Dating; For All the Single Ladies

In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what’s  a girl to do? It’s 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, or pushing forty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love?  Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren’t prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days…today it’s Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let’s talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle  just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.  It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at http://www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious.

You can specify any points that are really important to you, such as politics or religion. At the same time, if you are free and willing to move or travel, you can open up your choice to guys who live outside of your city, county, state or even country. These are men that you would never meet without the internet and they could be really great men looking for the same things that you are yet unable to find his mate locally. Internet dating is really the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.

Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

You can tell somebody where you are going and arrange for them to call you at a certain time to make sure everything is okay. If you are very nervous, you could even arrange a date where you go with a group or another couple that you know. This can take some of the stress out of the date if you are very shy. However, it is not the best way for you and your date to get to know each other. Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.

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ThiNgS tHat MaKe HiM tUrN HiS hEaD…

Are you captivating, classy, or stunning? Do you have what it takes to turn heads? What’s looking sexy without being sleazy? How far does one go to look hot to trot, but not enough to make those around you laugh behind your back with ridicule?My advice… Keep it real simple, and extraordinary. Keep that “wow” factor alive and keep him coming back for more! All boys like the candy so give them a little bit of sugar…slowly!

Adding a few unexpected touches and glamorous essentials will certainly will help do the trick. It’s about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin. Sexy looks work for any age or budget. Here’s how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty. Rule of thumb; a man will always turn his head in view of a classy woman, but a trashy woman won’t get you the time of day. It takes very little to catch his eye and his attention, so what are you waiting for?

1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way that will say “WOW!”

It doesn’t have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man’s white shirt (slightly over sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in.) Quite the turn on to men, and it makes your curves whatever they man be look sexy and appealing.

2. Tease him, but just a little….

No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive. Tease him with a little…not a lot. Give him something to make his mouth water and crave more…

3. Add a head piece

Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. …just not one like the princesses wore at the big royal wedding a few months ago that grabbed so much national attention. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes, for example; the fedora, the beret… to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with soft on the shoulders

Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look,…and quite the sexy eye-catcher! Something light and sensual.

5. Make it shine

Black may be super sexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you’re going for that over the top look. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine. You’ll stand out, but in a sassy and sensual way!

6. Adopt a simple look 

The pencil style  is a classic example of a dress with an allure all of its own, form-fitting, but not too tight, shows your curves and turns heads. My choice; the LBD. Never will you go wrong with this piece of history.

7. Wear shades

Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes. My eyes are important to me and yours should be too. I don’t leave home without my Pradas, Diors or Jimmy Choos!

8. Make a grand ole’ exit

 Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects. Nothing says “see you later” better than that vivid image that will be stuck in is head when you walk away….so make it sexy, stunning and mind jolting!

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics

Forget everything you’ve ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Yeah they look hot, but cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suede’s are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other’s touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. How about RED?

Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; oranges for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. Pucker up gals! Red is hot and sexy!

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Relationships…Does a Woman Need a Man’s Approval?

Are you contemplating a new relationship with someone who likes you but wants to change your ways because he thinks you would then be the ‘icing on the cake’ so to speak? We all like it sweet, but as an old friend once said “Sugar, You don’t need a man’s approval, you are in a league all of your own!” Somewhere along the line, a rumor was started that women became known as let’s just say; “the weaker sex”…said no one ever. Ok I’ll bite…

So why don’t you tell that to Annie Oakley, Betsy Ross, Beyonce, Cleopatra,  Ellen DeGeneres, Joan of Arc, Madonna, Mother Teresa, Rosa Parks or Susan B. Anthony? These women, and so many others that I have not made mention of, all strong-willed have endured their own fair share of life, heartaches, set backs and disappointments nonetheless, they are symbols of strength amongst women today. Obviously those women, an army of warriors and my guess is ALL of your friends would fiercely disagree right? We are not the weaker sex, and I am sure that I could get women around the globe to back me on this one.

