Date Night and 30 Romantic Tips

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 12, 2013

Date Night…we all love it, and we all look forward to it with that someone special. My guess is that we all need a little spice in our lives so live for today and make someone happy! We all need that ‘ohhh-la-la’ from time to time to keep it real. Sometimes you have to get creative and then others use the common techniques that work just the same to show that you care. What you want to do is to make her smile. It’s all about keeping your gal happy.Women love two things, nice lingerie and romance,… well perhaps three things…we love it when a man cooks for us too! Romance is a good thing and both men and women should know how to make their mate laugh, and smile. It doesn’t cost a lot of money to get someones attention, so don’t over-think it or try to go overboard here, sometimes simple is what works the best.

It’s the little things that you do that she keeps in her mind long after she is with you and it is those small things that gives her much anticipation that you will be equally as romantic around her. So what’s a fella to do to make her notice and really get her attention? Clichés aren’t bad after all! Well, you can say some things are clichés only because they’re used way too often, and when that happens they are no longer spontaneous actions,. but then, they’re a guaranteed bet. One amongst these famous platitudes is a candlelit dinner. Yes women love it when you cook for them. If you don’t know how, watch the food network and learn! Serve her up a dish that will make her mouth water and he mind work on over time!

Having a romantic dinner by the candlelight is said to be one of the most intimate experiences a couple shares. This just gets better if you arrange the dinner at your place and cook the food yourself. A bottle of good wine will just be the icing on the cake and if you are lucky and she is totally impressed with you, she may want more than just a slice of pie for dessert! Remember, it‘s the little things that matter guys!

Here are about 30 that will make her turn her head:

1. Hugs are the universal medicine…and they are free.

2. Tell her she is pretty. Women love compliments!

3. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry or whatever it is that she likes most.

4. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie and don’t be a player!

5. Spend every second possible together when you have free time and really get to know one another.

6. Look into each other’s eyes and say nothing…eyes speak a language all of their own.

7. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her she is beautiful, and kiss her lightly.

8. When in public, flirt with each other and be silly…people envy this and it will entice others to do as you do because they want that kind of happiness too.

9. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.

10. Sing to each other and choose a song to be ‘just your song!’

11. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

12. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. This does not mean that you are being cheap, it means you are about to show her some romance…

13. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) Just don’t be sloppy messy…keep it fresh and fun.

14. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart., yes I said your heart, not your penis. Women want romance not arrogant boys with sex on the brain.

15. Dance together, in the moonlight, even if you are standing in her driveway saying goodnight!

16. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

17. Make excuses to want to see her every day!

18. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I am thinking about you.

19. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

20. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. Be open with her.

21. Be Prince Charming and sweep her off her feet or some other handsome prince just might beat you to the punch.

22. Brush her hair out of her face for her. Women love when a man touches her face and feels her warm skin upon his hand.

23. Make sure that you introduce her to your friends.

24. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.

25. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.

26. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

27. Make sacrifices for each other. Even the little ones get noticed.

28. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. It sounds cheesy but women adore this.

29. Fall asleep on the phone with each other or on the couch in one an others arms.

30. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”

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Men and Sexy Six Packs…

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 10, 2013

While men desire women in sexy lingerie, there are a few things that make women say “Ohhh-la-la!” Yup, I’m talking about sexy pecs and a hottie six pack. Every man wants them but they don’t come about over night. They take hours and long days at the gym trying to acquire this. The secret to success is enticing and alluring enough to make men work hard to achieve the long term goal of a perfect six pack! Find me a woman that doesn’t love a man with nice pecs and a six pack and I’ll eat my hat. Every woman finds a man sexy that has a body that is physically fit and stunning. While they are working hard to achieve this, we are gawking at them with drool coming out of our mouths and all choked up, we realize that they look amazing… these six packs that man have and we women adore!

