7 Daily Doses to a Healthy Relationship

      Practice Healthy Relationship Habits…

•   Respect and being Respected. Life and relationships are about meeting in the middle. I’ve always said that it takes two to make a relationship work and two to make it fail. Trust me, I know this first hand. Relationships can endure a lot of bumps in the road if you respect one another. Relationships are about finding your own inner happiness and then spreading the love with your partner or mate. Before you can love you have to love and respect yourself. The two go hand in hand. Respect is not something that one should have to think about in a relationship, you just DO IT! How so? Little ways…call her and say hello out of the blue, text her in the middle of the day and tell her that you’re thinking about her/him. Pick up her dry-cleaning. Surprise her by cooking dinner because you know darn well that she had a rough day at work. Listen to her when she speaks, and really pay attention to her thoughts, wants and needs.

•   Trusting and being Trusted. I’m a shoot from the hip kinda gal and that’s how you should be too! If you are not, you need to be a straight shooter. Trust is the great equalizer in a good relationship; without it there is no good! A good foundation in a healthy love relationship is built on trust and trust must be earned. 

Holding back on the truth about how you feel, only telling part of the story, fudging on what your wants and needs are to your partner slowly erodes the trust in your relationship. Total honesty brings about awesome trust. Do all that you can to achieve it and have a relationship that can endure it all.

•   Always go that extra mile. Don’t wait for her to do it- you do it…and by it, I mean anything to make her smile. Motivate each other to be the best you can be. Be inventive in coming up with ways to inspire your love life. Never stop. NEVER! Push the romance envelope with a getaway in the mountains for a long weekend or if you are anything like be, be a toes in the sand kinda gal. Have fun, be creative and enjoy life. Life is a precious gift, don’t waste it pondering negative thoughts, do what makes you happy and your partner happy. Remember, you may not be perfect, but you are perfect in her eyes, and in retrospect that’s really all that matters now isn’t it?

•   Agree to Agree. It is important to understand that relationships seldom feel easy; however, a relationship is less of a struggle when two people agree to do whatever it takes to make it workable. Building a solid foundation is key folks. Without it, like quicksand you will sink and your relationship will not survive. This does not mean giving it your best shot and if it doesn’t work, you move on. Don’t be a quitter. This means doing whatever it takes!

•   Want your romance life to last a lifetime? Ok…2 Words:

Make Memories; How about creating a scrapbook of love? Don’t call me cheesy here…it’s a great way to remember all the wonderful things that you did together and a way to go back and look at your relationship whenever you need a reminder of good times. Stash your memories of special greeting cards, matchbook covers that remind you of great visits, snapshots, a pressed flower, ticket stubs, a handwritten love poem, a funny, thoughtful valentine. 

Celebrate spending time together. Do things that make the two of you happy. Memories tell stories and stories are passed down from generation to generation, so give everyone something to talk about.

•   Spread a little sunshine. That’s right, sunshine. What does this mean? Don’t hover over one another. Make them happy! Give each other permission to their own space. You should have your friends as a couple but you should also have a few close friends that you like to hang out with one night a week, or month. These could be life long friends or even coworkers. It is healthy to give one another space. No one wants to be smothered. Relationships need to grow, so feed them. Give her a daily dose of love. Nothing grows well in the shade! If you are forever in your loved one’s pocket, you can stifle the love so freely given. Even love partners need time alone. You need space. I know I need mine. Too much togetherness is not good. Go out shopping with your friends, or to a ball game or concert. This shows that you can and speaks volumes of trust.

 

•   Are you pushing your partner’s hot buttons? If not…TRY IT! …But push them spontaneously. I’m not talking about the ones you shouldn’t push. Push the turn-on buttons. No better way than to every now and again crank up the heat in the bedroom or any room for that matter. Know what delights and pleases your partner and push those buttons, and do it most often. Does he like thigh highs and garters under a trench coat? Does he like your sensual perfume on his pillow case? Find what makes your partner, lover, mate tick and load him up with your ammunition. Knowing what makes him or her tick and turning them on at the right times is KEY to a fun, happy and most desired and sexual relationship. Remember, you’ve made it this far, so remind her that she is everything in your eye. Something tells me that you got a groovy kind of love…

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Flirting and a Woman’s Body Language…

There are times when we meet a man or see him from a distance and feel attracted or connected….We tend to wear our emotions at times on our sleeve as one might say nonetheless, we find it upsetting when we can not figure out what a man is trying to say with his body or gestures. The indirectness of a man’s affection may mislead a woman into thinking he has no attraction for her. That couldn’t be more true according to the latest statistics. Men are not as sharp on their feet when it comes to emotions, reading their thoughts and testing the waters…we women on the other hand have this one noted ‘hands down!’ You see, men, unlike women don’t have the flirting skills critiqued. We can flirt with hand gestures or by simply using our eyes. Takes notes here guys; these are some very important tips to learn and remember about women.

