Great Relationships Don’t Just Happen…

Great relationships just don’t happen, they take years of practice and a lot of growing. True or False? Lets see…Contrary to popular belief and, perhaps, our own fantasy life, good relationships don’t just happen. They take thoughtfulness, time, love, and work. Progressing through recognizable stages, all relationships experience crises and demand at least some flexibility on our parts. A willingness to stay together through the storms is the only way to get to the peacefulness on the other side. Yet (in my opinion) it is all very much worth it. In order to succeed, you need one thing besides love,… it’s quite simple…You need TRUST!

Trust  is the glue that holds your relationship together, especially when times get rocky. As important as trust is to the well-being of your relationship, the need for your partner to be able to trust you is often times taken for granted or disregarded all together. Of all the relationship skills that you will read about, there’s no skill easier to execute than acting in a trustworthy way. Here’s a simple formula for building trust in your relationship—make sure that your words and actions match. Always do what you say you’re going to do!

 

Great Relationships

Want to maintain a great relationship? Here’s what you need to succeed:

Respect – the single greatest part of a relationship. Do you respect your partner? You should. If you don’t you need to start doing it. How do you show it? Do you say nice things about them in front of your friends or other people, or do you criticize and whine about their weak areas? Lift your partner up, it’s good for the mind and ones ego.

Do something nice for your partner – when was the last time you did something nice for your partner without them asking? How about giving them a massage, helping out with dinner, making them coffee, cleaning up around the house – there’s a thousand things you can do. The little things help so much in a relationship – do something nice often, it will make a world of difference.

Pay compliments – You should always try to complement your spouse on a regular basis. Complements are not fake statements made to get something back for yourself – a complement has to be genuine! If you don’t believe what you’re saying, don’t say it – really. There’s gotta be many good points about your partner – when you appreciate something that they do, for goodness sakes, tell them. Do they look nice today? Do they look sexy? Should they shop at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com ? YES! When? Now! Have they done something nice? If so tell them!


Don’t be a Schmuck…Be appreciative – everyone should take time out of their day to be thankful for the good things in their lives. Be thankful for your partner, for your relationships – take the time to realize you are blessed.

Do things together – What things do you have in common? What things do you not like doing with your partner? Find something you both like to do and just hang out. Building a great relationship is much easier if you actually like doing things together. Laugh! Play! Go for a bike ride, go to the movies, play a game of tennis, go swimming, play cards, go on a wine tour, go out for breakfast, play twister… Together, you are unique – find something you like and do it together, at least on a moderately regular basis.

Imperfections…Yup, we all have them! – listen up because this one’s important. After you have found that perfect person, life is sweet! You’re walking on air! Then one day you wake up and realize that your partner has a habit of leaving the milk out on the counter every day, and it irritates you. You discover they have bad nasal hair… You find out they have a snorty laugh that’s really annoying! The point is (listen carefully) nobody’s perfect! When you start to dwell on the other person’s imperfections, have a think about yourself! Are you perfect? Of course not – there’s just as many irritating things that you do. Try not to sweat the little things – and work on your own problems.

Grass is greener syndrome – ever wonder if you’ve found the right person? Finding someone else attractive? Do you realize many people regret affairs for the rest of their lives? Factor in the previous point on perfection – if you change your partner and go off with someone else, will you find something else you don’t like about them? Probably… I’m not suggesting you put up with a mediocre relationship just because it’s never going to be completely perfect in all ways – I’m just saying don’t let your mind fool you into thinking life would be great if only I was with that hot chick/or that sexy guy! Don’t wreck something great just because your mind (or eyes) are wandering. You will regret it!Hang on to what you have and be thankful each and every day that he/she came into your life, and stay in your own yard!

 

About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, Men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/

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It’s Hot and Erotic…Buy Your Man Sexy Underwear!

