Relationships and Trust

If you would have asked me several months ago or even a few years ago what I found most intriguing in men and being in a relationship my answer might have been something off the chart…why? Probably because I had such high expectations of what I wanted in a man and how I thought a relationship was supposed to work. It may have also been because I hadn’t been in a relationship for a lengthy enough time to give a good man a chance.

In the last several months, I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect relationship, rather relations that are nourished with communication, and kindness. I’ve always been one who would say that if you are worth it, a man will do whatever it takes to make you happy. The truth is, it is not just about me or you. All relationships begin as a friendship and with the right nutrients and enough air to breathe on their own, they blossom over time into something that can be the start of a whole new chapter in one’s life.

 Get to know each other really well. Learn about each other’s biggest dreams and worst nightmares. We all have them, and our feelings do matter.  talk about your ideal plans for your life, where you see yourself in a few years? As mush as this doesn’t matter to many people, it is significant to some people, so lay your cards on the table. Discuss what your moral beliefs are. If you’re religious, discuss those beliefs now. Talk about how you both were raised. Share family stories that provide knowledge of how they’ve made you a better person. Learning about each other, your pasts and ideas on life is very important. Don’t carry baggage (mostly drama) into a new relationship. That is a BIG No-No, so clear the slate now!

Too many of us have preconceived notions about what relationships should or shouldn’t be. When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in…and we all know that frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship. Another ‘not so good’ sign is if you’re trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don’t see the same level of effort on your partner’s part. It’s not an 80/20 relationship, it has to be a 50/50. There has to be some sense of “we’re trying really hard, both making changes and that’s making a difference.’” Otherwise, you will beat yourself into the ground trying to make this person happy and in the end you will only be exhausted, and no one needs a relationship where the work is harder than the enjoyment/satisfaction of what you both share.

Has your relationship gone down hill? They say that often daily routines are one of the culprits and I agree. As their responsibilities grow and roles expand, they say that couples have less and less time and energy for each other. My non-professional advice? You have to make the time, it’s really just that simple. Nothing is so important that a 5 second text message stating that you miss him/her won’t put a smile on your partners face. A brief phone call s that they can hear your voice and know that you miss them and care is all one needs to make them smile and understand that although you are swamped with work, or chores or even family stuff that you care about them and wanted to show it. I’m not stating that your relationship is going down hill fast because of romance, but if may be, that too can be fixed. Surly this doesn’t mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion.

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Treat him or her as you’d like to be treated. In simple terms; ‘be nice!’ It’s not fair for one person to set boundaries and then not be expected to keep the same ones. If you want his/hers respect you are going to have to earn it. Treat them the way that you’d like to be treated.

What destroys a relationship? Jealousy has been said to be the culprit in the destruction in relationships as well as marriages. Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship (or the lack thereof.) Jealousy is the root of all evil. Truth be told; you can’t make your partner feel more secure” or “change their self-confidence.” This has to be up to them to do on their own. Jealousy can weigh down a relationship because it shows lack of trust, and sweetheart, without trust, you have no relationship at all.

If you think that this is untrue, come down off that cloud in La-La-Land and get with the realities of your own insecurities and stop blaming your partner for this one. Honestly, there are so many people who are very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how they can become better partners. Instead, they demand that their partners make  changes. This is a two-way street and no one ever said that being in a relationship/marriage would be easy. The problem at hand is this; too many people give up and don’t want to try. Divorce rates have skyrocketed over the past decade or two and why? Lack of trust, jealousy, and communication. If I have said it once I’ve said it a gazillion times. Talk, talk, talk to your partner.

 

Here’s how to decide if you are in the right relationship;

1) You don’t fear it, you go with the flow and enjoy the ride

2) You don’t snoop into their lives, especially their past

3) You don’t hide your relationship from people

4) You don’t act superior to them

5) You don’t lose yourself in the relationship, it’s NOT all about YOU

6) You don’t expect that person to change, you accept them JUST THE WAY THEY ARE!!

7) You don’t take, take, take

8) You miss them when they are away

9) You don’t smother them wanting to always be together, you give them space

10) You TRUST them!

 

Dating Sites…Looking for L-O-V-E or L-U-S-T?

