefer to call it my radar. Lie boys and your ass is grass. Just be straight up with us, we aren’t so fragile that we’ll break. Besides we’d prefer hearing the truth from your lips directly and not in some round about way at a bar, or club or at the office. So not cool…





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6 responses to “What do Women Want…Really?

  1. Great post! It always amaze me how people can take time to write them. But to be honest maybe you should change the color of the texts? Sorry if I am being rude, just trying to help. Kind regards, Sophia

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