The secret to six-pack abs is not just about the abdominal exercises that a person chooses, but is also about the food that an individual puts into his or her body. This doesn’t happen over night and it takes determination and a lot of hard work. Don’t think for a moment that we don’t appreciate all that you do. The first step to six-pack abs is to choose the right exercises for an overall abdominal workout. There are six different kinds of abdominal muscles in the human body. Many people do not know that abdominal muscles run from the ribs all the way down to the pelvic bone! Not only is it important to exercise the abdominals to look good, but it is important in helping overall posture and injury prevention. Abdominal muscles can be worked each day because they are very difficult to fatigue. There are many articles that suggest the abs can only be worked 3 to 5 days out of the week, but this isn’t true. These muscles are one of the only set of muscles that can be worked each and every day and will help to strengthen the overall body.

So, what are the best exercises to strengthen abdominal muscles? Believe it or not, an exercise ball is one of the best ways to work most abdominal muscles depending upon the exercises that are chosen. With the purchase of an exercise ball, there are generally videos or written guides that show abdominal exercises and their targeted areas.

If you are a member of a gym, look for the captain’s chair in order to gain one of the best abdominal workouts. This is usually a piece of equipment that an individual steps up into, holds onto two bars at his or her sides, and completes a set of leg raises. Variations of leg raises can work different portions of the abdominal muscles.

Lastly, some of the best abdominal workouts are ones that you can do at home with a floor mat. Lying with your back to the floor and your legs in the air, place your hands behind your head and make a bicycling motion with your legs. This exercise is one of the best to improve the strength and tone of abdominal muscles and simultaneously helps to improve posture.Not only is an appropriate exercise routine necessary for improving abdominal muscles, but a correct diet is absolutely essential. Most of the time, good nutrition can make the difference between whether or not someone can have a six pack.

What this generally translates to for gym enthusiasts is that they must maintain a diet that is void of carbohydrates and fats; but this is not the answer! Eating foods that contain B5 (i.e. natural peanut butter) or taking a supplement containing the vitamin can help to reduce cortisol levels in the body.

Fish or other foods that contain Omega-3 are also important to good nutrition and a healthy body. Omega-3 is important for providing energy, sustaining a high metabolism, and reducing sugars in the body. If these foods are not available to you, it is important to supplement Omega-3 in your diet. Omega-3 is found in fish oil, which can be purchased from almost any store that sells vitamins and supplements.

Lastly, eating fruits and vegetables (especially grapefruit) can have a significant effect on weight loss and reducing the level of fat on the human body. Because fruits and vegetables are mostly water and contain high amounts of minerals and vitamins, they are absolutely necessary for reducing weight and helping to maintain the natural sugar levels in the body.

Hey guys, it may be very difficult to change the manner in which you eat, but it is absolutely essential if you want six-pack abs. Those that choose to change their diets tend to find that good eating habits become easier over time. It takes at least a month to change a habit fully; and if an individual truly wants to see results with their body, they must at least commit to one month of eating right each and every day. Those that have changed their diets say that their palate for food usually also changes after a couple weeks. Those items that once tasted fantastic (i.e. chocolate, ice cream, and cookies) generally do not taste as good given enough time away from them. Cut out the junk and you’ll be on your way to a happier more fit YOU!

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Why Do Men Make Relationship Mistakes

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 9, 2013

“One day you’re going to realize that she was what you wanted all along. That girl that knew she wasn’t perfect, but tried to be just for you. That girl who wanted nothing more than to be there for you, and loving you was the only way she could. The girl who picked you up whenever you were down.The girl who saw you through good times, and bad. The girl who sees your flaws, and accepts your faults, but values them as much as your strengths. The girl that only wanted to walk beside you. That girl who still can’t bring herself to hate you, even though sometimes you probably deserve it. The girl that should have you, but doesn’t.”

So why didn’t she get the guy? I’ve got 4 reasons that are pretty simple…..read them, and learn from them, and perhaps this will help someone else “not” make the same mistakes…..nevertheless, life is about learning, and mistakes…..they are what makes us grow….after all, we are only human.