Erotic and sexy does not even begin to describe what men wearing sexy boxers or briefs does to a woman. We spend time dressing and preparing for romantic evenings with you, so why wouldn’t you want to look extra appealing to women? Mens underwear or lingerie isn’t much different from women’s lingerie. It’s important to know your bust, waist and hip measurements, especially if you’re shopping online and can’t try on the lingerie. Always remember that the color is an important factor too, since you want a color that complements your skin tones, but what you seek and desire is the right piece of lingerie that will fill out your britches and lift the balls. Yes, you heard me, lift the testes fellas! Mens underwear just like women’s panties can run adverse affects on each individual. Don’t you want to select mens lingerie that accentuates the entire package? Turn a normal night of intrigue into a hot steamy night of passion simply by wearing something that will impress and tantalize your partner!

1) Pick a material that looks and feels good. G-strings come in fish net and rubber, but they may not feel comfortable to wear all day long. There are also G-strings in velvet, silk and lycra, which are more comfortable for long-term wear

2)  Stick with boxers, if you want more traditional looking lingerie. Buying boxers with a design speaks volume. If you aren’t the design kinda guy, go with sheer boxers and pair them with a sexy pair of mens underwear. Boxers can entail a fun frisky night. Use your imagination ladies!

3) The most important advice is to have fun buying mens lingerie by selecting some novelty underwear, or better yet, fantasy bedroom costumes!They generally come sized as one-size-fits-most, but we also sell S,M,L, XL at Simply Delicious Lingerie;  http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/mens-lingerie-%20mens-underwear-sexy-mens-briefs-mens-undergarments-mens-boxer-briefs-mens%20thongs-mens-panties

Any search on the internet for mens lingerie will pull up about 10,000 retailers who sell boxers, briefs, thongs, posing straps and so on…BUT only Simply Delicious Lingerie www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com can accommodate you with every need and give you prices that will beat out our competition!Most men love the way they look while wearing it and the way it makes them feel inside. That is pretty much the same way that women feel.

For such a very long time, men’s underwear has been a neglected area in fashion…why? People only thought that women’s lingerie was important. I don’t know about you, BUT when I’m with a man, I’d like it if he felt just as secure and sexy in his underwear as I did.  This was never a big deal…but now, with new designers coming into play, the area is finally getting the attention it deserves. And hence, we are bearing witness to a revolution in the way men view their underwear. So when it comes to buying underwear, it is no longer a simple choice between boxers, briefs and boxer-briefs. It has now expanded to a whole new range of mens underwear that contain some really unique and truly liberating choices. Take a peek at our lingerie store. We have added sharp pieces of men’s underwear and we will continue to add more and more as we grow. Why? It’s a hot commodity and in demand and I am here to deliver.

When you are shopping for mens underwear, you have to keep the physique in mind. Whether it is for yourself or for someone else, you have to remember what sort of body the man in question has. This will help you choose things he can comfortably wear. Just like boxers and briefs; thongs, g-strings and bikini underwear have specific sizes and fits. They are meant for different types of men, so it is important that you know the man you are buying them for. Personal preference is another area that needs your attention. You have to choose something that you or that person is comfortable with wearing. This includes colors, prints, cuts, shapes, etc. Check out our selection now. Buy 3 pair, Get 1 FREE! Use code; mansies (at shopping cart)

About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, mens underwear, mens lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  

 Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie!® 

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Choosing the Color of Lingerie that Looks Best on YOU!

What factors determine what lingerie suits you best? What color brings out your true qualities? Lets say that you know exactly what you are looking for but do you know where to find it? Our stores, Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie have quality lingerie at luxury prices to fit everyone’s budget. Let’s get started finding you some brand new women’s intimate apparel shall we? First you’ll need to make a selection. What type of lingerie looks best on you? What piece accentuates your true curves?

