You’re My Obsession

Let’s be honest here. How many times to sexual fantasies dance through your head in a 24 hour period? What do you visualize your partner wearing that makes them so sensual? Wearing sexy lingerie is a contributing factor to this equation. How many times to do look at lingerie? How often do you wear it? Do you imagine if you had that one particular piece on…”would it satisfy my man?” “would it turn him on?” The answer is….YOU BET IT WOULD! Ladies, men are obsessed with women that take the time to go one step further to show off some sex appeal.

Here’s my question? When was the last time you crossed the line and just got provocative and sexy for a man? Longer than a month, or 6 months? If so….it’s time to release some tension and tease a gentleman that has so long been waiting for you to drive him insane. As you’re reading this, women worldwide are shopping around for lingerie to seduce their men with or just to keep themselves feeling sexy. Lingerie has been used as a sexual mechanism for years now and there’s no future of its slowing down anytime soon. Simply Delicious Lingerie has you and all of your needs covered! Slipping into a piece of our sexy lingerie becomes an obsession. Don’t you want to be someones sexual obsession?

Why Do Women Wear Lingerie?

Before I get into why guys drool when a thong or something lacy comes into view, let’s try to understand why women enjoy wearing these sexy items to begin with…..1) we like to tease. 2) it gives us confidence, 3)  it totally drives a man crazy.

 

The Ultimate…Lead him to Temptation with Anticipation

Believe it or not, sometimes women wear sexy lingerie under their everyday clothes to give themselves that boost of confidence they need to get on with their day. Duhhh….ladies, you should always wear some sexy panties and bra under your clothes, whether it be your business attire or wear around clothes…When you see a gal with an unusual skip in her step, it might be what’s under her attire that’s got her in a good mood. Never miss match your colors. Like a 5-year-old trying to wear the right mix, use your “Garanimal” instincts. A man LOVES a women who takes the time to look sexy for herself because it makes her feel good, and kick starts her day….and the men adore it. 

Dressing Down…? Too Sexy

Dressing down for an evening of lovemaking makes women feel sensual. The idea of your undressing her slowly or better yet, for to watch you prance around the room or dance for you in her sexy attire, will have both of you anticipating what’s going to happen once the lace and satin come off. Not quickly….take it off nice and slow….allowing him to fully savor every minute.Men love sexy which ever way you serve it.

 

Why are Guys all “Gung Ho” on Lingerie?

Some guys don’t see the point in paying hundreds of dollars for something that is going to come off in approximately 30 seconds or less, but others appreciate every thread on a woman’s body. He wants to remember what you looked like,m how the light was hitting your face, whether it be from the lamp or candle light…he wants to visualize your image every time he closes his eyes there after…Lingerie need not be an acquired taste,…but it is one that once you get a piece of it, like a drug, you cannot do without it. They’ll want to see you in it more, and more.

No Grannie Panties…..

 

It’s hard for women to keep up that hot mama look on a daily basis, (says who?) Not really….if you think that it is you need to do some reevaluating sweetie…..Listen gals, lingerie separates those ordinary days from the extraordinary days. Don’t you want to be the woman who other men talk about to their friends, coworkers and golf buddies? How exciting must it be for him to brag about his beauty and what a sex goddess is? They aren’t bragging that the sex was good, no no no…..they are thrilled to share with their friends that you still turn him on! When you get a peek, a nonchalant sassy move that is supposed to be “not so obvious” she definitely wants you to take notice. And of course, you can do better than that….kiss her neck, and run her shoulders, and give her some loving. Ladies, for you who are reading…. this it means, dress the part…be the sex goddess, no grannie panties allowed, it’s all or nothing here! You want to be the women that all the other women talk about. The one who isn’t afraid to take this to the next naughty level.

 

Give Him a Private Show

Everyone loves feeling sensual and special so when she buys that sexy item especially for you, you’ll feel like a million bucks simply because she wants to impress you. This is a private showing and only you’re invited to the unveiling. Look at her, remember the beauty of it and captivate the moment in its entirety. Trace her every delicate curve in your mind. This is a one man showing, just for you,…so sit back, enjoy and close your mouth, we’ve got a long way to go and you haven’t  seen anything yet!

Let’s Play Dress Up…..Who do “you” want to be?

