Relationships and Trust

If you would have asked me several months ago or even a few years ago what I found most intriguing in men and being in a relationship my answer might have been something off the chart…why? Probably because I had such high expectations of what I wanted in a man and how I thought a relationship was supposed to work. It may have also been because I hadn’t been in a relationship for a lengthy enough time to give a good man a chance.

In the last several months, I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect relationship, rather relations that are nourished with communication, and kindness. I’ve always been one who would say that if you are worth it, a man will do whatever it takes to make you happy. The truth is, it is not just about me or you. All relationships begin as a friendship and with the right nutrients and enough air to breathe on their own, they blossom over time into something that can be the start of a whole new chapter in one’s life.

 Get to know each other really well. Learn about each other’s biggest dreams and worst nightmares. We all have them, and our feelings do matter.  talk about your ideal plans for your life, where you see yourself in a few years? As mush as this doesn’t matter to many people, it is significant to some people, so lay your cards on the table. Discuss what your moral beliefs are. If you’re religious, discuss those beliefs now. Talk about how you both were raised. Share family stories that provide knowledge of how they’ve made you a better person. Learning about each other, your pasts and ideas on life is very important. Don’t carry baggage (mostly drama) into a new relationship. That is a BIG No-No, so clear the slate now!

Too many of us have preconceived notions about what relationships should or shouldn’t be. When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in…and we all know that frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship. Another ‘not so good’ sign is if you’re trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don’t see the same level of effort on your partner’s part. It’s not an 80/20 relationship, it has to be a 50/50. There has to be some sense of “we’re trying really hard, both making changes and that’s making a difference.’” Otherwise, you will beat yourself into the ground trying to make this person happy and in the end you will only be exhausted, and no one needs a relationship where the work is harder than the enjoyment/satisfaction of what you both share.

Has your relationship gone down hill? They say that often daily routines are one of the culprits and I agree. As their responsibilities grow and roles expand, they say that couples have less and less time and energy for each other. My non-professional advice? You have to make the time, it’s really just that simple. Nothing is so important that a 5 second text message stating that you miss him/her won’t put a smile on your partners face. A brief phone call s that they can hear your voice and know that you miss them and care is all one needs to make them smile and understand that although you are swamped with work, or chores or even family stuff that you care about them and wanted to show it. I’m not stating that your relationship is going down hill fast because of romance, but if may be, that too can be fixed. Surly this doesn’t mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion.

With Simply Delicious and Simply Luscious Lingerie you can go from fizzle to sizzle with our sexy lingerie and our bedroom costumes. Men love affection and getting their egos stroked, so ladies, you may have to kick it up a notch…and fellas, we women love being told that we look pretty, or that we smell good, etc.

Treat him or her as you’d like to be treated. In simple terms; ‘be nice!’ It’s not fair for one person to set boundaries and then not be expected to keep the same ones. If you want his/hers respect you are going to have to earn it. Treat them the way that you’d like to be treated.

What destroys a relationship? Jealousy has been said to be the culprit in the destruction in relationships as well as marriages. Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship (or the lack thereof.) Jealousy is the root of all evil. Truth be told; you can’t make your partner feel more secure” or “change their self-confidence.” This has to be up to them to do on their own. Jealousy can weigh down a relationship because it shows lack of trust, and sweetheart, without trust, you have no relationship at all.

If you think that this is untrue, come down off that cloud in La-La-Land and get with the realities of your own insecurities and stop blaming your partner for this one. Honestly, there are so many people who are very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how they can become better partners. Instead, they demand that their partners make  changes. This is a two-way street and no one ever said that being in a relationship/marriage would be easy. The problem at hand is this; too many people give up and don’t want to try. Divorce rates have skyrocketed over the past decade or two and why? Lack of trust, jealousy, and communication. If I have said it once I’ve said it a gazillion times. Talk, talk, talk to your partner.


Here’s how to decide if you are in the right relationship;

1) You don’t fear it, you go with the flow and enjoy the ride

2) You don’t snoop into their lives, especially their past

3) You don’t hide your relationship from people

4) You don’t act superior to them

5) You don’t lose yourself in the relationship, it’s NOT all about YOU

6) You don’t expect that person to change, you accept them JUST THE WAY THEY ARE!!

7) You don’t take, take, take

8) You miss them when they are away

9) You don’t smother them wanting to always be together, you give them space

10) You TRUST them!