I’m sure that you have measured yourself and know exactly what size you are but have you discovered what color suits you best according to your appearance?  Do you know what colors look best on you? Whether or not the color suits you is probably the least considered part about lingerie shopping for women. Many women just wing it or buy their favorite color. As for me, this is true. Black, White, Grey, Tan/Beige are my favorites, nonetheless, red is a great color in the bedroom. I also like pinks as they are soft and show a more feminine side and let’s face it, men love soft and sexy! The color of your lingerie can make of break the determining factor of just how sexy you look and feel. Agree or disagree?  I strongly AGREE! You don’t want to pick out a color that washes you out or makes you look too pale or dark. You want to stand out. You want to wear a piece that shows your curves. You want to select something that will stand out in your partners mind for hours on end. Black is my favorite. Sure it’s bold but it makes a statement. It says I am confident. What does your lingerie color say about you?

Many women figure you can never go wrong with black or white. That is true but your collection will get awfully boring if it only contains one color. Isn’t it time every now and again to just spice it up a little big? I talk in my blogs about turning up the heat in the bedroom so sister,…now is your time to “bring it” and sizzle! 

There are a few things about yourself you will need to consider when choosing that perfect color. You want to look at skin tone, eye color, and hair color. Each one of these attributes can broaden your color spectrum.

Did you know that eye color can be a real winner when deciding what color lingerie to choose?  For blue eyes, all shades of blue from the lightest to the darkest will work. This can give you quite a few options considering just how many shades of blue there are. Browns or a mix of blues with browns also work very well for the blue-eyed lady. For the green-eyed lady of course anything with green. However, reds and floral prints with reds and greens in a combination are just spectacular. Olives and earth tones will also match the green eye color well. Hazel eyes have a wide variety of possibilities. They can get away with blues, greens, browns, and all earth tones. Brown-eyed women look great in purples, browns, and the darker colors. So when shopping for the perfect piece you need to consider what will make your eyes stand out.

Second… you’ll want to consider the color of your hair. Blondes tend to look best in pastel colors. The light pinks, blues, purples, and greens do not over power the light nature of the hair color. Too dark of a color can cause your face to be washed out and won’t flatter you. Brunettes look fabulous in great in stronger colors, earth tones, and colorful prints. You want to stick with colors that will not be so light that they fade out of the primary focus. Navy blue, hunter, green, red, and purples will all look great with darker hair. Redheads look absolutely amazing in bright sassy colors like red, emerald-green, crisp blues and purples. They work as well as earth tones too. Make sure you try things on to be sure they bring out your hair and not make it look non-existent. Part of feeling sexy with women is their hair. Remember, you are trying to tie together all your best assets not hide them.

The last thing to consider, but not the least by any means, is skin color. Depending on the tone of your skin you can get washed away or not be able to tell the difference from you and the lingerie. For those ladies with that gorgeous porcelain skin stick to light to powder colors. If you are going to experiment with slightly brighter colors, make sure that it matches either your eyes or hair to offset the skin tone issue. Those ladies with olive and tan skin you can get away with powdered and medium colors. Use your eye and hair colors to know which color schemes work best in this realm for you. Stay away from pastels they will wash you out and make you look too plain. The point is to look fabulous!!!!!!!

 For those women with ebony or dark skin you have many options to work with. Pastels will give your skin tone a drastic contrast. Use your eye color to pick which colors would look best on you for this dynamite look. You can also get away with all the dark and extreme colors as well. Deep reds, blues, greens, and purples look absolutely incredible. As one can see color is a major component to picking out that sexy lingerie outfit. It can be the difference between good and incredibly hot and tantalizing. Regardless of your size, color of hair, and skin tones, choosing the perfect color for you can add confidence as well as a luxury look. We sell bridal lingerie, sexy bridal undergarments, plus size lingerie, plus size bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, matching sets and so much more! Shop with us today so that you don’t lack luster. Isn’t life all about feeling sexy?

 

 

 

About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, Men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

How To Lose Weight and Still Enjoy Those Delicious Chocolate Flavors

So many women I know love chocolate. So many women that I know get chocolate cravings, but did you know that most women think that to lose weight they have to completely cut chocolate out of their diet? Say it isn’t so…OK, it isn’t so. No need to worry about getting your hands caught in the chocolate box.If you love chocolate but want to lose weight, there are ways to keep those calories from sabotaging your diet. Pick the right kind of chocolate, control your portions, and eat a balanced diet. Here are some suggestions for taking care of your health while you indulge your sweet tooth.