REASON #1 – THEY’RE STUCK AND CANNOT GET OVER A PAST RELATIONSHIP

Sound familiar anyone? Ahhhh the ole’ “you’re everything I wanted but now isn’t the best time.” Anyone every heard that excuse? In most cases with men their relationship that didn’t work out simply because of some stupid mistake that he felt really bad about it. Naturally, the relationship fails, thinking that talking would help him sort his feelings out but he’s too proud to do it.

Unfortunately,if you snooze you loose gentlemen so take my advice and lay all the cards on the table….then if the relationship is truly over walk away, take time off from dating to get your head turned back around and move forward learning from this relationship and its mistakes so that you don’t duplicate them in the future…and don’t use the cop-out ‘work has me so busy.’ That’s hogwash and you really need to come up with something better than that because we aren’t stupid and we have feelings. Just say STOP! Enough is enough.

REASON #2 – THEY WEREN’T EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE IN THE FIRST PLACE

It’s a sad statistic, but 80-90% of the single men you meet aren’t ready or willing (or both) to handle a serious relationship. That’s why shortly after the relationship starts, things go downhill and end in a break-up. These men weren’t suited to handle a big commitment to begin with! Men who fall into this category include players and guys who prioritize work over relationships, it also includes men who are far too immature for a good woman. It’s too bad, but there are a lot of single men out there who “could have been” great boyfriends – it’s just that their hearts and minds weren’t ready for you at the time!

Again, there’s little you can do directly to change the minds of these men, I call them boys, because they sure as hell don’t know how to act like a real man. Even if you did manage to get them to commit to a relationship with you, it’s often only a matter of time before they fall out of love with you. You can’t always teach an old dog new tricks and you can’t change a man. He has to want to change for YOU!

REASON #3 – THEY’RE REALLY NOT HAVING MUCH FUN

With the first two reasons, we talked about the two biggest problems that men have about commitment, and how they keep them from staying in a relationship with you, no matter how good you think the relationship may be going….are you following me here? If you’ve noticed, I mentioned in the first two reasons that trying to directly change his mind, such as by trying to make him talk about the problem, or trying to force him to commit to you, or by criticizing, or by arguing, or by begging, or WHATEVER… …it DOESN’T work! It will backfire on you and YOU WILL be left with nothing!! BACK OFF LADIES! It’s easy to think you’re doing the right thing — after all, the best way to solve a problem is by taking a scientific, logical, step-by-step process to solve it, right? Hell no, we open our yap and it all comes out, foot in mouth..over and over and over again.

When you try to approach your relationship problems in this manner, you’re simply taking the focus AWAY from the relationship and putting it ONTO the problem. In your case, the problem will only get bigger and bigger.

And, as I keep saying, what you focus on GROWS! The relationship becomes less and less fun for him, until the point of where he begins canceling dinners, and date nights becuase 1) He’d rather stay in alone, or 2) He’d rather be with the boys in the land of the living where there are no rules! Believe me gals, when he’s in a relationship that’s not fun, he’ll inevitably start looking for his enjoyment elsewhere. It’s often that simple which is why I believe this is the biggest reason why so many guys leave the women they love.

REASON #4 – FIX THE PROBLEM, AND FIND THE SOLUTION!

So here’s my TWO CENTS, don’t focus on the problem. Focus on the relationship! Honestly it doesn’t matter how good your intentions were, if you try to fix the relationship the wrong way, then bad things happen.

Do you know why he doesn’t like talking about the problems in your relationship? It’s simply because he’s a guy and his pride is hinged on the health and happiness of the relationship he’s leading. When you corner him and try to talk about any problems, you’re basically indicating that he’s not doing too well of a job! That’s why guys don’t like talking about the problems…and that’s why, when you ask them if anything’s bothering them, they just say, “Nothing, I’m fine” …even if they’re really troubled. SO WHAT’S THE RIGHT WAY? Ladies, let’s face it….there are some relationship problems that you can fix, and then there are some you simply cannot.