So why are you surrendering yourself to get the approval of some guy? Women have radar and we generally use it all the time…I do, and it’s usually always right and has never let me down before…well, maybe once. The thing is gals that if you meet a good man and want to be with him, you should not need his approval for anything. He should like/love you for who you are with all of your pro’s, con’s, faults, and no faults highs and lows. You’re falling for an idea that psychologists call the “approval trap.” If you seek his approval, there is no turning back my friend. Before you start to defend yourself, yes, it’s great when you get affirmation from friends and co-workers for what you do. What do your friends think about this? Your true friends will try to make you understand why you should not compromise your happiness to appease him. Wake up girlfriend…can you not see the forest through the trees?

The problem is when you depend on their approval for who you are you lose touch with your independence and what makes you so special. Am I making any sense here? Do you see the difference? Handing over your self-esteem to anyone is a dangerous and usually a really damaging choice that should not be taken lightly. The person whose approval you believe that you must have can respond honestly or dishonestly. Are you willing to risk all of who you are for someone that easily? As another friend once said “Did you fall off the turnip truck and smack that nugget too hard on the pavement?” Since when do you need someone’s approval?

 He could choose to be an encourager to you or he might verbally take you down to his level. Changing who you are to gain his approval is so wrong on so many levels. The price is simply too high.To attract a man who is secure in himself and ready to be an equal partner in a relationship, you have to be that kind of person. Are you that kind of woman? Are you emotionally stable, secure with who you are and happy with yourself? If the answer is no, girlfriend you need to take a good lookie deep within and ask yourself why? Once you determine what is causing you these issue you can address them and work on fixing them. You’ll be on the highway to becoming a better you. You truly can become a better YOU! My grandmother used to always tell me that if you don’t like something …change it! Like minds attract you know? If you’re an insecure and a clingy woman (which oh geez I hope you are not) who has no idea who she is, or what her goals or aspirations are in life, then why do you think you’ll attract a man who is the opposite?

The type of man that you don’t want is counting on you to play the old role of doing whatever it takes to snag him. There are a lot of fish in the sea, so do not think for a minute that you have to latch onto the first one that comes along and grabs your bait. 

 Are you making changes with yourself because it is what ‘you desire’ or what you know he likes? Do you change your wardrobe from business classic to low cut and glamorous because that’s what he likes? You begin doing things his way and for him, and you lose sight slowly of you. In no time, you make excuses to ditch your friends because he wants to “be alone” or “expand your circle.” Do you seriously think that the only way to snatch this guy is to give up your life and your identity to be his personal toy. Bad deal for you, great deal for him. Want my personal NON-PROFESSIONAL advise? DON’T DO IT! Don’t lose who you are. Don’t lose your ethics and values for some schmuck that thinks he can change you. Be happy with the way you are and you will find a man who will love you for all of those qualities that make you so unique.

History does have a way of repeating itself. It also shows men as pursing the hidden treasure. When motivated that the prize is worth the effort, men go to any lengths to win and get what they want. What if that treasure is you? Are you willing to make sacrifices to better suite his needs? Are you willing to lose your identity for him? Are you crazy? Any man that tries to change so many things about you that make you YOU is not the man you want to be with,…not now, not ever. Think long and hard before jumping into this frying pan ladies, the fire may be too hot and you will surely get burned!

 

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Sports and Women who LOVE the Game…

In my opinion, there is nothing sexier to a man than meeting a sharp and yet entertaining woman who knows the game. She appears and pulls out a bar stool in a local pub or at an airport bar and starts shooting the shit about sports. She actually knows what she’s talking about. Does this catch a man off guard? You bet it does. Many women look pretty and play the role well but how many actually know the sport and the players? My guess actually is quite a few. I believe that the women who know the game love it for a reason.

Growing up outside of Cleveland, Ohio- I grew up in a dominating household and family full of mostly men and their love for the game. At holiday gatherings at my grandparents the family divided; you were either a Browns or a Steeler fan. It got pretty intense! I was one of the only girls in my neighborhood amongst mostly all boys that knew the difference between a football and a basketball, so it was either sink or swim with the guys and although it seemed like a curse at the time, it taught me some valuable lessons leading me then a few years later to meeting the man I would one day marry who taught me everything else I’d ever need to know about sports and then some.

