ErOtiC, SeNsUaL and oH sO SeXy MeN’s UnDeRwEAr…

Do you want to know what is it about seeing a man in lingerie that turns a woman on? Women seem to like the boxers and shun the tighty whities.Do women like men in the more risqué underwear styles? You bet they do. Women for the most part love to wear sexy lingerie so it is only natural that they want to see their men, or boy toys wearing it too! This is a subject that I don’t talk about all that often for a few reasons. 1) Men have always been seen as a modern-day sex symbol to women fully dressed, so naturally, I feared talking about what they wear underneath it all, and 2) I removed my men’s line several months back. What happened? I got swarms of emails and tweets asking my WHY WHY WHY and WHERE WHERE WHERE are the guys sexy undies?

 It could be the taboo of the idea that the man is in something that is known to a woman’s place. It could just be the eroticism of men in something skimpy that women were never allowed to see unless in the bedroom. Whatever the case may be there is a huge market for men’s lingerie and I am happy to tell you that I have decided after a trip to Las Vegas to an international trade show that I was going to bring you something new and amazing…once again. If women can look and feel sexy and erotic in panties and bras a man sure as shit can look hot to trot just the same! 

There are categories to men’s lingerie. Some are more traditional while others are definitely not for the mainstream. There are several styles in between, as well. The idea that a man will dress up with his woman or for her is simply amazing and tantalizing to the senses. There is something truly erotic about a man who is willing to dress up and give his lady a show. To know what type of market is out there, you will have to do a bit of research. Make sure that when you find something for him that it will not be eembarrassing. Some men think the idea of male lingerie is “weird” if they have never worn it. Here are some styles that you can experiment with before going into the non-traditional type items.

Many of the traditional, yet sexy lingerie for men are boxers and different types of underwear. What do I prefer? A sexy man in boxer briefs. Buy your man something super sexy…but hey…Don’t go crazy here ladies and get him that neon yellow, leather G-string. Start simple and work your way up. Remember, he has to feel confident in this just like you feel confident in what you wear. We don’t lingerie that makes us feel uncomfortable so don’t buy it for your man either! You have to be fair. If you want him to dress up for you, then you better come home with something cute. Start off with a pair of boxers. Even if he is a brief man he will love these. They are not too daring and he won’t even think about the lingerie aspect of them. Once you have done this get him a little something more “risky” like tight boxer briefs or bikini cut briefs. Make sure you come home with a cute little chemise or baby doll to get the mood right. If you don’t, it will be football time for him. This is the best way to get him to want to shop for sexy lingerie for the both of you and open him up to new things.


Once you both have passed the boundary of lingerie for the bedroom in its most modest fashion, now it is time for a bit of fun. Male thongs and G-string can be extremely exciting. You will want to go together so he can pick out what he likes.You want him to feel sexy and comfortable in these so he will wear them for you. Whatever he picks out you will want to find something sexy to match. If he goes with the navy blue thong then grab that navy blue teddy and G-string with the black lace for you. This is supposed to be about you both. If you are really daring, go costume style. There are several playful costumes for men that just scream sexy. We currently sell fantasy costumes for the ladies and now we carry a few sexy pairs for the guys. If are willing to dress up he will be too. 

There is nothing sexier than a committed couple having fun and play in their sex life. Go get that naughty little nurse outfit and call him doctor. Or..he may juts enjoy seeing you in a black bra and garter set. Men love women in sexy lingerie as much as we love seeing them in hotsie boxers. Remember girls where there are costumes there are great little thongs to go with them for your man. Stop by Simply Delicious Lingerie and check out our briefs for guys. Buy 3 pair get 1 free now with coupon code; mansies

If he is ready and you are too! Store by our online boutique to find the sexy brand “Excite” for men now! We’ve got sexy in the bag!

About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, Men’s underwear, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie!® 

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Sexting…The Crave of Today’s Society

I must be out of the loop because for the longest time I had NO idea what sexting was, let alone how to do it. Sure we all get the point of it, text crossed with sex equals sext! My curiosity got the best of me and I pondered where it actually came from? I had no idea what this was all about until a few years ago when a governor or congressman got caught doing it and all shit hit the fan. First of all, yes I am naive and you might say that I am a bit behind the times in some areas, but really…my inquiry would be this; why would anyone do this where there could be a paper trail if they didn’t want to get caught? Are you people idiots, really? If you don’t care, then ok, but if you have something to hide or you need to be discrete, think real long and hard before you doing something like sexting.

