Relationships and Trust

If you would have asked me several months ago or even a few years ago what I found most intriguing in men and being in a relationship my answer might have been something off the chart…why? Probably because I had such high expectations of what I wanted in a man and how I thought a relationship was supposed to work. It may have also been because I hadn’t been in a relationship for a lengthy enough time to give a good man a chance.

In the last several months, I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect relationship, rather relations that are nourished with communication, and kindness. I’ve always been one who would say that if you are worth it, a man will do whatever it takes to make you happy. The truth is, it is not just about me or you. All relationships begin as a friendship and with the right nutrients and enough air to breathe on their own, they blossom over time into something that can be the start of a whole new chapter in one’s life.

 Get to know each other really well. Learn about each other’s biggest dreams and worst nightmares. We all have them, and our feelings do matter.  talk about your ideal plans for your life, where you see yourself in a few years? As mush as this doesn’t matter to many people, it is significant to some people, so lay your cards on the table. Discuss what your moral beliefs are. If you’re religious, discuss those beliefs now. Talk about how you both were raised. Share family stories that provide knowledge of how they’ve made you a better person. Learning about each other, your pasts and ideas on life is very important. Don’t carry baggage (mostly drama) into a new relationship. That is a BIG No-No, so clear the slate now!

Too many of us have preconceived notions about what relationships should or shouldn’t be. When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in…and we all know that frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship. Another ‘not so good’ sign is if you’re trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don’t see the same level of effort on your partner’s part. It’s not an 80/20 relationship, it has to be a 50/50. There has to be some sense of “we’re trying really hard, both making changes and that’s making a difference.’” Otherwise, you will beat yourself into the ground trying to make this person happy and in the end you will only be exhausted, and no one needs a relationship where the work is harder than the enjoyment/satisfaction of what you both share.

Has your relationship gone down hill? They say that often daily routines are one of the culprits and I agree. As their responsibilities grow and roles expand, they say that couples have less and less time and energy for each other. My non-professional advice? You have to make the time, it’s really just that simple. Nothing is so important that a 5 second text message stating that you miss him/her won’t put a smile on your partners face. A brief phone call s that they can hear your voice and know that you miss them and care is all one needs to make them smile and understand that although you are swamped with work, or chores or even family stuff that you care about them and wanted to show it. I’m not stating that your relationship is going down hill fast because of romance, but if may be, that too can be fixed. Surly this doesn’t mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion.

With Simply Delicious and Simply Luscious Lingerie you can go from fizzle to sizzle with our sexy lingerie and our bedroom costumes. Men love affection and getting their egos stroked, so ladies, you may have to kick it up a notch…and fellas, we women love being told that we look pretty, or that we smell good, etc.

Treat him or her as you’d like to be treated. In simple terms; ‘be nice!’ It’s not fair for one person to set boundaries and then not be expected to keep the same ones. If you want his/hers respect you are going to have to earn it. Treat them the way that you’d like to be treated.

What destroys a relationship? Jealousy has been said to be the culprit in the destruction in relationships as well as marriages. Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship (or the lack thereof.) Jealousy is the root of all evil. Truth be told; you can’t make your partner feel more secure” or “change their self-confidence.” This has to be up to them to do on their own. Jealousy can weigh down a relationship because it shows lack of trust, and sweetheart, without trust, you have no relationship at all.

If you think that this is untrue, come down off that cloud in La-La-Land and get with the realities of your own insecurities and stop blaming your partner for this one. Honestly, there are so many people who are very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how they can become better partners. Instead, they demand that their partners make  changes. This is a two-way street and no one ever said that being in a relationship/marriage would be easy. The problem at hand is this; too many people give up and don’t want to try. Divorce rates have skyrocketed over the past decade or two and why? Lack of trust, jealousy, and communication. If I have said it once I’ve said it a gazillion times. Talk, talk, talk to your partner.

 

Here’s how to decide if you are in the right relationship;

1) You don’t fear it, you go with the flow and enjoy the ride

2) You don’t snoop into their lives, especially their past

3) You don’t hide your relationship from people

4) You don’t act superior to them

5) You don’t lose yourself in the relationship, it’s NOT all about YOU

6) You don’t expect that person to change, you accept them JUST THE WAY THEY ARE!!