Connections, Fate, and Romance…

Many times I am asked if I believe in fate? On occasion people ask me if I believed in paths crossing for a reason? The answer to both is YES, I do!  Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you believe in paths crossing? This is fate my friend. You see, every now and again fate steps in and gives you a piece of happiness that you didn’t think you deserved, and then as fast as it enters your life, it exits. Sound familiar?   Have you ever gone somewhere and met someone who you just ‘clicked’ with and wondered if he/she could be the one?

Have you ever felt something immediately when you made a connection with someone who stayed in your mind, and your heart for as long as you can remember? A place stands out in your mind, or a song, or the smell in the salty air? It might have been something as little as their smile…nonetheless, that person changed your way of thinking and put an extra skip in your step all of a sudden.

My advice (non-professionally that is) is that when you meet someone, when fate steps in, take a chance. There is no time like the present. Say hello to that person and make conversation. Laugh with them. Go out of your way to get his/hers attention and when you do, find a way to captivate them so that you stay in their head for a long time. Speaking of time, timing is essentially everything. There are times that people come into our lives when the connection just won’t work for a variety of reasons or because one or the other of you is not ready.

There are times where years go by, or even a decade and then one day you wake up after thinking of this person who has been tucked away in the back of your mind, and you ask yourself why you met him/her all those years ago? What was the purpose? Why did it not last, and is there a chance that you can rekindle the flame?  I am a firm believer in second chances. I am a true connoisseur of romance… I had a situation in my life-like this a decade ago when I met someone who stood out and stuck in my head. Regardless whether anything would now or could ever again happen, he will always be called my friend.

He was a vision of the perfect man who was funny and kind and when he smiled he lit up the room. We met in a bar on the beach while I was out with a friend. He approached our table and we immediately made a connection and clicked. For 4 days he spent time getting to know me and then when it was time for me to leave, I was given the most beautiful goodbye. A man who barely knew me standing on his pick up truck waving to me as my plane took off on the runway. He crossed over onto private property just so that I could see him. He took a risk for me. He hauled ass to the airport to see me before I boarded my plane, but he was too late. We boarded early. Was that a sign?

 Everyday people do things that surprise us. People,who were complete strangers to me on my plane could not get over the affection that one person could display, and this man did something that will stay with me and in my memory until the end of time. Even though this man has not seen me in several years, he made me a better person. I can still see his smile, and I can still hear his laughter if I close my eyes and listen in my mind. He taught me not afraid to follow my dreams, and he gave me the inspiration to go after what I truly believed in, just like he followed me to the airport.  It’s been nearly 10 years since I met this man, and once in passing about 7 years ago I saw him again while visiting the beach with my friends. At a glance our vehicles passed at a supermarket and our eyes met. I knew it was him.

Second chances? That was mine, and I felt that if he truly wanted to see me he would make an attempt to contact me. 4 days went by and I heard nothing…so I figured that was it…he must have moved on and married or met someone and was happy. It wasn’t until we were picking up last-minute souvenirs at a local beach store when a friend and I were sitting in the car and noticed something under my windshield wiper. When I got out of the car and pulled the card from underneath the wiper blade, it was wet and the writing was smeared, but it said “I’m sorry, I wasn’t ready then…” on the reverse side was his phone number on the business card. We communicated after I made it back home again for a short while and then just like the first time he disappeared into thin air. 

Every year around this time I think of him as we met on Memorial Day Weekend on a hot sticky muggy night at a little bar on the beach called Harold’s on the ocean. Every year around this time I ponder “what if?” Every time I go back to the beach I walk into Harold’s on the ocean hoping for that connection again to rekindle the friendship that started all those years ago.   Life is full of surprises and we are blessed with those around us and who grace us with their presence. I am and always have been a live for the moment kind of gal and although this man left my life as quickly as he entered it, he will forever remain in my head. Sometimes, something like this only comes around once in a lifetime; so if this is happening to you, seize the moment. Take the chance…you may never have another one. Your heart will guide you to make the right decisions. Have fate my friends. Don’t let your dreams get washed away…  



Simply Delicious Lingerie…Lingerie Lingo

Not everyone knows the definition of lingerie, so we’re here to share the ‘lingo,’ our 4-1-1 if you will, because we have the pizazz that will turn ordinary into a charisma which will indeed personify extraordinary. We take great pride in our intimate apparel. Our hand selected pieces are a private label that comes with a heritage and has been a leader in lingerie, loungewear, costume wear, legwear, plus size lingerie, and accessories under the SeventilMidnight brand for well over a decade. We hope that this benefits you with your selection at our online boutique.