This is the kind of question that causes me countless hours of sleep deprovation so I decided to research it. And by research, I mean hitting up good old Google. It appears that sexting first appeared way back in the dark days of 2004. This was before people took to taking naughty pics of themselves and posted them everywhere. Gone were the days when sending a risque text to the wrong person was still cause for acute embarrassment. Hello, there’s no holding back and lets talk dirty are the days of the new era. This should only be done by adults, but oh no…the younger kids are intrigued by it far more than many adults and it is sad to see how many children are adapting to this new behavior.


I’m going to go out on a limb here and state that I will probably catch a lot of crap for this but so be it; most of you who know me will know that I speak my mind and I don’t hold back my thoughts.

The true definition for sexting is sending sexually explicit messages via cell phone or instant messenger. As technology has advanced and cell phones have the capability to record and send photos and video, the practice of sending suggestive and explicit pictures has increased, especially among teens, which, btw this would not be happening with young kids if the parents did NOT get the kids cell phones at such early ages…I mean really? Is that necessary? Society has evolved so much now that cell phones with kids are a necessity. Might I make a simple suggestion? Find a way to block certain things so that your children cannot get into trouble.The cell phone, now like a loaded gun has a variety of options and so many ways for teens to get into trouble. No young children should have cell phones, period. We didn’t have devices back in the day and we all turned out just fine, so please, spare me the drama.

So now lets talk about college age students that sext. Sid you know that recently the University of Michigan looked into the sexting behavior of over 3,400 men and women between the ages of 18 and 24 and discovered that sending titillating texts is, believe it or not, quite normal. It’s just something that’s become part of the dating icon, and the researchers contend that or some warning of psychological problems, nor is it linked to risky sexual encounters. Sexters were not more likely than non-sexters to sleep with more people or have unprotected sex.

Listen up… It’s a brave new world out there, especially when technology is involved. Things are moving faster and faster. Indeed, the faster things move, the more abbreviated the steps become. Nowhere is that more true than when it comes to communication. So, it’s no wonder that texting has become a major part of many people’s lives.The evolution of sexting then should also come as no surprise – and I think it can be great fun for the adult set (and I mean strictly adults only).

It’s a clever way to keep things hot and an easy way to play even if you’re a little shy. Besides, sometimes it’s easier to say things via sext, than face to face. This way you get a reaction via text and it breaks down the way of shyness a lot easier for those who dare ask the questions one might never had the guts to investigate.


As for us in the adult world…I say why not? I was talking to a coworker today about not knowing what to write about and she suggested this, and I said “Hey what a great idea!” Thanks Nap! Then this evening I found myself doing some borderline sexting myself, all in a playful way of course. Thank You Pittsburgh, for making my night so enjoyable. There is something to be said about this man that is yet to be determined, however, he has my attention, and that is something that most men don’t get too easily.

For you adults reading this you might ask; why sext? Well why the hell not? In my opinion, and it is completely an unprofessional opinion at best… here are a few reasons to set fingers to keys: A day-long tease can lead to a night-long in-person session.The embarrassment factor is removed because you don’t have to see the person while you’re typing your naughty thoughts. It brings the fun back to sex. It’s not supposed to be so serious after all. If you are still in the flirting stage, it can help you to ease your way to the next step. It keeps you on your toes, thinking of new things to say and new ways to respond.But who knows, it sounds like the research is saying there’s a healthy, fun side of sexting.

Are you still not sure what the code or lingo is for sexting? Allow me to share some common knowledge of the sexting world; Below are 50 sexting codes as comprised by the online dictionary. I feel so old fashion right now reading these…I had no idea that there were so many abbreviations for what I refer to it as “smut talking.” (especially if kids are doing this)


Warning: Some language is explicit.