7) You don’t take, take, take

8) You miss them when they are away

9) You don’t smother them wanting to always be together, you give them space

10) You TRUST them!

 

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Date Night and 30 Romantic Tips

Date Night…we all love it, and we all look forward to it with that someone special. My guess is that we all need a little spice in our lives so live for today and make someone happy! We all need that ‘ohhh-la-la’ from time to time to keep it real. Sometimes you have to get creative and then others use the common techniques that work just the same to show that you care. What you want to do is to make her smile. It’s all about keeping your gal happy.Women love two things, nice lingerie and romance,… well perhaps three things…we love it when a man cooks for us too! Romance is a good thing and both men and women should know how to make their mate laugh, and smile. It doesn’t cost a lot of money to get someones attention, so don’t over-think it or try to go overboard here, sometimes simple is what works the best.

It’s the little things that you do that she keeps in her mind long after she is with you and it is those small things that gives her much anticipation that you will be equally as romantic around her. So what’s a fella to do to make her notice and really get her attention? Clichés aren’t bad after all! Well, you can say some things are clichés only because they’re used way too often, and when that happens they are no longer spontaneous actions,. but then, they’re a guaranteed bet. One amongst these famous platitudes is a candlelit dinner. Yes women love it when you cook for them. If you don’t know how, watch the food network and learn! Serve her up a dish that will make her mouth water  and he mind work on over time! 

  Having a romantic dinner by the candlelight is said to be one of the most intimate experiences a couple shares. This just gets better if you arrange the dinner at your place and cook the food yourself. A bottle of good wine will just be the icing on the cake and if you are lucky and she is totally impressed with you, she may want more than just a slice of pie for dessert! Remember, it‘s the little things that matter guys! 

 

Here are about 30 that will make her turn her head:

 

1. Hugs are the universal medicine…and they are free.

2. Tell her she is pretty. Women love compliments!

3. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry or whatever it is that she likes most.

4. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie and don’t be a player!

5. Spend every second possible together when you have free time and really get to know one another.

6. Look into each other’s eyes and say nothing…eyes speak a language all of their own.

7. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her she is beautiful, and kiss her lightly.

8. When in public,  flirt with each other and be silly…people envy this and it will entice others to do as you do because they want that kind of happiness too.

9. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.

10. Sing to each other and choose a song to be ‘just your song!’

11. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

12. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. This does not mean that you are being cheap, it means you are about to show her some romance…

13. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) Just don’t be sloppy messy…keep it fresh and fun. 

14. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart., yes I said your heart, not your penis. Women want romance not arrogant boys with sex on the brain.

15. Dance together, in the moonlight, even if you are standing in her driveway saying goodnight!

16. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

17. Make excuses to want to see her every day!

18. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I am thinking about you.

19. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

20. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. Be open with her.

21. Be Prince Charming and sweep her off her feet or some other handsome prince just might beat you to the punch.

22. Brush her hair out of her face for her. Women love when a man touches her face and feels her warm skin upon his hand.

23. Make sure that you introduce her to your friends. 

24. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.

25. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.

26. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

27. Make sacrifices for each other. Even the little ones get noticed.

28. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. It sounds cheesy but women adore this.

29. Fall asleep on the phone with each other or on the couch in one an others arms.

30. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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Why Do Men Make Relationship Mistakes

“One day you’re going to realize that she  was what you wanted all along. That girl that knew she wasn’t perfect, but tried to be just for you. That girl who wanted nothing more than to be there for you, and loving you was the only way she could. The girl who picked you up whenever you were down.The girl who saw you through good times, and bad. The girl who sees your flaws, and accepts your faults, but values them as much as your strengths. The girl that only wanted to walk beside you. That girl who still can’t bring herself to hate you, even though sometimes you probably deserve it. The girl that should have you, but doesn’t.”

 So why didn’t she get the guy? I’ve got 4 reasons that are pretty simple…..read them, and learn from them, and perhaps this will help someone else “not” make the same mistakes…..nevertheless, life is about learning, and mistakes…..they are what makes us grow….after all, we are only human.