The impeccable craftsmanship embodies bold colors, eye catching prints along with luscious quality fabrics in hundreds of styles.

This collection has been featured in People Magazine, Playboy, Glamour, Life & Style, InStyle, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, Maxim, FHM, VH1, Fox TV, and the Oxygen Network. Our fascinating apparel and intimates have celebrity fans such as Katty Perry, Kim Kardashian, Denise Richards,Tera Patrick, Kendra Wilkinson, Lucy Hale, Janice Dickinson, and Naya Rivera from Glee. Amongst other designers and distributors; be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, iCollection Lingerie whom all contribute luxury lingerie at fabulous prices!

What is lingerie and where was it derived from? The term lingerie comes from the old French word “linge” which means linen. The term lingerie came into the English vocabulary as a euphemism for scandalous clothing unbecoming of a lady. Throughout the years, the design of lingerie has varied but the appeal is in influencing key factor in the world of seduction. Let’s face it, women love lingerie and men adore them in it. So often though, people ask me what is the difference between this and that? I’m here to share with you our perspective of lingerie.

For decades the look of lingerie strived to keep the feminine presence while it exhibits flirtatious lingerie for the lady of the 21st century! A woman’s appearance is a manifesto of who she is, and her facade transpires her into mastery. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we believe that a huge part of the anticipation is the sex appeal. Finding the right piece of sexy lingerie that accentuates your curves may not always be that easy. No two women are of the same build, therefore, the determination of recognizing a gorgeous piece is quite dazzling to the woman whereas it can be mind blowing to the person undressing her.


corset is a garment  worn to hold and shape the torso into a desired shape for artistic purposes.In recent years, the term “corset” has also been borrowed by the fashion industry to refer to tops which, to varying degrees, mimic the look of traditional corsets without actually acting as one. The most common and well known use of corsets is to slim the body and make it conform to a fashionable silhouette. Modern bustiers are a reincarnation and modified  version of their earlier 16th century linen cousins. They were called the “payre of bodies” and “stays”. Stays had shoulder straps and a small waist ending in flaps.Their shape was an inverted cone meant to compliment the large multi-layered skirts below. They pushed up the breasts, narrowed the waist and straightened the back. In the 80s Madonna brought the corset back to life as she wore them as an adornment in videos and at her concerts. Women went nuts over them and they were recreated keeping much of the appeal with an embellishing and bountiful glamorous flair!

There are basically two types of modern corsets. An overbust corset encloses the torso, extending from just under the arms to the hips. An underbust corset begins just under the breasts and extends down to the hips. Some corsets extend over the hips. A shorter kind of corset, which covers the waist area is called a waist cincher. A corset may also include garters to hold up stockings or alternatively a separate garter belt may be worn for that. Don’t forget to accessorize it with those sexy thigh high stockings or a titillating pair of fishnet stockings.

So what is the difference between a bustier and a corset? Well a bustier is shorter than a corset and does not attempt to shape the waist at all. Remember a bustier is designed to shape the bust whereas the corset is more about the hips and waist. Another way to make sense of it is to remember that a bustier shows off the tummy and the corset does a magnificent job of hiding it.


bustier is a splendorous one-piece, tight-fitting, sleeveless garment, designed with cups and flexible boning. It is meant to fit around your breasts and down around your ribcage. It usually ends at the waist unlike a corset. Hooks and eyes, cord or ribbon, connect most of them. They are almost always strapless.They are  meant to define a woman’s shape and enhance her breasts. The bustier is often worn on the outside directly over the skin, or over other garments like blouses, shirts & t-shirts.


chemise is generally a woman’s garment that vaguely resembles the older shirts but is typically more delicate, most stunning and oh so provocative. Most commonly the term refers to a loose-fitting, sleeveless undergarment or  type of lingerie which is unfitted at the waist. It can also refer to a short, sleeveless dress that hangs straight from the shoulders and fits loosely at the waist. A chemise typically does not have any buttons or other fasteners and is put on by either dropping it over the head or stepping into it and lifting it up.As lingerie, a chemise is similar to babydoll,, which is also a short, loose-fitting, sleeveless garment. Typically, though, babydolls are more loose-fitting at the hips and are generally designed to more resemble a young girl’s nightgown, although many modern styles have added various sexualizing features.


