Lingerie…Why Online Shopping?

I’m busy and I imagine that you are as well. We are confident in our own skin and we want to look and feel sensual, but we worked all day and we’re too tired to go out and shop.  Don’t. Go home, get out of those work clothes/ the business attire and put on something comfy. Now relax. Pour yourself a glass of wine, start dinner and browse. Look for delicious deals on the internet. Now you can feed the hunger with something sweet with a few quick clicks without having to leave your home.

Let’s face it; Not all women and men have time to go out shopping for that special something for themselves or their mate. Who has time for all that? Hectic work week, office meetings, ball games with the kiddos, etc. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer you sexy lingerie at luxury prices that won’t break your bank. Our sweet treats and tasty prices offer you exceptionally delicious deals round the clock.

The internet as we all know has quickly evolved as a great place to shop for many things from your vacation destinations, auto sales, weekly groceries to even your prom dress. Recent reports have shown that internet shopping is on the increase and is likely to continue to grow, so why not be part of this growing trend and jump ob board now. Stop in and see why so many customers are taking advantage of shopping online.

Lingerie sales on the internet are in the millions of dollars. Why? My thoughts are that most people are not as comfortable as most walking into a lingerie shop or an adult novelty store but place them behind a computer with a keyboard and a credit card and they now have the world at their finger tips. Bada-bing, bada-boom! One click and your order is processed and shipped in a discrete box delivered right to your doorstep. Does life get any better than this I ask you? You are one click away from finding fashionable, affordable lingerie! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ and http://www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com, our plus size boutique.

So why is it beneficial to buy things like clothes and in particular ladies lingerie online? This scenario paves the way for online stores. Business owners like myself can gain traffic and many new sales from running an online store and indeed provide their customers with exceptional customer service. There is great potential to snapping up a great bargain or two by looking online. An online lingerie store is able to provide a greater range of women’s lingerie items for the shopper to choose from, the store owner is no longer constrained by shop floor dimensions, and can display their full bridal lingerie collection, everyday ladies underwear to the more risqué and sexy underwear collections. We specialize in bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie and undergarments and wedding day lingerie.

In reality it is also a lot easier to visit a great many sites as your time permits and compare the prices of your prospective purchases in the comfort of your own home, before deciding which store would indeed provide the best service.

Now, let us share with you the advantages of buying lingerie products at online stores;

 • It’s hassle-free! Since you do not need to go the store personally, you can surely save time and effort. As mentioned, this is best for working girls especially for the ones who are working at the office since they are dealing with computers often times.

• It generally comes with low price delivery. You can now have your intimate garments now without ever stepping out of the house.

• It offers a lot of varieties. Through online stores, you are be able to find brands that are not available in your area, at ease, anytime, day or night at your convenience!

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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Relationship = Express Yourself

You don’t need diamond rings…or eighteen karat gold…fancy cars that go very fast…you know they never last, no, no. So, if we don’t need all of those things, what is it that we do need to make us happy? Long stem roses are the way to your heart, but he needs to start with your head…what if you’re dating a real jackass and he hasn’t a clue about what it is that you want or need? Sister…as Madonna sang…You’ve got to “Express Yourself!” It’s time to get verbal. Yes body language works most of the time, but if you’ve got a man that is not reading between the lines, he may be missing the entire entree, so feed him for heaven sakes! If you don’t tell him, he won’t know what it is that you truly want, need or desire!

Keep in mind, not all men are the ripest apples on the tree when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of these guys are great but they just need some nurturing.Relationships don’t just happen! What you need is a big strong hand to life you to a higher ground. Does he make you feel like you’re the queen of his throne? If he doesn’t then it’s time to move on.

But remember,…in all relationships, especially new ones, they require work and care to endure and, with time, to evolve in ways that keep both partners fulfilled. I call this the labor of love. Such labors are well worth the effort, though, since a lasting marital relationship is the most rewarding bond in life.