 

Choosing the Right Chocolate:

 

1. Eat dark chocolate. Did you know that dark chocolate is much better for you than milk chocolate? Dark chocolate is good for your heart and overall health. Studies show that it contains plant flavonoids and antioxidants that can improve the functioning of your blood vessels and protect you from clogged arteries. When you want something sweet, go with dark chocolate.

 

2. Drink cocoa. Cocoa is the ingredient that endows dark chocolate with its health benefits. Drinking unsweetened cocoa powder in skim milk is another way to get the flavor you crave without much fat or calories. Just keep in mind that milk can interfere with how your body absorbs the antioxidants. Another alternative is to sprinkle some cocoa in your yogurt.

 

3. Try chocolate-flavored products with no calories. Suck on sugar-free hard candies in chocolate flavors. A small indulgence can help keep you from feeling deprived, which will keep you from splurging on something that will wreck your diet.

 

4. Enjoy chocolate scents. In between meals, surround yourself with chocolate scents. Today, you can find products ranging from candles to lip balms. As for me, to the day, I’ve lost 21 pounds enjoying the aromas of wonderful chocolates and dessert flavors such as Whoopie Pie, Double Layer Chocolate Cake, Creme Brulee, Vanilla Cupcake and Buttercream from Yankee Candle. Menopause kicked in over a year ago and weight began piling on. I felt like it was out of control and I ate more and more not even realizing it. When I began my weight loss, I did it my way. For me, it was about savoring those delicious flavors and scents, not eating them. Now, I indulge in the scents with my tart burner while using the gazelle or treadmill.

 

5. Avoid milk chocolate and white chocolate. White chocolate contains no cocoa solids, and milk chocolate contains much less than the darker version. Dark chocolate is much more nutritious, especially when you’re trying to limit your overall calories.

 

Controlling Portions:

 

1. Plan ahead. That’s right, do some juggling with your diet schedule and meals. This means; limit your treats to once a day. If you want fudge brownies with dinner, pass on the birthday cake at the office. When you’ve had a chocolate croissant for breakfast, eat berries for dessert.

 

2. Eat slowly. Honey, there isn’t a race to see who can finish the cake or brownies the quickest, so indulge and enjoy it. Savor the flavor! Enjoy your food by sitting down and loving every single bite. Eating slower will also help you notice when you’re full.

 

3. Share desserts. Many restaurants serve huge portions. Ask for one dessert and two spoons so you and your companion can share. You’ll both be better off.

 

4. Give away holiday chocolates. Getting a huge assortment of chocolates for Christmas or your birthday may be too much temptation for any chocolate lover. Take them to the office or put them out for your house guests to enjoy. Most artisan chocolates should be eaten while fresh, but some varieties may be frozen for a later date.

 

5. Buy individual truffles. Many bakeries, candy shops, and department stores sell individual pieces of candy or slices of cake. If you find it difficult to resist the lure of a whole box of cookies, take just one home and divide it up!

 

Eating a Balanced Diet

 

1. Know your calories. Did you know that a three-and-a-half ounce chocolate bar contains about 480 calories? Yup… A single Hershey’s Kiss has about 25 calories. Even though dark chocolate is healthy, you need to closely monitor the amount you eat if you’re trying to lose weight. Those calories can add up fast. Before you know it the pounds are on you and your clothes have either become tighter or the darn dryer is broken and has shrunken them!

 

2. Replace other sweets with dark chocolate. One easy strategy is to replace less nutritious snacks and desserts with chocolate. Two Hershey’s Kisses is far less calories than a bag of almost any potato chips. And if you have a chocolate treat as part of your daily routine, you’ll be more motivated keep eating the complex carbohydrates, plant foods, and lean proteins necessary for a balanced diet.

