Buying Lingerie For Her…

Women L-O-V-E gifts from their partners, lovers, sugar daddies, boyfriends, and husbands….but truth be told, one of the most stressful and dangerous things that you can do is to buy her a piece of lingerie that you like without taking into consideration what she likes or what might look and feel best on her. Men tend to fantasize about women. They imagine that moment when she walks into the room with a smile and and a hint of what she has hidden underneath her clothes. A man will undress a woman with his eyes in a matter of seconds.

What piece of lingerie will look best on her? How will it make her feel? You certainly would not want to put something on that made you feel uncomfy or awkward so why on earth would you torment her by giving a gift that was more for you rather than her? You certainly are not going to be the one wearing it.

First off all of you should know that the phrase/term “one size fits most” is so not true. You wouldn’t go to the gas station with $20.00 and expect to fill up a Hummer so why would you buy her a piece of lingerie that say one size fits most that looked like it was a smaller size if she is had a thicker build? Think about it…Women love feeling classy, and confident. It raises their sexual desires. If you buy your lady lingerie that is too tight or too small or not the right style or color for their skin tone or body she’ll hate it….so let me spare you the agony of doing so and tell you that if you wish to make her happy and you would like to buy her something sexy for your time together, pay close attention to her needs.

I think that speaking as a woman I can honestly say that I would prefer a man ask me what size I wore rather than him not go and try to make an educated guess. By guessing you know he isn’t going to get it right, and you then will be left with a beautiful gift that doesn’t fit or accentuate your curves as it should. My non-professional advice? Don’t be afraid to ask her what size she wears in underwear. Be careful if you are looking at sexy matching sets. Undergarments sizes are pretty much in tune with lingerie pieces so if you know her bra size and not the size of her booty, you may end up with a set that makes your breasts look super hot and where as her ass will feel smashed into a garter or skirt. Women’s sizes are all different. Not one of us are perfectly proportioned. Now is not the time to ‘guess’ about her size. The night is about sensual desires and she’ll feel a whole lot more desired when her intimate apparel makes her feel like a million bucks!

So, remember this; before you even think twice about shopping for what you ‘think’ she’d look hot in, think long and hard about what she would like. What selection will make her the happiest? Tonight is about her. The most important things to remember when buying lingerie as a gift? It’s NOT for You!

Remember who you are buying lingerie for and tailor your future choices to this. No two women are alike, and none of us have the same build or size. If you buy something in a style she doesn’t usually wear then the chances are most likely that you’ve screwed it up good. It’s not for you remember….it is for her. If you buy it in a color or style that she doesn’t usually wear  it may look bad on her. Why in the hell would you buy her the most sensual piece of undergarment  if the color looks poorly on her? Select the color that makes her look exquisite. You want her to look and feel sexy and stunning. You want tonight to be about desires, passion, and sexual gratification. You want to bring out the naughty in her. If lingerie is not her thing, perhaps a fantasy costume for the bedroom?
The Never to Forget Golden Rule; You are buying lingerie for her…and NOT for yourself!
Do you want to wear it? Probably not. Oh and please don’t go into a lingerie boutique asking the sales girl for her opinion because she has never met your lady before and she might make the wrong suggestion. You don’t want to know what size she wears, you are not buying for her, nor do you want to know what color she likes….unless you plan on going home and sleeping with her? Asking for her input and opinion is all right, just don’t put all your eggs in one basket and bank on your lady liking the same thing that your sales girl does. If you really care about this woman it’s time to get it right fellas.  How can you do this? Shop online! That’s right. You can sit and ponder for hours and hours going back and forth on a variety of items that you chose and narrow it down to one or two that you think would best suit her. It makes sense, and it is less time-consuming. Simply Delicious Lingerie and SImply Luscious Lingerie are open 365/24/7. We’re here for you all the time, at your convenience!


Buy something alluring. Do not purchase something slutty. If you do just think of the message you are sending. Do you want your gift to say “oh baby you’re special and I love you” or “hey baby I just wanna boink you!?”