Sometimes, you really don’t have a choice but to let him go. But guess what? That’s not really a bad thing! No relationship should ever take that much work to make it right…..if things aren’t heading in the right direction now, they won’t be. Stop making excuses.

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7 Daily Doses to a Healthy Relationship

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 9, 2013

Practice Healthy Relationship Habits…

• Respect and being Respected. Life and relationships are about meeting in the middle. I’ve always said that it takes two to make a relationship work and two to make it fail. Trust me, I know this first hand. Relationships can endure a lot of bumps in the road if you respect one another. Relationships are about finding your own inner happiness and then spreading the love with your partner or mate. Before you can love you have to love and respect yourself. The two go hand in hand. Respect is not something that one should have to think about in a relationship, you just DO IT! How so? Little ways…call her and say hello out of the blue, text her in the middle of the day and tell her that you’re thinking about her/him. Pick up her dry-cleaning. Surprise her by cooking dinner because you know darn well that she had a rough day at work. Listen to her when she speaks, and really pay attention to her thoughts, wants and needs.

• Trusting and being Trusted. I’m a shoot from the hip kinda gal and that’s how you should be too! If you are not, you need to be a straight shooter. Trust is the great equalizer in a good relationship; without it there is no good! A good foundation in a healthy love relationship is built on trust and trust must be earned.   Holding back on the truth about how you feel, only telling part of the story, fudging on what your wants and needs are to your partner slowly erodes the trust in your relationship. Total honesty brings about awesome trust. Do all that you can to achieve it and have a relationship that can endure it all.

• Always go that extra mile. Don’t wait for her to do it- you do it…and by it, I mean anything to make her smile. Motivate each other to be the best you can be. Be inventive in coming up with ways to inspire your love life. Never stop. NEVER! Push the romance envelope with a getaway in the mountains for a long weekend or if you are anything like be, be a toes in the sand kinda gal. Have fun, be creative and enjoy life. Life is a precious gift, don’t waste it pondering negative thoughts, do what makes you happy and your partner happy. Remember, you may not be perfect, but you are perfect in her eyes, and in retrospect that’s really all that matters now isn’t it?

• Agree to Agree. It is important to understand that relationships seldom feel easy; however, a relationship is less of a struggle when two people agree to do whatever it takes to make it workable. Building a solid foundation is key folks. Without it, like quicksand you will sink and your relationship will not survive. This does not mean giving it your best shot and if it doesn’t work, you move on. Don’t be a quitter. This means doing whatever it takes!

• Want your romance life to last a lifetime? Ok…2 Words:

Make Memories; How about creating a scrapbook of love? Don’t call me cheesy here…it’s a great way to remember all the wonderful things that you did together and a way to go back and look at your relationship whenever you need a reminder of good times. Stash your memories of special greeting cards, matchbook covers that remind you of great visits, snapshots, a pressed flower, ticket stubs, a handwritten love poem, a funny, thoughtful valentine.   Celebrate spending time together. Do things that make the two of you happy. Memories tell stories and stories are passed down from generation to generation, so give everyone something to talk about.

• Spread a little sunshine. That’s right, sunshine. What does this mean? Don’t hover over one another. Make them happy! Give each other permission to their own space. You should have your friends as a couple but you should also have a few close friends that you like to hang out with one night a week, or month. These could be life long friends or even coworkers. It is healthy to give one another space. No one wants to be smothered. Relationships need to grow, so feed them. Give her a daily dose of love. Nothing grows well in the shade! If you are forever in your loved one’s pocket, you can stifle the love so freely given. Even love partners need time alone. You need space. I know I need mine. Too much togetherness is not good. Go out shopping with your friends, or to a ball game or concert. This shows that you can and speaks volumes of trust.