My non-professional advice? Put your needs first! What will make your relationship work? There are a few things that are in my opinion that need to occur and will most definitely be sensual and scream happiness together;

1) Have a quickie! Fast sex may seem unromantic, but short bursts of passion keep you bonded because they release dopamine and oxytocin, two chemicals that trigger loving feelings. This also spices it up a little!

2) Respect Your Relationships Privacy; keep this in mind- If a couple seems overly happy, they may be trying to compensate for insecurities. We all need our own space, so do give it to one another. 

3) Laying a Solid Foundation; Women and men also need to be equals in their relationship. Communication is KEY…without it, you have no relationship, and what you do have will sink like quick sand.

4) Be Compatible!!!

To be compatible means to be able to exist together in harmony. However, for you and your partner to be able to exist together or complement each other, you need three major characteristics:

(a) Contentment and enjoyment in each other’s company.

(b) Sharing each other’s goals and aspirations.

(c) Acting responsibly towards each other.

If you are content with each other and love your life together, you’ll love doing things together which you both enjoy. If you don’t communicate and talk about it, you won’t know what one another is trying to say, so for the love of God, express yourself!

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Dating; For All the Single Ladies

In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what’s  a girl to do? It’s 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, or pushing forty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love?  Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren’t prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days…today it’s Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let’s talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle  just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.  It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at http://www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious.

You can specify any points that are really important to you, such as politics or religion. At the same time, if you are free and willing to move or travel, you can open up your choice to guys who live outside of your city, county, state or even country. These are men that you would never meet without the internet and they could be really great men looking for the same things that you are yet unable to find his mate locally. Internet dating is really the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.

Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

You can tell somebody where you are going and arrange for them to call you at a certain time to make sure everything is okay. If you are very nervous, you could even arrange a date where you go with a group or another couple that you know. This can take some of the stress out of the date if you are very shy. However, it is not the best way for you and your date to get to know each other. Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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ThiNgS tHat MaKe HiM tUrN HiS hEaD…

Are you captivating, classy, or stunning? Do you have what it takes to turn heads? What’s looking sexy without being sleazy? How far does one go to look hot to trot, but not enough to make those around you laugh behind your back with ridicule?My advice… Keep it real simple, and extraordinary. Keep that “wow” factor alive and keep him coming back for more! All boys like the candy so give them a little bit of sugar…slowly!

Adding a few unexpected touches and glamorous essentials will certainly will help do the trick. It’s about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin. Sexy looks work for any age or budget. Here’s how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty. Rule of thumb; a man will always turn his head in view of a classy woman, but a trashy woman won’t get you the time of day. It takes very little to catch his eye and his attention, so what are you waiting for?

1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way that will say “WOW!”

It doesn’t have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man’s white shirt (slightly over sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in.) Quite the turn on to men, and it makes your curves whatever they man be look sexy and appealing.

2. Tease him, but just a little….

No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive. Tease him with a little…not a lot. Give him something to make his mouth water and crave more…

3. Add a head piece

Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. …just not one like the princesses wore at the big royal wedding a few months ago that grabbed so much national attention. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes, for example; the fedora, the beret… to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with soft on the shoulders

Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look,…and quite the sexy eye-catcher! Something light and sensual.

5. Make it shine

Black may be super sexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you’re going for that over the top look. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine. You’ll stand out, but in a sassy and sensual way!

6. Adopt a simple look 

The pencil style  is a classic example of a dress with an allure all of its own, form-fitting, but not too tight, shows your curves and turns heads. My choice; the LBD. Never will you go wrong with this piece of history.

7. Wear shades

Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes. My eyes are important to me and yours should be too. I don’t leave home without my Pradas, Diors or Jimmy Choos!

8. Make a grand ole’ exit

 Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects. Nothing says “see you later” better than that vivid image that will be stuck in is head when you walk away….so make it sexy, stunning and mind jolting!

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics

Forget everything you’ve ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Yeah they look hot, but cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suede’s are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other’s touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. How about RED?

Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; oranges for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. Pucker up gals! Red is hot and sexy!

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Dating Over 40; Dressing the Part, Acting your Age

Oh so often women wonder why men aren’t attracted to us, or why they get so turned off after a first date, but  have you looked at everything leading up to this first date to see what it was that went so terribly wrong? Could you have fixed it? Planning and preparation for this date means details girls and you need to look great because we have a lot of competition out there that can sweep a man away if we are too busy with our head stuck in the sand. Don’t muck it up.

So where do you start once he asks you out? In all honesty dressing for a date says a lot about what you think about yourself and about your guy. The outfit that you wear out should be one that makes his eyeballs fall out with lust and admiration. It’s not that you have to be phony or dress differently, but you do have to dress appropriately for the plans he’s made for the date. Most men that I know like sexy and simple. The little black dress is the only way to go in my opinion, nonetheless, there are a variety of things that you can wear to turn his head in a good way. My suggestions are quite simple actually, so please, pay attention to what he has in store for you, and if he doesn’t tell you ask how to prepare/dress.

 

In my opinion, it would be a really smart idea to ask the guy what kind of evening he has planned? If he wants to keep it a surprise, then ask whether you need to dress as you would for the office, for a sports event or for an elegant party. That gives you a range in which to choose your outfit. So many women that I know at my age are in their later 40s and want to dress like someone half their age. Not only is this a bad idea but it make you look so tacky and cheap. You didn’t get through your entire life riding on the tails of someone your daughter’s age or a woman in her 20’s or early 30s so for God sakes, dress the part, it shows your maturity and it labels you as someone with class…and truth be told men love classy women with taste.

 

How you dress says so much about who you are. This means get rid of the cheap crappy looking stuff in your closet and ask your friends for some help and reinforcement! If you have younger friends, don’t bother asking, they’re only going to give you suggestions of how they would dress and trust me, most if the time, you wouldn’t want to be caught dead walking out the front door.  If you go out in a halter with cleavage barely contained and a mini-skirt that slightly larger than his handkerchief, then you’re sending a message that he reads as “YES” and other women quickly label “slut.” Oh you’ll get plenty of attention, but the wrong kind of attention! Is that what you want?

 

Listen, there are stores to go to for really nice apparel at reduced costs… so when you go to a store, DO NOT go straight to the ‘juniors section!” You aren’t a junior and you’ll only make a complete fool out of yourself. Girlfriend you want to hold your head up and look good for this person. They deserve it and you need to represent not only who you are but you’re representing all the other middle-aged women out there.  Junior are meant for juniors, plain and simple…so stay out of that department all together! You may think you look good, but it’s embarrassing to say the least. 

 

Dressing for a date when you aren’t sure about the plans is like going to a job interview. If you don’t know what they interview is for and what position of the company, my suggestion is this; dress for the job you want, not for the job you have. There is a lot of competition so get it right. You only have this one chance, this one opportunity to show him that you are a woman with a good head on her shoulders. It’s better to dress up than to look under dressed. That means take the extra step, make some effort, and dress up just a bit more. 

 

For a date, apply that advice. If you aren’t sure what to wear, go with business casual and sensible shoes. Less is more. This means you don’t need to be all blingy and don’t wear a ton of make up. Men love simple and natural. If you are wearing so much make up that it takes layers to remove it, stop right here! If you wear a sleeveless top, bring along a light sweater, or a shawl since you don’t know whether you’ll be inside a chilly movie theatre or sitting outside at a patio restaurant after the evening temperatures drop. 

 

If you’re getting back into the dating scene after a few years, take time to look over the current magazines for casual styles. Go simple with colors too. Red, Black and White are the most popular and eye-catching colors. Then ask other women who have similar styles to yours what they would wear for a date. Ask for advice! People are more than willing to give it and you need it!