Sometimes lingerie can help her (and you) escape from the treacherous monotony that is everyday life. She can put on a kinky number and the two of you can play “doctor and nurse,” perhaps you are his housekeeper “french maid?” What about the “naughty school girl” or maybe you have been a bad, bad man and the “corrections officer” is going to make you pay big? This all is a form of foreplay and men L-O-V-E IT!

Suck it up gals and get to town buying something revealing. It doesn’t have to be Halloween to buy a costume from Simply Delicious Lingerie….with your lover, every day can be dress up day! Remember, to him…..you are his obsession, so make it memorable! Oh, at Simply Delicious Lingerie…we sell the handcuffs too!

 

~MssDelicious

 

 

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Lingerie…Why Wear Sexy Matching Sets?

Why wear sexy matching sets women ask? When it comes to every day dress, my mother used to tell us to always make sure you had on matching underwear and that it was clean. Ok, as a child that didn’t mean a whole lot, but as we tend to get older, and over the years we come to realize that mom really had a valid point. Keeping your underwear clean was the easy thing to do…every day you shower and you put a new pair on, however,…why should it be matching? For many reasons, but for the most common; sex appeal. Truth be told, many women do not always wear matching underwear, including my daughter. I’ve seen her lingerie drawer and nothing makes sense to me. She is one of the most organized young ladies that I know but when I was doing her laundry for her one day and I opened her lingerie drawer,… I just about fell over.

Sometimes you wonder how that ole’ apple could fall so far from the tree (especially in situations such as this-where her mother owns lingerie stores and has access to as many delightful colors, styles and selections) and then I realize that everyone is their own person and no two women are really alike. I may be a hot mess in other categories such as closets and how clean and organized they are, or kitchen drawers and what you may or may not find in them…BUT if you looked in my lingerie drawers, you would see that everything is paired together nicely and regardless if you caught me on a Sunday or a Friday, at work or at home, at a concert, out with the girls, on a hot date, cleaning the house or washing my car….I would be be in matching bra and panties and that’s the end of the story! Why? Because regardless of anything else I like to feel sexy and for me it is all about what I am wearing beginning with what I slip into each morning when I get out of the shower, and that my friends is SEXY LINGERIE. Feeling sexy boosts your confidence.

Do women take time to dress from the skin on out or are most women just really worried about what they look like on the surface? I believe that your look starts with your lingerie and that it should match and be something not only appealing rather flattering to you. Lingerie is FABULOUS! Whether it be lace, satin, or silk – lingerie comes in a variety of fabrics soft to touch. The styles, patterns and colors that you choose tell a story about YOU!

I believe that you should never get caught in a situation where there could be surprises…so what if you were on a date and one thing leads to another and you end up in the bedroom? You taunt and you tease him, and then you undress….Do you want to be the woman he sees in mismatched undies that clash or the woman that brings him to his knees when you drop your dress and he sees the most sexy matching bra and panties he’s ever laid eyes on? Add a garter belt and thigh highs to the equation and you will have him at your mercy, nonetheless remembering that vision of what you stepped out of ‘that night’ and seduced him in. It’s really a no-brainer ladies…plan ahead. Just get into the habit of shopping for sexy matching sets.

Shop with a variety of styles, textures, patterns, and colors in mind. You wouldn’t go to work in an outfit that was mismatched, so stop wearing undergarments that are. It doesn’t matter what your job title is or your occupation…feeling sexy comes from the inside. If you aren’t already wearing matching sets, try to get in the habit of doing so. It speaks volume…and for those ‘just in case’ moments when you just might get caught with your knickers down, make certain that what you have on underneath is just as alluring to the naked eye as what they see on the surface.

It’s not about what others may or may not think of you and how you dress, it is truly about how you feel from the inside out and I’m telling you that if you got into the habit (if you are not already) of wearing sexy matching sets, it would become habit for you to select the color and look just right for you each and every day. You’ll begin wearing your panties to match your mood.

Fill your lingerie drawer with colors that tell a story. It’s not at all about making others happy or pleasing them, although, in the bedroom we are wanting to please our partner…nevertheless, wearing lingerie is about feeling good and savoring sexy. After all, it is all about YOU! If your lingerie drawer is a hot mess and has too many mismatched pieces, it’s time to spring clean! That means out with the old and in with the new….it’s time to shop! You don’t have to go crazy spending a lot of money. Buy a few sets at a time, and before you know it you’ll have a lingerie drawer to be proud of that tells a story about who you are and you’ll never have to worry another day about what you have on. Shakira sang it best with her song “Underneath Your Clothes”….you see, there’s an endless story, it’s your territory. Shop www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com for all of your intimate apparel needs.