• Are you pushing your partner’s hot buttons? If not…TRY IT! …But push them spontaneously. I’m not talking about the ones you shouldn’t push. Push the turn-on buttons. No better way than to every now and again crank up the heat in the bedroom or any room for that matter. Know what delights and pleases your partner and push those buttons, and do it most often. Does he like thigh highs and garters under a trench coat? Does he like your sensual perfume on his pillow case? Find what makes your partner, lover, mate tick and load him up with your ammunition. Knowing what makes him or her tick and turning them on at the right times is KEY to a fun, happy and most desired and sexual relationship. Remember, you’ve made it this far, so remind her that she is everything in your eye. Something tells me that you got a groovy kind of love…

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Dirty Talk…The Naked Truth

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 9, 2013

On the contrary to what many of you may or may not think, not all dirty talk has to be hardcore. In fact, a variety people prefer their dirty talk with a softer edge. Even the most hardcore dirty talkers find that sometimes, a simple moan or sigh — or an easy, sweet comment that makes your heart melt — is enough to make certain other parts of you tingle. Communication is key, so tell them what you want and choose your words wisely. It’s time to put on your sexy voice and play.

Even in our modern era, talking about what we want when it comes to sex is still difficult. Fantasy requests can be misconstrued as saying “you are not enough for me” when, in reality, they are a huge part of our sexuality — which, if we believe statistics, a whopping 80% of our sex lives takes place in our heads. So, talking dirty is part of fantasy sex play, and can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.
When you are in a relationship where dirty talk is the norm, and you have become accustomed to pushing the envelope, it can be really tough to slow down and just enjoy the more romantic pleasures of naughty discourse. Allow me to share with you some easy- to-do dirty talk tips that will slow things down and turn on the romantic in your partner. Pay close attention, and remember, it’s really not that difficult. This is a benefit for the both of you.

A single rose. Offer a single rose to your partner, and then gently trail the petals over their naked body. As you do, tell them what you love most about that particular body part, their curves, their freckles, their nice breasts, never-never never mention fat or cottage cheese….you’re ass will hit the floor like a brick. Don’t forget the “forgotten” erogenous zones — the feet, the ears, the back, and even that sensitive stop right below the buttocks….no big ass, flat ass, etc., comments. Spend time remembering the delicate places you touch that turns her on. She might not tell you so guys its time to start learning how to read body language!

Whipped cream. Yes, it seems kinky — and my absolute favorite…don’t forget the handcuffs. Ok, so it may be a little kinky too! But whipped cream is also a sweet classic that lovers have been using for decades to enhance their lovemaking without taking it too far into the realm of kink. Almost everyone has whipped cream in their refrigerator at some point, (if you don’t get to the store now)…..so it’s not an even unusual item to find in your home — that means the possibilities for using it are wide and varied, but always with a touch of the romantic.

Soft candlelight. Both men and women love candles. They say romance. The flicker of mellow candlelight can make anyone’s body look sexier, so light them up! Candles all around the room will cast a romantic glow, and the scent of them can lend an even richer layer of sensation to the experience. The dirty talk you use during those moments should be soft and sweet, filled with compliments, this will ease them into the mood raising their erotic zone!

Champagne. Who doesn’t love this? This is the ultimate for romantic oral sex. Why? The bubbles in the champagne will stimulate your body in all sorts of ways, while drinking it from your partner’s body will make you just slightly tipsy, which can make the encounter even hotter, steamier and soooo sexy! Want to enhance the natural flavors? Try a few strawberries, too.

Whispers. Sometimes, the easiest way to tone things down is to quiet your voice. Instead of speaking clearly, whisper oh-so-softly. This makes your partner have to get closer to hear you, and the closer you are, the more intense your touches and actions can become. Just remember to keep your dirty talk quiet from start to finish! If you follow these simple tips you’ll begin to drop that wall a little with your partner and open new doors of endless possibilities. Please keep in mind that it may not happen over night, but it will turn up the heat in the bedroom and that is the naked truth!

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Lingerie…Why Online Shopping?

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 7, 2013

I’m busy and I imagine that you are as well. We are confident in our own skin and we want to look and feel sensual, but we worked all day and we’re too tired to go out and shop. Don’t. Go home, get out of those work clothes/ the business attire and put on something comfy. Now relax. Pour yourself a glass of wine, start dinner and browse. Look for delicious deals on the internet. Now you can feed the hunger with something sweet with a few quick clicks without having to leave your home.