 

Basic rule of thumb: if you haven’t dated for five years or more, don’t wear what you use to wear on dates. Chances are with your dating scene absence with a wardrobe that needs to freshen up.So pull out that credit card or unfreeze your assets and splurge this one time! You don’t have to buy all new clothes – just edit your outfits and add a bold item that’s current.  Even if you’ve lost lots of weight and just got a face lift, don’t go shopping in the junior department after age 25! That is a serious NO and a huge turn off. Most men our age probably have daughters in their 20s and God only knows that he isn’t taking his daughter out so don’t embarrass yourself dressing like her! 

 

You’ll add to your age by trying to look too young, and you’ll be the laughing stalk. Act your age and damn it be proud of it! If you want to keep it very simple, you can never go wrong with a little black dress. I have two from Michael Kors that are simple and stunning. They don’t say ‘look at me, look at me’ …they say sophistication at it’s finest. After all, it’s about being comfortable and confident with who you are as a woman, yet realizing that a certain amount of effort is necessary to look tres jolie, very pretty. This look requires some basic classic pieces that never fade from fashion, creativity, and a sense of self-expression. This look is about communication. The eyes, the lips, the hair, are all ways in which a woman communicates. Fashion with style is not only about function and looking well, but is another way in which we communicate our inner self to the outer world.

 

Dressing  sleazy or provocative is out, unless you want to be labeled as trash. Trust me, simple is better and you can never lose in a LBD. Start the evening feeling good in an outfit that makes you feel special even before he walks through the door! Remember, you want to really stand out and if you have the right dress or outfit on, you will be a vision in his mind that stands out for a very long time. That memory of you will be embedded in his brain, so look good, smile and just be you…and you’ll have him coming back for more.

 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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Does Sex Sell?

Oh you better believe it…Sex sells! Advertising and sex have been tied together since advertising became a big business. The use of sexually suggestive images to sell just about everything really emphasizes the point that sex is a merchandiser’s best friend. One doesn’t walk into this type of business with blinders on. Being a woman in today’s society and feeling confident with who we are screams sex appeal to most men I know. It’s a sense of feeling like you can do anything and knowing that what you are wearing underneath your clothes gives you that sexy edge.

Sex is used to sell all sorts of products. Would you agree that sex really sells… best? I am a little bit bias due to the fact that I own a few lingerie shops myself, but in all reality, sex does sell….no matter how you slice it, it just does!

For the consumer, it makes sense to use sex to sell lingerie, men’s and women’s cologne/perfumes, even liquor, but what about using sex to sell some of these other products? Lingerie is a leading seller in the market today. Sex sells claims the old and undeniably true adage. We are sexual beings. Advertisers use this attribute by trying to associate their products and services with sexy imagery hoping that some of the hotness gets attached to their brand in the consumer’s subconscious mind.

However abusing your audience’s attention is a dangerous thing. Another thing to be cautious about is how much nudity is sufficient to grab eyeballs and what is too much thus considered offending. This is of course a cultural question. Usually the more religious your target market the less accepted it is to show bare body parts. For these reasons one needs to be careful where and how to use sex in advertising.

To a degree, fashion brands are going with the flow of a 24/7 media landscape in which the limits of what images are deemed acceptable are constantly being tested and expanded. While we are playing a role in communicating suggestive, if sometimes playful, sexually infused messages, brands and retailers are generally reluctant to discuss the impact of what they are doing. Now the brand is less important because of the dialogue that exists between consumers, and what makes a brand cool is what this new culture defines. Today, it’s social media, the conversation. You can’t understand your consumer if you do not have a dialogue. You don’t need much dialogue to discuss or describe sex. Lingerie suggests being provocative, sassy, saucy and spicy.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we are working at creating advertisements that will show class, not trash. In retrospect, some would ask, “How is selling vibrators and toys in an adult novelty section not trash?” We don’t enforce the items, we sell them. I strongly believe that everyone has a right to do what they wish to do in the privacy of their own home or surroundings….you are purchasing the products from my web site whether they be beautiful corsets, baby dolls, cocktail dresses, gowns, swimwear, or novelties….one wouldn’t think that you were going to sit on a porch swing and use the toy…..NO, you are discreet in how you use or wear it just as we are in how we sell it.