Dating sites seem to be the route to take these days to finding love,and there are plenty of them out there to choose from…but what it if you don’t desire love, rather lust? What if you are just seeking a lover, a NSA kind of guy? What if you just want a ‘boy toy’ if you will? Someone to give you an exclusive membership to their very own pleasure ride in the sky…their personal ‘mile high club?’ A man who you don’t want to be married to rather just share your private and alone time with a few times a month on intimate dinners, weekend getaways and travel? Then you go your separate ways until your next encounter or get together? 

When I think about meeting a man and dating him, or being his lover, I think about two people, at first strangers coming together to form a certain sense of harmony and really connecting on a variety of levels. When I think about a relationship whether it be long term or short term, the questions is not how long will it last rather, how good do these two people mesh together each time the unite? It takes two special people coming together and feeling a connection, first via emails, texts, and the phone and then in person. Many things go into this to make all the good things unfold, but oh if you plan this out and together make goals and commitments of some sort it will all fall into place and it very well can be a win/win for both of you. What is this you ponder? It’s called synchronicity.

Need me to spell it out for you? It is the phenomenon of meaningful things happening together in such a way that they are creatively linked, although one thing did not cause the other. It is as if there is a pattern to the events that is showing you that you are going in the right direction…and the right direction is always good. When you put forth effort and enthusiasm, it shows you are genuine and sincere. You’re not playing games, you’re both adults and deserve to be treated as such. 

So many things go into the full equation of asking; “Is he really the one that will make me happy?” or “Is he going to be discreet and respect me?” If he is the right guy for you, then getting together should be like a walk in the park. Don’t sweat the small stuff…that’s what I tell my friends. Making a connection with someone is not easy at all, in fact when you meet on line it can be even more difficult because you’ve viewed a profile and determined that you like or dislike him or her. If you do like them you proceed to get to know more about them because there is some sort of an attraction and there is so much more to an individual than simply their profile alone. As long as you are completely honest and have excellent communication skills all will be fine, not to worry. Just be YOU! You will find everything falling into place as if it was ‘meant to be’. If there are obstacles now and then, they will be overcome; generally, your path will be smooth because you both went into this type of relationship with the same expectations not only as friends, but lovers. 

Not every chance encounter is magical. There may be some negative affects to meeting someone; sometimes you may meet the right person at the wrong time. Synchronicity is not there and if you try to force a relationship to happen, it will hit a brick wall, and ouch, you don’t want that! My strong non-professional advice would then be that should this happen to you; you’d better to let him go. If he is your Mr. Right, he will come back into your life again later, when it is the right time for both of you. I always say ‘don’t push fate’ it has to happen on its own. 

 

You may be looking for weeks or months for someone special and not find him, then one day you may be getting ready to close out a membership for a dating site and see a message from someone and decide to read it…it very well could be that one message that caught your eye was all that it took to produce a wonderful new friendship and passion in your life. Erotic and exotic fun may have just hit a new level. Your connection may just be explosive and then you can really kiss the dating sites goodbye!

 

 

 

Dirty Talk…The Naked Truth

On the contrary to what many of you may or may not think, not all dirty talk has to be hardcore. In fact, a variety people prefer their dirty talk with a softer edge. Even the most hardcore dirty talkers find that sometimes, a simple moan or sigh — or an easy, sweet comment that makes your heart melt — is enough to make certain other parts of you tingle. Communication is key, so tell them what you want and choose your words wisely. It’s time to put on your sexy voice and play.

Even in our modern era, talking about what we want when it comes to sex is still difficult. Fantasy requests can be misconstrued as saying “you are not enough for me” when, in reality, they are a huge part of our sexuality — which, if we believe statistics, a whopping 80% of our sex lives takes place in our heads. So, talking dirty is part of fantasy sex play, and can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.
When you are in a relationship where dirty talk is the norm, and you have become accustomed to pushing the envelope, it can be really tough to slow down and just enjoy the more romantic pleasures of naughty discourse. Allow me to share with you some easy- to-do dirty talk tips that will slow things down and turn on the romantic in your partner. Pay close attention, and remember, it’s really not that difficult. This is a benefit for the both of you.

A single rose. Offer a single rose to your partner, and then gently trail the petals over their naked body. As you do, tell them what you love most about that particular body part, their curves, their freckles, their nice breasts, never-never never mention fat or cottage cheese….you’re ass will hit the floor like a brick. Don’t forget the “forgotten” erogenous zones — the feet, the ears, the back, and even that sensitive stop right below the buttocks….no big ass, flat ass, etc., comments. Spend time remembering the delicate places you touch that turns her on. She might not tell you so guys its time to start learning how to read body language!