REASON #1 – THEY’RE STUCK AND CANNOT GET OVER A PAST RELATIONSHIP 

Sound familiar anyone? Ahhhh the ole’ “you’re everything I wanted but now isn’t the best time.” Anyone every heard that excuse? In most cases with men their relationship that didn’t work out simply because of some stupid mistake that he felt really bad about it. Naturally, the relationship fails, thinking that talking would help him sort his feelings out but he’s too proud to do it.

Unfortunately,if you snooze you loose gentlemen so take my advice and lay all the cards on the table….then if the relationship is truly over walk away, take time off from dating to get your head turned back around and move forward learning from this relationship and its mistakes so that you don’t duplicate them in the future…and don’t use the cop-out ‘work has me so busy.’ That’s hogwash and you really need to come up with something better than that because we aren’t stupid and we have feelings. Just say STOP! Enough is enough.

REASON #2 – THEY WEREN’T EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE IN THE FIRST PLACE

It’s a sad statistic, but 80-90% of the single men you meet aren’t ready or willing (or both) to handle a serious relationship. That’s why shortly after the relationship starts, things go downhill and end in a break-up. These men weren’t suited to handle a big commitment to begin with! Men who fall into this category include players and guys who prioritize work over relationships, it also includes men who are far too immature for a good woman. It’s too bad, but there are a lot of single men out there who “could have been” great boyfriends – it’s just that their hearts and minds weren’t ready for you at the time!

Again, there’s little you can do directly to change the minds of these men, I call them boys, because they sure as hell don’t know how to act like a real man. Even if you did manage to get them to commit to a relationship with you, it’s often only a matter of time before they fall out of love with you. You can’t always teach an old dog new tricks and you can’t change a man. He has to want to change for YOU!

REASON #3 – THEY’RE REALLY NOT HAVING MUCH FUN

With  the first two reasons, we talked about the two biggest problems that men have about commitment, and how they keep them from staying in a relationship with you, no matter how good you think the relationship may be going….are you following me here? If you’ve noticed, I mentioned in the first two reasons that trying to directly change his mind, such as by trying to make him talk about the problem, or trying to force him to commit to you, or by criticizing, or by arguing, or by begging, or WHATEVER… …it DOESN’T work! It will backfire on you and YOU WILL be left with nothing!! BACK OFF LADIES! It’s easy to think you’re doing the right thing — after all, the best way to solve a problem is by taking a scientific, logical, step-by-step process to solve it, right? Hell no, we open our yap and it all comes out, foot in mouth..over and over and over again.

 When you try to approach your relationship problems in this manner, you’re simply taking the focus AWAY from the relationship and putting it ONTO the problem. In your case, the problem will only get bigger and bigger.

And, as I keep saying, what you focus on GROWS! The relationship becomes less and less fun for him, until the point of where he begins canceling dinners, and date nights becuase 1) He’d rather stay in alone, or 2) He’d rather be with the boys in the land of the living where there are no rules! Believe me gals, when he’s in a relationship that’s not fun, he’ll inevitably start looking for his enjoyment elsewhere. It’s often that simple which is why I believe this is the biggest reason why so many guys leave the women they love.

REASON #4 – FIX THE PROBLEM, AND FIND THE SOLUTION! 

So here’s my TWO CENTS, don’t focus on the problem. Focus on the relationship! Honestly it doesn’t matter how good your intentions were, if you try to fix the relationship the wrong way, then bad things happen.

Do you know why he doesn’t like talking about the problems in your relationship? It’s simply because he’s a guy and his pride is hinged on the health and happiness of the relationship he’s leading. When you corner him and try to talk about any problems, you’re basically indicating that he’s not doing too well of a job! That’s why guys don’t like talking about the problems…and that’s why, when you ask them if anything’s bothering them, they just say, “Nothing, I’m fine” …even if they’re really troubled. SO WHAT’S THE RIGHT WAY? Ladies, let’s face it….there are some relationship problems that you can fix, and then there are some you simply cannot.

Sometimes, you really don’t have a choice but to let him go. But guess what? That’s not really a bad thing! No relationship should ever take that much work to make it right…..if things aren’t heading in the right direction now, they won’t be. Stop making excuses.