A woman’s loose-fitting undergarment for the upper body, typically held up by shoulder straps and having decorative trimming. Camisoles are light loose fitting sleeveless tops typically made with soft cotton, delicate lace trim around the chest and held up by thin spaghetti straps. Always shorter than a chemise, the camisole typically rests on the hips but may show off the tummy too. Nowadays the camisole is a staple of any girl’s fashion and may even be worn as outerwear. Our camisoles beauty is defined with a feminine presence and an eloquent look.

Baby Dolls

babydoll is a short, sometimes sleeveless, loose fitting nightgown or neglegee intended as nightwear for women. It sometimes has formed cups called a bralette for cleavage with an attached loose fitting skirt falling in length usually between the upper thigh and the belly button. The garment is often trimmed with beautiful lace, ruffles, appliques marabou fur, bows and ribbons, optionally with spaghetti straps. Sometimes it is made of sheer or translucent fabric like nylon, chiffon, satin, or silk.


The teddy is basically a body suit that is sexy and fun. It can have cups for a bra, with out cups and straight or have no cups at all. No matter what kind you have the teddy will be an intricate part of your wardrobe. The word teddy is probably the first thing most people think of when they hear the word lingerie, at least it is for me. An image pops up of this sexy spaghetti strapped little lacy one-piece suit right? Well the teddy is more than just that. The teddy adds flare to your clothing by enhancing what you have and hiding any flaws you might think you have. Find your favorite color and wear it with confidence. A Teddy is lingerie which combines both a camisole top and a panty into a single piece. A teddy can have many variations but most are made of light, delicate fabrics that fit smoothly and comfortably over the torso. They hug your body and fit your curves so that the breathtaking overture is captivating and astonishing!

Garter Belts

Today, a garter belt is considered exotic lingerie. The belt is worn around the waist or hips directly against your skin. The silky or fishnet stockings are attached to the garter belt from four to eight dangling straps with clips. These straps are called garters. To complete this exotic lingerie look, a pair of high-heeled shoes could be worn for an added effect. This sexy lingerie look could also be complemented with a push-up bra, see through bra or other type of matching bra. The result is a sexy look that will definitely get your partner’s attention. The temperature will go from steamy to sweltering in the bedroom with this erotic piece!

Sexy Matching Set

These days matching lingerie sets array from sheer lingerie sets to flirty boy shorts. The possibilities are endless. Sexy matching lingerie sets add style and expression to any look. Nonetheless, the assortment of accessible types can be quite challenging to find. With an assortment of women’s intimate apparel at our boutique, we focus on the sensuous appetite of those who wear it and those whom encounter it. After all, we are the aphrodisiac of taste and our quality merchandise will seduce your mind, and tantalize your soul. The cliche’ of these pieces being taboo are no more. Now a centerpiece of fashion worn with high self-esteem and confidence. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we carry pieces that enunciate sexy and seductive and will have you feeling confident from the inside out.


7 Daily Doses to a Healthy Relationship

      Practice Healthy Relationship Habits…

•   Respect and being Respected. Life and relationships are about meeting in the middle. I’ve always said that it takes two to make a relationship work and two to make it fail. Trust me, I know this first hand. Relationships can endure a lot of bumps in the road if you respect one another. Relationships are about finding your own inner happiness and then spreading the love with your partner or mate. Before you can love you have to love and respect yourself. The two go hand in hand. Respect is not something that one should have to think about in a relationship, you just DO IT! How so? Little ways…call her and say hello out of the blue, text her in the middle of the day and tell her that you’re thinking about her/him. Pick up her dry-cleaning. Surprise her by cooking dinner because you know darn well that she had a rough day at work. Listen to her when she speaks, and really pay attention to her thoughts, wants and needs.

•   Trusting and being Trusted. I’m a shoot from the hip kinda gal and that’s how you should be too! If you are not, you need to be a straight shooter. Trust is the great equalizer in a good relationship; without it there is no good! A good foundation in a healthy love relationship is built on trust and trust must be earned. 

Holding back on the truth about how you feel, only telling part of the story, fudging on what your wants and needs are to your partner slowly erodes the trust in your relationship. Total honesty brings about awesome trust. Do all that you can to achieve it and have a relationship that can endure it all.

