Please Yourself First…How To Get Sexy!

We all want to look sexy. We want to tease and please. First, please yourself! Be happy with yourself and your body! We all have a variety of characteristics that support our girlie figures. What looks good on myself might not look good on you, and visa versa. When was the last time you looked at yourself in the mirror naked and felt sexy? Yikes does that sound scary. Quite frankly, this is becoming a  problem and most people in our society go through when it comes to feeling sexy and good about themselves. We all see those sexy celebrities on television andwe  always wish that we looked like them some day. Why? I don’t. Stop being a follower and set an example and show people that you are a leader! The fact is that why can’t you look like them?

What is it about you what makes you feel ashamed about your body? Do you know what you can become sexy within a matter of a few days if you just make small adjustments with your body? Read on to discover how to feel tremendously sexy in bed and achieve mind-blowing results. Sexy, on the contrary to what sooo many people think, is not at all about how hot you look. Most men who look beyond the looks wants to see a woman who has a sexy mind. What do I mean by this? They seek a woman who is independent, intelligent, and intriguing. It goes far beneath the surface gals, these days they want the whole package, but honestly, I find that men find you more appealing if you have the 3 “I’s” going for you!

Sexy isn’t just about wearing high heels and a low-cut blouse. Feeling sexy comes from within and when you truly feel sexy, you can exude it. In order to feel sexy about yourself, you must have self-esteem. When you feel beautiful you naturally boost your confidence. When you feel sexy you release endorphins that put you in a good mood. So go ahead and feel great about yourself and you’ll see a difference in all of the relationships in your life? Listen,…No matter what you are doing set your mind to believe that it is the sexiest and most intimate task you’ve ever done. Whether you’re making up a bed or applying make-up, don’t rush. Make every move deliberate and with the purpose of being seductive. Pay attention to what your body is doing and slow down your actions…yes you heard me, slowwwww themmmm downnnnn Slow movements can be very sexy. You want to catch a mans eye and give him something to want more of. If you breeze by him too quickly, he won’t give you a second glance.

Are you passionate about most things? If not, start acting like you are passionate about everything you’re doing. No one wants to hear someone complain about every menial task, so don’t. As you practice actually being the passionate person, you will eventually get into a habit of it and it will become second nature. It’s like taking baby steps. If you are not pron to do this, you’ll need some work, but you’ll get there. Passion helps you enjoy life and will put an incredible smile on your face that will draw everyone to you.

Did you know that smiling is probably one of the easiest and sexiest things you can do. It shows that you are happy, confident, and pleasant to be around. Everyone wants to be around someone who smiles. It’s also easy to talk to someone who is smiling as opposed to someone who has a frown on their face. Smiling can make you easy to approach and will have people flocking to be around you. They will also think you’re up to something, which can make you even more mysterious and intriguing, even if you don’t have a secret. Listen gals, you don’t have to spend a ton of money to feel sexy. You can be a sexy woman by just changing your attitude and outlook on life. Spending time to change your view of yourself is very rewarding and can make all of your relationships much more fun and enjoyable.

 5 Tips for easy Getting Sexy Ways!

Step 1. Get half-naked. I’ve read a lot of advice on how to feel sexier and I always see the tip that you should walk around naked. Ok, first off, I wasn’t raised like that. Not at all! Sooo, Ummm, I don’t really support this. I often get really cold when I’m naked, and that’s not a sexy feeling. And then there’s the question of where I should sit down. Do I put a towel down or what? So I have a bit better suggestion than walking around with your ass hanging out — walk around with just your underwear on. It’s a slight distinction, but it does make a difference. The trick is to find super-flattering bottoms. check out our 100s of matching bra and panty sets! Affordable and sexy! Boy shorts are fabulous and so is the wide selection of our intimate apparel.

Step 2. Put it in your mouth! (Good food, that is, gee get your mind out of the gutter!) To feel sexy, you have to feed your body. I can’t stress this enough. It doesn’t matter if you’re thin or heavy — when your diet is depressing, sex and feeling sexy is going to be the last thing on my mind. I didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin and I didn’t want to be touched. When all you’re thinking about is your next meal and how pathetic it’s going to be because you’re on a terrible diet, you’re not going to feel sexy. Now I eat real food — butter, sausage, cashews, cheese, greasy pizza, and I drink vodka— all in all, I actually look and feel more like a real woman. I’m not a size 2 and I like how I look for the most part. My best friend has an eating disorder, and I’ve watched her struggle her whole life and in truth, I’d rather be a little heavier than live with her disorder.

Step 3. Work those hips, girl. A lot of people recommend working out to feel sexy, but sometimes following a workout, frankly…I wouldn’t do me.  I am tired and I get cranky, not to mention feeling gross and sweaty. The kind of workout I recommend doing is something super body-conscious. Try any kind of dance class or even cardio striptease….it may feel silly and it may not even be the best workout ever, but it will make you feel sexy. I’m a terrible dancer, and I have two left feet,  but you can buy a dancer pole at Simply Delicious Lingerie that comes with a tape and goodies and it will teach you to feel sexy and gather moves that make you knock his socks off. You don’t have to get down right kinky dirty, not at all. Most often, when you try something new, it makes a man feel like you are putting his needs first. Yes, you need to do it for yourself, BUT why not kill two birds with one stone and do something pleasurable for you both?

Step 4. Check out what others see? I’m a big fan of spending some time looking at yourself the way other people do. video tape yourself or simply look at photos that others have taken of you. Pick our what you like and what you do not like. You can make easy changes. These are all cosmetic changes you see, easy fixes in my opinion.

Step 5. Have some good sex.  Yes, there’s something to be said for having good sex with someone who appreciates your body. If you’re with someone who makes you self-conscious about how you look, sound, taste, feel, smell, laugh, or cry, you need to make a run for it and find someone who appreciates you for you.


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