Panties…Know How to Pick Them!

Believe it or not…MANY women think that picking out panties is so easy. FALSE! It really isn’t as easy as you would think and if you pick out the wrong style and fit, you are going to be miserable all day long, trust me, been there-done that! There are so many styles and fabrics to choose from that it truly depend on what you like and what you need. Trust me now when I say this; “size matters.” Yes, the most important thing to know is what size you are. Just because you fit into a specific pant size does not mean that your panties are the same. You have to wear the right pair of panties or you will truly suffer through your day. Believe me when I say that there is NOTHING worse than suffering through an 8+ hour work day with underwear riding up your ass, or worse, digging into the hoo-ha.

If you wear the wrong pair, you will absolutely endure pain throughout your day and not be happy at all. There is much to be less than desired when your panties are riding up and chafing you all day. There is nothing worse and unappealing than panties that are constantly falling down or give you that awful wedgie. This can be very distracting to your day, not to mention a negative attention getter. This can all be so easily avoided by fitting your self with the appropriate sized panties from the beginning.

 Therefore, ladies, as crazy as this sounds…. here’s an idea? Grab a tape measure because you will need it. Not all store and brands make their undergarments the same, so keep that in mind. You will want to measure your waist first. You will want to have the tape measure snugly around you waist without causing any bulging. Don’t cause any cinching that could cause you to go too small. You will want to use the natural indentation and/or break at your hip and waist. If you are having a hard time finding this curve, then bend to the side. You have to wear these panties, not anyone else…so you want to make certain that they are just what you desire! You will better be able to see where this crease is and know where to measure. You’ll want to write this number down and mark it as you waist measurement. This will become very important depending on what type of panty you are buying. Hey… it’s just a helpful suggestion.

The next step is to measure your hips appropriately. You will want to wrap the tape measure around your hips in their fullest area. To make sure that the tape measure is straight, so you might need to use a mirror or get a friend to help you. It is very important to make sure the tape measure is level all the way around your whole body for the proper fit. The tape measure must be parallel with the floor and snug. Again you don’t want so snug that it causes bulges. You will also write this down to make sure that you know what size to buy. This will help with hip huggers, bikinis, many thongs, and/or string bikinis. Mot of our panties come in OS, S, M, L or XL and plus sizes too of course.

The fitting point of panties is crucial to their comfort. There are “must haves” in any panty you choose to wear, especially those that we sell at Simply Delicious Lingerie! If you are wearing panties under a sexy LBD, choose elegant, simple, panties. If you are going out with the girls or feeling frisky and playful, pull out the ‘bad girl’ panties. Regardless of the color, style, or logos, comfort is key! 

The most important thing is a comfortable crotch. Or you can go crotchless if you prefer…if you choose this path, be very careful, it can be painful if worn for more than a few hours. They will drive you to never wear those panties again no matter what. If you do find a pair with the crotch in them.The crotch of the panty should fit just right against your body. It should not bunch up in the back or the front and should be tight. For panties that horizontal crotch seems they should be visible at the front of the panties only and not slip back. If the open end of the seam is in the front make sure you do not have them on backwards. Otherwise if the seam moves back it will bunch up and be uncomfortable. The waistband should be snug but not tight around your waist or hips depending on the style of panties you buy. If it rolls up or bunches a lot then you will want to try a smaller size. You will know when the panty fits properly because the band will stay up no matter how much you move around and feel comfortable. For all panties except thongs and string bikinis, the leg band should not leave marks yet feel snug and secure.

 At Simply Delicious Lingerie , www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com we have quite a nice selection to choose from. We offer a variety of sexy lingerie and intimate delicates to choose from. Find sexy matching sets as well in our lingerie section of the website. Shop our store everyday anytime day or night. We’re always just an email away to answer any questions that you may have.