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Dirty Talk…The Naked Truth

On the contrary to what many of you may or may not think, not all dirty talk has to be hardcore. In fact, a variety people prefer their dirty talk with a softer edge. Even the most hardcore dirty talkers find that sometimes, a simple moan or sigh — or an easy, sweet comment that makes your heart melt — is enough to make certain other parts of you tingle. Communication is key, so tell them what you want and choose your words wisely. It’s time to put on your sexy voice and play.

Even in our modern era, talking about what we want when it comes to sex is still difficult. Fantasy requests can be misconstrued as saying “you are not enough for me” when, in reality, they are a huge part of our sexuality — which, if we believe statistics, a whopping 80% of our sex lives takes place in our heads. So, talking dirty is part of fantasy sex play, and can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.
When you are in a relationship where dirty talk is the norm, and you have become accustomed to pushing the envelope, it can be really tough to slow down and just enjoy the more romantic pleasures of naughty discourse. Allow me to share with you some easy- to-do dirty talk tips that will slow things down and turn on the romantic in your partner. Pay close attention, and remember, it’s really not that difficult. This is a benefit for the both of you.

A single rose. Offer a single rose to your partner, and then gently trail the petals over their naked body. As you do, tell them what you love most about that particular body part, their curves, their freckles, their nice breasts, never-never never mention fat or cottage cheese….you’re ass will hit the floor like a brick. Don’t forget the “forgotten” erogenous zones — the feet, the ears, the back, and even that sensitive stop right below the buttocks….no big ass, flat ass, etc., comments. Spend time remembering the delicate places you touch that turns her on. She might not tell you so guys its time to start learning how to read body language!

Whipped cream. Yes, it seems kinky — and my absolute favorite…don’t forget the handcuffs. Ok, so it may be a little kinky too! But whipped cream is also a sweet classic that lovers have been using for decades to enhance their lovemaking without taking it too far into the realm of kink. Almost everyone has whipped cream in their refrigerator at some point, (if you don’t get to the store now)…..so it’s not an even unusual item to find in your home — that means the possibilities for using it are wide and varied, but always with a touch of the romantic.

Soft candlelight. Both men and women love candles. They say romance. The flicker of mellow candlelight can make anyone’s body look sexier, so light them up! Candles all around the room will cast a romantic glow, and the scent of them can lend an even richer layer of sensation to the experience. The dirty talk you use during those moments should be soft and sweet, filled with compliments, this will ease them into the mood raising their erotic zone!

Champagne. Who doesn’t love this? This is the ultimate for romantic oral sex. Why? The bubbles in the champagne will stimulate your body in all sorts of ways, while drinking it from your partner’s body will make you just slightly tipsy, which can make the encounter even hotter, steamier and soooo sexy! Want to enhance the natural flavors? Try a few strawberries, too.

Whispers. Sometimes, the easiest way to tone things down is to quiet your voice. Instead of speaking clearly, whisper oh-so-softly. This makes your partner have to get closer to hear you, and the closer you are, the more intense your touches and actions can become. Just remember to keep your dirty talk quiet from start to finish! If you follow these simple tips you’ll begin to drop that wall a little with your partner and open new doors of endless possibilities. Please keep in mind that it may not happen over night, but it will turn up the heat in the bedroom and that is the naked truth!

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

You’re My Obsession

Let’s be honest…..How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it?  Imagine for a moment that if you had one particular piece on, you know the one, that could literally stop traffic because it was so hot…”would it satisfy my man?” “would it turn him on?” The answer is….YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal. Women are a mans obsession. They dream about it, fantasize and they want to roll-play.

When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so….it’s time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has for so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you’re reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. They know which buttons to push and just the perfect pieces to wear. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there’s no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered!

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let’s try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with…..1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3)  it totally drives a man crazy.

The Ultimate…Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh….ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes…When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what’s under her attire that’s got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5-year-old trying to wear the right mix, use your “Garanimal” instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day….and the men adore it. 

Dressing Down…? Too Sexy


Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what’s going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly….take it off nice and slow….allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

Why are Guys all “Gung Ho” on Lingerie?

Some guys don’t see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman’s body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light…he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after…Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,…but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They’ll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties…..