I was raised a strong Catholic. Pornography is a sin according to the Catholic church and anything that goes along with it…I’m guessing that this includes lingerie? Why is it OK for the church to condemn what I did/do but it’s OK to play BINGO and drink all night in a beer tent or in the church basement and then get in your car and drive home? I just don’t get it?

I admire those who unlike many continue to find a way to sell the products without getting bad mouthed. I have no trouble sleeping at night, in fact…I sleep quite well. Lingerie is a billion dollar industry and unlike some, sex does sell and I will continue to sell it! As my businesses grow I will open myself up to yet other markets. Why? Why not. I like working for me and not punching a time clock. I respect all of my customers and appreciate them for choosing Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie for their “naughty needs” and beautiful lingerie products.

Michele, Owner/CEO

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   

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Are You Getting What You Want in Bed?

Some people tend to tip-toe around it…I say, “Why beat around the bush?” Let me ask you a question? Are you getting what you want in bed?…And by that I simply mean “are you getting sex the way you like it?”  Sure, you and your partner make love regularly but are you really satisfied with what you do together? If your answer is “Yes, I am perfectly content with my sex life,” then that’s great… but if your answer is closer to “Umm… well…not so much” then perhaps it’s time for a change.

Here are some tips for getting what you want in your sex life and enjoying it with your partner. Know that if you wish for your parter to feel comfy with you and adhere to your needs, you must not make demands in the bedroom. That only makes your partner feel tense and afraid to try new things in fear of doing something wrong, or not doing these sexual favors to your standards. Guess what? Standards go out the window in the bedroom…it’s all about you and your partner and it’s about learning and growing together. You can’t expect to always get things right on the first try can you? It’s like my grandmother used to say…Sex is like falling off a horse,…you get back on and ride him again. Practice makes perfect! Don’t be afraid to get naughty and do things out of the ordinary. Have fun, life is far too short to be boring.

 

Know what you want

This sounds painfully obvious, but it’s not as simple as you may think. There are numerous reasons why it can be hard to answer the question, What do I want? Some people shut down their desires because they feel funny about them. Others have a very limited knowledge of the countless ways that humans can express themselves sexually. Many individuals don’t understand their bodies very well so they don’t know how to work them properly either. Listen to your body…it will talk to you!

 

Understanding what you want requires being open to your most personal thoughts and feelings. There is no need to be judgmental about desire. What do you fantasize about, either during lovemaking or when you’re alone? Fantasies are often crazy and unrealistic, but there may be elements that could easily be acted out in the bedroom. If you believe that you are lacking in sexual knowledge, then give yourself permission to learn more through reading books, watching movies, or surfing the web.

 Ask for what you want

Now that you have a good idea of what you want, share it with your partner. Try to frame your request in a positive way. Don’t complain about how dissatisfied you are with the status quo. Instead, talk about how much you love your private time together and how it exciting it would be if he or she did a certain thing. If he or she seems unwilling to consider your request, then you need to find out why. Once you understand your partner’s hesitation, you may be able to come up with a compromise that would be rewarding for both of you. 

Give your partner what he or she wants

Listen, If you’re getting what you want, it’s only fair that your partner gets what he or she wants, right? A sexual relationship should be mutually satisfying or it will hit the rocks pretty quickly. Give your partner an opportunity to talk about his or her own desires and do your best to fulfill them. Ladies, don’t withhold sex as a punishment. If something is bugging you, fix the real problem instead of letting your resentment spill over into the bedroom. And gentlemen, you need to understand that pleasing and fully satisfying your partner is the most effective way of getting more sex. My advice…let your guard down and get risqué! 

 

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Vibrators…Today They Are As Common As Owning A Toaster!

