ger,We’re Looking for Guest Bloggers!

Hello! I’d like to take a moment to look back on 2011 and to say thank you so very much for all of your support as well as your loyalty shopping with Simply Delicious Lingerie. We truly do appreciate you very much! As we move forward into 2012, we intend to grow and become more of a household name. Our family is growing and with your honesty and assistance, I can determine where I need to make changes in my websites so that you are getting everything you desire and deserve! Our job is and always has been to make you happy!

 I’m currently looking for some zesty articles! If you are a writer or enjoy writing articles on sexy lingerie, love, relationships, marriage, dating, life, foods desserts, cocktails or anything else pertaining to what we typically blog about, please, submit it to me at Michele@SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com, or send it to me in a link at my Twitter account. www.twitter.com @MssDelicious or @MsSimplyD.  You will receive credit for the blog so make certain to give me your full name, your website address, and any other information you’d like published. If you blog, we need you! Let’s grow together, in business, and new friendships.

Thanks Everyone!

Michele Savin, Owner/CEO

Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Luscious Lingerie

 

1 MoRe ShoPpiNg DaY,…No StrEsSiNg!

Holidays can be stressful, more so than normal shopping days, so remember, these sales people are just like you and I. They are people too and deserve respect. While many retailers will make an extra effort to ensure excellent customer service this holiday season, might I personally suggest that customers take these steps to help ensure a positive sales experience: Tis the season to be jolly, so please, don’t be a bitch. It’s the holidays for goodness sakes, so be nice. The only naughty we like to see at Simply Delicious Lingerie is when you buy our handcuffs and cute babydolls or erotic vinyl wear…thats naughty. That’s the only not acceptable! So if you can’t be nice…stay home and shop online. Don’t ruin the holiday spirit for others.

 Get to know the sales clerks at your favorite stores. This ensures that you will be in the loop regarding stores sales and events. A salesperson who knows you may also be more apt to help if a problem does arise.

My advice? Research store policies before you buy. Being aware of policies regarding cash refunds or sale merchandise returns can help you avoid problems later on. 

So what happens when you run into a problem?  Here are a few tips for successfully handling service complaints 

1. Take three deep breaths – when you are upset you may not think clearly and therefore often don’t present your case logically.

 2. Tell the company rep that you know that the problem is not their fault – this reduces their defensiveness.

 3. After outlining the facts, state exactly what you want the rep to do for you – if you don’t they might go off in the wrong direction in developing a response.

4. Don’t ask for cash compensation for your time – companies can almost never do that, but they can give you credit toward your bill.

 5. Never use profanity – most reps are authorized to hang up on you if you do – and it is not fair to the rep who did not cause the problem.

 6. If you have been a long-term customer, point that out but don’t exaggerate – employees can often access your actual purchase history, and as they say, the proof is in the pudding!

The simplest and most important thing you can do is to recognize good service when you receive it by remembering to say ‘thank you’ and even letting the sales person’s supervisor know. This can give them a boost for a possible increase in salary at the time of evaluations, and it may even give them the opportunity to grow with that particular company but getting a promotion.

Don’t over do it for shopping, and don’t exhaust yourself.  When we get tired we get moody…No one likes a man or woman with an attitude this time of year. Tomorrow is Christmas Eve and although there is only one shopping day left before Christmas Day, there are bargains and clearance sales to be found. Take a deep breath, look around you, smile, be thankful you are alive this year and celebrating such a season…and enjoy this holiday season. None of us know what tomorrow will bring, and you may not be here next Christmas, we don’t know what our future holds, so enjoy each and every day…our life is a gift, it is precious, so indulge in it and your loved ones!

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays,

From our Home to Yours at Simply Delicious Lingerie

Do you Know How to Turn Your Man On?

Get Naked Too

There’s a good chance that your guy has never feasted his eyes on your completely bare body for more than a few seconds. Maybe it’s because you undress quickly in a passion frenzy or your bodies are too close for him to really take you in. But letting him stare at you in the nude is a sure thing!

Break Out the Blindfold

Once you have him going crazy not knowing where your next lick, kiss, or stroke will land, treat your blindfolded boy to a slew of new sensations. Three to try: the feel of your hair, silk panties, or a string of pearls rubbed gently against his member.

Give Him a New Number

 No doubt, you’re intimately acquainted with 69. Now may we introduce you to 77? The number refers to the way you and your partner’s bodies look when they meld together in this side-entry position. The unique angling practically guides his missile to your G-spot! Don’t forget to slip into your sexy Simply Delicious Lingerie to entice him.

Turn Him into a Buffet

Incorporating food into your passion play is a classic carnal activity. Take a few of your favorite erotically appealing flavor combinations, like peanut butter and honey or whipped cream and chocolate sauce, and mix up yummy treats all over his body.