 

3. Get more exercise. Complement your healthy eating with regular exercise. Daily aerobics is the best way to lose weight safely. Try Yoga Booty Ballet….(my favorite) or take a walk, go ride a bike or hike. Look for opportunities to stay active throughout the day, like doing floor exercises during television commercials. There are several things that you can do to stay active and exercise without even having to try hard. Just make it part of your daily routine. Before you hit the shower, jump rope, or do jumping jacks, or run on the treadmill for 10-15 minutes. Each day/week, increase that until you are doing more and more…however, just because you are doing more and more activities to boost your metabolism does not mean that you should be eating more. That my friend completely defeats the purpose.

 

In my findings, if it is chocolate that you love…keep it in your life. There is no need to drop it like a bad habit. As long as you stick with dark chocolate, the treats you love can be good for your health. Practice moderation, and you can eat a little bit of chocolate every day without gaining weight. You see, we don’t have to give up the things that we love…we just have to learn other techniques so that we may keep them in our lives enough to relish them! When you eat good, you feel better and your confidence level peeks! You want to feel good from the inside out and from head to toe. Let that begin with your sexy lingerie you wear under your clothes. We sell a fabulous selection at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com and www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com!

 
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About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, Men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

 

Relationships: Why Men Choose to Lie to Women

From the time I was a young girl, I was raised to tell the truth, to be open, honest and I learned that communication was key. I watched my parents live a lifetime of love and open communication. I learn from the best. In essence, this certainly prepared me for my more mature days nonetheless, there were many things that I did not learn, that I was very naive of and that I still to this day DO NOT understand. This article is about the role a man plays when he enters into a relationship knowing that he is keeping the truth from his partner. Why do men choose to lie? When I say partner, I do not mean a long time lover, girlfriend, etc. This man could be a guy you have only dated once or twice. He is the man who has every option to be up front,…to lay his cards on the table and the one who holds the cards to a certain degree…so WHY then, can he not just tell the truth? Are they afraid of commitment, or getting caught if they are in a relationship with someone else, or married, which is even worse? This is about why men lie, or bend the truth. John Le Carre once said; “Betrayal can only happen if you love.” I totally disagree.

From the time a man opens his yap even if it is on a first text, phone call, or date; if he hides the truth, (if he is in a relationship already or has a wife) he is being dishonest from the get-go. Here’s my thoughts; why not just be honest and allow the woman to make a decision based on his honest statement? Because that is far too easy, and he doesn’t want to risk getting caught. Guess what fellas? Women are not as stupid as you think. I did not believe in ever prying into a mans life, nor did I feel that I should have to do research on him prior to a date, that was then, this is now.

You don’t buy a house or a car without doing research on the product, so why in the hell would you jump into a solid relationship or date a man more than once if you didn’t take the test drive first to find out if the goods are really priceless? Do you have doubts? Are things not adding up? Does he like to text and rarely talk? Are your meetings at his convenience and not yours? Does he leave you hanging and just disappear while in a conversation via text, phone, chat or email? Is he lying to you? Are you feeling uneasy? Do you need answers? I have several ways to dig for the truth, but lets start with something easy shall we? In today’s society, the internet is your best friend, so learn how to use your resources! Try this; Google his name. See what comes up? Paper trails are easy to follow when people are messy and stupid. If you wish to get more in-depth; use this source. 1) Enter His Email Address 2) See Hidden Pics & Social Profiles Now! Spokeo.com/Find-Cheaters

Who is this man and what kind of guy does this? He is probably the man who no one would ever expect to do such a thing. He is that one man who is probably the perfect son, brother, boyfriend, husband or partner. He is the man who sweeps in and gets under your skin and before you know it you are an emotional basket case of feelings…What you didn’t know what that In some form or another, and through concealment and or much fabrication, he was or is deceptive to you.