This used to be a word that you didn’t say in public, much less hear…but today it’s a word that is common in almost every conversation gals have. We laugh and we joke and most of us own at least one if not  more…some women have an entire drawer filled with them. Why is it that when the word vibrator comes up in conversation many people get funny about the topic? Some blush, some laugh, some walk out of the room…why?

Fact is most women love them, in fact, most women name theirs.No it’s not a dirty thing. Owning a vibrator is like having a toaster. It’s a small appliance that most women love. They are great to have, generally go in at least 3-5 speeds if not more, they go in reverse, they have multi-functions, dual sensation, intense patterns of vibration and pulsation, the shafts in many offer rotating pleasure beads. These little toys we call ‘wonderful’ are like our best friend.  I’d say they are a pretty good tool to have. 

As a sex toy, I would say honestly that the vibrator is second to none. It’s a favorite of many women and is quite possibly the most popular adult toy on the market. The sales rise year after year and it’s no wonder why. The vibrator serves a unique function and there are times when nothing else will do. However, it’s also one of those sex toys that can be a thrill or a disappointment. There are so many variations on the basic concept that it can be a real challenge to figure out which one is right for you. Here are some things you should know about vibrators;

A vibrator is used primarily by women for clitoral stimulation. The toy’s biggest selling point is that it offers a fairly reliable way for women to achieve orgasm. A vibrator can provide more intense and sustained stimulation than fingers or tongue. Even for women who can easily reach climax in other ways, a vibrator can boost sensation and arousal very quickly. 

The classic vibrator that most people are familiar with is phallus-shaped, 4 to 6 inches long, and made of plastic or rubber. A popular variation is the clitoral vibrator, which tends to be smaller than the phallus-shaped version and can be egg or bullet-shaped. These also come in animal shapes such as rabbits, bears, cats, or dolphins. The selling points of this type of vibrator are focused, intense stimulation and more precise control of speed and intensity. Then there is the G spot vibrator, which is long and curved to stimulate the G spot from inside the vagina.

Some of the newer vibrators are multi-functional, combining internal G spot stimulation and clitoral stimulation. They may have moving and rotating parts as well as a vibrating component. If you want to go really high-tech, check out the latest vibrator models that contain a micro-processor with programmable vibration patterns.

When it comes to selecting a vibrator, the intensity of the vibration is one of the most important criteria. Wow, you can say that again! Electric models are generally more powerful than battery-operated ones. On the down side, they are also more expensive and the cord can be restrictive when you’re using the toy. Battery vibrators are more portable and are available in more sizes and styles. You’ll find that toys that use C batteries are more powerful than those that run on AA or A batteries. Vibrators can be noisy so if sound level is a concern for you, ask someone if they are noisy before you purchase it by simply writing an inquiry to us. Hard plastic makes more noise than softer rubber.

How much power you want from your vibrator is a matter of personal preference, but be careful not to buy a toy that is too weak. You can always tone down a vibrator that is too strong by putting a towel or cloth between you and the toy. Most women want all the power!

Fans of adult toys would say that no personal toy collection is complete without a vibrator. This is one sex toy that you may want to spend a little more money on right from the start. The very cheap plastic ones are flimsy and barely worth the effort. Make sure the vibrator you choose has the qualities that are important to you so that you can look forward to many enjoyable hours with your toy. Take it with you when you travel too, just take the batteries out before you pack them or it could get a little embarrassing at the airport. The TSA used to raise a big stink about these, but now…well, I think that saw way too many of them and just decided finally to throw in the towel and accept them coming through the security check points.  Buy this bunny…it’ll be the best investment you’ll made under $80 for hours of pleasure!

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Get Healthy…Eat Right, and Feel Great!

How many times do you look in the mirror, or walk by a window on the sidewalk and glance at your figure? We do it all so often…Many times we are impressed by what we see, other times, not so much. My grandmother used to say you are what you eat. Well it that were the case I would be one great big Cheetos Cheese Puff! I must admit, my eating habits haven’t always been the best, but then again they certainly cannot be the worst either. We all want to look and feel good about our bodies. We all want that sexy appeal. We all want to stay fit and look appealing, especially to or mates, lovers, partners, or spouses.