Whipped cream. Yes, it seems kinky — and my absolute favorite…don’t forget the handcuffs. Ok, so it may be a little kinky too! But whipped cream is also a sweet classic that lovers have been using for decades to enhance their lovemaking without taking it too far into the realm of kink. Almost everyone has whipped cream in their refrigerator at some point, (if you don’t get to the store now)…..so it’s not an even unusual item to find in your home — that means the possibilities for using it are wide and varied, but always with a touch of the romantic.

Soft candlelight. Both men and women love candles. They say romance. The flicker of mellow candlelight can make anyone’s body look sexier, so light them up! Candles all around the room will cast a romantic glow, and the scent of them can lend an even richer layer of sensation to the experience. The dirty talk you use during those moments should be soft and sweet, filled with compliments, this will ease them into the mood raising their erotic zone!

Champagne. Who doesn’t love this? This is the ultimate for romantic oral sex. Why? The bubbles in the champagne will stimulate your body in all sorts of ways, while drinking it from your partner’s body will make you just slightly tipsy, which can make the encounter even hotter, steamier and soooo sexy! Want to enhance the natural flavors? Try a few strawberries, too.

Whispers. Sometimes, the easiest way to tone things down is to quiet your voice. Instead of speaking clearly, whisper oh-so-softly. This makes your partner have to get closer to hear you, and the closer you are, the more intense your touches and actions can become. Just remember to keep your dirty talk quiet from start to finish! If you follow these simple tips you’ll begin to drop that wall a little with your partner and open new doors of endless possibilities. Please keep in mind that it may not happen over night, but it will turn up the heat in the bedroom and that is the naked truth!

 

 

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Online Dating and Disastrous Mistakes…

Everyone tries online dating at one or another point these days. It’s fun and intriguing and you might just get lucky and hit the jackpot and find the love of your life…or not. When online dating first came about, a lot of men saw it as the answer to their dreams. Could life get any better than this? It was like leafing through a catalog shopping for what delighted them…sort of like the ‘must have’ item or deal of the day. Years ago, if you wanted to join a dating agency, you had to jump through so many hoops and you spent hours writing letter after letter to answer women’s ads. In today’s era, no one wants to have a pen pal. Now you can just log on to a particular website, upload your profile and photo, write a couple of lines and wha-la! You’ve got yourself an instant profile and you’re now on the super highway to meeting Ms Right. Hold up…don’t be delusional. You aren’t Rico Suave. There are pros and cons to online dating.

There are millions of women registered with hundreds or even thousands of online dating agencies. I am an affiliate to a variety of them. There are always more women than men, or so it seems, and the proportion of women increases with age. So as a man, you would think all you have to do is get your profile up there and you will have millions of women fighting for you. Right? Ummm, not so much…

If you put your profile up and sit back and wait, you will probably get some interest. Sure. You will receive emails from women who like the look of you. And you will probably think that you can find success with a lot of women without working too hard.

 But after some time, things may not be going so well. Progress is not as fast as you hoped. The ladies who approached you do not seem to be following through. They want to write or chat yahoo? Most of them won’t even agree to meet you. Hey, they started it, right? Why are they suddenly pulling away? This should be the beg ole’ RED FLAG boys…as my grandmother used to say; “If it seems too good to be true, it probably is!”

The fact is, that women do not see themselves as committing to anything when they write you online. For a guy, when he says ‘I’m available’, that’s what he means. But for a woman, being available doesn’t mean they stop being picky…in fact, it means that generally they are testing the waters, doing a background check and asking around about you and that may even mean writing other women on the website that they met you on to see if you copy and paste the same responses or notes to everyone just to see who will respond or who you can get a rise out of. Shame on you fellas. Now you should ask yourself why you can’t find a good woman and what are you doing wrong? My guess is that you have made some bad choices and big mistakes.

At this point a lot of guys make some big mistakes…

1. Aggressiveness won’t work…

Don’t push for a meeting if she is saying no. No means NO! Say OK and then just keep the dialogue open. If she doesn’t want to meet you, that means you have not yet won her trust. You probably just need to keep talking.Don’t accuse her of being afraid to meet you. Women love dares, but this could turn out to be the wrong move on your part. you don’t want to force her hand and make her feel like she has to meet with you. My grandmother used to always say that anything worth having was worth waiting for. Give it time. You’re not in a marathon to find love…

2. Looking for an ideal lady?

If you have an ideal lady in your mind, you will probably not find her. Your dream girl is just that…a fantasy. A lot of guys have illusions about women who look or act a certain way. Your ideal lady probably does not exist, or if she does, she will not look exactly like you imagine. If you hold onto ideals, then 99.9% of women will not fit. Be open to the unexpected, and you will have a lot more success.