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/   Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

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Why Men Shop Online for Women’s Lingerie

Here’s a subject that I feel I need to talk to you about. It is men shopping for womens lingerie. Lets face it, it’s not easy. Whether it be your wife, girlfriend, lover, mistress, or sugar baby…fellas, make sure that you understand lingerie and how it fits. It’s great to think that your gal is going to look sexy in it, BUT you need to know the ins and outs to selecting the proper pieces. You might agree that women in lingerie in magazines, on television advertisements, and even on the internet are nothing particularly new. As women on the other hand, we see it daily and  we keep up with the trends. Men though, haven’t really kept up with the growth in availability of lingerie as well as the demand. Lets just say that many are out of the loop. Buying beautiful, sensitive and intelligent woman lingerie is not the same as fantasizing about that woman you admire in the magazine or on a television commercial.

Giving some thought to the purchase before the fact will improve the chance that the purchase is worn, appreciated and who knows what other benefits he may receive. Understand what your lady likes and prefers. This is about her, not you. It’s all about making her happy,…and in return, you will be happy as well. First and foremost is the woman! Never lose sight of the fact that you are buying lingerie for a living, breathing, thinking creature with emotions and feelings. It is not like buying a toothbrush, or a blender, or even a sweater.

Lingerie comes with a sexual charge. There is a certain stigma about lingerie shopping. That is one reason many men buy lingerie. It’s like a magnetic attraction when they see a woman in something sensual that makes them so desirable. This sexual charge can be great, and it can be the basis of disappointment. Unlike other gifts, lingerie is the most intimate gift one can buy for a woman. It is worn under her clothing away from the prying eyes of other men and women, reserved only for the special person in her life. Also, it exposes some potential flaws, real or otherwise that she likely doesn’t like to advertise to anyone, especially the man in her life.

If there is one rule of thumb when buying lingerie, it’s to get her size right.  If you buy something too small, she will know you didn’t do your homework (but  she may be flattered); if you buy something too big, you’re in deep trouble  because that means you think she’s bigger than she really is. To find the best  fit, you need to do your research by checking out her underwear drawer and  examining the labels. Be aware that it doesn’t work in simply S, M & L.  

A tip that will assist you guys in your shopping for intimate apparel; you   will need her bra cup size and her underwear size, and if you are buying  stockings, keep in mind that they come in different sizes based on height and many brands tend to run small.  Pay close attention to your lady and how she is proportioned. She may think her breasts are too small, or her tush is too big. She might think that her hips are far too curvy. Nonetheless, a sincere lack of consideration in buying sexy underwear can expose some pretty sensitive feelings. Beware! You, being the man in her life, know or should know about these concerns, and you better take them seriously, because if you don’t and you show up with a gift that is too small or the wrong color, etc, shit will hit the fan! Want to make her happy? Ask her what makes her comfy and what she enjoys wearing for YOU!

While making the selection, ask..will it fit? There is nothing worse than trying on a beautiful set of lingerie and finding it  is totally unsuitable for your body type, with bits squishing out here, stuff  looking baggy there, things being too tight, too loose or cut in the wrong  place. Everybody is different, and you need to take this into account when  choosing her under garments.  

 What color do you choose? Most women can pull off white, red or black; luckily,  nearly all lingerie comes in these colors, making it reasonably easy to choose.  In saying that, your girl’s hair color will help you to decide as well. Blondes  often suit pastel colors, but brunettes need stronger colors to set them off,  like emeralds and sapphires. Redheads are complemented by green, blue and earthy  tones.

There are normally a few different types of fabric to choose from when buying   lingerie, such as lace, satin, silk, cotton, leather,  lycra, and velvet. Lace, satin and silk are considered “safe purchases” because  they are quite sexy and very feminine, not too wild or over-the-top and feel  beautiful on the skin. Cotton has been called boring, though there are some lovely  pieces available in this fabric. Cotton is what women buy for themselves to wear  every day, it is probably their one pair of granny panties that they have for certain times during the month, so my advice would be, stay away from the cotton products. Want to get totally erotic? Go leather. Want to see a sexy side of her that portraits a beauty? Buy her satin and lace.