Let’s face it; Not all women and men have time to go out shopping for that special something for themselves or their mate. Who has time for all that? Hectic work week, office meetings, ball games with the kiddos, etc. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer you sexy lingerie at luxury prices that won’t break your bank. Our sweet treats and tasty prices offer you exceptionally delicious deals round the clock.

The internet as we all know has quickly evolved as a great place to shop for many things from your vacation destinations, auto sales, weekly groceries to even your prom dress. Recent reports have shown that internet shopping is on the increase and is likely to continue to grow, so why not be part of this growing trend and jump ob board now. Stop in and see why so many customers are taking advantage of shopping online.

Lingerie sales on the internet are in the millions of dollars. Why? My thoughts are that most people are not as comfortable as most walking into a lingerie shop or an adult novelty store but place them behind a computer with a keyboard and a credit card and they now have the world at their finger tips. Bada-bing, bada-boom! One click and your order is processed and shipped in a discrete box delivered right to your doorstep. Does life get any better than this I ask you? You are one click away from finding fashionable, affordable lingerie! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ and http://www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com, our plus size boutique.

So why is it beneficial to buy things like clothes and in particular ladies lingerie online? This scenario paves the way for online stores. Business owners like myself can gain traffic and many new sales from running an online store and indeed provide their customers with exceptional customer service. There is great potential to snapping up a great bargain or two by looking online. An online lingerie store is able to provide a greater range of women’s lingerie items for the shopper to choose from, the store owner is no longer constrained by shop floor dimensions, and can display their full bridal lingerie collection, everyday ladies underwear to the more risqué and sexy underwear collections. We specialize in bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie and undergarments and wedding day lingerie.

In reality it is also a lot easier to visit a great many sites as your time permits and compare the prices of your prospective purchases in the comfort of your own home, before deciding which store would indeed provide the best service.

Now, let us share with you the advantages of buying lingerie products at online stores;

• It’s hassle-free! Since you do not need to go the store personally, you can surely save time and effort. As mentioned, this is best for working girls especially for the ones who are working at the office since they are dealing with computers often times.

• It generally comes with low price delivery. You can now have your intimate garments now without ever stepping out of the house.

• It offers a lot of varieties. Through online stores, you are be able to find brands that are not available in your area, at ease, anytime, day or night at your convenience!

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You’re My Obsession

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 5, 2013

Let’s be honest…..How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it? Imagine for a moment that if you had one particular piece on, you know the one, that could literally stop traffic because it was so hot…”would it satisfy my man?” “would it turn him on?” The answer is….YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal. Women are a mans obsession. They dream about it, fantasize and they want to roll-play.

When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so….it’s time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has for so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you’re reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. They know which buttons to push and just the perfect pieces to wear. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there’s no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered!

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let’s try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with…..1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3) it totally drives a man crazy.

The Ultimate…Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh….ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes…When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what’s under her attire that’s got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5-year-old trying to wear the right mix, use your “Garanimal” instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day….and the men adore it.

Dressing Down…? Too Sexy

Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what’s going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly….take it off nice and slow….allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

Why are Guys all “Gung Ho” on Lingerie?

Some guys don’t see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman’s body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light…he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after…Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,…but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They’ll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties…..

It’s hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really….if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie…..Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don’t you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren’t bragging that the sex was good, no no no…..they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be “not so obvious” she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that….kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are readiing…. this it means, dress the part…be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it’s all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn’t afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you’ll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you’re invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety….this is a one man showing, just for you,…so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we’ve got a long way to go and you ain’t seen nothing yet!

Let’s Play Dress Up…..Who do “you” want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play “doctor and nurse,” perhaps you are his housekeeper “french maid?” What about the “naughty school girl” or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the “corrections officer” is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn’t have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie….with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him…..you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie…we sell the handcuffs too!