3. Lying and talking yourself up? Don’t do it!

Why do men do this? There is simply no point to do it. If you lie about how much you earn, how many times you have been married, if you are or are not married, what you do for a living, your friends or social status, she will probably find out eventually and even if she does not, the fact that you know you have lied will affect your relationship. Lies are so hard to keep up with…just be honest!

If there is something you prefer not to discuss right away that’s ok,…you don’t have to spill your guts all at once, but you should be up front and open. Later, when you have built up some trust and you feel that you can tell her in a confidential way, a woman will accept most that you have to tell … provided you did not lie about it. My theory is that honesty gets you everywhere, and if you wish to find a woman that you can get to know, spend time with and enjoy her company, she wants to meet the real you, not what you’ve built her up to believe is the true you. 

 

 

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Free Online Dating Sites…Which is Best for YOU?

DAY AFTER DAY women and men are looking for love, but are they looking in all the right or all the wrong places? For the past decade I have been interested and involved in getting to know how dating sites function and operate. I’ve researched for years why people turn to dating sites and at what ages. It appears that individuals are anywhere from 18 to 70 years of age. Many of the reasons for  this constant searching myself have been to try to understand what the percentage of us all have in common, and truth be told, we just want to find happiness and love. These two things are characteristics that most people search for can be a life change as well as wonderful new memories if they per chance meet. This all happens through the knowledge of websites and how people choose to use them. What’s best for you? Where will you find love?

 

In this quest for love on the Internet, is there a place for romance? Possibly… There are so many free online dating services these days that it is hard to know how to find the best ones.You can waste a lot of time on a site that turns out to be full of tire kickers or people who are not honest. Sure, is the same as the personal ads in print, with many more benefits and options. It is always a blind race but at least you get to check every day, how many people saw your profile, you get instant messages and replies to your messages are instantaneous. The advantage is simply that it is faster and more convenient to make a successful meeting. Finding the best site will benefit you in the long run, so take your time and do your own investigative work to decide which are your best options.

The main risk with a free dating site is that the members tend not to be so serious as like those on paid sites:

  This is not surprising when you think about it.Get smart here guys and gals, and think about it, really…Imagine a guy who is just looking to pass some dead time at work by emailing a few pretty girls. He may be married, he may be in another country, or he may just not want the commitment of having a real relationship. People like that will waste a lot of your time and you are likely to find many of them on the free sites. Not to mention, in most cases they are cheap dates and really don’t care to find a relationship nor love so they figure “why invest in it?” the bottom line is that these people are not likely to pay out good money just to amuse themselves sending emails to women they do not want to meet. Of course you get the same thing the other way around and there will be women who just want to amuse themselves this way too.

 

Nonetheless, at the same time, there are plenty of genuine people who simply do not have the money to be a member of a paid dating site, or who want to meet a lot of people so they are members of  many sites. So when you find a new online dating free site, how do you know if the members are serious?

 

The simple answer is to look through the profiles before you  join, check them out and get a good feel for them before you decide construct your own profile. better yet, ask around. You would probably do this anyway in that you would look at the profiles of the opposite gender to see if they have the type of person that would interest you. In today’s society people are following leads and looking for love everywhere. If you haven’t guessed yet there are many other places to look as well, but that will have to come about in yet another blog….

 

Sooo, should you do more? YES! My non-professional advice? You should also look at the profiles of other women (if you are a woman). These are the women who attracted the current men members to join the site. Are they like you? Are they looking for the same kind of relationship as you? The better you fit into this existing community, the more likely it is that you will find Mr. Right on the site.

 

 

What About The Site Owner

Another thing that you should consider when joining a free site is: what is the site owner getting out of it? You may not think this is your concern, but in fact it can be a real threat to your security. Is the site owner responsible or just some fly by night operator that is looking to make fast cash? If it’s not the cash, then what is the motivation?