1. 8 – Oral sex

2. 1337 – Elite

3. 143 – I love you

4. 182 – I hate you

5. 459 – I love how u you me

6. 1174 – Nude club

7. 420 – Marijuana

8. ADR – Address

9. ASL – Age/Sex/Location

10. banana – Penis

11. CD9 – Code 9 – it means parents are around

12. DUM – Do You Masturbate?

13. DUSL – Do You Scream Loud?

14. FB – F*** Buddy

15. FMLTWIA – F*** Me Like The Whore I Am

16. FOL – Fond of Leather

17. GNOC – Get Naked On Cam

18. GYPO – Get Your Pants Off

19. IAYM – I Am Your Master (ok, seriously?)

20. IF/IB – In the Front -or- In the Back

21. IIT – Is It Tight?

22. ILF/MD – I Love Female/Male Dominance

23. IMEZRU – I Am Easy, Are You?

24. IWSN – I Want Sex Now

25. J/O – Jerking Off

26. KFY -or- K4Y – Kiss For You

27. kitty – Vagina

28. KPC – Keeping Parents Clueless

29. LMIRL – Let’s Meet In Real Life

30. MOOS – Member Of The Opposite Sex

31. MOSS – Member(s) Of The Same Sex

32. MorF – Male or Female

33. MOS – Mom Over Shoulder

34. MPFB – My Personal F*** Buddy

35. NALOPKT – Not A Lot Of People Know That

36. NIFOC – Nude In Front Of The Computer

37. NMU – Not Much, You?

38. P911 – Parent Alert

39. PAL – Parents Are Listening

40. PAW – Parents Are Watching

41. PIR – Parent In Room

42. POS – Parent Over Shoulder -or- Piece Of Sh**

43. PRON – Porn

44. Q2C – Quick To Cum

45. RU/18 – Are You Over 18?

46. RUH – Are You Horny?

47. S2R – Send To Receive

48. SorG – Straight or Gay

49. TDTM – Talk Dirty To Me

50. WYCM – Will You Call Me?


Being Classy, Not Trashy…

Being classy is not about being stuck up, it is about having style and taking care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them. As well as to be classy, is also about being confident in yourself and happy with who you are. Let’s discuss what class is, how to be classy, or: selfless, generous, compassionate and responsible. Class is an aura of confidence that is being sure without being cocky, having without bragging. Class has absolutely nothing to do with money. Class never runs scared. It is self-discipline and self-knowledge. Class is the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life. Those who have class have much character.

There is a LARGE difference between class and trash. Those whom have to flaunt their bodies with skimpy outfits, or by wearing no bra or panties, or flat-out without clothes,…you are showing an extremely sad case of low self-esteem and lack there of confidence. This is bad gals, and you’re not appealing at all. You need to wise up. Look in the mirror. Trash is not becoming what so ever….so if you think flashing your body around town or in photos is classy, unless it is done with exquisite taste and character, you are NOT very smart. You will be looked down upon and no one decent will want you. Men want what they can’t have, and they love the chase. If you start the game leading off with half your clothes off, he’ll show no interest. If he does, he wants a piece of your ass and that’s the end of the story. I wrote a column for over 10 years and this is facts.

How to Identify a Classy Woman:

There is no classier woman than a woman who spends time with herself for grooming purposes. Class is about having good ethics and high standards, not only of yourself but to those around you who surround themselves amongst you. Look at a lady from head to toe. Her hair should look like it’s been brushed and styled. It should not look like she just got out of bed or have been lying around on the couch all day. Look at the hands. They should be clean and groomed. The nails can be short or long. They can be polished or unpolished. The polish should not be chipping off. Look at the feet, if they are exposed. They should be clean and smooth. They should not drag and slide their feet. Their head should be up and not starring down. Their arms should be close to their body as they walk.

A classy woman will always leave you with the impression of “I wonder what…”. However, if a woman has a nice body and she feels she has to practically be undressed to make sure you see her (The ole if you got it flaunt it mentality), not only is she not classy, she is insecure.

A classy woman will always leave the privilege of seeing her assets to the special man in her life. You must ask yourself, does a woman have to advertise to every man on the planet what her body looks like? If so, is there anything special she’s reserving for the special man in her life to see? Look for confidence  in a classy woman. They make men wonder. These are the type of women that most men really desire. They want a confident woman who needs not be the center of attention. The woman who needs not brag about turning so many heads when she walks into a room, and certainly one who doesn’t brag about her authority, career or amount of cash that she has in the bank. Class is having it, and not flaunting it.

Women keep hearing over and over from guys in different situations that men want to date and have relationships with classy women. Just take a look at most of the men’s dating profiles, and you will see that practically all of them want to meet and date a woman who has “class.” Indeed, being called “classy” is an ultimate compliment to a woman. But, what does it really mean being classy? After searching the internet for an answer to this question, I wasn’t very satisfied, because every attempt to define a “classy woman” had one fundamental flaw – a woman can have all the qualities that make her classy according to those sources and still not  have much “class.” The formal definition of classy also doesn’t add much to understanding what class means in the context of dating and attraction.