Shop at our boutiques. www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com and www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com. Why? Many reasons, but most of all PRIVACY and we’re open 365/24/7. Yes, the benefits of internet purchases are generally the selection as few boutiques in your hometown will carry the styles, colors and brands available online. Next, the cost of items online is generally much, much lower than in retail stores. We often offer coupons and with all of our return shoppers we offer great deals to thank them for coming back! At Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie, we treat you like your family! the most important reason though that men shop online? The anonymity of buying sexy lingerie and adult sex toys from your home is far different from driving down to your local neighborhood adult store and facing a female unfriendly environment. 

As the owner of Simply Delicious Lingerie and Simply Luscious Lingerie, I highly recommend reviewing our websites and shopping with us. We have a fashionista to assist you in your selection. We offer so many styles, sizes and selections. We sell luxury lingerie at affordable prices that won’t break the bank. Check us out today and see why so many people are shopping at our online boutiques!

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About Simply Delicious Lingerie:

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s Lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ® 

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About Simply Delicious Lingerie

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, men’s erotic underwear, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing. Have a lingerie party with us and experience fun!  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit http://simplydeliciouslingerie.com/  Say YES (your everyday sexy) to Simply Delicious Lingerie! ®

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Stockings…OH YES, SO SEXY!

Lets face it, men get all fired up when they think of women in stockings, especially when they are silky and smooth. A woman looks meticulous in them. A man likes what he likes, so if he is shops for you, expect nothing but the finest. My guess is that he will shower you in silky stockings. So what is it about the stocking that make them so flawless and lovely? Everything! Need some history on the stocking? The  stocking has been around for centuries. There are even references to them in ancient Greece.

For those of you who may not know a lot about the stockings, please allow me to share a little bit of knowledge with you; The seamed stockings became very popular in European countries to the nobles. The rest of the population only wore stockings. The fancy seams were not affordable to the lower class people at the time. When they fell out of fashion after the royalty fell, the seamless style stayed in common. It was not as highly spoke of or heard about as the fancy seams of the royalty. However, it managed to linger throughout the centuries and hit us today in the modern world. Women adore the striking, sexy look and a mans jaw drops when they see a women in them. They are tantalizing and leave temptation lingering on one’s mind for some time. Men have naughty thoughts as they undress a women visually. They just love stockings.

In the early 20th century stockings came back into style.Who knew? It was not until the 1960s with the invention of nylons that the seamless stocking had its true hay day.Even with the popularity of the pantyhose, stockings were still popular. Most manufacturers made the seamless knee and thigh high stockings for the older generation that was not interested in panty hose. Designer hose had seemed to be put somewhere else. 

 Today, society has taken the seamless stocking and created a mass market for it  in the lingerie business. This type of stocking can be used with or without a garter belt today. Many styles put out by large companies skip the need for a garter all together by adding a sticky elastic band that holds the stocking up. As sexy as this is, it still does not compare to the allure of  the garter with a stocking. Hey…I am a garter gal. I think that they turn heads. They are complicated to put on and take off but so worth the wait, I can assure you,…men are never patient,…BUT when they see a woman in stockings they cannot wait to undress her slowly because they want to savor the moment. He sees you as elegant and polished. He sees beauty. The seamless stocking usually has a lace band around the thigh. That is where the rubber strip is built-in to hold the hose up. They often come in different styles and colors of these alluring seamless stockings. Know what color looks best on you. The taste will be impeccable.

So, what has the seamless stocking done for us today? First of all it has made women all over the globe feel sexy and alluring.They give a sheer sexy look to a woman’s legs without running and tearing like nylons. This is due to their delicate weaving process that leaves them shear but tough. Men love smooth stockings, not scratchy ones. Someone just reminded me of that this evening. A woman now has a choice of a stocking with out seams in the back that she can wear with or with out a garter. The seamless stocking looks more mainstream and professional for many women. It also allows  those women who never cared for the seamed version to be able  to have a sexy stocking as well. The seamless stocking has  also been creeping slowly back into mainstream society over  the past few years. Now it is easier and easier to find a pair at any department store. They are no longer just found in the lingerie stores and boutiques. The seamless stocking is everywhere.