 

Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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Why Panties Define YOU

From time to time, we often ask; Why do women wear thongs, g-strings and even crotch less panties? What possesses us to choose which styles of panties we wear? There are a variety of answers and for every woman, and the response is probably different. Why? Because we all have different shapes, and out bodies wear intimate apparel according to the sensual curves on our contoured bodies. We wear it to feel good and to look good in it. We wear a variety of styles to feel sexy and dominant. We wear it because we love the options that we have in choices, colors, styles and sizes. We also love comfort, which btw, does play a big role in the decision we make each and every time we put a pair of panties on.

 Lets face it, lingerie is a very important part of any outfit. At Simply Delicious Lingerie www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  we are building our site to create more opportunity for you and your lingerie wardrobe to grow and excel! Stay tuned for our new arrivals. So, let;s get back to the ‘why’s’ of lingerie and the ‘types’ a person chooses to wear. The question is this? Do your panties define you? Do you have a particular style that you adore wearing day in and day out, or are you a change it up can get a little wild and crazy kinda gal? There is no right or wrong answer for this question…because women love to change their minds and we always like to try new things. I say that what you wear underneath and how confident you are about the selection(s) you choose define you in a variety of sensual ways.

Panties are sexy underwear and there is not really one good answer as different women have different reasons depending on the occasion. One thing for sure is men are always interested in the answers. While panties may have evolved over the years as the embodiment of female sexuality, we all know, or most of us do… that they did not start out that way, not by a long shot. Their original purpose was to cover-up and minimize a woman’s feminine features. Wearing sexy panties makes a woman look and feel sexy. Slipping on a pair of sexy panties makes her look sexy and that is great for her self esteem and self confidence. All of us have had the experience of wearing clothing that makes up look great and it boosts our view of ourselves. Sexy panties are capable of accomplishing this for a woman and a wonderful reason to wear them.

 Sexy panties say a lot about who a woman is. They defines who we are. Wearing sexy panties says she is aware of her sexuality and it matters to her how she looks and feels about herself. Whether you have them on all day or just for a sexy romp in the bedroom they still show your inner personality and that says a lot. A woman who cares about her appearance is the polar opposite of a woman who does not care about her appearance. Sexy panties are a fashion statement she is making and the fact that the world cannot see them is immaterial. She is a sexy woman and the only person that really matters knows it. This is a matter of self expression and while some might dismiss this reason to wear sexy panties as frivolous simply miss the point. 

What a woman wears matters to her. Whether it is a thong, a g-string, boy shorts, etc., we can be as laid back and simple or as ‘come and get me’ in the bedroom as we choose. My grandmother used to always say that it‘s what happens when you get behind closed doors that expresses your private intimate moments best. A confident woman who has style and class will never go out looking smutty or sleazy…she knows what she has and how to use it. Most men that I know would prefer a woman as such verse a woman they met in a bar just before the ugly lights come on that is waving her panties in the air for some fly by night creep to take her off and seduce her. Ladies, if you want to be treated with respect you need to get yourself some CLASS! Looking and feeling sexy comes with feeling good about YOU! Be confident and you will be an adornment of class.

Ask a woman why she wears sexy panties and each woman’s response may be different, nonetheless, all of their answers will be the same when they tell you that wearing sexy panties, and a matching bra makes them feel good about themselves. Confidence come from within and a woman can rise above anything or any challenge when they feel good about who they are and how sexy they appear. Yes, women have a lot of reasons to wear sexy panties but after all is said and done panties are no longer simply for hygiene or to prevent soiling her other garments. Panties are fashion and women know this as they select them for comfort, color, style and sex appeal. Your mother always told you to wear clean underwear in case you were in an accident. Women today wear sexy panties because their sexuality is important to them and there are few garments that a woman can wear that express their sexuality than panties, and let me tell you…we certainly do have a way of expressing!

 From thongs to boy shorts, french cut to bikinis, sexy panties are available in a wide range of styles and we at Simply Delicious Lingerie will soon be offering panties galore of all sizes, shapes, and styles at low, low costs. Panties are an often-overlooked but very important basic part of every woman’s wardrobe. Many women do not realize that sexy panties can be both comfortable and functional as well.