For instance, being a sharp dresser, clean, and not using profanities are certainly qualities that flatter to a woman, but… they hardly make her come across as having “class,” if she talks too much and constantly draws attention to her persona. Being professional, educated, and having a great sense of humor are very attractive qualities in a woman but if she has temper issues this pretty much cancels out her potential to come across as classy. What’s my belief in what the meaning of class is? I truly believe that just like in the case of  distinction between flirting regular conversation, being classy is not in the “what” but in the “how.” It’s how you act, how you carry yourself, how you express yourself and how you live your life that determines class. It’s all about respect. You need to have it…for it is a necessity. Without it, there is no confidence or self-esteem. If you don’t have any standards for yourself, why would you think that others would show any for you?


About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked , Fantasy Lingerie, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie!®

© This is a copyright of Simply Delicious Lingerie®


Ladies…Make Your Dating Check List!

Ladies…Make Your Dating Check List!

Should women have a ‘check list’ of what they want in a man? Should we be picky? Should we settle? If you think that you should just settle for a man because that’s the best you can do…then girlfriend, you have the wrong attitude, and you are using the wrong approach in finding a great guy. Reality has a way of sneaking up on us and really giving us a dose of  what we need. I truly do believe that timing is everything and I have always believed in paths crossing for a reason. Whether they be positive, or negative, there was/is a lesson to be learned from it. What I realized just recently was that most people are not who they proclaim to be and even the ones that you thought my have been something special at one time turn out to prove every gut feeling that you ever had about them to be right.

My grandmother used to always say follow your heart, but listen to your gut. Sometimes men of our past that we thought might be the ‘potential’ guy turn out to be a really misconceived mess. I believe that reality gives us a happy dose of ‘good medicine’ and points us in the right direction. Things happen for a reason and after last night, my past and my thoughts about men came back around full circle making me wonder ‘why do guys act like dicks, and why can’t they just be honest and upfront?’ I find that most men that we meet aren’t really real men. What does that mean? It means that when push comes to shove and it comes right down to it that a lot of men don’t have the balls to lay their cards on the table and just say what it is that they feel or what they want. They build up this facade of what they think a woman wants in a man, but they aren’t really ‘that man.’ After being out with the girls, I realized that some people that we held high regard to, and that we respected at one point turn out to be nothing more than a real piece of work, or a ‘real hot mess’ …if you will.

Most women that I know will put their thoughts right out there. So why is it then that men beat around the bush and have no idea how to express themselves in person? (not all men, just some) They hide behind an email, a phone call or a text message. In the past few months I have gone out with some real doozies for sure. For example; Why do guys lie? Why say you’ve been married twice when you’ve been married oh I don’t know say maybe 4 times? BIG DIFFERENCE…2 and 4. RED FLAG? You bet it is! What does this tell me? They are doing something terribly wrong and I’m not about to fall into victim #5! Why do men say “let’s do this again” when they have NO intentions on wanting to see you again whether it was chemistry, or just an uneasy feeling? Why not just spit it out and say “Hey, it was nice, but this is the end of the road here?” Why not face to face, why hide? Why do men say that they’ll call, and then they don’t? Why all the excuses? It’s like the Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson movie, “He’s just Not That Into You!”

Why do men say that they would do anything for a woman when that isn’t really necessarily true? It could be something as little as saying that they’ll travel with her only to find out later that they’ve never stepped foot on a plane nor will they ever. Are women disappointed by men that act like this? You bet we are! So what is it? Are they cowards that can’t really say how they feel? Are they hoping that if they tell you what you want to hear it will prolong the inevitable? Or do they just want to get into your britches and say what they ‘think’ you want to hear?

Last night I was out to dinner with the girls and we talked about ‘a list’ of qualities; wants/needs that some women have. They use this list when they begin to date a man. We all agreed that this particular list that my friend shared was over the top and pretty intense, nevertheless, every woman should have a list of her own with her own realities of what she would personally like/want/need in a relationship. We left dinner and went to a bar where the crowd was different, but the atmosphere was fun. After being there a few hours I spotted across the room an old friend that meant something to me at one time of my life. He was another one that couldn’t just be honest or honest without some liquor in him to spit out what he really wanted to say, and even then he did a half ass job at doing it.