My suggestion? Simple is sexy. If it is going to take her 20 minutes to get into it why bother? The less buttons, snaps and ties it has the better! I’m not saying that these aren’t good,…oh no, I am simply saving save them for a time when you desire prolonged foreplay. Babydolls, chemises, and teddies are great. Consider something with a robe to cover up also. Not every woman wants to come out of the bathroom with it all hanging out. Isn’t it more fun to be curious and unwrap her like a gift? Stockings, thigh highs and garters are quite the turn on! Buy these to complete the attire. They will definitely compliment the piece. They serve as the perfect accessories.


Just Do the Math…Research her needs!
Before you shop, if you aren’t sure of her size, wait until she goes out and then rummage through her underwear drawer. Try to find things with the label in it and write down the size. Listen to her needs. When she talks about romance what is she saying? Buy her something beautiful that she can’t wait to put on! Shop Simply Delicious Lingerie for her special something. We are your everyday sexy!





Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit   

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Love, Lust, and Passion…Does it Fade?

Now, I’m no expert here but tell me if this sounds familiar to any or you? After you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’re likely to encounter a time when the passion dies down? Is yours fading? Yes? No? Do we sacrifice passion for feeling safe and secure? It is indeed ironic, now that baby boomers can have as much sex as they want, they seem to have lost their desire for it. That’s right…fizzle. Kaput! Common thinking is that romance and passion fade over time. Familiarity, comfort, security take over. A newer more hopeful theory is that we unwittingly degrade romance and passionate sex, place it in the background, and bring security and safety into the foreground. We squeeze the life out of the relationship.

Many men are cherished but starving lovers. They know their wives love them. That’s why they have stayed all these years. But what hurts so much is that they’ve never felt wanted by her. It is so difficult not to take such repeated rejection personally.

For some people, love and desire go hand in hand. For others, emotional intimacy shuts down erotic response. Is it possible to experience lust and excitement with the same person you look to for comfort and stability? Is intimacy knowing everything about each other? Or does it include maintaining a sense of separateness and consequently, mystery? Feeling erotically impoverished in relationship is draining and refusing to tolerate this situation allows one to bring more authenticity to the partnership. This is not without risk and often takes one beyond one’s comfort zone. It is, however, another way of taking care of a marriage.

Erotic intimacy is an act of giving and taking. We must enter the erotic space of our partner without fear that we will lose ourselves. At the same time, however, we need to surrender to the experience of self-absorption while in another’s presence without the fear of being abandoned.

Everyone falls into certain patterns that are comfortable. Is that it? Do we just get ‘to comfortable’ with our partner? Is there some truth to this? Try breaking out of your comfort zone every so often, you’ll experience a sense of newness in your relationship. It’s important to seek out that certain spark you felt when you first got together with your partner. Those feelings are still there, you just might need to be creative in finding ways to bring them out again.

Here are some ways that you can reignite the passion in your relationship:

1. Go out of your way. That’s right…YOU. It’s not all about YOU…so do try to do something for him/her. Remember at the beginning of your relationship how you would go out of your way to make your partner extra happy? Make these efforts again! It’ll surprise your partner and be a reminder about how much you love them.

  • It doesn’t have to be an everyday thing, but everyone deserves a little “above and beyond” treatment!

2. Show your gratitude. You often think to yourself how grateful you are that your partner did something for you, and it’s important to let your partner know of your gratitude, too.

  • You can do this through better communication and positive actions. Many times a simple, “Thank you for…” statement will let him know how much you appreciate his efforts.

3. Be considerate. Sometimes your partner is the only one who will allow you to be blunt and abrupt. It’s important to vent, but remember to act considerate around your partner as much as you can.

4. Spend time alone together. Everyone is busy, but you need to make the extra effort to have alone time together. It’s still important to make dates with each other and do things you’ve never done before. My parents were just married for 50 years and they still have date night every Wednesday.

5. Show affection. There are certainly ways to show your affection for your partner beyond bedroom activities. Show your love for each other with gentle touches and hugs. Snuggle together on the couch and just enjoy the closeness. Get a little crazy…do something that you generally would not do to spark his/her interest.