Talk Dirty to Him

Try this on for size….Start off with a purr or an mmmmoan, or simply breathe heavily in his ear, or on his shoulder. Then up the erotic ante by whispering, “So…what do you want to do with me now?”

 Make Him Long for Your Lips

A fabulous kiss is an intricate balancing act involving tongue technique, pressure control, and moistness monitoring. Invade his space with a tantalizing kiss on the neck, a slow lick of your lips and a gentle whisper in his ear.

Imply to Him That He’s a Stud…

How about sparking his ego by letting him know you want him real bad in a sexual way with a coy compliment. Letting him in on your longing for him jump-starts his own desire and will have him begging for you.

Make Him Hot, Then Cold…

 Cooling off your guy’s steamy body actually gets him hotter. If you didn’t think so, think again. You drive him crazy and you probably don;t even realize it. Make his satisfaction skyrocket by turning him on to simply deliciously unexpected strokes, pressure, and temperature changes. Try the classic ice-cube trick to make him shiver with excitement. Have him lie on his back, hold a cube in your hand, and slowly draw an icy line from his neck all the way down his body.

 

Seduce Him

Be direct by saying something like “I want to have sex with you.” The straightforward approach is not merely about saving time (although it does have a way of cutting to the chase), either way you are driving him up the wall. Honestly, it’s about giving yourself the opportunity to display extreme sexual confidence, yep, strut your stuff sister and  advertise yourself as a person who assumes that whatever she wants, she can have.

Toy with Him

Yes you heard me, with Simply Delicious Lingeries secret stash in our Adult Novelty section. Stock up on some sex toys. Rhinestone handcuffs can be exciting. And you can never go wrong with a vibrator. Nows your time to get risque’ – tis this holiday season where you determine if you are going to be “Naughty or Nice!”

 

Disappointment When you Trust a Big Name Company…

Have you ever wondered, or asked yourself, “where did I go wrong?” …only to realize that you did all that you could have and still came up with the short end of the stick? If you are a small business owner like myself who is the newbie on the block, beware of the big bad companies out that there that make you promises and don’t follow through with them.Trust me, there are plenty! In my case, this big bad company has a name that many many customers us, confide in, and trust, just as I did.  I suppose that I let my ‘soft side’ get in the way with business as I am probably one of the nicest women you’ll ever meet. I do what I can for my friends, family, coworkers, the community and I donate generously to those charities and organizations that need it when I am able to do so.

There are times when my children and I went without to make someone else happy nevertheless, we never complained. Unconditional love is not just about what you do for your family and loved ones, it what you can do for total strangers just the same. When I was younger it seemed impossible to me that doing something so basic could lead to great success. It always seemed as though there was much more to the equation, or so I thought.  It never ceases to amaze me at the number of people who fail to deliver on their commitments. The old cliché of “over-promising and under-delivering” has sadly become all too commonplace in the business world. Is it really that hard to fulfill on promises made? This is the trap I was caught in. They promised me things and never explained to me what went into the building of a website. No one ever stated to me what had to be done, or explained what they were going to do, or give me options. Everyone should have options. In my case, this did not happen. I trusted this company and because of my trust, it allowed them to walk all over me. I frequently observe people who have actually come to expect failure. Furthermore when said failure occurs it is accepted as usual and customary practice.

It is the failure to follow through that blows-up transactions, causes employees to seek work elsewhere, sends what were once loyal customers like myself running to the competition and it can send even the strongest of brands into decline. What has happened to society as a whole and why are we ‘the little guys’ caught in the middle? I was not raised to ever fail and I refuse to start now. I believe that when things happen, although we don’t all think they happen for a reason, we must find comfort in knowing that through this mess, we will learn, get wiser, and we certainly will prevail. Failure is not necessarily a bad thing in and of itself…in fact, I have always learned more from my failures than I have my successes. None of us ever want to admit we screwed up, but in this case, I did  nothing to earn what I got from this company. However accepting failure, not learning from failure or failing through apathy or ignorance are corporate killers.

As a person in a position of authority make sure that you set the chinning bar very, very high. Expect great things of people, equip them to succeed and don’t ever accept failure as being OK, because it’s not!When the inevitable failures do occur conduct a failure analysis to determine what went wrong and why? This is what I did and I learned that it was negligence on their part that has so badly disrupted my business. They may think that because they are the big guy and I am just a nobody that I’ll go away…but obviously they don’t know me at all. What they just did was stir up emotions that should never be stirred up. Big companies take people like myself and so many of you for granted thinking that they can walk all over you…guess what? No one walks on me and gets away with it. FYI,… Mr Big Company…earn up to this one and do the right thing. So what happened you wonder and how did I get to this point? What might I have done to prevent this?