 

There are many ways that we flirt; We do so by playing or twirling with our hair…it’s a sign of being nervous or some call it playful arousalHow about ‘the closer look’ signal? Don’t know what that is? It’s the look you get when she tugs on her sunglasses and gives you the ‘come hither’ look….This is commonly known as the ‘you took my breath away’ glance. Then there’s the shoe dangling…it’s the shoe is half off it means that she likes you and is comfortable being around you, well enough to begin letting her guard that is, and as we all know, most women do have a protected guard of some sort. 

It’s all in the hand movement fellas, so pay close attention please! How about when a women does the glamour pose? It’s when she arches her back pushing her breasts forward and wither playing with her hair or issuing some pretty sensual body gestures. Lick the lips…OH BROTHER…are you in trouble now. This means that if a woman places her tongue at the side of her lip gently moving it across the lips in a soft sensual position you are being sought out! 

 Look at her eyes; my grandmother used to tell me that the ‘eyes’ tell it all and ‘Ay Caramba’ was she right on the money! Did you know that if a woman’s pupils are dilated that it means she is sexually aroused by you.

 The hair toss, the lip nibble, the ’tilt and smile’ and the stroking of her skin or touching body parts, and the famous ‘knee pointing.’ If a woman likes you she will cross her legs and face them toward you. This means she likes you and is comfy with you, if they are faced away from you or outwards, it may not be a good sign guys. Plus the more leg exposed, the more sexual feeling. 

 Many wonder what is the number one suggestion of flirting? Her smile…When a woman has an interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded room and it is definitely one of the major signs she’s flirting. It can take a little effort on her part to do so, you see, we gals never jump the gun too quickly when it comes time to a little ‘romance’ …so if she’s exerting this kind of effort, engage in her flirting by returning the smile. So what’s a fella to do? Pay attention, sharpen your own flirting skills and learn to read her body language! 

 

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HaNdCuFFs anD HeeLs…

Recently I was asked, what do couples like to do to tease and please? What is simple and erotic along with playful? Two words…Handcuffs and heels; Who doesn’t love this paired duo? Any man or woman who says they don’t….stop reading here, please…I beg of you! These are two of the sexiest and most sensual ways to show your him that you are sassy spunky, and seductive. The easiest way to lure your partner into the bedroom, is with these sweet treats! Tonight…why don’t you be the temptress?

Know the do’s and don’ts of these two and how to use them in a combined effort and get ready to explore a number of playful possibilities.

 

Handcuffs

Handcuffs are one of the most popular adult sex toys to find their way into the bedroom boudoir. No matter how far back in human history you go, you will find references to holding down or tying up a lover’s wrists to enhance sexual excitement and increase orgasmic potential. Although they are a fixture of bondage fantasies, handcuffs have become so popular that they are no longer reserved for the wild and kinky hedonist; creative couples routinely use them to introduce some variety in the bedroom. The widespread use of handcuffs has led to a huge market in wrist-restraints that give you the sensation of erotic bondage without risking the discomfort of wearing metal in bed. Of course, there are those who adore the rigid confinement of metal-they may opt for heavy toys, such as forged fetters or police-grade cuffs. But adult toy merchants have perceived that the sensual taste for tying up a lover’s wrists is simply too common not to bring new changes to old equipment and appeal to a broader market. You can purchase padded leather wrist-cuffs and even satin restraints with velcro closures for harmless fantasy play. One note of advice: avoid the cheap metal “joke” handcuffs: they are poorly designed for intimate situations. At Simply Delicious Lingerie, we sell a variety of adult toys and novelties.

 

Heels

Though many of us love high heels, many women choose not to wear them very often. Some are intimidated by high heels, while others have just never had the occasion to wear high heels. High heel shoes continue to go up in height, but have you noticed that as people lose their homes and jobs, that women are wearing more heels that are higher than ever? Sexy, glamorous, expensive – Oh YES, indeed they are. Click your heels together and say there’s no play like home…. Now get frisky and entice a little foreplay. At Simply Delicious Lingerie, we have everything to suit your needs…..stop by and visit our online boutique! Let us assist you in feeling and looking your best, feeling your sexiest and exploring your possibilities……

According to an article I read recently, it stated that since the 1930’s, it has been easy to predict economic disasters based on the types of high heel shoes that women wear…and thanks to the styles, they may have predicted our most recent recession.

What does high heels have to do with financial nightmares? Well, according to article, cheaper but taller heels, help the wearer to feel less depressed during this so called recession we are in.

Is there anything that high heel shoes can’t do? Men look at heels as sex appeal on women….yes our feet might hurt like hell, but suck it  up gals, you’re about to set a new record for keeping a mans interest in tact.

Either way, when a “high heel occasion” rears its ugly head, many will stay home with their trusted friend, the sneaker. If fear is keeping you out of the high heels you covet, set your phobias aside! Walking in high heels is not that difficult, and with a bit of practice, you’ll be stepping out in high heels in no time.

 

 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, plus size wedding day lingerie, plus size bridal lingerie, plus size honeymoon lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

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