 

Owners of free websites usually have one or more of these  motivations:

1. Advertisers  pay them to run advertisements on the site. The site covers its costs and more this way. 
2. Occasionally, you may find a site that is run simply with the purpose of putting people in touch with each other, with no attempt to make money. These sites are often for people of a particular religious or social group and may be run by a non profit organization.
3. The site owner may make money from spin-off products or services. For example, they may sell an ebook about how to write the perfect online dating profile.
4. The site owner may make money from selling your personal details (email, telephone etc) to marketing companies or paid dating sites who will send you advertising materials.
5. Worst case scenario – the site may be fishing for your personal details for identity theft. This is very uncommon but you should be aware it is a possibility. Be suspicious if they ask for information that they cannot possibly need, such as your credit card or bank details.

As a rule, all you should have to give the site is your email, and you can use a free email address so that you do not get a lot of spam. Genuine free online dating services do not need to know your financial information. Never give out personal information until you find this to be quite legit. My best advice? Do a lot of research in a company before you sign up for something. It’s always better to be safe, than sorry.

 

 

 

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The “Right Kind of Woman” for Men to Date

Men search and search for the typical ‘right kind of woman’ but what kind of woman is she and more importantly, where do he find her exactly? Finding a good woman is not an easy task, especially in an era where lots of women are master manipulators who abuse their female sexual power and exploit male vulnerabilities. On the contrary to what you may think, she is out there fellas, and she may even be someone you know through an acquaintance, work with or live by…Still, there are a lot of good women out there with traits that would make any guy happy.

Now, here’s a list of the good types of women you should be dating:

1. The Independent Woman

The independent woman has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She’s the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn’t need a man in her life. She can take care of herself. An upside of dating this alpha female knowing that she is confident, she won’t rely on you for everything and she certainly isn’t looking for men to solve all her problems. She is the ‘take charge’ and the take the bull by the horns kind of gal. She knows what she wants and she goes after it.
2. The Loyal Woman

This type of woman is ready to go to war with you and take on whatever obstacle life presents. She’s not the type that will be checking out other guys, but will keep her attention focused on you, the man in her life. Whether or not she’s up for first prize in a beauty contest, this type of woman will lift you up when you need it, stand beside you when you need the encouragement to follow through whether it be involving business or something on a more personal note and she will always provide constructive criticism to make you a better man and be on your side no matter what

3. The Sweetheart

The sweetheart is a woman who’s positive, compassionate and gentle. Her upbeat personality makes you smile. You are happy when you are with her and you enjoy just being in her presence. She’s a genuine person who considers you in every situation. She’s always truly happy to see you and you find yourself looking forward to spending time with her. This type of woman is pretty rare, but if you can find one, you’ve got a real treasure on your hands.
4. The Low Maintenance Woman

The low maintenance woman is rational, not emotionally clingy or needy, is comfortable doing things on her own and does not require constant reassurances. She really doesn’t care about how much money you have, she just likes you for you and not for what she can take from you. She see’s a bigger picture and life is more so about what she can do to help you succeed. Unlike the high maintenance woman, whose needs are generally all about ‘me, me, me’ as she accepts herself as she is and is comfortable with her good points, as well as her bad ones,…and she feels the same about you. She is comfy in her own skin and she waits for you to realize that she is the one for you, rather than being all up in your face about it. Romance is key and she knows how to act and react. It doesn’t take a lot to make her happy and she relies on no one but herself most often to get things done. She is a dreamer and wants nothing more than to be the one that he kisses goodnight at the end of a long, exhausting work day.

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Wanted: One Great Guy!

Do you ever wonder if there are any guys out there who are worth dating, and I mean, REALLY worth dating? If you tend to ask this question on more than just an occasion isn’t it a question then that possibly every other woman is asking herself also? These great men,…I want to know…Where are they? And why can’t you find them? Oh, they’re out there – but maybe you’re looking in the wrong places.Take a step back and look at your habits, and where you go. Look at your life style and the places that you frequent. If you are spending all of your time in casinos, nightclubs and bars, honey, there is your problem. You have to step outside of the box and get practical or you’ll end up with a hottie, but most likely a real asshole with an arrogant and flamboyant attitude. If you find a man that describes what I just did, sister, your better off sitting home on a Saturday night and watching a chick flick with a bottle of wine and Chinese food.

 Have you ever stopped to think that maybe, JUST MAYBE…You might even know a great guy right now, but you’re passing him by because you aren’t sure what you really want? Get with the program sister or someone else will steal him out from under your feet. My guess is; that are you’re letting yourself look for men the way you shop for shoes – changing your mind with each new trend or mood. 