  Being a small business owner and a person who puts her trust in those hands of experts that are suppose to be on my side should be an easy thing to do, but not in my case, and if this sounds familiar to any of you who have been dubbed or mislead by businesses like the one I used, its time for all of us to PUT OUR FOOT DOWN! So what do you do? Well lets see…for starters, before proceeding to use any institution for company registration, it is important to consider their reputation. Have you thoroughly check this company out? This might call for comparing the services offered by different agents and reading several reviews in order to make comparisons and determine the best services. You could also consider relying on references from friends who have used the same services. I did, and I asked people to share their experiences. I looked at their rankings, and Googled them,..what I did not do was check from start to finish the number of complaints on the BBB, then file one yourself! My first suggestion would have been to make sure that they are well known in the industry to ensure that your business is in safe sides and additionally, give you the opportunity to rest easy…not so much honestly, especially in my case.  

The cost of the services is another important factor that you must consider. While company formation is the most viable option for you, it is important to ensure that it does not leave a dent in your wallet. In the event that you choose a service provider that does not have fixed costs, it is recommended that you use your negotiation skills to get the best deals. This will also go a long way to ensure that in the process, you save some substantial amount of money. Finally, if you want your company registration to go on smoothly, it is important to ensure that you select an institution that is transparent. As mentioned earlier, it is important to ensure that they are registered with the companies house and what is more, they should get you all the required information to ensure that the process is carried out smoothly.

This is crucial as it gives you the confidence required to start running the business and ensures that you avoid some of the mistakes that are made by other business people.OK, so maybe that was my problem, my parents always taught us as children that ‘you get what you pay for’ and this time I learned first hand that what Dad spoke of all those years ago came around full swing. The thing is, I believe that we all look for great deals. My grandmother used to say “if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!” That was the problem though, it didn’t sound over and above some of the other companies, so I put my faith and trust in them. Although I am not at all an expert, I can tell you this, do a lot of digging prior to hiring anyone to do anything! Don’t be left like myself with thousands of dollars lost because of the negligence of a big company that thought they could get away with  treating your business with very little  respect. As a well-respected business owner, don’t let them put the screws to you!

Foods That Can Improve Your Erection

Some call them the food and drinks of love…others, just a quick fix for some sexy satisfaction! When you don’t know whose word to take on this subject, you need to go directly to the core of the question to receive the proper answer, and in my case, I got 10 of them. Take a peek and see if you’ve experienced any that work for you? If so, share with me in the comment section if you will so that others can give them a try? So mates, partners, lovers and spouses, when you want a little action or to see a little jump in his step…try one of these on him and see if that does the trick? In the event that one or more of these work, be prepared for a long playful and very eventful evening!

1. Coffee. The caffeine kick from a cup of Java boosts your metabolism, gets your blood pumping and could also enhance endurance by releasing fat stores, giving you the energy to last all night. This is a 50/50. It works for some, and others not so much. Only you know how your own body works?

2. The blueberry is a sexual super-food often referred to as ‘nature’s little blue pill’ because of its remarkable similarities to the wonder drug ‘Viagra’. However, unlike ‘Viagra’, blueberries are cheap, readily available and able to be consumed in bulk! So not only does this produce a massive amount of oxidants that fight off cancer cells, like a pop up tent, it perks a man up in no time flat.

3. Watermelons. Watermelon and other fruits listed above contain bio-active phyto-nutrients. Watermelons contain concentration of lycopene (as do tomatoes) , beta carotene and a particularly important phyto-nutrient called citrulline.  Citruline, like Viagra, causes the blood vessels to relax, producing erections. I never knew this…

4. Chillies. Spice up your love life with chillies. Just be very careful…you want to end up in the sack, not on the can. When your face flushes after eating a curry, that’s the blood vessels expanding thanks to the effect of the chillies. And it’s not just the blood vessels in your face that get the boost. Biologically speaking a hard-on is simple hydraulics – more liquid (blood) being forced into little tubes (blood vessels) in your penis – so what you need is a strong heart and smooth, healthy pipework.

5. Bananas. Who would have thought? The banana flower has a marvelous phallic shape and is partially responsible for popularity of the banana as an aphrodisiac food. An Islamic myth tells the tale that after Adam and Eve succumbed to the “Apple” they started covering their “nudity” with banana leaves rather than fig. From a more practical standpoint bananas are rich in potassium and B vitamins, necessities for sex hormone production.

6. Chocolate. For an simple pleaser, try a rich chocolate dessert to inspire your lust. Whether it is the serotonin in chocolate that gets you going or merely the sensual pleasure of eating it, chocolate has been celebrated throughout the ages as a sexual stimulant. The Aztecs considered it the food of the gods; tribal leaders consumed it in mass quantities to keep them going with hundreds of sex partners…and honestly, hundreds of people can’t all be wrong, right?