As we age, truth is, gravity sets in and we really must begin taking better care of ourselves. That means eating healthier, exercising and doing what we must to maintain a positive attitude.  Hey,  dieting can be a difficult thing, especially when you’re trying to make drastic changes to your normal routine. If you’d like to lose some weight and keep it off, the real secret is to do it with small changes that you incorporate into your lifestyle one at a time. Don’t try to do it all at once, that never works, you should know better.

You will find the greatest success if you choose lifestyle changes that you can live with in the long-term. For instance, if you love carbohydrates, it’s not likely that you’ll stay on a low-carb diet for long. In this situation, modifying your carbohydrate intake to an amount you find reasonable may work just fine for you.

These tips will help you eat nutritiously without feeling like you’re dieting:

1. Cut portion sizes in half. That’s right…don’t be a piggy! Cutting your portion size, instead of altering what you eat, is always an option. It’s easy to forget what a healthy portion actually is, which may lead many people to eat more than they intended. Try eating a bit less and use smaller plates to make it seem like your plate is still full. You’ll still feel satisfied while eating less!

2. Eat your food slower and savor the flavor. You don’t want to eat your meals at a snail’s pace, but it does take some time for your body to send signals to your brain that your stomach is full. If you’re eating slowly, you’ll get that message in time before you overeat.

3. Eat more often. Experiment with dividing your meals into smaller sizes and eating more often. Eating smaller meals more often can keep you feeling full and energized and you may end up eating less.

4. Drink lots and lots of water. You already know that water is vital to life. Water will also help you feel full- thus you will eat less! Drinking a glass of water prior to eating a meal helps you feel full sooner.

5. Be mindful when eating at restaurants. Sometimes you’ll find that you have healthy eating habits at home, but it might all go out the window when you’re eating out. Restaurants are notorious for adding in extra salt, butter, and utterly ridiculous portion sizes. Either choose something that you know is healthy based on the nutritional facts, or split up your meal and take half of it home for tomorrow’s lunch. Don’t try to scarf it all down in one sitting…enjoy the taste! 

6. The calories you drink add up. When you’re calculating the calories you’ve eaten for the day, it’s easy to ignore all the calories in your drinks. If you’ve had mostly water, then it won’t be an issue. However, if you’ve stopped at Starbucks, or had fruit juice or a soft drink, you might find that you’ve had a whole meal’s worth of calories in just one drink. I don’t know about you but I would much rather have the solid food rather than a drink with empty calories!

7. Maintain moderate exercise. Exercise is important to your overall health and well-being. If it’s hard to add time for an exercise routine to your schedule, remember that every bit of activity helps. Walking around the block, parking further out in the parking lot and taking the stairs instead of the elevator can give you some great exercise without taking up too much extra time. Sex is a good way to exercise too…just keep that one in mind. It burns calories and it is one form of exercise that no one I know of complains about.

Please remember, being healthy doesn’t need to take a huge effort on your part. You can get there by being aware of your body’s needs. Listen to your body and treat yourself right, and your weight goals are sure to follow. Remember, your body is your house,…and it’s the only house you’ll ever have, so keep up the maintenance on it! 

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New Relationships…What to Expect?

New relationships are fun and scary at the same time. One minute you are so excited and the next you are sick to your stomach with worry…..and “what if’s?” You’re really not quite sure if this new found relationship is going to go anywhere, so the first thing to do is just savor the moment! Whatever will be, will be.

 What if it’s a relationship that began years ago and two were reunited again after several years? What then? Well, if you were a hot ticket then and you happen to cross paths again now, I’d say that there is something positive going on and would strongly suggest to explore your options. 