Finding the right single man is not about pleasing your friends or a competition for attracting the hottest guy at the party. Finding the right single man only happens when you know what you want in a man.Think of man hunting like bargain hunting at a clearance sale. Sure, the neon orange skirt is 80% off the regular price, but where would you wear it? That conservative black suit is a classic, but your style is sporty and casual – it just doesn’t fit with the rest of your wardrobe. Buying another tank top that’s not your size won’t look any better because it’s on sale than the one you already have that shrank in the wash. Mr. Neon Orange may be easy to lead around, but he would never fit into your world. 

Mr. Conservative Black Suit runs with a more formal crowd than your flip flop loving crowd. Mr. Too-Tight Tank Top is just like Mr. Jerk that you spent months crying over last year  do you really want to do that again?

You have to know what you want in a man before you can find him. So take out a piece of paper and draw three columns. The left column is for “What’s Important,” middle column is for “Requirements” and right column is for “Preferences.” 

The “What’s Important” column includes such items as age, income, appearance, moral value, habits like smoking/drinking,common interests, sports, commitment style and family values. Don’t try to fit any particular guys into this list not yet.Prepare this list with absolute honesty. Decide what characteristics are “must haves” (Requirements) and which are “like to haves” (preferences). Until you know this information, you really can’t make a solid decision about any guy. Maybe you’ve ignored nagging requirements in order to accept a certain guy as he is. That’s a relationship                  red flag. 

If you’re a personal trainer who is into natural foods, you can make all the excuses in the world, but you won’t last with a guy who smokes and craves fatty fast foods 24/7. The conflict between what’s important to him and what’s important to you means that one of you has to change. Don’t count on changing him. If you change your beliefs, how much of yourself gets lost? Over time, you’ll either resent him or resent yourself – the conflict in inevitable. Knowing what you want is the fair way to date.I dated a guy once that told me that I was bad for him because I was eating unhealthy. What did I do? I tried, and made a great effort to change my poor eating habits for me, not for him, and I began looking good…was he grateful? Apparently not…oh, and did I mention that he stepped out on my patio to smoke often? And he thought that wasn’t unhealthy especially with some of the serious health issues this guy had? Really? He was going to make me feel bad? I don’t think sooooo…..

Listen,….Why waste your time (and his) when the foundational elements aren’t there? It’s also important to be honest with yourself about the type of man that you really want. When you know how to describe him, you’ll have an easier time recognizing him when you meet him. Knowing what type of man it is that you not only want, but deserve is the difficult part just the same as finding him…you first must be ready for a relationship and open minded. Where you meet him and when is fate…at least that’s what my grandmother used to call it. In today’s day and age though, with much luck from online dating sites, things are made a bit easier for us aren’t  they? Maybe you already know him – you just didn’t                  know yourself! Maybe it’s time to give someone a chance and see what happens? Perhaps this is finally your time? Embrace it and take a chance…

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BIG Dating Mistakes Men Make….

Number 10

Are you being too much of a nice guy? Let me ask you this…Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys? Of course you have. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple. Women don’t base their choice of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction to them. Ahhh but then guess what? Being a nice guy won’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you. And being nice won’t make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense to you, and it may be even hard to accept… but get over it. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you’ll never have the success with women that you want.

Number 9

Trying to convince her to like you What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like… but she’s just not interested? Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you: You will never change how a woman “feels” when it comes to attraction! Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you by means of “logic and reasoning.” Think about it.If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being “reasonable” with her? But every man does it. When a woman just isn’t interested, you beg, plead, chase, and  you do your best to change her mind. What some good advice? Bad idea. Just kiss this one goodbye now sweetheart because that will never work!! Besides…chances are you are far too good for her and you dewserve much better!

Number 8

Looking for her approval

In your desire to please her,… (which men so often mistakenly think will make them like us), they (as guys) are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission.” This is another horrible idea. Women are never attracted to the type of men who kiss up to them… ever. Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women badly for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things,” think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval. Do you doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her.

Number 7

Trying to buy her affection
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn’t treat her even half as well as you did? Well guess what? It’s only natural when this happens.That’s right, I said natural.When you do these things, you’re sending a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.” Your good intentions usually come across to women as overcompensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as a manipulation.

Number 6

Sharing your feelings too early
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a lot of attention from men. Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time. An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That’s right. They have experience. They know what to expect. And nothing turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, really like you” after only one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves. Instead, keep your yap shut and make her wonder? Women hate the not knowing part. Yes sure we like to be chased, BUT for the guys reading this…it will keep them in line a bit and make them anzious to hear from you again. Trust me on this one…just don’t play games because whether you are a great guy or a player jerk, we can sense it after a few dates.