7. Ginseng. Find this aphrodisiac in its many forms at grocery stores in Chinatown. It is known to be especially powerful for men and can be consumed directly as a dried root or cooked into soups, teas and meat dishes. Add bits of fresh root or ginseng powder when cooking rice to infuse the starch with an earthy, bitter-sweet flavor–then brace yourself for the full effect. Make sure that you know what you are getting yourself into though, as once you start this, sister, there is NO turning back!

8. Red wine. Red wine is one of the most potent sources of the antioxidant known asresveratrol. According to researchers in a recent survey from Northwestern University, this powerful antioxidant actually increases estrogen production, leading to a heightened sexual appetite. That means she may just want to skip right to you for dessert. Warning….Be careful: Too much wine, too fast, can lead to drowsiness, and the dreaded, “Not tonight, I’m too tired,” line.

9. Salmon. The omega-3 fatty acids in oily fish make the blood less sticky, enhancing blood flow to the parts that matter. Eat fish like salmon, mackerel, trout and fresh tuna twice a week to keep your arteries well-oiled and your penis ready to go and on standby alert!

10. Truffles. The Greeks and the Romans considered the rare Truffle to be an aphrodisiac. Black truffles are popular through fall and winter and may last even longer. White truffles might only be on the menu for one month in late fall.The musky scent is said to stimulate and sensitize the skin to touch making someone a very erect playful guy.

 ***Might we recommend this? See our Cooking and Wine Expertise Guru for a delicious dish with salmon and bluberries that is sure to get your man into bed with delight tonight! (Baked Salmon w/Blueberries)

 

Sexy Santa….Holiday Shopping and Simply Delicious Lingerie

Yes, It’s that time of the year again….When you think about the holidays and shopping…it can be stressful. What to buy, how to choose, how much is it going to cost? We all know that  lingerie stores can be quite expensive on the wallet, so with this in mind we all must always plan ahead of time how much we’ll spend on a sexy outfit especially in this current economic atmosphere where life and jobs seem so unstable. We want something that won’t break the bank, that is seductive…something that’s sassy and sizzles. Something that says “Hey baby I’m yours!” Isn’t part of being sexy teasing just a little?

 Now the problem with shopping for sexy lingerie at stores is that these lingerie stores usually have a high overhead and expenses to take on and they passed this overhead and expenses over on to you the consumer..so naturally the bottom line is what? YOU PAY MORE! Even though you can purchase your lingerie right on the spot this still will put a very big ding in your wallet. You can buy your lingerie outside where you have to fight the massive crowds, cold weather in some places, and traffic galore… or you can do what so many others have started to do during the recession and that is shop online for sexy lingerie.

 Hi, I’m Michele Savin, owner of Simply Delicious Lingerie and soon to be Simply Luscious Lingerie for plus size women launching in a few months. Here’s the advantage to shopping online,….No worries or frets about ‘somone’ seeing you walking into a lingerie shop- yes some people are uncomfortable and have a real uneasy feeling with that. You see, it’s quite simple actually…a sexy lingerie store is  the online lingerie website where one doesn’t really have to pay for any more expenses but a few very valuable employees, equipment, office products, and some storage space. I discovered that all I really needed was a good-looking website and super great people to work with me and with those in combination, everything is possible! At Simply Delicious Lingerie that is basically what you see when you are shopping online. We treat all of our customers like family.

 When you are shopping online for sexy lingerie you have the advantage of doing comparison shopping without actually having to use gas up in your car to travel from store to store. It’s all done by the click of a mouse. Now whether you are shopping for sexy high heels, sexy costumes, sexy nightgowns or any other kind of sexy lingerie or adult toys and novelties, you can do this all online with the click of a mouse and your handy credit card ready to make the order. You are in the privacy of your own home, or office…and you can browse my boutique everyday and any day whatever time you wish…we’re always open! Honestly… It can’t get easier than that can it?

 This is the time of year where naughty is celebrated! No need to be nice to get yummy exotic outfits in your stocking. Though, we can find the right selection for nice girls, too! And, for those girls teetering between naughty and nice how about this hot number, the Dreamgirl – 4 Piece North Pole Hottie Cami Set  in bright red, to bring out the provocative woman you know is lurking underneath? Why not get a little frisky tonight? After all, Christmas comes but once a year, but if you are naughty enough, your mate will make certain that you have items like this all year round!

 After all, isn’t Naughty or Nice about being a little bit of both? At our boutique we have something to suit your needs regardless of the season. Do we really need a season to wear something sexy for our mate, partner, lover, or spouse? No! When you shop at our store, pick out that naughty or nice piece to add a little zest to the holidays…it’s like a spritzer, gives your appeal a little zing! Remember, whether its the holiday season or for simply ‘no reason’ confidence is worn with elegance and grace, so before you slip into the lingerie, make certain that it’s the piece that makes you feel like a million bucks!

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