What if it came out of the blue when you least expected it? Aren’t those the best kind of new relationships? What then? What do you expect? How do you feel, act and what can you do to make certain that it runs smoothly? There are a lot of ways to answer this one but truthfully, the best non-professional advice I could give would be to tell you to take it one day at a time and just enjoy getting to know one another. Life is not about running a marathon to find that one person that will make you weak at the knees , life is about  taking your time to learn all of the finer qualities that one has to share and enjoying your time with them whether it be every day or once a month. When you are with this person and if things are really clicking,…time will stand still, so embrace it! 

You may try to conform to a certain role just to ‘be the partner’ that they are looking for, and that can cause a lot of problems not only down the road, but right now in regards to your outlook on yourself. So here is some advice on new relationships that will help you move towards a healthy and happy relationship that, hopefully, will last a long time!First thing is getting rid of excess baggage that we carry over from past relationships into our new relationships. Did your ex hurt you by cheating, lying, or just leaving you with no reason? Well, you can’t carry that over into a new relationship or you are being unfair to your new partner. You know that saying…”Out with the old, and in with the new?” That”s right ….it’s time to clean house. Spring clean and get ready for new adventures with your new mate.  Don’t worry so much…if he/she enjoys being around you, things will begin to develop.  When attraction meets chemistry there is no telling what will occur!

You have to remember that every person in this world is different and just because your new partner says something or does something that led to hurt before, that doesn’t mean it’s going to happen again. Start fresh now! Shake off the old beliefs and habits and come into the new relationship fresh, if you don’t….it will be doomed from the get-go! Have faith that this person until they prove they can’t be trusted….lets hope that you never have to worry about this.

Second thing is having trust, as trust is a huge component to new relationships. So many of them end because of ridiculous trust issues that are again the result of the past.Yes, you do build trust as you go but you have to let go and believe that it’s going to be okay in order to allow yourself to trust. Belief is powerful and will override your past issues. Affirm to yourself everyday that this new relationship is just that new – and you are putting your faith and trust into it without any inhibitions.

Third thing is dealing with conflict, as that issue tends to happen in new relationships, and it’s always over the littlest things. But it’s bound to happen because you are two people who used to be single and doing things your own way with no one to answer to. Understanding, communication, and patience are the keys to getting through conflict.

Understand that he/she has different outlooks on situations and a different way of doing things. Perhaps he is outgoing and you aren’t so much, maybe he is shy and you,..not so much, or vice versa? Meet one another in the middle. Ask yourself, is this the man/woman that makes my life feel safe, complete and does this individual have what it takes to give me what I need? I’ve learned after all these years that happiness is so much better than anything else. So many enter into relationships for monetary reasons,….big mistake. That’s easy bringing your funds together….show him that you “do” need him in various ways, and make him/her see that he is your “one and only!” It’s important to reinforce this in a relationship, otherwise the communicate fizzles and so does the “what you have”….slowly you grow apart, until one day you wake up beside him/her and wonder how you got to this point?Don’t argue without talking it out, and making up!

Talk about those issues and why they bother you and listen to his/her issues and why they bother him/her. Really listen and understand where they are coming from and you’ll see that not everything has to be done or looked at a certain way (your way).

Lastly you need patience. Use your patience to get through or make it to the understanding and communication. Patience is a great virtue for relationships because without it we would just blow up without waiting to see the truth of the situation. Take deep breaths (not dramatically), take a time out, or take a walk if you have to but don’t react in anger or annoyance. Keep your cool and you will be thankful you did later.

New relationships need to get over some humps and be polished a little bit but if you can do this then you are well on your way to a long-lasting relationship. I’ve said this sooooo many times, and I will say it again….

The important thing to do is to build the foundation of the relationship so there’s never any doubt about what you two expect from each other and there will be no surprises down the road. Enjoy the adventure, and be spontaneous with your partner. Always tell them how important they are to you, and just be there for them. Friendship is the solid foundation to lay with any relationship. As long as there is communication, there is growth and hope.

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