~MssDelicious

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Relationship = Express Yourself

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on April 3, 2013

You don’t need diamond rings…or eighteen karat gold…fancy cars that go very fast…you know they never last, no, no. So, if we don’t need all of those things, what is it that we do need to make us happy? Long stem roses are the way to your heart, but he needs to start with your head…what if you’re dating a real jackass and he hasn’t a clue about what it is that you want or need? Sister…as Madonna sang…You’ve got to “Express Yourself!” It’s time to get verbal. Yes body language works most of the time, but if you’ve got a man that is not reading between the lines, he may be missing the entire entree, so feed him for heaven sakes! If you don’t tell him, he won’t know what it is that you truly want, need or desire!

Keep in mind, not all men are the ripest apples on the tree when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of these guys are great but they just need some nurturing.Relationships don’t just happen! What you need is a big strong hand to life you to a higher ground. Does he make you feel like you’re the queen of his throne? If he doesn’t then it’s time to move on.

But remember,…in all relationships, especially new ones, they require work and care to endure and, with time, to evolve in ways that keep both partners fulfilled. I call this the labor of love. Such labors are well worth the effort, though, since a lasting marital relationship is the most rewarding bond in life.

My non-professional advice? Put your needs first! What will make your relationship work? There are a few things that are in my opinion that need to occur and will most definitely be sensual and scream happiness together;

1) Have a quickie! Fast sex may seem unromantic, but short bursts of passion keep you bonded because they release dopamine and oxytocin, two chemicals that trigger loving feelings. This also spices it up a little!

2) Respect Your Relationships Privacy; keep this in mind- If a couple seems overly happy, they may be trying to compensate for insecurities. We all need our own space, so do give it to one another.

3) Laying a Solid Foundation; Women and men also need to be equals in their relationship. Communication is KEY…without it, you have no relationship, and what you do have will sink like quick sand.

4) Be Compatible!!!

To be compatible means to be able to exist together in harmony. However, for you and your partner to be able to exist together or complement each other, you need three major characteristics:

(a) Contentment and enjoyment in each other’s company.

(b) Sharing each other’s goals and aspirations.

If you are content with each other and love your life together, you’ll love doing things together which you both enjoy. If you don’t communicate and talk about it, you won’t know what one another is trying to say, so for the love of God, express yourself!

Dating; For All the Single Ladies

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on March 26, 2013

In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what’s a girl to do? It’s 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, or pushing forty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love? Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren’t prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days…today it’s Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let’s talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from. It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at http://www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious.

You can specify any points that are really important to you, such as politics or religion. At the same time, if you are free and willing to move or travel, you can open up your choice to guys who live outside of your city, county, state or even country. These are men that you would never meet without the internet and they could be really great men looking for the same things that you are yet unable to find his mate locally. Internet dating is really the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.

Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

You can tell somebody where you are going and arrange for them to call you at a certain time to make sure everything is okay. If you are very nervous, you could even arrange a date where you go with a group or another couple that you know. This can take some of the stress out of the date if you are very shy. However, it is not the best way for you and your date to get to know each other. Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes, fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing. Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

Finding Your Happy Ever After…

Posted by SimplyDeliciousLingerie on March 25, 2013

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by ‘right person’ I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed…but why? Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it’s time for a change of scenery!

What is your version of ‘happy ever after’ really? The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren’t what we anticipated, in fact, in most cases our eyes were deceived and we were not getting the true reading of them at all. Were we only seeing what we wanted to see or did we build them up so much that everything seemed impeccable?Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn’t come that easily for most of us because we haven’t learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package.

Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the story books. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn’t happen…(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway…) The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you’ll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won’t feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share ‘pillow talk’ with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships.

The phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ…I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of ‘wants and needs’ in your partner. Ones demeanor, and expression transform into our desires. Don’t skimp in the ‘must have’ department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place.

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?

Many people ask me; “What keeps us from finding the love we are so hungry for?” The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,… look past superficial flaws.

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,…Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes, fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing. Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

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