Here is a simple guide to choosing the best sexy panties;

Wear what you feel accuentates your curves! That’t it…plain and simple, in a nutshell. YOU define how YOU look in your panties.

Women’s panties, back in the day were called bloomers, knickers, and a few other names. today we call them panties, thongs, g-strings, and boy shorts.Any woman who knows what her personality type is and what makes her who she is will leave you with the impression of what she wears underneath. My mother always raised me to make sure your underwear was always clean and always matching — but the truth is that most of us are more Bridget  Jones than one might think. We all want to look hot and sexy on the outside BUT under all that skin and exterior, we all own a pair or two of granny panties that we pull out of the drawers when the time calls for it. 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® 

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Choosing the Color of Lingerie that Looks Best on YOU!

What factors determine what lingerie suits you best? What color brings out your true qualities? Lets say that you know exactly what you are looking for but do you know where to find it? Our stores, Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie have quality lingerie at luxury prices to fit everyone’s budget. Let’s get started finding you some brand new women’s intimate apparel shall we? First you’ll need to make a selection. What type of lingerie looks best on you? What piece accentuates your true curves?

I’m sure that you have measured yourself and know exactly what size you are but have you discovered what color suits you best according to your appearance?  Do you know what colors look best on you? Whether or not the color suits you is probably the least considered part about lingerie shopping for women. Many women just wing it or buy their favorite color. As for me, this is true. Black, White, Grey, Tan/Beige are my favorites, nonetheless, red is a great color in the bedroom. I also like pinks as they are soft and show a more feminine side and let’s face it, men love soft and sexy! The color of your lingerie can make of break the determining factor of just how sexy you look and feel. Agree or disagree?  I strongly AGREE! You don’t want to pick out a color that washes you out or makes you look too pale or dark. You want to stand out. You want to wear a piece that shows your curves. You want to select something that will stand out in your partners mind for hours on end. Black is my favorite. Sure it’s bold but it makes a statement. It says I am confident. What does your lingerie color say about you?

Many women figure you can never go wrong with black or white. That is true but your collection will get awfully boring if it only contains one color. Isn’t it time every now and again to just spice it up a little big? I talk in my blogs about turning up the heat in the bedroom so sister,…now is your time to “bring it” and sizzle! 

There are a few things about yourself you will need to consider when choosing that perfect color. You want to look at skin tone, eye color, and hair color. Each one of these attributes can broaden your color spectrum.

Did you know that eye color can be a real winner when deciding what color lingerie to choose?  For blue eyes, all shades of blue from the lightest to the darkest will work. This can give you quite a few options considering just how many shades of blue there are. Browns or a mix of blues with browns also work very well for the blue-eyed lady. For the green-eyed lady of course anything with green. However, reds and floral prints with reds and greens in a combination are just spectacular. Olives and earth tones will also match the green eye color well. Hazel eyes have a wide variety of possibilities. They can get away with blues, greens, browns, and all earth tones. Brown-eyed women look great in purples, browns, and the darker colors. So when shopping for the perfect piece you need to consider what will make your eyes stand out.

Second… you’ll want to consider the color of your hair. Blondes tend to look best in pastel colors. The light pinks, blues, purples, and greens do not over power the light nature of the hair color. Too dark of a color can cause your face to be washed out and won’t flatter you. Brunettes look fabulous in great in stronger colors, earth tones, and colorful prints. You want to stick with colors that will not be so light that they fade out of the primary focus. Navy blue, hunter, green, red, and purples will all look great with darker hair. Redheads look absolutely amazing in bright sassy colors like red, emerald-green, crisp blues and purples. They work as well as earth tones too. Make sure you try things on to be sure they bring out your hair and not make it look non-existent. Part of feeling sexy with women is their hair. Remember, you are trying to tie together all your best assets not hide them.