6. Seek adventure. Kick it up a notch. Get daring…Everyone has his or her own definition of adventure. You and your partner may even find different things adventurous. Do some of these activities together. Engaging in exhilarating activities can certainly ignite the passion. If you don’t know where or how to get started…I have 2 words for you; REDDI WHIP. Every fridge should be well stocked with this as well as canned chocolate syrup, cherries, and ice cream. Make a body sundae. You don’t have to do this every day…but an occasional pastry treat of sorts might be just what the doctor ordered! Draw her a hot bath, and imagine her a body sundae to devour!

7. Enjoy your own alone time. On the other side of the coin, it’s a good idea to spend time away from your partner as well. Everyone needs space at times. Also, time apart can build up the anticipation for some of the things you may have planned with your partner. Alone time is all well and good, but what happens after the busy day is what keeps the lines of communication going. I’ll say this in 2 words….PILLOW TALK. Have it, love it, and appreciate it.

8. Share your dreams and your goals. Keep an open conversation with your partner about your future plans. Things may not always go according to plan, but it’s good to talk about your dreams and goals. Support one another!

  • While it’s fun to discuss what things were like at the beginning of your relationship, it’s also enjoyable to discuss where you think things are going.

9. Surprise! Surprise your partner with a gift. It doesn’t have to be something expensive; in fact, you could even make it yourself. Just explore some thoughtful ideas that will let your partner know that you care about them. is a great place to find luxury and sexy lingerie at affordable prices!

 You’ll find passion in your relationship as long as you make an effort to break up the monotony. Communicate well, spend time together, and explore new activities together. When you do, you’ll discover the keys to a successful passionate relationship.You and your partner are headed in a new direction. Instead of a split between love and lust, your new path lies in the tensions between opposites – committed love and red hot sex, security and excitement, continuity and novelty, safety and adventure, comfort and passion.

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Valentines Day…

It’s right around the corner…you know that special day when women love being pampered by their partner. The day when you can show your mate that you care by giving a gift that says “You are special!” Valentine’s Day is traditionally a day in which people express their love to one another by presenting gifts, such as cards, candy, flowers and other symbols of love or affection, but lingerie has become a very popular gift in the over the years and it’s statistics are growing. Let’s face it, lingerie is best appreciated by adults only and wouldn;t you reather see your mate in something hot,mouth watering and oh so sexy vs indulging in a big box of high calorie chocolates?

 Though generally directed towards women, there are plenty of options for men as well.  And don’t think this is a gift only for young and fit bodies….  lingerie comes in all sizes and shapes, just like we do. We’re getting a new line soon and cannot wait to share it with you! You’ll find many new pieces for Valentines Day treats that both you and your special someone will adore! At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are making some changes in the next few weeks to our website and we’ll have beautiful new lingerie from sizes S to 5X for you to choose from. Watch for our plus size store Simply Luscious Lingerie to launch later this winter.

Shop with Simply Delicious Lingerie and give her that gift that says “WOW!” Our new high end selection will be appealing, alluring, pleasing, seducing, tantalizing and teasing!
There’s a reason why scantily clad bodies are generally deemed sexier than naked bodies…  because they leave just enough to the imagination, where perfection can exist despite the reality.  Make sure your gift of lingerie allows the imagination to run wild… and also try to accentuate the best part of the body on the object of your affection…..  if they’re sensitive about a little too much flesh here or there, buy something which will make THEM feel comfortable and sexy and discreetly hide their flaws.  Remember, the more comfortable THEY are, the more comfortable they will be sharing with YOU. Pamper your partner this Valentines Day!





Sexy Lingerie…We’ve Got It!

What is it about a woman and lingerie that is so captivating, intriguing and stunning? Where might one go to find it? Simply Delicious Lingerie, that’s where. No you aren’t followed around a store by a sales clerk,  you can shop with confidence, and know that your confidentiality and respect will be earned by us. What do women think about intimate apparel?  Well, It’s honestly not at all uncommon for a woman to own extremely sexy lingerie that she likes the look of, but it’s just not a flattering look when she actually wears it. That is one reason why it’s important to be sensible when picking out intimate apparel – or really any kind of apparel. Remember that in order for people to view you as sexy, you have to feel it yourself first.