There are two  main favorites among women in seamless stockings today. The Cotton stocking is extremely popular. They are a bit thicker but still very sexy. One can wear this seamless style with any dress or skirt and look great. The control top style has the rubber grips around the thigh bands to keep the stocking from falling. If you have ever had a pair of thigh high stockings that fell down you’ll remember the embarrassment and never want that to happen again…trust me. Usually there is no lace on the cotton style. The cotton style is also available with out the rubbed banding for those ladies who want to use the garter. 

The thigh band on this style is a little thinner to allow the clasps to grab the stocking. Then there are the silk seamless stockings that are just heavenly. The also come with or with out the garter option. These also can come, and often do, with a full lace cuff around the thigh. These are great stockings for those fancy dresses or lingerie. Most women use the silk stockings with their favorite lingerie piece. There is nothing more sleek and sexy that the feel and look of the seamless stocking on a womans leg. This is a fashion that will never go out of style no matter what. Which do you prefer? You decide. There are such a variety of stockings available that you will have many to choose from. We’re making big additions to our website and stockings will be available in both regular and plus sizes. Regardless of what you envision sexy as…feeling confident in the lingerie that you wear is what allows you to rise above and feel like a million bucks. Make your selection according to your needs and what feels and looks good on you, because you are the one that has to wear them. 

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Bring Sexy Home!

Welcome to
Simply Luscious Lingerie®…Bring Sexy Home!

As a confident supplier of plus size women’s intimate apparel, we take great pride in presenting to you a line of lingerie that is inviting, provocative, sensuous, and voluptuous. Our look is delectable, divine, and distinctive. Our prices are at a cost to you that are affordable, yet manifest quality, and the deliverance of how class is perceived. This magnificent assortment that we have put together for the curvy women will be not only embody style, it exemplifies a dynamic and extraordinary diversity in fashion. Our online website offers you a private showing and your own personal area to shop for a variety of delicates that will accentuate each individual woman’s needs. The eloquence of this breathtaking and stimulating attire will ravish you and catch your eye with exquisite intimacy. Isn’t it time for you to bring sexy home?

Host a party with Simply Luscious Lingerie and earn CASH COMMISSIONS and FREE LINGERIE! No consultants, no kits to buy. Contact us now and we’ll tell you how to get started!

We’ve separated ourselves from all the other companies that try to recruit you as consultants to book parties and to sign up sales representatives under you…In fact, our desire is to ‘keep it simple!’ We want to make this fun and exciting with inspiration for you to set your own goals at your own pace!As a host/hostess, you are representing our organization by having the most exclusive, and talked-about party amongst all of your friends…but that isn’t the only benefit we offer to you. We want to grow our business and we need your help!

We are a USA online boutique, however we want everyone to know about us so if you host a lingerie party in another country, we’ll ship your party order to the host and she can distribute it to everyone!

Here’s What Each Party Sale Can Earn YOU as a Host!

Sell Under $499 – You get 10% commission + $25 in free lingerie from either Simply Delicious Lingerie or Simply Luscious Lingerie!

Sell between $500.00-2000.00 and receive 15% commission + $50 in free lingerie from either Simply Delicious Lingerie or Simply Luscious Lingerie.

Sell between $2001.00-$3500 and receive 18% commission + $75 in free lingerie from either Simply Delicious Lingerie or Simply Luscious Lingerie.

Sell over $3501.00-$4999.00 and get 20% commission + $100 in lingerie from Simply Delicious Lingerie or Simply Luscious Lingerie.

—Sell  over $5000 and get 25% commission and $125 in free lingerie!

Shop our store anytime, day or night. Host a Party, Have fun and Get Paid!

Contact us if you have any questions or comments.

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The Simply Delicious Lingerie Staff

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Finding Your Own Inner Happiness

We often look at others and wonder to ourselves “why are they so happy?” Instead, you should be taking a good hard look in the mirror and asking yourself “what makes me happy?” I have found over the years that those who dwell in the past, those that look for fault in others and those who blame are the people that have the most trouble finding their own personal inner happiness. 

 Stop judging who you are and figure out what it is that makes you happy. I call it listening to the voice of reason. Often we have to look back into our past to examine our lives so that we can focus on our future. Some people take things for granted. Don’t. Life is far too short, so remember to say thank you and to cherish memories of those people in your life who have made a tremendous impact. When I look back at my life so many people supported me, my decisions, and so many people loved me. In order to move forward in life whether it be for business or pleasure/personal, one must love them self first. Be happy for life is a gift.