Number 5

Not “getting” how attraction works
Women are very different from men when it comes to attraction. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Well, after studying this topic for years, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things her than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way that a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 4

Thinking that it takes money & looks…what??
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age. Oh sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. They are ruthless bitches, yes you heard me ruthless, and if you think you can change them, then you are way too gullible and boy do I have piece of the Brooklyn Bridge I want to sell you..

Listen, here is the 4-1-1….the hard core truth…In todays era, most women are educated, and independent. Don’t see that as a bad think, appreciate it and accept it that they have some class and are not clingy, needy women. These women will understand and appreciate you. Now, the truth is, on the contrary, most women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are certain personality traits that attract women like a magnet… And if you learn how to really truly use them, you can be one of those guys. You do not have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 3

Failing to read dating situations

Now I’m going to blow your mind… a woman always knows what you’re thinking. Women are approximately 10 times better than men at reading body language. That’s 10 times. I know, it might be hard for you to believe. But, for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly how to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help! And this goes for all aspects of women and dating… Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and lose everything. And you know it.

Number 2

Not getting help….This is the biggest mistake of them all.This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want. If you don’t have the answers seek help from a professional or ask a close friend or relative for advice that is partial, and will not take sides or try to persuade you in any way. You want honesty, and integrity. Do not settle for less.

Number 1 

  Go with your gut… follow your heart, and pay attention! Don’t ever go over the top to win a woman’s affection…Why? Because the one whose affection that you may be trying to earn is probably not the one that you should be with. Think about it! I am a woman, and I am right about this one!

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Aphrodisiac Foods that Fuel your Sex Drive

Did you know that the food you consume can have a direct impact on your sex life, affecting your hormones, brain chemistry and energy and stress levels. I guess that old saying ‘food for thought’ is no myth after all? There are a variety of foods that kick your sex drive up a notch that I’ll bet you eat daily and never knew it? Foods are more than just healthy, now they have a great impact on ‘Yo MoJo!’

Some foods have psychoactive properties, others arouse because they are psychologically suggestive, and some can actually increase blood flow to the genitals. If  for some, it does not have all that aphrodisiac effect, at least it’s healthy and it will do your body good! I’ve listed the leading foods that stimulate your sex drive…take the test, and see which is the most effective for you!

 Asparagus and Avocados

The vitamin E in these green eats helps your body churn out hormones like testosterone, estrogen, and progesterone, which circulate in your bloodstream and stimulate sexual responses like clitoral swelling and vaginal lubrication.

Bananas

Another reason to think about sex when you wrap your lips around this phallus-shaped fruit: Chiquitas deliver potassium, a nutrient key to muscle strength. So when you orgasm, the contractions will be super intense.

Chocolate

Cocoa contains the chemical phenylethylamine, a stimulant that conjures just the sort of subtle feelings of well-being and excitement that make sex seem like a great idea. The Aztecs referred to chocolate “nourishment of the Gods.” Chocolate contains chemicals thought to effect neurotransmitters in the brain and a related substance to caffeine called theobromine. Chocolate contains more antioxidant (cancer preventing enzymes) than does red wine. The secret for passion is to combine the two. Try a glass of Cabernet with a bit of dark chocolate for a sensuous treat.

Oysters

We know, we know: Oysters as an aphrodisiac sounds so clichéd, but they really can spark randiness. These shellfish are brimming with zinc, a mineral that cranks up the production of testosterone, which has been linked to a higher sex drive.

Red Wine

Besides relaxing you faster than a neck rub can, red wine contains resveratrol, an antioxidant that helps boost blood flow and improves circulation before and during intercourse.

Watermelon

Make it a watermelon martini! The juicy fruit contains the phytonutrient citrulline, which leads to an uptick in the amount of nitric oxide in your body. That spike causes blood vessels to relax and speeds up circulation. As a result, you’ll get more aroused in less time.

Hot Chilies

Capsaicin, a chemical found in fiery peppers, increases circulation to get blood pumping and stimulates nerve endings so you’ll feel more turned on.

Pomegranates

The pom owes its passion power to antioxidants, which protect the lining of blood vessels, allowing more blood to course through them. The upshot? Increased genital sensitivity.