While most girls my age as a youth were playing Barbies, I was sitting in front of the television patiently anticipating to see who would win the Heisman Trophy Award. You have to have passion for the game, and I did. I grew up outside of Cleveland Ohio and attended all the Browns home games as my father always had tickets. There were days that we froze our asses off in that stadium with the winds blowing off of Lake Eric but the thrill of being there amongst such well know athletes and professionals made me forget all about how cold my feet really were.

I grew up and although I stayed girlie, I still loved sports. Some things just don’t change. I enjoyed the Cleveland Browns, the Indians, Notre Dame, MSU, Cleveland Cavaliers, Detroit Lions, The Colts, Miami Dolphins, The Astros, The Spurs, Rockets, Houston Texans, Grand Rapids Griffins, Grand Rapids Rampage. My personal favorite…the Detroit Pistons; I spent many of games as a season ticket holder watching the Bad Boys rock the house. Those were to days…and what memorable games and play offs! Final 4 games, NBA Playoffs, Golf, Hockey, Indy and Nascar regardless of the sport, I loved them all. Whether it was a Super Bowl or the Fiesta Bowl, the frenzy built as the game got underway. You’re never too old to learn to love the sport. My daughter works in sports marketing for a company in Brooklyn, NY and because of her, along with my nephews who play the game, I am now learning about Lacrosse. Where ever I’ve lived, I found a game to attend. I’ve even made a few friends in the sporting world that play professional ball. Whether it was college ball or pro, I had a fancy for it.

My children live in Manhattan and sure does feel like my second home. I love NYC so I am thrilled to cheer for their locals as if I too were an abiding part of this beautiful city that they now call their permanent home. Regardless of where I’ve lived, or in what city I visit, I always enjoy the events. Does it get any better than this? Sure it does, because now I do something else that I also love, something else that is my passion- I sell panties and lingerie. I remind women that regardless of their shape, size or weight, they are as sexy.  Boosting women’s confidence and feeling that sense of achievement is almost as great as intercepting the ball and rushing for a touchdown. Yes, some girls can eat their cake and have it too!

Why is it though that a lot of men don’t think that a woman can understand and love a sport? A while back, I walked into a pub at an airport, pulled out a bar stool and ordered myself a cocktail. Honestly I meet more men and athletes in airports. I sat quietly minding my own business as two men next to me sat yapping about sports and as I sat  and listened, (ok, yes eavesdropping)…I couldn’t help but join in to their conversation. You see, their conversation was about the Heisman Trophy winners. They swore up one side and down the other that Earl Campbell won in 1976. Ohhh so close but soooo wrong. That’s when I tapped one of the gentleman on the shoulder and said “Excuse me sir, you’re both wrong!” They looked at me and laughed. They were so sure that they were right and I was dead wrong that I suggested to them that they put their money where their mouth was, as I reached in my handbag, slapped down a hundred-dollar bill, raised my eyebrow, and said, “Are you sure boys?” Needless to say that was the easiest $200 I  made. Everyone knows that Tony Dorsett won in 1976 and that Earl Campbell won in 1977.

The moral of the story here is; please, don’t judge a book by its cover. Don’t assume that because a woman looks classy and is dressed sexy that she hasn’t a clue about sports because just as you think this, a woman will walk into a room, just as I did and prove you wrong. It’s not a curse, in all honesty, men are flattered to meet a woman who can talk sports. I enjoy the game, with my heart and soul, I always have. I love the trivia, and can sing the Heisman winners like singing the A,B,Cs. You see, men love women who are sexy, but when they meet a woman who can carry a conversation with them regarding the game, you’re instantly in an entire different ball park!

 

 

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Drop Inches and Pounds…

Day in and day out women and men are struggling to drop weight and inches. It’s frustrating, mind boggling and oh so tiresome. We try numerous diets and do everything to get the job done and most often we fall short, get disappointed and then we eat. Sound familiar? Are you seeking a sure-fire weight loss method without all the rules and trappings of the latest fad diets? If so, you’ll relish this great news: Losing weight doesn’t have to be complicated or exhausting any longer! It can be fun and easy if you do it the right way…and yes, there is a healthy right way to drop inches and pounds without causing your body harm! 

