Dating Sites…Looking for L-O-V-E or L-U-S-T?

Dating sites seem to be the route to take these days to finding love,and there are plenty of them out there to choose from…but what it if you don’t desire love, rather lust? What if you are just seeking a lover, a NSA kind of guy? What if you just want a ‘boy toy’ if you will? Someone to give you an exclusive membership to their very own pleasure ride in the sky…their personal ‘mile high club?’ A man who you don’t want to be married to rather just share your private and alone time with a few times a month on intimate dinners, weekend getaways and travel? Then you go your separate ways until your next encounter or get together? 

When I think about meeting a man and dating him, or being his lover, I think about two people, at first strangers coming together to form a certain sense of harmony and really connecting on a variety of levels. When I think about a relationship whether it be long term or short term, the questions is not how long will it last rather, how good do these two people mesh together each time the unite? It takes two special people coming together and feeling a connection, first via emails, texts, and the phone and then in person. Many things go into this to make all the good things unfold, but oh if you plan this out and together make goals and commitments of some sort it will all fall into place and it very well can be a win/win for both of you. What is this you ponder? It’s called synchronicity.

Need me to spell it out for you? It is the phenomenon of meaningful things happening together in such a way that they are creatively linked, although one thing did not cause the other. It is as if there is a pattern to the events that is showing you that you are going in the right direction…and the right direction is always good. When you put forth effort and enthusiasm, it shows you are genuine and sincere. You’re not playing games, you’re both adults and deserve to be treated as such. 

So many things go into the full equation of asking; “Is he really the one that will make me happy?” or “Is he going to be discreet and respect me?” If he is the right guy for you, then getting together should be like a walk in the park. Don’t sweat the small stuff…that’s what I tell my friends. Making a connection with someone is not easy at all, in fact when you meet on line it can be even more difficult because you’ve viewed a profile and determined that you like or dislike him or her. If you do like them you proceed to get to know more about them because there is some sort of an attraction and there is so much more to an individual than simply their profile alone. As long as you are completely honest and have excellent communication skills all will be fine, not to worry. Just be YOU! You will find everything falling into place as if it was ‘meant to be’. If there are obstacles now and then, they will be overcome; generally, your path will be smooth because you both went into this type of relationship with the same expectations not only as friends, but lovers. 

Not every chance encounter is magical. There may be some negative affects to meeting someone; sometimes you may meet the right person at the wrong time. Synchronicity is not there and if you try to force a relationship to happen, it will hit a brick wall, and ouch, you don’t want that! My strong non-professional advice would then be that should this happen to you; you’d better to let him go. If he is your Mr. Right, he will come back into your life again later, when it is the right time for both of you. I always say ‘don’t push fate’ it has to happen on its own. 


You may be looking for weeks or months for someone special and not find him, then one day you may be getting ready to close out a membership for a dating site and see a message from someone and decide to read it…it very well could be that one message that caught your eye was all that it took to produce a wonderful new friendship and passion in your life. Erotic and exotic fun may have just hit a new level. Your connection may just be explosive and then you can really kiss the dating sites goodbye!

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ger,We’re Looking for Guest Bloggers!

Hello! I’d like to take a moment to look back on 2011 and to say thank you so very much for all of your support as well as your loyalty shopping with Simply Delicious Lingerie. We truly do appreciate you very much! As we move forward into 2012, we intend to grow and become more of a household name. Our family is growing and with your honesty and assistance, I can determine where I need to make changes in my websites so that you are getting everything you desire and deserve! Our job is and always has been to make you happy!

 I’m currently looking for some zesty articles! If you are a writer or enjoy writing articles on sexy lingerie, love, relationships, marriage, dating, life, foods desserts, cocktails or anything else pertaining to what we typically blog about, please, submit it to me at, or send it to me in a link at my Twitter account. @MssDelicious or @MsSimplyD.  You will receive credit for the blog so make certain to give me your full name, your website address, and any other information you’d like published. If you blog, we need you! Let’s grow together, in business, and new friendships.

Thanks Everyone!

