Great Relationships and Pillow Talk

If you want a great sex life, and who doesn’t…. there is one thing that is absolutely essential. It’s not having a rock star body, big boobs,  super biceps, or a tight tush. It’s not the size of your wallet or owning a lot of material things that make you look good in your partners eyes… No, the essential element is conversation. Gals love pillow talk.

You might ask, who needs common chit-chat when you’re making love with someone who you are attracted to? Let me tell you something…keeping your love life passionate and exciting over a long-term period requires communication and you’re going to have to start talking. Some men aren’t good at it. I know a few and trust me, they just don’t get it. That can really suck, not to mention blow something that could be really good, but these are the men that really have no clue what they are doing because they lack verbal skills big time.Want a good solid healthy relationship? It’s not difficult to obtain. Here are 3 ways to use conversation to improve and enhance your love life and your sex life;

 

Tell them what you really want…

 Sexy lingerie is enticing, but it can’t speak, it can only create pleasure and fantasies within your mind that make you want oh so much more. One excellent use of conversation is to talk about what you want and to find out what your partner wants. It’s a two-way street so never assume that you know what your partner wants or it may back fire on you. Your lover can’t read your mind so be verbal for heaven sakes. Giving non-verbal communication in the bedroom is helpful, up to a point. My grandmother used to say body language was everything…Oh it is, but if that isn’t getting you what you want, it’s time to try putting your desires into words. Communication is key! It builds the solid foundation to a relationship and without it, you’ll sink like you’re in quick sand. 

 Remember, this isn’t all about you. Finding out what your partner wants is equally important. If you’re a guy who’s a little confused about how to please your lady, the answer is simple. The best way to find out what a woman wants is to ask her. We women would rather have you ask us than take the long way around it and drive us nuts trying to figure out what to do or say. A lot of women enjoy talking about their fantasies and desires. All they need is a sincere invitation to open up, and you can offer that…just don’t stick your foot in your mouth in the process.

Spice up lovemaking with sensual conversation…

Every now and then, a bit of naughty and explicit sex talk while you are making love can add a new dimension of excitement. Not sure how to start? Begin by describing how fabulous and exciting your partner’s body is and how aroused you are getting when you trace her each and every curve. Talk about what you’re doing, what you’re about to do, and how it’s going to make your partner feel. That’s right…spice it up and kick it up a notch! 

 Communicate with your Partner…

 Fellas, communication is key in any and ALL relationships whether it be a simple friendship or a partnered commitment. Both women and men love to talk about what they want, so do it more often. Many people are a little insecure about their sexual abilities and they secretly wonder if they are good enough in bed. Make a point of telling your partner how exciting and skillful he or she was last night. A general comment such as “You were smokin’hot” is all right, but try also to mention something specific they did and how great it made you feel, and tell them why. I’m not telling you to make a big deal about it. A simple whisper of a few words just before you leave for work will keep your partner glowing with pleasure throughout the day.

 If you’re already doing some of these things, great! But if it’s never occurred to you that conversation is essential for a great sex life, you may be surprised at how much of a difference just a few words can make. You don’t have to take dirty 24/7…some women like simple small talk. Remember, words speak volume! When you communicate about what you want, only talk naughty at the appropriate moments, otherwise, put your feelings out there…how will she know if you don’t tell her? Show us your playful side. Don’t be afraid to open up and talk. We don’t bite. Well, not all of us…

It’s all about the pillow talk guys…women love it. 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 


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Buying Lingerie For Her…

Women L-O-V-E gifts from their partners, lovers, sugar daddies, boyfriends, and husbands….but truth be told, one of the most stressful and dangerous things that you can do is to buy her a piece of lingerie that you like without taking into consideration what she likes or what might look and feel best on her. Men tend to fantasize about women. They imagine that moment when she walks into the room with a smile and and a hint of what she has hidden underneath her clothes. A man will undress a woman with his eyes in a matter of seconds.

