Lingerie = Sex Appeal

From the turn of the century it has always been  acknowledged that lingerie equals sex appeal. How a woman looks and feels in her selected piece shows confidence and glamorous attributes. We know what looks and feels best on us and against our bodies. Nonetheless, too many men base the ideal thought of lingerie on the piece itself…oh contraire…True, yet false. I say that the lingerie piece is not sensual if it is not the perfect color for your partner. So do keep the colors simple and choose the wisely and according to your mates skin tones.

Black and white with a touch of color to accentuate curves and shape is super hot, elegant, and it feeds the mood. It sets the tone for a romantic evening of foreplay. We all crave sex appeal…we just need to learn what color to wear, or NOT to wear. Men truly want to see what you’re wearing and they want to have the ability to follow the curves of your body with their eyes. They are undressing you with their eyes. It’s all about visuals for men. Sooo, keep it real simple and smokin’ hot! Black is sexy and you can never go wrong with this color.

Another key-note to hit on here is this; Make sure it fits well, and don’t force yourself into a size small if you need a medium or large. It’s important that you feel great in your selected piece and it’s hard to do that when you’re adjusting straps, readjusting a thong, or scratching because your outfit itches, tugs, or is giving you a wedgie. Pulling, picking, and scratching are things guys notice a mile away, so ladies, if you want to captivate your partner….give him something simple, yet elegant, but sinfully delicious to admire.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we have an array of sexy matching sets that are simple and sexy. We all need to wear a bra and panties after all, so why not select a particular piece of ours that will define your beauty and hug your curves oh so delicately? We’ve got the selection for you in our matching set collection. It is affordable and screams sensual.

Make certain that you pull out all the stops, and by that I mean bring on the bells and whistles. Keeping it simple is the route to take. Sure the corset and bustier are fun and exciting, but not every man wants to spend a long duration of time trying to untie some crazy bra-corset concoction for a half-hour and surely that doesn’t count as foreplay, not in a mans mind any way. They want something, a piece or two that will pleasure their minds and their egos., so ladies, feed your man! Give him something tantalizing, teasing and oh so pleasing. Shop for luxury lingerie at affordable prices!


A dOzEn tHiNgS To dO WiTh YoUr HoNey…

1. Go to the Park

Go with your honey to a park nearby. Swing on the swings like when you were a kid. Remember childhood memories and what part of those memories made you a better person today! Share stories! I’ve got lots of them!!

2. Watch the Sunset

Find a great spot in your area to catch the perfect sunset together. Don’t have one? It’s time then for a ‘road trip!’ Find the perfect place to watch a sunset. Mine is at the beach with my toes in the sand and a good glass of wine in my hand. This is one of my favorite things to do and guess what? It doesn’t cost a dime to do it.

3. Pack a Picnic Lunch and Enjoy Time with Your Honey…

Throw a picnic lunch together and find a shady spot to enjoy the day with your honey! Talk, laugh and make memories…its the little things that we women remember the most.

4. Play Board Games

Bring out the old favorites like Clue, Monopoly or Scrabble, or find a new board game to play. Someone has to rule Park Ave…might as well be YOU! None of these sound good? How ’bout some naked Twister?

5. Play Card Games

My personal favorite!  Have a card night. Don’t forget the wine and snacks to pass, that makes for even more fun! There are a lot of fun card games, but if this gets boring? How about a little strip poker? Now all bets are OFF! Make new fun playful memories as the layers literally unfold…

6. Have a Scavenger Hunt

Have a fun night out scavenger hunt. Think of some creatives fun ideas and work your magic! Making memories with your friends or that special someone is a special thing to do…and please… do remember the camera! Photos make the memories come alive years after the thrill and stories are gone. Loser has to make dinner for the winner!

7.How About Throwing a B.Y.O.E. Party?

This stands of Bring Your Own Everything. Guests are encouraged to bring food and drinks to share. Good times are fun times…and no one should get stuck in the kitchen making it all happen so help a friend out and have a BYOE party full of fun and good times with your close friends! It’s a fun way to meet new people who your honey shops with, golfs with, works with, etc., and a great way to get out and have some fun on a weekend evening!

8. Have a Bonfire or Campfire

Make s’mores, cuddle and drink wine by the camp fire and reminisce about good times and future plans with your honey.

9. Go Get Some Ice Cream

Hit up your local ice cream shop and indulge in your favorite dish! Get that sweet tooth craving and march on out to your local ice cream shop. Not feeling like hitting up the local ice cream store…then go to the market and pick up some ice cream, cherries, whip cream and take it home to make body sundaes with your honey…that is romantic and erotic!

10. Make Your Honey a Romantic Dinner

Plan a romantic, candlelight dinner for your spouse or loved one. Listen guys..romance need not be super expensive! It has been said that it is the thought that counts and how much time your guy/lady put into the thought process of the evening…those are the memories that you will endure and always keep close to your heart.

11. Try Grilling Something New…Get Sassy with some BBQ!

Try a new grilling recipe…every woman is addicted to Pinterest, so find something fun to make and give it a whirl! Add a little zing to your lifestyles and spice it up. It’s time to take this relationship to a new level.