For months I thought maybe I was too harsh, or maybe I just expected too much. Maybe I needed to come down off my high horse list of my own dating rules…and then I realized NO! I was not going to cave and just settle for any man when I could have THE MAN. You see ladies, things DO happen for a reason, and last night when I saw this man who would NEVER have stopped to say hello to me had I not put myself in front of him to see if he really had the guts to stop… and although he did, but only because he had to pass me to get to the men’s room, it was just what I had expected it would be….short meaningless words, a few smiles and a ‘hey it was nice seeing you again.’ 1) after months of beating myself up, I realized that we were two completely different people indeed, 2) He wasn’t really anything special, and 3) He was meeting a woman for a first date in this particular bar of all places. That was when I realized that maybe my standards are high, BUT high they will stay. This is when I realized that we were two completely different people and I wanted so much more than he ever will. This is when I thanked my gut as I starred across the room thinking to myself…’I deserve better.’ This is when I realized that with or without a man in my life, I am just happy being me. This is when I realized that I was glad that I was not that woman who would just settle.

The bottom line here again is honesty,integrity and trust. Wake up boys…no woman wants a user or a loser. Perhaps we all need to rethink our ‘list’ of what we want in a relationship? Is a list too critical? Sure it is, (and if it isn’t, it should be!) This is your future we’re talking about here. My time is quit valuable and so should your time be. Never invest all of your time with someone making them a high priority when they only see you as an option. Never settle for ‘just OK.’ The moral of the story here is listen to your gut…it knows what it best for you.Trust is the most important building block of a successful relationship. If you can’t trust a man, it makes no difference how great he is in bed, what kind of money he makes or how great the chemistry is between you. If you find yourself with a guy who doesn’t honor his word and agreements with you there is only one thing you must do…. Run! Isn’t love supposed to make you feel good? Isn’t a man supposed to enhance your life and make it better?  Ladies, don’t settle for Mr Wrong.

Finding Your Happy Ever After…

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by ‘right person’ I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed..why? Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it’s time for a change of scenery!

The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren’t what we anticipated. Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn’t come that easily for most of us because we haven’t learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package. 

 So tell me then…Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the storybooks. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn’t happen…(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway…)
The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you’ll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won’t feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share ‘pillow talk’ with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships. The  phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ…I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of ‘wants and needs’ in your partner. Ones demeanor; presence, expression transform into our desires. Don’t skimp in the ‘must have’ department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place. 

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never  be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?                       

Many people ask me; “What keeps us from finding the love we are so  hungry for?” The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

 Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,… look past superficial flaws. 

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,…Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside.



Do’s and Dont’s to Flirting with a Woman

I get asked from men over and over again ‘how to flirt with a woman’ without coming across as too strong or a real pest? Is there a right way and or a wrong way to flirt? There are plenty of ways to get women’s attention, but trust me when I say this…not all of them are good. Sometimes guys can come across as way crazy or creepy when all they wanted was to get noticed. Yes that’s right, they wanted to get your attention and someone or somewhere it took a downhill spiral and went out of control. Some men tend to show off, others are too intimate too early, and others are way too obviously desperate. Flirting is the  art of catching a woman’s attention in a truly positive way. There’s  no reason to do anything crazy to get a woman’s attention if  you know how to flirt properly.Treat her like royalty. Quite honestly, flirting is surprisingly easy once you’ve practiced a little! Do not jump into this with the ‘touchy feely approach.’ It will only get you sent to the end of the line or banished by the queen herself!
 Here are a few guidelines  to keep in mind:
Never, ever sneak up behind a woman to introduce yourself.  If you ever do, hope that she doesn’t know martial arts and  that she has a more than phenomenal sense of humor. Her first  impression of you won’t be flattering, either. She’ll most likely remember you as someone who can’t be trusted.
Don’t stare, especially at any body part that isn’t her eyes.Trust me, no woman in her right mind wants to see you starring at her breasts and not her face. You want to meet her eyes in a relaxed, casual and friendly way.
Please only flirt with one woman at a time. Nothing makes a woman more angry than this fellas.s.. If you choose a woman to flirt with, you’re telling her that you think she’s special. It ruins  the message if you think every woman in the room is special enough to flirt with, and it makes you look desperate and rude.
Be sincere. Stand behind the meaning. What does that mean? If you say something ‘mean it for heaven sakes!’ If you end up saying something that sounds stupid, it’s better if you meant it honestly. You can be forgiven for  sounding silly, but never for being dishonest. Tell her the truth. Like Paula Abdul once sang “Straight Up”… now tell me…is it going to be you and me is it going to be you and me together??? Women like to know whats going on, NOT be left in the dark.
Start  at a distance and slowly work your way closer. Check her out from across the room, and if she notices you, smile  at her. There isn’t any reason to pretend you weren’t checking her out – you were, and you’re going to be upfront about it,  but you aren’t going to stare or drool.
Don’t come any closer than arm’s length. If she wants to get  closer to you, she can, but that’s her decision. Getting right  next to her when she doesn’t know you will make her move away from you. On the other hand, keeping a little bit of distance and speaking softly will encourage her to move closer to you on her own.
Keep your body language consistent. If you’re open to meetin this woman, then your posture should be open, your arms won’t be crossed, and your eyes should meet hers.
Watch her body language. If your flirting is working, she’ll be flirting back. Glancing at you, smiling, and keeping her posture open are signs that things are going well and if you are lucky you may even get your first date out of this.