1. Stop comparing yourself with others

Comparing yourself with others won’t do you any good so for crying out loud, stop it! You will either feel proud when you are above, or feel jealous and frustrated when you are below. None of them brings true happiness. So stop comparing yourself with others and simply be the best that you can be!

2. Count your blessings

There are so many things we should be grateful for, but we often forget them. Never ever take anything or anyone for granted. When you truly do realize how blessed you are, you will certainly be happier. My life is filled with people that have all impacted who I am. These people have made me the woman that I am today, and I am blessed and so grateful for those whom surround me.

 3. Find your inner voice

It’s that voice inside of you that tells you to find your own true happiness. Slow down and take some quiet time for soul searching. What will make your life meaningful? What is true happiness for you? By knowing what your heart says, it will be easier for you to align with it. My grandmother used to always say, ‘Michele, follow your heart and your gut!” Life may lead you down many of paths, some the right paths, and some the wrong paths, nonetheless, we dig deep to draw that inner strength that pushes up to keep going!

4. Reconnect with your childhood dreams

Your childhood dreams can give you clues about your true calling. Often we have to rediscover them and reconnect with them. Get them back into your life. There may be a dream waiting to become your reality.

5. Do a good deed

Giving is an essential key to happiness. While we often think that we will be happier when we receive, the truth is we are happier when we give.Sometimes the smallest things in life are free. Volunteer at a shelter, make a meal for a sick neighbor, donate your time at charity events, at hospitals.Raise money for a good cause. Give someone a hug and a smile, they are free!

 6. Spend more quality time with your loved ones

Relationships give us happiness more than any material possession in the world. Spend more quality time with your loved ones. Sometimes you only have today, so make it count! Spread the love.

 7. Pray or meditate

This is one of the most effective ways to calm your mind and get inner happiness. When you feel overwhelmed, a session of praying or meditation could help you clear your mind. It is soothing, and it will truly relax you.

8. Know yourself

You will be happier if you understand who you are. This is a must! If you don’t know yourself, you need to get to know yourself. Take a good hard look at your life as well as your immediate lifestyle. If you don’t like it, get off your high horse and make a change.

9. Say ‘thank you’

Sometimes we are so accustomed to people around us that we forget to thank to them. Always take the time to thank those around you for all that they do. Those two words can make someones day a little bit brighter!

10. Smile

Just do it! Smiling is a very simple thing to do and the effect that it has on people is contagious! There mere act of smiling can brighten your day and it may turn someones world around in just aa matter of a few seconds.

11. Listen more than you speak

You will feel happier not only by understanding yourself, but also by understanding the people around you. One simple way to do that is by listening more than you speak. Try to understand what the other person means before speaking out your thoughts. This means, don’t put your foot in your mouth. Pay close attention to what someone is saying and don’t judge them,..no one died and left you boss so be kind and caring. Pay close attention to others needs.

12. Stop judging others

Who died and left you boss? Yeah, that’s what I thought…so stop judging everyone else! Judging others will give you bad feeling toward them and there’s nothing good about that. Instead, you should look at the positive side of them. Sometimes it’s easier to see the others’ weaknesses, but looking at the positive side will brighten their day and your day, and you will feel good about yourself.

13. Focus on what you can control

Trying to change things beyond your control will only frustrate the hell out of you. Recognize what you can and can’t control, and focus solely on the things you can control. For instance, you can’t change how people around you behave, but you can change your actions and how you behave. Stay focused on changing your own behavior instead of changing other peoples. We control out own destiny, so get your life in order and set the path for your own true inner happiness.

 14. Accept yourself

Love who you are inside and out! There is no book or a law that says we must be perfect. We have imperfections and flaws. You may have some personality traits that you don’t like. Learn to just accept yourself as you are. You are unique and extraordinary, and that’s something you should be grateful for. As En Vogue once sang “Free Your Mind” and love who you are!

 15. If you are going to make promises…for heaven sakes, keep them!

You will find happiness if you stay true to your heart and one way to do that is by being a promise keeper. The more you keep your promise, the more you will be aligned with your conscience and the happier you will be in the long run. My kids will tell you that I rarely make promises. Why? They are not meant to be broken, and sometimes, we can’t hold up our end of the bargain, so then why in the world would you promise something that you know you might not be able to deliver on?