Michele Savin, Owner/CEO

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Are You Sugar Daddy Material?

Do you live with some adventure? Are you ready to live the life of the sugar daddy? Are you ready to race in the fast lane – working long hours to reap the rewards of a high paying career, driving fast cars – luxury roadsters from the world’s most reputable and sought after manufacturers – and of course meeting great women? This is not something that is all that far fetched. As a matter of fact, for many, it is within reach. How do I know this? I am the owner of an elite and exclusive dating site and I can assure you that there are men just like you that have wondered from time to time if he was capable, and had what it takes to be a Sugar Daddy. Please note, the word is one to be respected. It is for the men who have the money and the means to take care of and or support a sugar baby. This term IS NOT for the “wanna be’s” that flash their profiles around the internet but haven’t a clus as to what a real sugar daddy does or how one acts, bot professionally and personally. Most real sugar daddies are not the type that have to “flash” anything at all. They are reserve and modest to a degree, but never flaunt by any means.

 I have always said “Put your money where your mouth is!” My grandmother always said….”A man who has to brag about all that he has, must not have that much!”  No women like a phony man, so be real, be sincere, and allow me to assist.

Take a closer look at the life you are living if you are sugar daddy and what he does:

1. focuses on establishing himself. This means taking an early interest in education and how to put the information and skills that he learns to work for him;

2. dedicates himself to doing the hard work. This means committing to his job, working his way to the top – often becoming successful much more quickly than his peers;

3. sets goals and achieves them.  A sugar daddy makes his list of goals – goals for travel, income, cars, homes and even experiences – and then commits to achieving his goal, one step at a time; and

4. knows that he needs companionship. In the case of a sugar daddy, most often, this companionship often comes in the form of a sugar babe or sugar baby; a beautiful woman – often a bit younger – for whom the sugar daddy can care and take care of. Beware though of the women who are blood suckers. They want your  money….that is the bottom line….the gold diggers who inthis case seem to think that they can now push the “I want” Card to the limits. My advice,….find a woman who asks for has requests, but have little need to beg. A real sugardaddy will know when to make her happy….so the woman need not ask. 

In other words, becoming a sugar daddy means making a commitment to a lifestyle. It is so true that this lifestyle comes with wealth and glamour. It’s a lifestyle that lends itself to driving fast cars. It’s a lifestyle that comes with a fashionable home that is stylish inside and out. It’s a lifestyle that is dressed designer clothing and shoes and accented with the right jewelry – a sharp ring and a great watch. But it’s not a lifestyle that comes without a price…..Oh no fellas, that price is commitment. It is being well educated, and working long hard hours… means always putting in more than everyone else ….sometimes tackling the more challenging projects because they come with the greatest rewards as wall as being willing to sacrifice relationships for getting to the top.

Though some of those relationships exist within the workplace, some sugar daddies find that relationships outside of the office suffer as well. They maintain friendships, and can make the time they need to get out and spend time with the guys. Some have trouble with dating as well. Most men/sugar daddies find their sugar babies on the Internet.

This isn’t because there is a shortage of beautiful women. It isn’t because there is a shortage of younger women who do not want to be seen with a great-looking, talented and successful guy. In fact, it’s merely a matter of meeting the right woman – an honest woman, a woman with dreams and goals that mesh well with your own. Finding that woman is – like all goals of sugar daddies – it is quite possible. If you can find the right woman that provides all that you desire and you have chemistry, you’d better hang on to her! Remember also, like anything else….good things must come to an end. In some cases these relationships just dissolve….and in others the sugar baby was actually in this NSA relationship with you while she was dating a man. With have a partner that is a no strings kind of guy, it means that you have a life of your own to do as you please and there are more times that sugar daddies come to me in search of a new sugar baby because his got engaged, married or too a job and was ready to move on. Happiness is quite possible! You need not wear your money on your sleeve flaunting it around… can find a great woman if you take the time, and be yourself!
The Eagles sang it best, you live “Life in the fast Lane!” Welcome to Sugar Daddy Land!



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