What piece of lingerie will look best on her? How will it make her feel? You certainly would not want to put something on that made you feel uncomfy or awkward so why on earth would you torment her by giving a gift that was more for you rather than her? You certainly are not going to be the one wearing it.

First off all of you should know that the phrase/term “one size fits most” is so not true. You wouldn’t go to the gas station with $20.00 and expect to fill up a Hummer so why would you buy her a piece of lingerie that say one size fits most that looked like it was a smaller size if she is had a thicker build? Think about it…Women love feeling classy, and confident. It raises their sexual desires. If you buy your lady lingerie that is too tight or too small or not the right style or color for their skin tone or body she’ll hate it….so let me spare you the agony of doing so and tell you that if you wish to make her happy and you would like to buy her something sexy for your time together, pay close attention to her needs.

I think that speaking as a woman I can honestly say that I would prefer a man ask me what size I wore rather than him not go and try to make an educated guess. By guessing you know he isn’t going to get it right, and you then will be left with a beautiful gift that doesn’t fit or accentuate your curves as it should. My non-professional advice? Don’t be afraid to ask her what size she wears in underwear. Be careful if you are looking at sexy matching sets. Undergarments sizes are pretty much in tune with lingerie pieces so if you know her bra size and not the size of her booty, you may end up with a set that makes your breasts look super hot and where as her ass will feel smashed into a garter or skirt. Women’s sizes are all different. Not one of us are perfectly proportioned. Now is not the time to ‘guess’ about her size. The night is about sensual desires and she’ll feel a whole lot more desired when her intimate apparel makes her feel like a million bucks!

So, remember this; before you even think twice about shopping for what you ‘think’ she’d look hot in, think long and hard about what she would like. What selection will make her the happiest? Tonight is about her. The most important things to remember when buying lingerie as a gift? It’s NOT for You!

Remember who you are buying lingerie for and tailor your future choices to this. No two women are alike, and none of us have the same build or size. If you buy something in a style she doesn’t usually wear then the chances are most likely that you’ve screwed it up good. It’s not for you remember….it is for her. If you buy it in a color or style that she doesn’t usually wear  it may look bad on her. Why in the hell would you buy her the most sensual piece of undergarment  if the color looks poorly on her? Select the color that makes her look exquisite. You want her to look and feel sexy and stunning. You want tonight to be about desires, passion, and sexual gratification. You want to bring out the naughty in her. If lingerie is not her thing, perhaps a fantasy costume for the bedroom?
The Never to Forget Golden Rule; You are buying lingerie for her…and NOT for yourself!
Do you want to wear it? Probably not. Oh and please don’t go into a lingerie boutique asking the sales girl for her opinion because she has never met your lady before and she might make the wrong suggestion. You don’t want to know what size she wears, you are not buying for her, nor do you want to know what color she likes….unless you plan on going home and sleeping with her? Asking for her input and opinion is all right, just don’t put all your eggs in one basket and bank on your lady liking the same thing that your sales girl does. If you really care about this woman it’s time to get it right fellas.  How can you do this? Shop online! That’s right. You can sit and ponder for hours and hours going back and forth on a variety of items that you chose and narrow it down to one or two that you think would best suit her. It makes sense, and it is less time-consuming. Simply Delicious Lingerie and SImply Luscious Lingerie are open 365/24/7. We’re here for you all the time, at your convenience!

 

Buy something alluring. Do not purchase something slutty. If you do just think of the message you are sending. Do you want your gift to say “oh baby you’re special and I love you” or “hey baby I just wanna boink you!?”

 

My suggestion? Simple is sexy. If it is going to take her 20 minutes to get into it why bother? The less buttons, snaps and ties it has the better! I’m not saying that these aren’t good,…oh no, I am simply saving save them for a time when you desire prolonged foreplay. Babydolls, chemises, and teddies are great. Consider something with a robe to cover up also. Not every woman wants to come out of the bathroom with it all hanging out. Isn’t it more fun to be curious and unwrap her like a gift? Stockings, thigh highs and garters are quite the turn on! Buy these to complete the attire. They will definitely compliment the piece. They serve as the perfect accessories.