The last thing to consider, but not the least by any means, is skin color. Depending on the tone of your skin you can get washed away or not be able to tell the difference from you and the lingerie. For those ladies with that gorgeous porcelain skin stick to light to powder colors. If you are going to experiment with slightly brighter colors, make sure that it matches either your eyes or hair to offset the skin tone issue. Those ladies with olive and tan skin you can get away with powdered and medium colors. Use your eye and hair colors to know which color schemes work best in this realm for you. Stay away from pastels they will wash you out and make you look too plain. The point is to look fabulous!!!!!!!

 For those women with ebony or dark skin you have many options to work with. Pastels will give your skin tone a drastic contrast. Use your eye color to pick which colors would look best on you for this dynamite look. You can also get away with all the dark and extreme colors as well. Deep reds, blues, greens, and purples look absolutely incredible. As one can see color is a major component to picking out that sexy lingerie outfit. It can be the difference between good and incredibly hot and tantalizing. Regardless of your size, color of hair, and skin tones, choosing the perfect color for you can add confidence as well as a luxury look. We sell bridal lingerie, sexy bridal undergarments, plus size lingerie, plus size bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie, matching sets and so much more! Shop with us today so that you don’t lack luster. Isn’t life all about feeling sexy?

 

 

 

About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, Men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

Panties, Panties, Panties!

Panties, panties and more panties…Alluring and absolutely sexy! Style and grace attribute  to the level of desire they bring with each pair that we wear, and we present a new sense of seduction. With so many styles of underwear out there on the market today it is very easy to get confused at what is in and what is not the right choice to wear. What is your favorite color? Get saucy ladies…you only live once. Some women do not think it is that important to look and feel sexy. I strongly disagree, but then again, I am biased because I own two lingerie boutiques.I say flaunt your curves and enjoy the various patterns, colors and styles. When you feel sexy your confidence wears it well.

At this point, who knows anymore if underwear is supposed to be comfortable, sexy, functional, or some happy combination of them all. Personally, I find that I love sexy lingerie and all of my bras and panties match, as they should, nonetheless, there are times and I think every woman reading this can agree to that at times we like to just feel cozy and comfy and say screw the sexy part of it all…hey, not everyday, but maybe just one or two days a month. Men love panties! They like certain styles on their lady. Men find women alluring and sexy when she runs around in his polo button down and a little pair of boy shorts. You’ll have them melting gals!

Most women find they have several types of underwear in their draw for every possible need and occasion. Depending on who you are, you may not want anyone to see or know some of the underwear you actually have in there. Some days, sifting through your drawers for those particular panties can be a daunting task. It does not matter if you are looking for your favorite comfortable granny panties, your sexiest G-string, those sassy little boy cut panties, or those special panties for the monthly visitor. Figuring which ones to wear when and how to keep them organized to be able find them when needed is enough to give any normal woman a headache.  

So, how should you sort them out?

 Might I suggest buying some dividers that will fit in your panty drawer? When you do you now will be ready to put those underwear where they belong and find them when you need to. Here are a few tips that can help you categorize your panty draw.

 G-strings and Thongs: These are those sexy little numbers that on most days will be the panty of choice for many women. There are some slight differences in how they are designed but they can live in the same space as each other happily. G-strings really have no crotch to them, no matter what others tell you. Yeah that’s right, now crotch! This is dental floss with a frontal triangle attached. But man do they look hot and feel great. Thongs are the ones that actually have the crotch. Even though it is so narrow one wonders why it is there in the first place.

Briefs and Bikinis: This underwear will be the other most commonly used items if you happen to not be a thong or G-string kind of lady. Your briefs are the full front, back, and side underwear also referred to as granny panties. They are comfortable and can be used all month long unlike many other styles of underwear. The briefs cousin, the bikini is just a shorter version of the brief. It has a lower waist and higher leg cut. These types of panties give the old granny panties a little flare.