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BIG Dating Mistakes Men Make….

Number 10

Are you being too much of a nice guy? Let me ask you this…Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to “nice” guys? Of course you have. What’s going on here? It’s actually very simple. Women don’t base their choice of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction to them. Ahhh but then guess what? Being a nice guy won’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you. And being nice won’t make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn’t make a lot of logical sense to you, and it may be even hard to accept… but get over it. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you’ll never have the success with women that you want.

Number 9

Trying to convince her to like you What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like… but she’s just not interested? Right! They try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you: You will never change how a woman “feels” when it comes to attraction! Never, ever, ever. You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you by means of “logic and reasoning.” Think about it.If a woman doesn’t “feel it” for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being “reasonable” with her? But every man does it. When a woman just isn’t interested, you beg, plead, chase, and  you do your best to change her mind. What some good advice? Bad idea. Just kiss this one goodbye now sweetheart because that will never work!! Besides…chances are you are far too good for her and you dewserve much better!

Number 8

Looking for her approval

In your desire to please her,… (which men so often mistakenly think will make them like us), they (as guys) are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission.” This is another horrible idea. Women are never attracted to the type of men who kiss up to them… ever. Don’t get me wrong here. You don’t have to treat women badly for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things,” think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval. Do you doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her.

Number 7

Trying to buy her affection
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her reject you for someone who didn’t treat her even half as well as you did? Well guess what? It’s only natural when this happens.That’s right, I said natural.When you do these things, you’re sending a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection.” Your good intentions usually come across to women as overcompensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That’s right, I said that women see this as a manipulation.

Number 6

Sharing your feelings too early
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they “feel” too early on. Attractive women are rare. And they get a lot of attention from men. Most men don’t realize this, but attractive women are approached in one way or another all the time. An attractive woman is often approached several times a day by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often hundreds of times per month.And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a lot of men. That’s right. They have experience. They know what to expect. And nothing turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, really like you” after only one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast… and can’t control themselves. Instead, keep your yap shut and make her wonder? Women hate the not knowing part. Yes sure we like to be chased, BUT for the guys reading this…it will keep them in line a bit and make them anzious to hear from you again. Trust me on this one…just don’t play games because whether you are a great guy or a player jerk, we can sense it after a few dates.

Number 5

Not “getting” how attraction works
Women are very different from men when it comes to attraction. You need to accept this fact, and deal with it. When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he instantly feels a sexual attraction. But does the same apply for women? Well, after studying this topic for years, I can tell you that women usually have their “attraction mechanisms” triggered by things her than looks. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men… and they’re more attracted to the way that a man makes them feel than they are to looks alone. If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 4

Thinking that it takes money & looks…what??
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they’ve even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money… or guys who are a certain height… or guys who are a certain age. Oh sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. They are ruthless bitches, yes you heard me ruthless, and if you think you can change them, then you are way too gullible and boy do I have piece of the Brooklyn Bridge I want to sell you..

Listen, here is the 4-1-1….the hard core truth…In todays era, most women are educated, and independent. Don’t see that as a bad think, appreciate it and accept it that they have some class and are not clingy, needy women. These women will understand and appreciate you. Now, the truth is, on the contrary, most women are far more interested in a man’s personality than his wallet or his looks. There are certain personality traits that attract women like a magnet… And if you learn how to really truly use them, you can be one of those guys. You do not have to “settle” for a woman just because you aren’t rich, tall or handsome. Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language,you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that you feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

Number 3

Failing to read dating situations

Now I’m going to blow your mind… a woman always knows what you’re thinking. Women are approximately 10 times better than men at reading body language. That’s 10 times. I know, it might be hard for you to believe. But, for example, if you’re out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it. And if you don’t know exactly what to do and exactly how to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won’t help! And this goes for all aspects of women and dating… Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical… everything. If you don’t know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up… and lose everything. And you know it.

Number 2

Not getting help….This is the biggest mistake of them all.This is the mistake that keeps most men from ever having the kind of success with women that they truly want. If you don’t have the answers seek help from a professional or ask a close friend or relative for advice that is partial, and will not take sides or try to persuade you in any way. You want honesty, and integrity. Do not settle for less.