 

 
Just Do the Math…Research her needs!
Before you shop, if you aren’t sure of her size, wait until she goes out and then rummage through her underwear drawer. Try to find things with the label in it and write down the size. Listen to her needs. When she talks about romance what is she saying? Buy her something beautiful that she can’t wait to put on! Shop Simply Delicious Lingerie for her special something. We are your everyday sexy!

 

 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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Lingerie…Why Wear Sexy Matching Sets?

Why wear sexy matching sets women ask? When it comes to every day dress, my mother used to tell us to always make sure you had on matching underwear and that it was clean. Ok, as a child that didn’t mean a whole lot, but as we tend to get older, and over the years we come to realize that mom really had a valid point. Keeping your underwear clean was the easy thing to do…every day you shower and you put a new pair on, however,…why should it be matching? For many reasons, but for the most common; sex appeal. Truth be told, many women do not always wear matching underwear, including my daughter. I’ve seen her lingerie drawer and nothing makes sense to me. She is one of the most organized young ladies that I know but when I was doing her laundry for her one day and I opened her lingerie drawer,… I just about fell over.

Sometimes you wonder how that ole’ apple could fall so far from the tree (especially in situations such as this-where her mother owns lingerie stores and has access to as many delightful colors, styles and selections) and then I realize that everyone is their own person and no two women are really alike. I may be a hot mess in other categories such as closets and how clean and organized they are, or kitchen drawers and what you may or may not find in them…BUT if you looked in my lingerie drawers, you would see that everything is paired together nicely and regardless if you caught me on a Sunday or a Friday, at work or at home, at a concert, out with the girls, on a hot date, cleaning the house or washing my car….I would be be in matching bra and panties and that’s the end of the story! Why? Because regardless of anything else I like to feel sexy and for me it is all about what I am wearing beginning with what I slip into each morning when I get out of the shower, and that my friends is SEXY LINGERIE. Feeling sexy boosts your confidence.

Do women take time to dress from the skin on out or are most women just really worried about what they look like on the surface? I believe that your look starts with your lingerie and that it should match and be something not only appealing rather flattering to you. Lingerie is FABULOUS! Whether it be lace, satin, or silk – lingerie comes in a variety of fabrics soft to touch. The styles, patterns and colors that you choose tell a story about YOU!

I believe that you should never get caught in a situation where there could be surprises…so what if you were on a date and one thing leads to another and you end up in the bedroom? You taunt and you tease him, and then you undress….Do you want to be the woman he sees in mismatched undies that clash or the woman that brings him to his knees when you drop your dress and he sees the most sexy matching bra and panties he’s ever laid eyes on? Add a garter belt and thigh highs to the equation and you will have him at your mercy, nonetheless remembering that vision of what you stepped out of ‘that night’ and seduced him in. It’s really a no-brainer ladies…plan ahead. Just get into the habit of shopping for sexy matching sets.

Shop with a variety of styles, textures, patterns, and colors in mind. You wouldn’t go to work in an outfit that was mismatched, so stop wearing undergarments that are. It doesn’t matter what your job title is or your occupation…feeling sexy comes from the inside. If you aren’t already wearing matching sets, try to get in the habit of doing so. It speaks volume…and for those ‘just in case’ moments when you just might get caught with your knickers down, make certain that what you have on underneath is just as alluring to the naked eye as what they see on the surface.

It’s not about what others may or may not think of you and how you dress, it is truly about how you feel from the inside out and I’m telling you that if you got into the habit (if you are not already) of wearing sexy matching sets, it would become habit for you to select the color and look just right for you each and every day. You’ll begin wearing your panties to match your mood.