Treat yourself to a spa treatment or something similar and it will boost your efforts to look  and feel even more attractive because you’ll just feel so good! When it comes to women’s lingerie, mixing it up is important to keep things fresh. Try various types of different sexy lingerie and remember which ones look best on you. Most Basques will shape your silhouette, and all babydolls will make you feel irresistible, but you mustn’t forget about sexy corsets and all benefits they bring in. That will make it much easier to find the perfect piece for your ensemble. These are the basic rules of lingerie shopping, and they’re something that every woman should keep in mind.

 When it comes to sexy lingerie, all women – no matter what sizes or types their bodies are – want just two things from it and those things are to look good and feel good. If wearing lingerie doesn’t make a woman feel sexy, then clearly there’s a problem. Lingerie must be enticing both visually and sensuality and make a woman look beautiful while also setting the right mood. Ultimately, a good piece of intimate apparel should be able to pull a man’s attention away from anything.

 Let’s do a run down of the history of lingerie, shall we? It’s hard to believe how quickly women’s lingerie has evolved in the 1900’s. Prior to the 1920’s, lingerie was long and fully covered a woman’s assets. While it might have been sexy enough for men back then since all they could see of a woman not in lingerie was her face, it certainly wouldn’t cut it now. Thankfully, women started taking a stand for themselves and showing men that they were beautiful, and they started by showing more skin.

There isn’t much to the history of sexy teddies, but the transition is certainly an interesting one. As women began to bare more skin and wear shorter skirts, they no longer could wear the long bulky women’s underwear of the day. Once mini-skirts came into the picture, sexy teddies did too. During the 1920’s when teddies made their first appearance, they still provided a lot of coverage for a woman from her chest to her hips, but it was still much more appealing than the previous garments women had to wear under their large dresses.

At the time, teddies were more for comfort and less for sex appeal, although famous women who would do pin-ups embellished the traditional teddy for photo shoots. On average, the teddy wouldn’t show more skin when considered “sexy” but would have better embroidery and special designs which made them more attractive. While teddies still existed after the 1940’s, they were hardly the talked about style for women’s underwear. During that time other lingerie styles such as babydolls and the extremely showing thongs and g-strings had taken the front of the market. In the 1990’s, teddies were able to make a comeback although they had to take on some of the traits of the new forms of sexy lingerie.

Unlike the original teddy from the 1920’s, the new 1990 sexy teddies were scandalous. They showed a lot of skin by either using a sheer fabric or the design of the teddy itself was altered so that coverage was less and less. The length of the hips shortened so that a teddy would just cover a woman’s private area, and some of them even had a thong backing to show off a woman’s posterior.

Even sexy teddies of today still tend to cover women more than most types of lingerie so bodysuits and  teddies will often be in the same category. Traditionally bodysuits would cover the entire body, but now even a full coverage teddy might be considered a bodysuit as well. While bodysuits haven’t undergone the same test of time that sexy teddies have, both types of women’s lingerie have found their niche in the modern world and are still evolving as women’s and men’s taste in sexual appeal changes. Stop by our website and browse our wide selection of stunning lingerie. Our staff is here to answer any questions, or Q&A Fashionista Tantalizing Tina is here to assist you in selections or to voice her opinion, and although she is not an expert licensed in the field she is intelligent and loved by so many.  Any Q&As need to be addressed through myself first and I forward all inquires to the column writers. is the best way to reach me.

Every woman is beautiful just with he own natural graces, but that doesn’t mean that beauty can’t be enhanced a bit. That’s what women’s lingerie is for. The key to choosing the right intimate apparel is to find the right mix of sex appeal and comfort. However, finding the perfect selection of lingerie can be a bit of a chore simply because there are so many choices available. Stop by and shop with us!  Spend $100 or more and get FREE SHIPPING in the USA only through the holidays. Spend $50 or more and save $10 off your order. At checkout enter code: 10-OFF and save! Thank you for the opportunity to get to know you. we appreciate you stopping by.