12. Go to the Zoo

It has been said that it makes us feel good when we vent, and by vent I mean; go talk to the animals! Zoos are fairly inexpensive if you pack your own lunch and avoid the unnecessary extras. Make a fun day out of it! You may even make some new fury friends too! Yes go to the zoo, and then go home and kick it up a notch by getting a little wild in the bedroom…Be the hunter and allow her to be your tigress…she will slip into something sensual and erotic for some bedroom fun from Simply Delicious Lingerie! This will spice up any night and as a good friend would say…top it off with making some hot stinky sweaty monkey love!


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Relationships and Trust

If you would have asked me several months ago or even a few years ago what I found most intriguing in men and being in a relationship my answer might have been something off the chart…why? Probably because I had such high expectations of what I wanted in a man and how I thought a relationship was supposed to work. It may have also been because I hadn’t been in a relationship for a lengthy enough time to give a good man a chance.

In the last several months, I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect relationship, rather relations that are nourished with communication, and kindness. I’ve always been one who would say that if you are worth it, a man will do whatever it takes to make you happy. The truth is, it is not just about me or you. All relationships begin as a friendship and with the right nutrients and enough air to breathe on their own, they blossom over time into something that can be the start of a whole new chapter in one’s life.

 Get to know each other really well. Learn about each other’s biggest dreams and worst nightmares. We all have them, and our feelings do matter.  talk about your ideal plans for your life, where you see yourself in a few years? As mush as this doesn’t matter to many people, it is significant to some people, so lay your cards on the table. Discuss what your moral beliefs are. If you’re religious, discuss those beliefs now. Talk about how you both were raised. Share family stories that provide knowledge of how they’ve made you a better person. Learning about each other, your pasts and ideas on life is very important. Don’t carry baggage (mostly drama) into a new relationship. That is a BIG No-No, so clear the slate now!

Too many of us have preconceived notions about what relationships should or shouldn’t be. When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in…and we all know that frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship. Another ‘not so good’ sign is if you’re trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don’t see the same level of effort on your partner’s part. It’s not an 80/20 relationship, it has to be a 50/50. There has to be some sense of “we’re trying really hard, both making changes and that’s making a difference.’” Otherwise, you will beat yourself into the ground trying to make this person happy and in the end you will only be exhausted, and no one needs a relationship where the work is harder than the enjoyment/satisfaction of what you both share.

Has your relationship gone down hill? They say that often daily routines are one of the culprits and I agree. As their responsibilities grow and roles expand, they say that couples have less and less time and energy for each other. My non-professional advice? You have to make the time, it’s really just that simple. Nothing is so important that a 5 second text message stating that you miss him/her won’t put a smile on your partners face. A brief phone call s that they can hear your voice and know that you miss them and care is all one needs to make them smile and understand that although you are swamped with work, or chores or even family stuff that you care about them and wanted to show it. I’m not stating that your relationship is going down hill fast because of romance, but if may be, that too can be fixed. Surly this doesn’t mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion.

With Simply Delicious and Simply Luscious Lingerie you can go from fizzle to sizzle with our sexy lingerie and our bedroom costumes. Men love affection and getting their egos stroked, so ladies, you may have to kick it up a notch…and fellas, we women love being told that we look pretty, or that we smell good, etc.

Treat him or her as you’d like to be treated. In simple terms; ‘be nice!’ It’s not fair for one person to set boundaries and then not be expected to keep the same ones. If you want his/hers respect you are going to have to earn it. Treat them the way that you’d like to be treated.

What destroys a relationship? Jealousy has been said to be the culprit in the destruction in relationships as well as marriages. Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship (or the lack thereof.) Jealousy is the root of all evil. Truth be told; you can’t make your partner feel more secure” or “change their self-confidence.” This has to be up to them to do on their own. Jealousy can weigh down a relationship because it shows lack of trust, and sweetheart, without trust, you have no relationship at all.

If you think that this is untrue, come down off that cloud in La-La-Land and get with the realities of your own insecurities and stop blaming your partner for this one. Honestly, there are so many people who are very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how they can become better partners. Instead, they demand that their partners make  changes. This is a two-way street and no one ever said that being in a relationship/marriage would be easy. The problem at hand is this; too many people give up and don’t want to try. Divorce rates have skyrocketed over the past decade or two and why? Lack of trust, jealousy, and communication. If I have said it once I’ve said it a gazillion times. Talk, talk, talk to your partner.


Here’s how to decide if you are in the right relationship;

1) You don’t fear it, you go with the flow and enjoy the ride

2) You don’t snoop into their lives, especially their past

3) You don’t hide your relationship from people

4) You don’t act superior to them

5) You don’t lose yourself in the relationship, it’s NOT all about YOU

6) You don’t expect that person to change, you accept them JUST THE WAY THEY ARE!!

7) You don’t take, take, take

8) You miss them when they are away

9) You don’t smother them wanting to always be together, you give them space

10) You TRUST them!