Being Classy, Not Trashy…


Being classy is not about being stuck up, it is about having style and taking care to be polite to others and to reflect a genuine interest in them. As well as to be classy, is also about being confident in yourself and happy with who you are. Let’s discuss what class is, how to be classy, or: selfless, generous, compassionate and responsible. Class is an aura of confidence that is being sure without being cocky, having without bragging. Class has absolutely nothing to do with money. Class never runs scared. It is self-discipline and self-knowledge. Class is the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life. Those who have class have much character.

There is a LARGE difference between class and trash. Those whom have to flaunt their bodies with skimpy outfits, or by wearing no bra or panties, or flat-out without clothes,…you are showing an extremely sad case of low self-esteem and lack there of confidence. This is bad gals, and you’re not appealing at all. You need to wise up. Look in the mirror. Trash is not becoming what so ever….so if you think flashing your body around town or in photos is classy, unless it is done with exquisite taste and character, you are NOT very smart. You will be looked down upon and no one decent will want you. Men want what they can’t have, and they love the chase. If you start the game leading off with half your clothes off, he’ll show no interest. If he does, he wants a piece of your ass and that’s the end of the story. I wrote a column for over 10 years and this is facts.

How to Identify a Classy Woman:

There is no classier woman than a woman who spends time with herself for grooming purposes. Class is about having good ethics and high standards, not only of yourself but to those around you who surround themselves amongst you. Look at a lady from head to toe. Her hair should look like it’s been brushed and styled. It should not look like she just got out of bed or have been lying around on the couch all day. Look at the hands. They should be clean and groomed. The nails can be short or long. They can be polished or unpolished. The polish should not be chipping off. Look at the feet, if they are exposed. They should be clean and smooth. They should not drag and slide their feet. Their head should be up and not starring down. Their arms should be close to their body as they walk.

A classy woman will always leave you with the impression of “I wonder what…”. However, if a woman has a nice body and she feels she has to practically be undressed to make sure you see her (The ole if you got it flaunt it mentality), not only is she not classy, she is insecure.

A classy woman will always leave the privilege of seeing her assets to the special man in her life. You must ask yourself, does a woman have to advertise to every man on the planet what her body looks like? If so, is there anything special she’s reserving for the special man in her life to see? Look for confidence  in a classy woman. They make men wonder. These are the type of women that most men really desire. They want a confident woman who needs not be the center of attention. The woman who needs not brag about turning so many heads when she walks into a room, and certainly one who doesn’t brag about her authority, career or amount of cash that she has in the bank. Class is having it, and not flaunting it.

Women keep hearing over and over from guys in different situations that men want to date and have relationships with classy women. Just take a look at most of the men’s dating profiles, and you will see that practically all of them want to meet and date a woman who has “class.” Indeed, being called “classy” is an ultimate compliment to a woman. But, what does it really mean being classy? After searching the internet for an answer to this question, I wasn’t very satisfied, because every attempt to define a “classy woman” had one fundamental flaw – a woman can have all the qualities that make her classy according to those sources and still not  have much “class.” The formal definition of classy also doesn’t add much to understanding what class means in the context of dating and attraction.

For instance, being a sharp dresser, clean, and not using profanities are certainly qualities that flatter to a woman, but… they hardly make her come across as having “class,” if she talks too much and constantly draws attention to her persona. Being professional, educated, and having a great sense of humor are very attractive qualities in a woman but if she has temper issues this pretty much cancels out her potential to come across as classy. What’s my belief in what the meaning of class is? I truly believe that just like in the case of  distinction between flirting regular conversation, being classy is not in the “what” but in the “how.” It’s how you act, how you carry yourself, how you express yourself and how you live your life that determines class. It’s all about respect. You need to have it…for it is a necessity. Without it, there is no confidence or self-esteem. If you don’t have any standards for yourself, why would you think that others would show any for you?

 

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