One of the primary reasons why people don’t lose weight, even when their intentions are good, is because it feels overwhelming not to mention stressful as hell. If you can make it less overwhelming and much less stressful, you’re more likely to see success and shed those unwanted inches and pounds. Don’t try to do it all now…take baby steps. One day at a time, and after a short time, you’ll be dropping it like it’s hot!

If you look at your weight loss in small steps, it becomes much more manageable and feels like something you can do. Mindset is everything when it comes to losing weight, so don’t assume that you aren’t capable. You can do anything you put your mind to, including losing those extra pounds.

Break Down Your Weight Loss Goals

Weight loss goals that are too large – like trying to lose 50 pounds – may stop you in your tracks. Start by stating that you want to lose 10 pounds, then 20, and so on. When you start off with a higher amount of weight it could seem impossible, so you give up before you even start. You might not feel like you can lose 50 pounds, but can you lose ten pound? What about twenty? Those sound like better numbers, and they aren’t so frightening.

If you lose only one pound per week, you can achieve your 50-pound weight loss goal in less than a year. At two pounds per week, that timeline would come down to only six months. That’s a realistic time frame and a reasonable goal.

How to Lose Those Pounds

Another thing that stops people from losing weight is that they don’t know how. You can learn how to lose weight properly, though, and it’ll help you feel oh-so-much better about yourself! More confidence is an attractive quality, no matter what weight you are, so the sooner you feel better about yourself, the sooner it’ll start showing to the world. This means NO NEGATIVE NANCY!

Diet and exercise are still the keys to weight loss, but you shouldn’t look at them as short-term, painful things that you must suffer through until you reach your goal. That’s not the way to lose weight and keep it off, so avoid that mindset. 

Instead, make small changes that you can implement easily into your daily routines. Those changes will make a big difference over time. Change your lifestyle…it’s as easy as that. 

Here are 4 easy strategies you can use to drop the inches and lose weight; 

 1. Cut out just one snack or ‘bad’ food. You don’t have to change your entire way of eating overnight. You can do it by changing one food, snack, or meal at a time. For me this means no more Cheetos while I write blogs at night or work on my websites. Instead I make a small salad or grab fruit. Oh I still love Cheetos, and I can’t drop that habit, but I can eat less of them and more of something healthier for me. 

2. Find a fun way to get some light exercise. You might not feel comfortable at the gym, but you can walk in place while you watch TV, pedal a stationary bicycle, or stroll around the block with a friend or family member. I have my thigh master on my desk chair and two 15 pound weights next to my desk and I use them while I’m on my computer. Don’t sit all day in the same place, get up and move around.

3. Get help. There are plenty of support groups for people who want to lose weight. Some of them can be found online, just a click away. If that’s not for you, get a friend or family member to encourage and help you with your goals. 

4. Encourage and reward yourself. As you lose weight, remember that your new eating patterns and exercise choices will become a way of life for you. This is a long-term solution that will be worth it as your waistline decreases and your health improves. Give yourself a treat as you reach each small goal, and plan for what you’ll do as the new, happier and thinner you!!!

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Dating Over 40; Dressing the Part, Acting your Age

Oh so often women wonder why men aren’t attracted to us, or why they get so turned off after a first date, but  have you looked at everything leading up to this first date to see what it was that went so terribly wrong? Could you have fixed it? Planning and preparation for this date means details girls and you need to look great because we have a lot of competition out there that can sweep a man away if we are too busy with our head stuck in the sand. Don’t muck it up.

So where do you start once he asks you out? In all honesty dressing for a date says a lot about what you think about yourself and about your guy. The outfit that you wear out should be one that makes his eyeballs fall out with lust and admiration. It’s not that you have to be phony or dress differently, but you do have to dress appropriately for the plans he’s made for the date. Most men that I know like sexy and simple. The little black dress is the only way to go in my opinion, nonetheless, there are a variety of things that you can wear to turn his head in a good way. My suggestions are quite simple actually, so please, pay attention to what he has in store for you, and if he doesn’t tell you ask how to prepare/dress.