Let’s face it, deception plays a role in all of our relationships. Most people, however, do not like to acknowledge this, especially when it comes to love and romance. Every now and then, people discover something about a romantic partner which makes the issue of lying impossible to ignore. Making such a discovery can be unsettling because it violates our basic notions about intimacy and trust. It is not fun to think about the lies people tell to those they love. Nonetheless, at the same time, people tend to be curious about the topics which couples try to hide and conceal from each other.

Relational Issues

  • Time Together – people lie about the reasons why they can’t spend time together or see each other (“I am so busy, I have so much work to do, I don’t have time right now”)….
  • Past Relationships – partners lie about their past level of involvement (“I never really loved her,” “I am much closer to you,” “I love you so much more than anyone else”)…
  • Feelings, Interest, Crushes, and Attraction to Others – people lie about their feelings and interest in others – often includes ex-partners, friends, someone at work…
  • Secret Contact – lovers lie about their friendships, time spent with others, accidental encounters (running into ex), phone calls, e-mails, and text messages with others. Essentially people lie about intimate, but non-sexual contact with someone else…
  • Level of Commitment – people lie about their feelings for partner, uncertainty or doubts about the relationship – not sure really love or want to marry partner or stay together…
  • Flirting with Others – people lie about flirting with others…
  • Betraying Confidences – lovers lie to each other about keeping secrets confidential…
  • Hide Time with Others – people hide activities and time spent with others – usually friends or coworkers…

Sexual Issues

  • Sexual Fantasies – lovers conceal having sexual fantasies about others during sex. Or thinking about sex with someone else – usually the fantasy involves a partner’s friend, family member, or a co-worker…
  • Sexual History – lovers lie about the number of past partners, unsafe sex practices, what they have and have not done with others, their virginity, having an abortion, childhood abuse…
  • Infidelity and Cheating – spouses lie about having sex with other people… sometimes it involves issues of paternity…
  • Sexual Orientation – some people lie about same sex contact or interest…

Negative Thoughts

  • Negative Feelings towards Partner’s Family/friends – people lie about liking other people who are important to a partner…
  • Negative Feelings about Partner’s Physical Appearance – lovers lie about liking their partner’s appearance, hair, weight, age, clothes…
  • Negative Feelings about Partner’s Career – people lie about liking or respecting their partner’s job, school, career choices…
  • Negative Feelings about Partner’s Behavior/character – lovers lie about liking their partner’s kids, habits, personality, sense of humor…

Negative Behaviors

  • Drug Use – lovers lie about past or current drug use…
  • Alcohol Consumption – partners lie about alcohol consumption…
  • Smoking – people lie about smoking…
  • Gambling – lovers lie about gambling…

Differences

  • Hide Important Beliefs – lovers lie about true feelings on issues (i.e., politics, religion, pets) in order to get along with partner…
  • Enjoyment of Activities – people lie about enjoying things a partner likes to do…

Financial Issues

  • Resources – people lie about their income, resources, inheritance…
  • Debt – lovers lie about their level of debit…
  • Spending Habits – people lie about how they spend money…

Insecurities

  • Physical Appearance/health – people lie about age, weight, health…
  • Jealously – lovers lie about being jealous and snooping…
  • Career Performance – partners lie about how well work, school, career is going…
  • Family and Friends – lovers lie to make family and friends seem better…
  • Love and Emotions – people lie to their partners about feeling vulnerable, scared, and being overly emotional…

My grandmother once told me that the truth shall set you free. So why then is it so damn difficult for a man to just tell the truth? Fiction is far more believable. Well, we woman do have a tendency to refuse to believe something that is just too “easy” to be true. Poor men, where do they go at such a time. If they say the truth, they will be constantly questioned. So, they make up a more complex lie, and the women tend to fall for it! I believe that many men exaggerate about themselves in order to put up a proud front before women. They feel that if a woman discovers a “truth”, about them, they might lose a woman’s attention. Men might continue to do so, until one fine day, when their lies are chanced upon.