Number 1 

  Go with your gut… follow your heart, and pay attention! Don’t ever go over the top to win a woman’s affection…Why? Because the one whose affection that you may be trying to earn is probably not the one that you should be with. Think about it! I am a woman, and I am right about this one!

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Men  (and when I say men I mean 97% of them) stated recently in a poll that their ideal first impression of lingerie was extremely sexy and seductive. It certainly does skim over that forbidden zone, oh yes… that naughty place in one’s mind where they can fantasize for hours about the hourglass shape of the woman that they envision like a dream, and pursue like the dominator. Lingerie on a woman indicates a sense of confidence, and independence. Women aren’t afraid to wear it and show it off in a discrete way, that is. We don’t flaunt it, we wear it with pride.

All men are different in what they like and want but most like revealing and see-through outfits. Anything that will show the parts of a woman that he is not normally allowed to see is alluring to ones eye, and provocative to their inner thoughts. They also seem to love those items that accentuate the female body or have a girlish flare. I’ve always said, keep it simple. Men love flattering sexy and risky lingerie on a woman. Men are very tactile and visual. If he loves to touch it and he loves to look at it, then you can guarantee he loves you in it! Never go without cardinal rule #1 gals…Always remember to wear your high-heeled shoes. Oh yes, men love stilettos. This is what will pull the look together, and trust me when I say this….”you’ll leave an impression his mind hat he won’t forget!” It will be a vision that his mind will seduce.

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What do they want to see women dressed  in you may ask?

1) Bras, G-strings, Garters, and Stockings: This may seem simple to the woman wearing it but it is a major piece of eye candy for the man who is looking at it. So why do they love these select pieces so much? Classy, Stylish and oh so seductive. With these pieces, you want to go with sexy and hot not comfortable. Men love the lace look and can’t get enough trying to peek through it. They love to be teased. Use the bad girl steamy colors like white, red, and black for that hot erotic look he will be drooling for. Other great colors are lavender, light blue, and peach. These colors are soft yet sexy and give that feminine edge men love to stare at. Be sure all the pieces match and are lace, even the garter belt. Get a pair of matching silk stockings to go with it.

 

2) Corsets/bustiers: There is not a man on this planet who would not want to look at a woman wearing either one of these. The corset slims the body and flattens your silhouette. The cleavage factor is definitely a huge turn on to guys. Add in a sweet little G-string or thong with a pair of thigh high stocking and you will have him reeling. The bustier is designed very similar but has cups like a bra. Many come with the detachable garter so stockings are a must. Colors to go with when thinking of guys are black, white, or red. These colors have that sexy bad girl look to them that just drives men absolutely to the breaking point. Other colors to consider are the sweet pastels. They take a hot outfit made for a woman and give it a girlish flare. It is this girlish flare that turns men right on.

3) Teddies: This is a one piece out fit with tiny spaghetti straps. It looks like a skimpy body suit. There is an array of styles available. The most appealing to men are the combination satin and mesh together in the same piece. That satin corset-look in the front with lace around the breasts with a sheer mesh in the back. When you turn around he will be able to see straight through. With this little number stick with white or black mesh and bold frontal tones that stand out and scream sexy. The hottest color schemes for men are white with tantalizing pastels, or black with hot bold colors like reds, blues, and purples.

4) Play outfits: You will drive the man insane with a play outfit. Men love to watch women dress up. You can always count on the naughty schoolgirl to shake him in his shoes. A sexy partially opened white tailored top that is tied at the waist. The plaid mini schoolgirl skirt with white garter and stockings is a winner every time. Another sure-fire winner is the naughty nurse. White mini Nurses dress with the hat and sexy pair of fishnet stockings. There are so many of these outfits to choose from you could keep him mesmerized for years. These types of out fits are fun and make men go gaga.

5) Negligee: This very simple little gown is a must for every woman who has a man at home. The two types men go crazy for is the sheer and the silky. A silk negligee satisfies a man’s need to touch something soft and supple. The sexiness of the gown is wonderful for then to look at as it accentuates all your curves. This will make him want to see and touch more and more. The sheer version of this is just plain hot. As the mesh lies draping your body the guy is now able to see all the places the fabric gets to gently touch. You can even add a lace bra and panty to tease him even more. With this outfit you will want to go with fun bright colors that grab his attention. If you are going with shear the standard white, black, and red are the sexiest.