 

In my opinion, it would be a really smart idea to ask the guy what kind of evening he has planned? If he wants to keep it a surprise, then ask whether you need to dress as you would for the office, for a sports event or for an elegant party. That gives you a range in which to choose your outfit. So many women that I know at my age are in their later 40s and want to dress like someone half their age. Not only is this a bad idea but it make you look so tacky and cheap. You didn’t get through your entire life riding on the tails of someone your daughter’s age or a woman in her 20’s or early 30s so for God sakes, dress the part, it shows your maturity and it labels you as someone with class…and truth be told men love classy women with taste.

 

How you dress says so much about who you are. This means get rid of the cheap crappy looking stuff in your closet and ask your friends for some help and reinforcement! If you have younger friends, don’t bother asking, they’re only going to give you suggestions of how they would dress and trust me, most if the time, you wouldn’t want to be caught dead walking out the front door.  If you go out in a halter with cleavage barely contained and a mini-skirt that slightly larger than his handkerchief, then you’re sending a message that he reads as “YES” and other women quickly label “slut.” Oh you’ll get plenty of attention, but the wrong kind of attention! Is that what you want?

 

Listen, there are stores to go to for really nice apparel at reduced costs… so when you go to a store, DO NOT go straight to the ‘juniors section!” You aren’t a junior and you’ll only make a complete fool out of yourself. Girlfriend you want to hold your head up and look good for this person. They deserve it and you need to represent not only who you are but you’re representing all the other middle-aged women out there.  Junior are meant for juniors, plain and simple…so stay out of that department all together! You may think you look good, but it’s embarrassing to say the least. 

 

Dressing for a date when you aren’t sure about the plans is like going to a job interview. If you don’t know what they interview is for and what position of the company, my suggestion is this; dress for the job you want, not for the job you have. There is a lot of competition so get it right. You only have this one chance, this one opportunity to show him that you are a woman with a good head on her shoulders. It’s better to dress up than to look under dressed. That means take the extra step, make some effort, and dress up just a bit more. 

 

For a date, apply that advice. If you aren’t sure what to wear, go with business casual and sensible shoes. Less is more. This means you don’t need to be all blingy and don’t wear a ton of make up. Men love simple and natural. If you are wearing so much make up that it takes layers to remove it, stop right here! If you wear a sleeveless top, bring along a light sweater, or a shawl since you don’t know whether you’ll be inside a chilly movie theatre or sitting outside at a patio restaurant after the evening temperatures drop. 

 

If you’re getting back into the dating scene after a few years, take time to look over the current magazines for casual styles. Go simple with colors too. Red, Black and White are the most popular and eye-catching colors. Then ask other women who have similar styles to yours what they would wear for a date. Ask for advice! People are more than willing to give it and you need it!

 

Basic rule of thumb: if you haven’t dated for five years or more, don’t wear what you use to wear on dates. Chances are with your dating scene absence with a wardrobe that needs to freshen up.So pull out that credit card or unfreeze your assets and splurge this one time! You don’t have to buy all new clothes – just edit your outfits and add a bold item that’s current.  Even if you’ve lost lots of weight and just got a face lift, don’t go shopping in the junior department after age 25! That is a serious NO and a huge turn off. Most men our age probably have daughters in their 20s and God only knows that he isn’t taking his daughter out so don’t embarrass yourself dressing like her! 

 

You’ll add to your age by trying to look too young, and you’ll be the laughing stalk. Act your age and damn it be proud of it! If you want to keep it very simple, you can never go wrong with a little black dress. I have two from Michael Kors that are simple and stunning. They don’t say ‘look at me, look at me’ …they say sophistication at it’s finest. After all, it’s about being comfortable and confident with who you are as a woman, yet realizing that a certain amount of effort is necessary to look tres jolie, very pretty. This look requires some basic classic pieces that never fade from fashion, creativity, and a sense of self-expression. This look is about communication. The eyes, the lips, the hair, are all ways in which a woman communicates. Fashion with style is not only about function and looking well, but is another way in which we communicate our inner self to the outer world.