•   Always go that extra mile. Don’t wait for her to do it- you do it…and by it, I mean anything to make her smile. Motivate each other to be the best you can be. Be inventive in coming up with ways to inspire your love life. Never stop. NEVER! Push the romance envelope with a getaway in the mountains for a long weekend or if you are anything like be, be a toes in the sand kinda gal. Have fun, be creative and enjoy life. Life is a precious gift, don’t waste it pondering negative thoughts, do what makes you happy and your partner happy. Remember, you may not be perfect, but you are perfect in her eyes, and in retrospect that’s really all that matters now isn’t it?

•   Agree to Agree. It is important to understand that relationships seldom feel easy; however, a relationship is less of a struggle when two people agree to do whatever it takes to make it workable. Building a solid foundation is key folks. Without it, like quicksand you will sink and your relationship will not survive. This does not mean giving it your best shot and if it doesn’t work, you move on. Don’t be a quitter. This means doing whatever it takes!

•   Want your romance life to last a lifetime? Ok…2 Words:

Make Memories; How about creating a scrapbook of love? Don’t call me cheesy here…it’s a great way to remember all the wonderful things that you did together and a way to go back and look at your relationship whenever you need a reminder of good times. Stash your memories of special greeting cards, matchbook covers that remind you of great visits, snapshots, a pressed flower, ticket stubs, a handwritten love poem, a funny, thoughtful valentine. 

Celebrate spending time together. Do things that make the two of you happy. Memories tell stories and stories are passed down from generation to generation, so give everyone something to talk about.

•   Spread a little sunshine. That’s right, sunshine. What does this mean? Don’t hover over one another. Make them happy! Give each other permission to their own space. You should have your friends as a couple but you should also have a few close friends that you like to hang out with one night a week, or month. These could be life long friends or even coworkers. It is healthy to give one another space. No one wants to be smothered. Relationships need to grow, so feed them. Give her a daily dose of love. Nothing grows well in the shade! If you are forever in your loved one’s pocket, you can stifle the love so freely given. Even love partners need time alone. You need space. I know I need mine. Too much togetherness is not good. Go out shopping with your friends, or to a ball game or concert. This shows that you can and speaks volumes of trust.


•   Are you pushing your partner’s hot buttons? If not…TRY IT! …But push them spontaneously. I’m not talking about the ones you shouldn’t push. Push the turn-on buttons. No better way than to every now and again crank up the heat in the bedroom or any room for that matter. Know what delights and pleases your partner and push those buttons, and do it most often. Does he like thigh highs and garters under a trench coat? Does he like your sensual perfume on his pillow case? Find what makes your partner, lover, mate tick and load him up with your ammunition. Knowing what makes him or her tick and turning them on at the right times is KEY to a fun, happy and most desired and sexual relationship. Remember, you’ve made it this far, so remind her that she is everything in your eye. Something tells me that you got a groovy kind of love…





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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; 

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Great Relationships and Pillow Talk

If you want a great sex life, and who doesn’t…. there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It’s not having a rock star body, big boobs,  super biceps, or a tight tush. It’s not the size of your wallet or owning a lot of material things that make you look good in your partners eyes… No, the essential element is conversation. Gals love pillow talk.

You might ask, who needs common chit-chat when you’re making love with someone who you are attracted to? Let me tell you something…keeping your love life passionate and exciting over a long-term period requires communication and you’re going to have to start talking. Some men aren’t good at it. I know a few and trust me, they just don’t get it. That can really suck, not to mention blow something that could be really good, but these are the men that really have no clue what they are doing because they lack verbal skills big time.Want a good solid healthy relationship? It’s not difficult to obtain. Here are 3 ways to use conversation to improve and enhance your love life and your sex life;


Tell them what you really want…

 Sexy lingerie is enticing, but it can’t speak, it can only create pleasure and fantasies within your mind that make you want oh so much more. One excellent use of conversation is to talk about what you want and to find out what your partner wants. It’s a two-way street so never assume that you know what your partner wants or it may back fire on you. Your lover can’t read your mind so be verbal for heaven sakes. Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, up to a point. My grandmother used to say body language was everything…Oh it is, but if that isn’t getting you what you want, it’s time to try putting your desires into words. Communication is key! It builds the solid foundation to a relationship and without it, you’ll sink like you’re in quick sand. 