Often a man is not exactly lying, but he is not completely honest either. He will say the acceptable part of the truth and very conveniently “forget” about the unacceptable part of it; like he may say that he took a friend out for shopping, but he may just omit the part where his “friend” is actually his ex-girlfriend. Let’s face it; if you are his girlfriend or wife, you would at least frown at the concept. So, to keep you happy, he would simply not mention it. My non-professional advice? Women are blessed with intuition and a whole load of intellect. I say, use what your “momma gave ya”and follow your gut. If you think he may be lying or that something just does not seem right, it’s probably true. You need to decide how to proceed. Just remember, if he is lying, he is good at it. Often they tell one lie to cover up another. I wonder sometimes how they keep it all straight? Why is it so difficult to be honest?

 
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Love, Lust and Passion…Why Does It Fade?

Now, I’m no expert here but tell me if this sounds familiar to any or you? After you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’re likely to encounter a time when the passion dies down? Yes? No? Do we sacrifice passion for feeling safe and secure? It is indeed ironic typically that we  can have as much sex as they want, they seem to have lost their desire for it.Common thinking is that romance and passion fade over time. Familiarity, comfort, security take over. A newer more hopeful theory is that we unwittingly degrade romance and passionate sex, place it in the background, and bring security and safety into the foreground. We squeeze the life out of the relationship.
Many men are cherished but starving lovers. They know their wives love them. That’s why they have stayed all these years. But what hurts so much is that they’ve never felt wanted by her. It is so difficult not to take such repeated rejection personally.

For some people, love and desire go hand in hand. For others, emotional intimacy shuts down erotic response. Is it possible to experience lust and excitement with the same person you look to for comfort and stability? Is intimacy knowing everything about each other? Or does it include maintaining a sense of separateness and consequently, mystery? Feeling erotically impoverished in relationship is draining and refusing to tolerate this situation allows one to bring more authenticity to the partnership. This is not without risk and often takes one beyond one’s comfort zone. It is, however, another way of taking care of a marriage.

Erotic intimacy is an act of giving and taking. We must enter the erotic space of our partner without fear that we will lose ourselves. At the same time, however, we need to surrender to the experience of self-absorption while in another’s presence without the fear of being abandoned.

Everyone falls into certain patterns that are comfortable. Is that it? Do we just get ‘to comfortable’ with our partner? Is there some truth to this? Try breaking out of your comfort zone every so often, you’ll experience a sense of newness in your relationship. It’s important to seek out that certain spark you felt when you first got together with your partner. Those feelings are still there, you just might need to be creative in finding ways to bring them out again.
Here are some ways that you can reignite the passion in your relationship:
1. Go out of your way. That’s right…YOU. It’s not all about YOU…so do try to do something for him/her. Remember at the beginning of your relationship how you would go out of your way to make your partner extra happy? Make these efforts again! It’ll surprise your partner and be a reminder about how much you love them.
  • It doesn’t have to be an everyday thing, but everyone deserves a little “above and beyond” treatment!
2. Show your gratitude. You often think to yourself how grateful you are that your partner did something for you, and it’s important to let your partner know of your gratitude, too.
  • You can do this through better communication and positive actions. Many times a simple, “Thank you for…” statement will let him know how much you appreciate his efforts.
3. Be considerate. Sometimes your partner is the only one who will allow you to be blunt and abrupt. It’s important to vent, but remember to act considerate around your partner as much as you can.
4. Spend time alone together. Everyone is busy, but you need to make the extra effort to have alone time together. It’s still important to make dates with each other and do things you’ve never done before. My parents were just married for 50 years and they still have date night every Wednesday.
5. Show affection. There are certainly ways to show your affection for your partner beyond bedroom activities. Show your love for each other with gentle touches and hugs. Snuggle together on the couch and just enjoy the closeness. Get a little crazy…do something that you generally would not do to spark his/her interest.
6. Seek adventure. Kick it up a notch. Get daring…Everyone has his or her own definition of adventure. You and your partner may even find different things adventurous. Do some of these activities together. Engaging in exhilarating activities can certainly ignite the passion. If you don’t know where or how to get started…I have 2 words for you; REDDI WHIP. Every fridge should be well stocked with this as well as canned chocolate syrup, cherries, and ice cream. Make a body sundae. You don’t have to do this every day…but an occasional pastry treat of sorts might be just what the doctor ordered! Draw her a hot bath, and imagine her a body sundae to devour!
7. Enjoy your own alone time. On the other side of the coin, it’s a good idea to spend time away from your partner as well. Everyone needs space at times. Also, time apart can build up the anticipation for some of the things you may have planned with your partner. Alone time is all well and good, but what happens after the busy day is what keeps the lines of communication going. I’ll say this in 2 words….PILLOW TALK. Have it, love it, and appreciate it.
8. Share your dreams and your goals. Keep an open conversation with your partner about your future plans. Things may not always go according to plan, but it’s good to talk about your dreams and goals. Support one another!
  • While it’s fun to discuss what things were like at the beginning of your relationship, it’s also enjoyable to discuss where you think things are going.
9. Surprise! Surprise your partner with a gift. It doesn’t have to be something expensive; in fact, you could even make it yourself. Just explore some thoughtful ideas that will let your partner know that you care about them. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com is a great place to find luxury and sexy lingerie at affordable prices!
You’ll find passion in your relationship as long as you make an effort to break up the monotony. Communicate well, spend time together, and explore new activities together. When you do, you’ll discover the keys to a successful passionate relationship.You and your partner are headed in a new direction. Instead of a split between love and lust, your new path lies in the tensions between opposites – committed love and red hot sex, security and excitement, continuity and novelty, safety and adventure, comfort and passion.
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The “Right Kind of Woman” for Men to Date