Fill your lingerie drawer with colors that tell a story. It’s not at all about making others happy or pleasing them, although, in the bedroom we are wanting to please our partner…nevertheless, wearing lingerie is about feeling good and savoring sexy. After all, it is all about YOU! If your lingerie drawer is a hot mess and has too many mismatched pieces, it’s time to spring clean! That means out with the old and in with the new….it’s time to shop! You don’t have to go crazy spending a lot of money. Buy a few sets at a time, and before you know it you’ll have a lingerie drawer to be proud of that tells a story about who you are and you’ll never have to worry another day about what you have on. Shakira sang it best with her song “Underneath Your Clothes”….you see, there’s an endless story, it’s your territory. Shop www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com for all of your intimate apparel needs.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®



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Finding the Right Sexy Lingerie for YOU!

Let’s face it, lingerie is sexy as hell nonetheless difficult at times to find the right piece or two for you. Not everyone has the same shape. We are all made and designed a tad-bit different. Over the years many things have changed in fashion, but lingerie is still bold and still makes a statement to be both seen and heard. Sexy is the you that you can be. Don’t be shy sweetheart, flaunt what you have regardless- whether you are a size S or a 2X show it off! It is time to get sensual! 


So, how do you find the right piece or two of sexy lingerie that is appeasing to YOU and your figure? How does one select a piece that is also selective to the eye? Remember, you want to make a lasting impression. You want to wear something that will leave them longing for much more….Allow me give you some suggestions if you will?

 

  • Try taking inventory of your style. What is it that personally speaks YOU in your closet or lingerie drawers? What exactly does your wardrobe say about you? Are you casual or formal? Classy or trashy? Do you prefer clingy silk material or soft flowing satins? My advice? Don’t stray too far from your personal style when it comes to lingerie. Sure we all love to get a little sassy and take a walk on the wild side sometimes, BUT too much is never a good thing. Represent yourself well and with respect of your look. 
  • Find the right size…Yep, that’s right ladies…for goodness sakes, Please buy lingerie that fits you properly. My advice would be to take your measurements before making a purchase. Most places that I know of don’t accept returns. Hey its a federal regulation to not return intimate apparel usually unless it has been damaged in transit or defective at the time received in most cases, some store take it back but the restrictions and requirements are so harsh that even if you send it back for a return you’ll get nailed with a”return to stock” fee leaving you short in the pocket book! As Justin Timberlake once said “Bring Sexy Back!” Remember, all lingerie should look good and should fit properly. Every woman has a style all of her own, if you don’t know yours yet and what you like, test the waters and find out what makes you feel pretty!
  • This is an real important one; ONE SIZE does not fit all. No matter how the heck you slice it OS is not meant for everyone! Let’s be practical here…I am 140 lbs. and I couldn’t buy something that said OS if it were shown on a woman weighing 100 lbs. Where on earth would I pack the extra 40 pounds? In lingerie, that doesn’t happen! Also,ladies, your bra size in US made clothing may not be the same when it comes to Italian brands. So shop with us where we sell only American made lingerie. 
  • If it doesn’t promote the “WOW FACTOR” on you, don’t waste your money! Don’t buy just any piece of lingerie simply because it’s super revealing, sassy, sexy or sensual. If you don’t feel like you absolutely need to own it, then don’t buy it. If you want to spice it up…keep that in mind when you shop either of our store at www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  and www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com. Anything too drab by will defeat the purpose of wearing lingerie altogether. You want to wear something that says class. Confidence boosts a woman’s ego and sexy lingerie will certainly promote that for sure!
  • Buy lingerie that is functional for heaven sakes! Your lingerie should fit just as well under your clothes as it does alone. You don’t want something so tight that you’re falling out of it, or something that is going to look horrible on you because you tried to squeeze into a size OS rather than your true size. The best piece of lingerie is one that will work well for a date night or another day at the office. Whether it be accented as an intimate under your business attire or worn in the bedroom…select the piece that is becoming on you! That is what will get your partners attention! You want all eyes to be on you, so do accessorize with your lingerie and get SEXY!!! 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

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