BIG Dating Mistakes Men Make….

Number 10

Are you being too much of a nice guy? Let me ask you this…Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys? Of course you have. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple. Women don’t base their choice of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction to them. Ahhh but then guess what? Being a nice guy won’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you. And being nice won’t make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense to you, and it may be even hard to accept… but get over it. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you’ll never have the success with women that you want.

Number 9

Trying to convince her to like you What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like… but she’s just not interested? Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you: You will never change how a woman “feels” when it comes to attraction! Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you by means of “logic and reasoning.” Think about it.If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being “reasonable” with her? But every man does it. When a woman just isn’t interested, you beg, plead, chase, and  you do your best to change her mind. What some good advice? Bad idea. Just kiss this one goodbye now sweetheart because that will never work!! Besides…chances are you are far too good for her and you dewserve much better!

Number 8

Looking for her approval

In your desire to please her,… (which men so often mistakenly think will make them like us), they (as guys) are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission.” This is another horrible idea. Women are never attracted to the type of men who kiss up to them… ever. Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women badly for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things,” think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval. Do you doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her.

Number 7

Trying to buy her affection
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn’t treat her even half as well as you did? Well guess what? It’s only natural when this happens.That’s right, I said natural.When you do these things, you’re sending a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.” Your good intentions usually come across to women as overcompensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as a manipulation.

Number 6

Sharing your feelings too early
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a lot of attention from men. Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time. An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That’s right. They have experience. They know what to expect. And nothing turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, really like you” after only one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves. Instead, keep your yap shut and make her wonder? Women hate the not knowing part. Yes sure we like to be chased, BUT for the guys reading this…it will keep them in line a bit and make them anzious to hear from you again. Trust me on this one…just don’t play games because whether you are a great guy or a player jerk, we can sense it after a few dates.

Number 5
Not “getting” how attraction works
Women are very different from men when it comes to attraction. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Well, after studying this topic for years, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things her than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way that a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 4

Thinking that it takes money & looks…what??
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age. Oh sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. They are ruthless bitches, yes you heard me ruthless, and if you think you can change them, then you are way too gullible and boy do I have piece of the Brooklyn Bridge I want to sell you..
Listen, here is the 4-1-1….the hard core truth…In todays era, most women are educated, and independent. Don’t see that as a bad think, appreciate it and accept it that they have some class and are not clingy, needy women. These women will understand and appreciate you. Now, the truth is, on the contrary, most women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are certain personality traits that attract women like a magnet… And if you learn how to really truly use them, you can be one of those guys. You do not have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 3

Failing to read dating situations
Now I’m going to blow your mind… a woman always knows what you’re thinking. Women are approximately 10 times better than men at reading body language. That’s 10 times. I know, it might be hard for you to believe. But, for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly how to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help! And this goes for all aspects of women and dating… Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and lose everything. And you know it.

Number 2

Not getting help.This is the biggest mistake of them all.This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want. If you don’t have the answers seek help from a professional or ask a close friend or relative for advice that is partial, and will not take sides or try to persuade you in any way. You want honesty, and integrity. Do not settle for less.

Number 1 

  Go with your gut… follow your heart, and pay attention! Don’t ever go over the top to win a woman’s affection…Why? Because the one whose affection that you may be trying to earn is probably not the one that you should be with. Think about it! I am a woman, and I am right about this one!

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