Men search and search for the typical ‘right kind of woman’ but what kind of woman is she and more importantly, where do he find her exactly? Finding a good woman is not an easy task, especially in an era where lots of women are master manipulators who abuse their female sexual power and exploit male vulnerabilities. On the contrary to what you may think, she is out there fellas, and she may even be someone you know through an acquaintance, work with or live by…Still, there are a lot of good women out there with traits that would make any guy happy.

Now, here’s a list of the good types of women you should be dating:

1. The Independent Woman

The independent woman has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She’s the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn’t need a man in her life. She can take care of herself. An upside of dating this alpha female knowing that she is confident, she won’t rely on you for everything and she certainly isn’t looking for men to solve all her problems. She is the ‘take charge’ and the take the bull by the horns kind of gal. She knows what she wants and she goes after it.
2. The Loyal Woman

This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She’s not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. Whether or not she’s up for first prize in a beauty contest, this type of woman will lift you up when you need it, stand beside you when you need the encouragement to follow through whether it be involving business or something on a more personal note and she will always provide constructive criticism to make you a better man and be on your side no matter what

3. The Sweetheart

The sweetheart is a woman who’s positive, compassionate and gentle. Her upbeat personality makes you smile. You are happy when you are with her and you enjoy just being in her presence. She’s a genuine person who considers you in every situation. She’s always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. This type of woman is pretty rare, but if you can find one, you’ve got a real treasure on your hands.
4. The Low Maintenance Woman

The low maintenance woman is rational, not emotionally clingy or needy, is comfortable doing things on her own and does not require constant reassurances. She really doesn’t care about how much money you have, she just likes you for you and not for what she can take from you. She see’s a bigger picture and life is more so about what she can do to help you succeed. Unlike the high maintenance woman, whose needs are generally all about ‘me, me, me’ as she accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad ones,…and she feels the same about you. She is comfy in her own skin and she waits for you to realize that she is the one for you, rather than being all up in your face about it. Romance is key and she knows how to act and react. It doesn’t take a lot to make her happy and she relies on no one but herself most often to get things done. She is a dreamer and wants nothing more than to be the one that he kisses goodnight at the end of a long, exhausting work day.

 
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