Boy Cut: My favorite! These are so cute that every woman has to have at least one pair, or ten.  They are so simple and comfortable it is not funny. The best part is that men find them irresistible. These underwear look like little mini shorts that show off the bottom of your butt cheeks. The great thing is these are sexy, comfortable, functional, and can be worn all month long! This is a style you just can’t go wrong with even if you tired.

 The ‘special’ monthly panties: These are just about any pair of panties that you can use during that one time of the month when your cycle comes to visit you. Usually these are the old, ragged underwear that you have collected through your lifetime that can no longer serve any other purpose. These are the ones that are all stained and tattered. You just cannot seem to get rid of them because they serve their function and keep all your other good underwear from a similar fate.

 Now you have all your panties in there proper places. At this point you are now seeing some of your spaces have less underwear than others in them. More than likely you are now going to go out and fill up each area with its proper amount of panties in that particular style. Sometimes organization can backfire sometimes and cause a spontaneous shopping spree! This time be adventurous and buy something neat. Fill those gaps with different designs of the same cut instead of buying nine pairs of the exact same thing in different colors. Before long you will have so many panties again you will be lost. At lest this time you will be able to resort them easier than you had to the first time. Good luck with all your underwear, you will need it! You’ll love opening your lingerie drawers and seeing colorful and beautiful panties all sorted and vibrant looking!

 

Selecting the Right Size Panty

The most classic understatement would be that  women believe picking out panties is easy… NO NO NO! Honesty, it really isn’t as easy as you would think. In fact, it can be down right difficult. There are so many styles and fabrics to choose from that it truly depend on what you like and what you need. The most important thing to know is what size you are. Just because you fit into a specific pant size does not mean that your panties are the same. You have to wear the right pair of panties or you will truly suffer through your day. If you wear the wrong pair, you will absolutely suffer through your day and not be happy at all. There is much to be less than desired when your panties are riding up and chafing you all day. Talk about OUCH! There is nothing worse and unappealing than panties that are constantly falling down or give you that awful wedgie. This can be very distracting to your day, not to mention a negative attention getter. This can all be so easily avoided by fitting your self with the appropriate sized panties form the beginning.

 Therefore, gals, please take my advice…..grab a tape measure because you’re going to  need it. You will want to measure your waist first. You will want to have the tape measure snugly around you waist without causing any bulging. Don’t cause any cinching that could cause you to go too small. You will want to use the natural indentation and/or break at your hip and waist. If you are having a hard time finding this curve, then bend to the side. You will better be able to see where this crease is and know where to measure. Many women wear the bra and panty sets, including garters and belts. Kick it into sexy gear and flaunt what you’ve got! Confidence is sensual, and if you feel sassy and seductive, you will shine in and out of the bedroom. Remember, what you have on under your clothes as important as the outfit itself! At www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com we have new merchandise coming soon with videos to show you how to wear the individual pieces.

 You will want to write this number down and mark it as you waist measurement. This will become very important depending on what type of panty you are buying. Some panties are hip huggers while others have elastic on the waistline. It truly all depends on the style you buy and what you find most appealing on you and comfortable. You will not want to buy a pair of hip huggers that use your waist size. This will cause that not appealing bulge that many women get around their mid section. If you are going to use a waist binding panty then make sure that is what is.

 The next step is to measure your hips appropriately, and no cheating, or you’ll pay for it. You will want to wrap the tape measurer around your hips in their fullest area. To make sure that the tape measure is straight, so you might need to use a mirror or get a friend to help you. It is very important to make sure the tape measurer is level all the way around your whole body for the proper fit. The tape measurer must be parallel with the floor and snug. Again you don’t want so snug that it causes bulges. You will also write this down to make sure that you know what size to buy. This will help with hip huggers, bikinis, many thongs, and/or string bikinis. We have a variety of boyshorts, thongs, and bikinis to enhance your sexual appeal.