It’s hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really….if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie…..Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don’t you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren’t bragging that the sex was good, no no no…..they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be “not so obvious” she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that….kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are readiing…. this it means, dress the part…be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it’s all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn’t afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you’ll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you’re invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety….this is a one man showing, just for you,…so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we’ve got a long way to go and you ain’t seen nothing yet!

Let’s Play Dress Up…..Who do “you” want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play “doctor and nurse,” perhaps you are his housekeeper “french maid?” What about the “naughty school girl” or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the “corrections officer” is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn’t have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie….with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him…..you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie…we sell the handcuffs too!

~MssDelicious

Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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Finding Your Happy Ever After…

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by ‘right person’ I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed…but why? Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it’s time for a change of scenery!

What is your version of ‘happy ever after’ really? The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren’t what we anticipated, in fact, in most cases our eyes were deceived and we were not getting the true reading of them at all. Were we only seeing what we wanted to see or did we build them up so much that everything seemed impeccable?Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn’t come that easily for most of us because we haven’t learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package. 

Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the story books. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn’t happen…(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway…) The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you’ll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won’t feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share ‘pillow talk’ with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships.

The  phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ…I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of ‘wants and needs’ in your partner. Ones demeanor, and expression transform into our desires. Don’t skimp in the ‘must have’ department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place. 

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?

 Many people ask me; “What keeps us from finding the love we are so hungry for?” The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

 Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

 Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,… look past superficial flaws. 

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,…Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside. 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

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Great Relationships and Pillow Talk

If you want a great sex life, and who doesn’t…. there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It’s not having a rock star body, big boobs,  super biceps, or a tight tush. It’s not the size of your wallet or owning a lot of material things that make you look good in your partners eyes… No, the essential element is conversation. Gals love pillow talk.

You might ask, who needs common chit-chat when you’re making love with someone who you are attracted to? Let me tell you something…keeping your love life passionate and exciting over a long-term period requires communication and you’re going to have to start talking. Some men aren’t good at it. I know a few and trust me, they just don’t get it. That can really suck, not to mention blow something that could be really good, but these are the men that really have no clue what they are doing because they lack verbal skills big time.Want a good solid healthy relationship? It’s not difficult to obtain. Here are 3 ways to use conversation to improve and enhance your love life and your sex life;

 

Tell them what you really want…

 Sexy lingerie is enticing, but it can’t speak, it can only create pleasure and fantasies within your mind that make you want oh so much more. One excellent use of conversation is to talk about what you want and to find out what your partner wants. It’s a two-way street so never assume that you know what your partner wants or it may back fire on you. Your lover can’t read your mind so be verbal for heaven sakes. Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, up to a point. My grandmother used to say body language was everything…Oh it is, but if that isn’t getting you what you want, it’s time to try putting your desires into words. Communication is key! It builds the solid foundation to a relationship and without it, you’ll sink like you’re in quick sand. 

 Remember, this isn’t all about you. Finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you’re a guy who’s a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. We women would rather have you ask us than take the long way around it and drive us nuts trying to figure out what to do or say. A lot of women enjoy talking about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that…just don’t stick your foot in your mouth in the process.

Spice up lovemaking with sensual conversation…

Every now and then, a bit of naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how fabulous and exciting your partner’s body is and how aroused you are getting when you trace her each and every curve. Talk about what you’re doing, what you’re about to do, and how it’s going to make your partner feel. That’s right…spice it up and kick it up a notch! 

 Communicate with your Partner…

 Fellas, communication is key in any and ALL relationships whether it be a simple friendship or a partnered commitment. Both women and men love to talk about what they want, so do it more often. Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed. Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. A general comment such as “You were smokin’hot” is all right, but try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel, and tell them why. I’m not telling you to make a big deal about it. A simple whisper of a few words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure throughout the day.

 If you’re already doing some of these things, great! But if it’s never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. You don’t have to take dirty 24/7…some women like simple small talk. Remember, words speak volume! When you communicate about what you want, only talk naughty at the appropriate moments, otherwise, put your feelings out there…how will she know if you don’t tell her? Show us your playful side. Don’t be afraid to open up and talk. We don’t bite. Well, not all of us…

It’s all about the pillow talk guys…women love it. 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 


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