 

Dressing  sleazy or provocative is out, unless you want to be labeled as trash. Trust me, simple is better and you can never lose in a LBD. Start the evening feeling good in an outfit that makes you feel special even before he walks through the door! Remember, you want to really stand out and if you have the right dress or outfit on, you will be a vision in his mind that stands out for a very long time. That memory of you will be embedded in his brain, so look good, smile and just be you…and you’ll have him coming back for more.

 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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Does Sex Sell?

Oh you better believe it…Sex sells! Advertising and sex have been tied together since advertising became a big business. The use of sexually suggestive images to sell just about everything really emphasizes the point that sex is a merchandiser’s best friend. One doesn’t walk into this type of business with blinders on. Being a woman in today’s society and feeling confident with who we are screams sex appeal to most men I know. It’s a sense of feeling like you can do anything and knowing that what you are wearing underneath your clothes gives you that sexy edge.

Sex is used to sell all sorts of products. Would you agree that sex really sells… best? I am a little bit bias due to the fact that I own a few lingerie shops myself, but in all reality, sex does sell….no matter how you slice it, it just does!

For the consumer, it makes sense to use sex to sell lingerie, men’s and women’s cologne/perfumes, even liquor, but what about using sex to sell some of these other products? Lingerie is a leading seller in the market today. Sex sells claims the old and undeniably true adage. We are sexual beings. Advertisers use this attribute by trying to associate their products and services with sexy imagery hoping that some of the hotness gets attached to their brand in the consumer’s subconscious mind.

However abusing your audience’s attention is a dangerous thing. Another thing to be cautious about is how much nudity is sufficient to grab eyeballs and what is too much thus considered offending. This is of course a cultural question. Usually the more religious your target market the less accepted it is to show bare body parts. For these reasons one needs to be careful where and how to use sex in advertising.

To a degree, fashion brands are going with the flow of a 24/7 media landscape in which the limits of what images are deemed acceptable are constantly being tested and expanded. While we are playing a role in communicating suggestive, if sometimes playful, sexually infused messages, brands and retailers are generally reluctant to discuss the impact of what they are doing. Now the brand is less important because of the dialogue that exists between consumers, and what makes a brand cool is what this new culture defines. Today, it’s social media, the conversation. You can’t understand your consumer if you do not have a dialogue. You don’t need much dialogue to discuss or describe sex. Lingerie suggests being provocative, sassy, saucy and spicy.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are working at creating advertisements that will show class, not trash. In retrospect, some would ask, “How is selling vibrators and toys in an adult novelty section not trash?” We don’t enforce the items, we sell them. I strongly believe that everyone has a right to do what they wish to do in the privacy of their own home or surroundings….you are purchasing the products from my web site whether they be beautiful corsets, baby dolls, cocktail dresses, gowns, swimwear, or novelties….one wouldn’t think that you were going to sit on a porch swing and use the toy…..NO, you are discreet in how you use or wear it just as we are in how we sell it.

I was raised a strong Catholic. Pornography is a sin according to the Catholic church and anything that goes along with it…I’m guessing that this includes lingerie? Why is it OK for the church to condemn what I did/do but it’s OK to play BINGO and drink all night in a beer tent or in the church basement and then get in your car and drive home? I just don’t get it?

I admire those who unlike many continue to find a way to sell the products without getting bad mouthed. I have no trouble sleeping at night, in fact…I sleep quite well. Lingerie is a billion dollar industry and unlike some, sex does sell and I will continue to sell it! As my businesses grow I will open myself up to yet other markets. Why? Why not. I like working for me and not punching a time clock. I respect all of my customers and appreciate them for choosing Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie for their “naughty needs” and beautiful lingerie products.

Michele, Owner/CEO

Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Luscious Lingerie

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

© This is a copyright of Simply Delicious Lingerie®