 There are must haves in any panty you choose to wear. The most important thing is a comfortable crotch. This is something that if it does not fit right you will know right away and will drive you to never wear those panties again no matter what. The crotch of the panty should fit just right against your body. It should not bunch up in the back or the front and should be tight. For panties that horizontal crotch seems they should be visible at the front of the panties only and not slip back. If the open end of the seem is in the front make sure you do not have them on backwards. Otherwise if the seam moves back it will bunch up and be uncomfortable. How your panties fit is CRUCIAL when it comes to exceeding comfort levels.

 

 

Time to Put on your Big Girl Panties!

 

 Is it always about competition with women? Why do women tend to pick on other women? I see it in the workplace…tearing another woman down because of looks, dress or what her private life may be. I see it more so in bars and night clubs. How old are we?Are you for real? Yet we consider ourselves ( as women) to be more sensitive and empathetic than men. If this is the case, and if it is really true, why so often are we  so mean to other women? I think it has a lot to do with how we view ourselves. Honestly I believe that our minds tend to get filled with the insecurity of…. “how do you look” Are you young enough, pretty enough, is your figure good enough? Seriously? Ladies…” Why go through being insecure about ourselves?  Why can’t you just be happy with who “you” are?

 The truth is women love to compete with other women. Women want to win men over. They want to be chosen by a man who could have any girl he wants. No woman of caliber wants to win a man by default. She wants her man to be a prize, a good catch, someone she can be proud of. When you tell a woman that her significant other is handsome or intelligent, she’ll likely beam with self satisfaction. In complimenting her man, you’ve complimented her. You have told her, in so many words, that she is capable of attracting a quality mate. The women who rail against this usually have a low self esteem and thus avoid competition because they fear they’ll always fail….or they’re ugly. You pick. I’m not sure if this is socialization or biology. After all, how many men are constantly exclaiming that they couldn’t get a date to save their lives when they were single, only to snag a girlfriend and be surrounded by willing seducers? It happens all the time. There are no exceptions.

 Did you know that most women are highly competitive by nature, and it seems that men have an innate ability to bring out their most competitive streak, without even meaning to. Although some women will gracefully bow out if they see that the man they’ve had their eye on is already involved with another woman, others will see this as a challenge that they can’t help but take on. In fact, for some, it renders the man in question even more desirable. But why is this? Why do women compete for men? This is soooo crazy to me? Are there not enough fish in the sea that we have to try to stake our claim on one in particular? The truth is that while the man may be flattered that another woman is interested in him, such tactics will only make the interested party look disrespectful and aggressive, and will not help her cause at all. True love is not something that can be found using hateful or underhanded means.

 Ladies, know your strengths and weaknesses and find comfort in both sides of the list. The root of negative competition is, unfortunately, jealousy and the fear that you cannot obtain the true success that you want. First, develop a stronger belief in yourself, your abilities, and your dreams!!  Create quarterly goals which support your personal accomplishments. Make sure that these goals are for your own personal and/or professional happiness, and aren’t derived from your need to “beat” your partner or supersede their level of success.


 First and foremost find confidence in yourself. Know your strengths and weaknesses and find comfort in both sides of the list. The root of negative competition is, unfortunately, jealousy and the fear that you cannot obtain the true success that you want. First, develop a stronger belief in yourself, your abilities, and your dreams. Know and understand your partner’s drive and find appreciation in it. Your partner’s strengths and ambitions are probably what attracted you to in the beginning of the relationship. Take yourself back to those days and identify the things you enjoyed about your partner.

 Ok, so they say that healthy competition is good. It keeps you on your toes. It helps drive you to a higher level of success. However, bad competition is toxic, destructive, and debilitating.This behavior brings out the worst in individuals and prevents partners from achieving success that’s free from damaging personal distractions. Healthy and even playful competition helps partners bond together, develop together, and learn together. Being mindful of disparaging, competitive behavior is key to keep a growing relationship constructive. There are ways to avoid creating a negative. Are you wearing your big girl panties? If not, put them on and just deal with it!

 

 

 

 

 

 
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