We all think about it, in fact, for some, it’s what is thought about all evening. Why? For a lot of reasons actually. Excitement and Romance. We all want to know if his lips will win our heart or send him to the curb with a one way ticket home? It’s sort of like the game Monopoly, if you win, you get to pass go and collect your $200 buckaroos, if your kiss sucks, like the other game, your in TROUBLE!
So, when does it generally happen? At the end of a first date comes that awkward moment when you must decide if you want to kiss her or not? Do you like her enough to want to take her out again or do you feel the ole’ sister vibe where you realize throughout the evening that you’d be better off as friends? Also, if you do kiss her it had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some single women will judge you on your first kiss as to whether she would be attracted to you want to date you again.
Listen up fellas; If you are a lousy kisser, then you’re going to be a failure at creating good chemistry between you and your date. Is chemistry important on a first date? You bet it is! And if you’re a great kisser, you’re going to turn her on and have an edge on the other guys that date her that are lousy kissers. here are so many ways that first kiss can go terribly wrong, but most are easily avoided. Pay close attention here…
- Moving too quickly
Be careful not to startle the kissee – watch and wait for the signal to proceed.
If you aren’t sensitive in your kissing, how empathetic and caring can you be about the rest of the realtionship…
- Wet, sloshy, squishy, fishy kissesIf you or the kissee need to wipe your lips, or chin, dry after the kiss – well, it wasn’t ‘perfect’ was it?
- Smothering kiss of death
Avoid the over-passionate, insensitive kiss that leaves the kissee gasping for air.
- Chapped, Cracked Lips
There’s a delicate balance to lip moisture equation. The last thing you want to do is drool on your partner,..you’re not 5 years old here, but you definitely don’t want to leave scars with crispy, chafed lips either.
- Too much Tongue and Too Much, Too Soon
Keep that tongue tucked away until you get the right signals, then apply with caution – later..no woman wants your tongue down her throat for goodness sakes, control that thing will you!
- Dragon Breath
A mint or two, breath saver, gum, spray – anything to get rid of gunk-mouth.
- Weak, Wobbly or Wooden Passionless Pecks
The swoop in and bounce out kiss is simply meaningless – unless of course you want to impart a “let’s just sort-of be friends” type of message.
- Smacking, Clacking Loud KissesThe old “clack and smack” kills romance in a flash.
Regardless of our age, a kiss is not just a kiss…so make this one matter!
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