 Remember, this isn’t all about you. Finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you’re a guy who’s a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. We women would rather have you ask us than take the long way around it and drive us nuts trying to figure out what to do or say. A lot of women enjoy talking about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that…just don’t stick your foot in your mouth in the process.

Spice up lovemaking with sensual conversation…

Every now and then, a bit of naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how fabulous and exciting your partner’s body is and how aroused you are getting when you trace her each and every curve. Talk about what you’re doing, what you’re about to do, and how it’s going to make your partner feel. That’s right…spice it up and kick it up a notch! 

 Communicate with your Partner…

 Fellas, communication is key in any and ALL relationships whether it be a simple friendship or a partnered commitment. Both women and men love to talk about what they want, so do it more often. Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed. Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. A general comment such as “You were smokin’hot” is all right, but try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel, and tell them why. I’m not telling you to make a big deal about it. A simple whisper of a few words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure throughout the day.

 If you’re already doing some of these things, great! But if it’s never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. You don’t have to take dirty 24/7…some women like simple small talk. Remember, words speak volume! When you communicate about what you want, only talk naughty at the appropriate moments, otherwise, put your feelings out there…how will she know if you don’t tell her? Show us your playful side. Don’t be afraid to open up and talk. We don’t bite. Well, not all of us…

It’s all about the pillow talk guys…women love it. 


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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; 

Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®


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Flying the Friendly Sky with Toys, Chains, and Whips

Traveling is fun, and shouldn’t be stressful,…but what happens if you get stopped at the airport terminal with sex toys in your bags? Good grief, talk about embarrassing? It used to be, but not any more….Things have changed since a few years ago and air travel is different now. So here is the new 4-1-1: They may say no to mace, lighters, or tubes of toothpaste on airplanes, BUT ladies you can take your toys! Yup, you heard me correctly!

TSA okays vibrators, whips, and chains for air travel. No need to hide these bad boys any longer or feel ashamed to carry them, or worse,…have to deal with the TSA when they go through your luggage looking for the device or foreign objects that shows up on the detectors or scanners.

Traveling with most small vibrators carries no more restrictions than flying with an electric toothbrush. TSA officers are trained to identify and handle sex toys. However, there are a few tips you should know when flying with your pleasure product to avoid an embarrassing scene or the loss of your electric pleasure stick:

Be proud of your sex toy:

That’s right….take ownership! Being ashamed of your dependence on your vibrator to get through a holiday weekend will only arouse suspicion, especially if you’re nervous about flying with your magic wand. TSA officers are trained to identify and provide extra screening for nervous travelers. If you’re asked about your electronic device, don’t plead ignorance. This will only trigger additional screening and the possible confiscation of your toy. Be honest and straightforward. Saying, “Yes, that is my vibrator,” is usually enough to end any line of questioning.

If you bring a foot-long dong as a carry-on, it better have its own ticket:

You can bring a machete on an airplane so long as you pack it in your checked-luggage. If your vibrator is anatomically correct or large enough to be described as club-like, pack it in your checked bags. If you don’t have checked bags, only bring a vibrator small enough to fit in your pocket. When in doubt, or you are dealing with an expensive vibrator, put it in your checked luggage or leave it at home.

Hand tools are okay for carry-on: Vibrators smaller than seven inches are classified as hand tools and may be stored in your carry-on bag.

Remove the batteries: There is nothing more suspicious than a piece of luggage that is shaking and emitting a muffled humming sound.

Lubes: Treat personal lubricants as you would any other gel or lotion. Transfer your lube to unlabeled plastic bottles no larger than three ounces. All of your lube should be able to fit into a 1-quart plastic bag. If not you may have a problem larger than being an inefficient packer.

Bondage equipment: Whips and handcuffs are fine for carry-on, but like masturbation, their use mid-flight is frowned upon. If questioned about your gear by security, own up to these items and start to explain in detail how you use them. They’ll die of embarrassment and you’ll have everyone in line behind you wishing they were going on vacation with you! Trust me on this one…you will be waved through.

Sex toys overseas: Just because flying with sex toys is your patriotic right in the U.S., in other countries, particularly in the Middle East, pleasure products can land you in jail.While the TSA for the most part does an outstanding job of protecting the flying public, sometimes they compromise a passenger’s privacy and dignity while doing so.