Fellas Do YOU Seek…Good Girl or Bad Girl?

Nice guys have one major advantage over bad boys – nice guys pay attention and care about a woman’s needs. Yes, it is true, they actually DO care! This is actually an advantage for a couple of reasons.First, you have a natural ability to be tuned in and caring  that’s valuable, a BIG pleaser to most women that I know, and more importantly…women love it! Second, because you have  a bit of awareness, you’re also more able to discern if any given woman is going to be a good fit for you.
Because of your attentive nature and the fact that you do pay attention, you’re in a better position to determine whether a girl is right for you, and whether she’s a good girl or a bad girl. Here’s something absolutely essential to keep in mind: Your hormones may try to misguide you fellas, so… as Elmer Fudd once said; “BE VE-W-W-WY, VE-W-W-WY CAREFUL!
Sometimes, even if you’re a really good guy, your hormones will bog down your ability to think and even care if she’s a nice girl or not. Read the writing on the walls! This is when you have to demonstrate some self-control and sound thinking. Before you find yourself in a situation that you may regret, you need to know how to tell a good girl from a bad girl and I am going to share with you juts how to do so;
A good girl dresses appropriately. That doesn’t mean she can’t look sexy, but she’s not letting herself spill out of her dress just for attention, No, shes gets it regardless. She is that one person that can light up the room without ever having to try to do so, why? Because she is well rounded in her morals and values, and she is respected by many. She also has self control when it comes to drinking and even spending money.
Good girls pay attention to your needs, not just their own. She realizes that it is NOT all about her. She won’t rush into bed with you just because she thinks that’s the only way to get you to commit to her, in fact, getting into her britches may be a difficult task to says the least. This is the kind of women a man wants to end up with eventually, when he is ready to settle down. She’s confident in  her choices and decisions and doesn’t defer to you for everything. Good girls are confident with who they are from the inside out, and this starts with her lingerie. she is classssssy as all hell, not trashy! Shop our store for exquisite lingerie at luxury prices!
Bad girls, on the other hand, try to win your affection by being overly promiscuous. They don’t care if their dress is too short or much smaller than her actual dress size. She’ll dress too sexy, to the point you’re embarrassed for her, knowing every guy is assuming what kind of girl she is. She might also be flirting with every man in the room. Word up; this is NOT the woman for you!
A bad girl also needs to get drunk or incapacitated in another way in order to relax and have fun. She doesn’t control herself with money, either, spending too much and complaining that she’s in debt up to her eyeballs, but that’s OK because she needs to spend to impress, only who is she kidding really… no one is impressed at all. You might meet a bad girl who pressures you into going to bed together on the first date. If she’s like this with you, she might be like this with any man! BIG RED FLAG! Some women think the only way a guy will commit is through sex, so put her mind at ease and take the pressure off from the very beginning.
If she’s needy, she might be a bad girl in another way…. as in high maintenance. What starts out as cute possessiveness turns into a raging jealousy that gets out of control and ruins your life. No one wants a physco girlfriend on the loose! Find a woman who exudes confidence and interest in you (not one that seeks the attention of every man in the room).
If you are in search of a woman who is practical and one who has integrity, morals and ethics, do not stop until you find her! Someone once told me “Never apologize for having such high standards,…People who really want to be in your life will rise up to meet  them.” This is hard core and these are the rules that I play by.
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