Aniseed
A very popular aphrodisiac with many culinary uses. It has been used as an aphrodisiac since the Greeks and the Romans, who believed aniseed had special powers. Sucking on the seeds is said to increases your desire.

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Selecting Lingerie for Her

The first thing you want to think about when shopping for your lady is that you are shopping for HER, not you. That statement cannot be said enough. Just because you find something sexy and alluring that you want to tear off of her the moment she puts in on does not mean that she’ll like or, or feels comfortable in it. Remember, you may think that it is sexy as hell, but there isn’t a thong riding up your ass, so pleaseee, before you select something for YOU, remember it’s for HER, and with this in mind choose your piece(s) of lingerie carefully.  If she does not like it, or feel good in it, she’s not going to wear it. Don’t run out and get the most revealing, uncomfortable piece of lingerie known to man just because it is eye candy.

This will probably get your purchase used as a car towel or end up in the garbage can when you are at work. You want to ask yourself what would she wear. What does she like? What color suits her and best? Will she feel good and comfortable in this? This can be a very difficult task to say the least. However, knowing what types of lingerie are out there and what kinds she likes will very beneficial for you. So PAY ATTENTION!

The next thing to consider is the actual type of lingerie out there. You will want to make sure that you are finding what you are looking for and not just plain old panties and bras. You want something special that will suit her style and body. You will want to know the difference between a corset and a bustier. You might think there is none but there truly is. A corset is designed to cinch the waist and flatten the bust line to produce a specific amount of cleavage.

A bustier has bra like cups in it and does not have waist cinching. The difference between a Chemise and a Baby Doll is that a chemise is more conservative and a bit longer. The Baby Doll has bra like cups and is a bit shorter and more revealing. Baby Dolls often come with matching panties, as chemises usually do not. Then there are the teddies that are like a one-piece outfit. At SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com we hand selected each piece with every woman in mind, because as women, we know that what looks good on me, may not look good on you, someone else and vica versa. If you are not sure what would be the right choice, you can never go wrong with a sexy matching set. The bra and panty set is a great place to start with perhaps a matching satin robe.

So now you know the basic styles. Now you must know her size. Here is the most confusing part about lingerie shopping. There is more than one size type depending on the type of lingerie you purchase. When buying any lingerie that has cups in it you will have to know her bra size. This is the size that says 32 B, 36 D, 34 C, etc. This is critical to know or she will not fit into it properly and will not wear it. For all other types of lingerie you will have to know her shirt and dress size. You will want to know both the number and generic size. Look on her clothing to see if she is an 8, 10, 6, etc. then look on other articles to see if she wears a small, medium, or large. If you buy something too small she will think you want a smaller woman.

To buy something too big, she will think that you think she is fat…and if she thinks that, buddy I hate to tell you but you’re now in the dog house! You must have the right size so she knows you want her. Pay attention to HER needs. It’s not about YOU, after all it is about HER! Also by knowing her bra size it will eliminate getting a teddy or babydoll, fantasy costume, etc., that will be too tight and possibly rip after its first wearing. Yes, tight can look sexy, but we don’t want to bend over and have the entire ass rip out of your lingerie, why btw (by the way), is now no longer sexy at all.

Once you have decided on what style will suit her and make her feel comfortable, then now you need to think color. You need to be sure that this hides anything she feels is a flaw. An example would be if she is constantly complaining about her hips then you will not want to go with a teddy that outright exposes that area. Go through her draws and see what colors she likes. Pick out a color that enhances her eyes and skin tone. See what other lingerie she has. This will help you find the perfect style and color for her that she will enjoy. Take your time while shopping and don’t rush things.

My boutiques are open 365/24/7 so take your time! If you need help, contact Tantalizing Tina in our expertise fashionista section and write her for assistance! You can always ask for help if you are having a hard time finding what you are looking for. Always go with items that have adjustable straps. This will allow her to fit the garment right for her body.

Detachable straps are always good too, especially with corsets and bustiers. This will allow her to determine if she is comfortable with out the straps or is almost like two outfits in one. When buying matching panties you will want to know what style she wears and get that kind. For garters and stocking make sure you are positive she likes these and they have adjustable straps. If you still are not sure what to buy and this is your first lingerie experience, keep in mind, you can never go wrong with sexy matching sets. Tutus are a good way to make it fun! See the photo below. Most importantly have fun shopping and make it exciting for her. When done right, you can expect to go out again and again together, which is the best fun, and as your relationship grows, you’ll begin to learn what why is was that feel for him in the beginning.