On March 13, 2013 the TSA will address some of the common issues related to this topic;



Your Delicates and How To Care For Them

You’ve all heard that saying; Don’t get your panties in a bunch, right? Translation: that means be “gentle with them!” We spend hundreds if not thousands of dollars on intimate apparel each year and as beautiful and sexy these intimate apparel pieces are,they need to be properly cared for and washe. As you all may very well know, lingerie is manufactured in a variety of fabrics, some that are delicate and some that are less delicate to care for. Allow us to assist you in determining how to care for your delicates. Protect your assets ladies, purchase lingerie wash bags at our store today. You will find them under shoes and accessories as a miscellaneous product. 


A really good tip to keep in mind is if your intimate apparel is delicate in nature, we suggest that the garment is washed by hand. After it has been washed, never try to wring the garment to remove any access water from it. This can stretch it out or in most cases, damage or ruin it, especially if it is made with lace. Instead just squeeze the garment gently to remove some of the water and then lay it down flat on a soft towel to air dry or on a plastic hanger.


If the intimate apparel garments you are ready to wash are a little less delicate and you feel better washing them in a washing machine, we suggest that you place them in a garment bag to protect them during the wash cycle. Always separate your dark and light intimate garments and wash them in separate loads. We highly recommend that you secure all buttons, clasps and zippers before washing, so as to avoid any garment from damaging another lingerie garment during the spin cycle. Before you place your lingerie garments in the garment bag turn them inside out and if any garment has a stain on it never use bleach. Use a delicate stain remover like Resolve Stain Stick by Spray n Wash or something similar. When you are set to start the wash cycle use a mild soap detergent and set the washing machine on the delicate cycle.This is the link where you will find these wonderful lingerie washbags for your undergarments;Drop your lingerie in our wash bags and your worries of ripped up and torn up lingerie are over! 

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we want you to keep your lingerie protected.,

With so many different fabrics used in lingerie designer collections, each fabric needs to be cared for a little differently. Here are some common fabrics that you may come across. You should always read the care instructions on the garments label so that the lingerie garment is cared for properly, otherwise, they may fall apart if you don’t follow instructions on their care. 


ACRYLIC – These intimate apparel garments can we washed by hand or in a washing machine if they are less delicate, or if you prefer you can have them dry cleaned. If you decide to machine wash them, make sure that you use warm water and machine dry at a low temperature. If the garments are delicate in nature then hand wash them in warm water with a mild soap detergent, gently squeeze out the water without wringing the garment and air dry on a plastic hanger.

COTTON – Intimate apparel made out of cotton is very easy to wash, since cotton washes well in hot as well as cold water cycles. You may use any good detergent to wash cotton garments. Cotton however is known to wrinkle during any wash cycle, so you need to be ready to iron your lingerie cotton garments to keep them looking their very best. If you place your cotton garments in a dryer you may find that the garment may shrink if the fabric is not already pre-shrunk, so check with the label on the garment.

LINEN – With linen you will need to read the label instructions, because some linen garments will say “Dry Clean Only” on the label. If the linen garment you are washing does not need to be dry cleaned, then keep in mind that just like cotton the linen garment may need to be ironed if the fabric is not crease resistant.

NYLON – This fabric is fairly easy to launder, since generally speaking nylon intimates may be machine washed, using warm water and machine dried at low temperatures. If the garment label suggests that you iron the fabric, then use a warm iron.

POLYESTER – This fabric may generally be machine washed in warm water and machine dried at low temperatures. Just like nylon if the label requires you to iron the garment, then use a warm iron.

RAYON – Generally rayon intimate apparel needs to be Dry Cleaned Only, however if the label suggests otherwise, then you may hand wash or machine wash the garment in cold to lukewarm water. If hand washing squeeze the water out gently without wringing the garment, and hang out to air-dry on a plastic hanger. You may use a cool iron to bring rayon garments looking their very best.

SILK – This fabric is very delicate and one must read the label for care instructions. Almost all silk intimate apparel garments need to be Dry Cleaned Only. If you have a silk garment that states on the label that it may be laundered, then make sure that you hand wash in a mild soap in lukewarm water and air dry. Silk should never have chlorine bleach applied to it.

SPANDEX – This fabric is fairly easy to care for. You may machine or hand wash spandex and rinse well when done. To machine dry spandex use a low temperature setting, and if you hand wash it then just let it drip dry. If the label calls for ironing use a low iron temperature setting.


We certainly hope that this information has helped you. Your delicates protect you, isn’t it time you return the favor?

Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; and 

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