Date Night and 30 Romantic Tips

Date Night…we all love it, and we all look forward to it with that someone special. My guess is that we all need a little spice in our lives so live for today and make someone happy! We all need that ‘ohhh-la-la’ from time to time to keep it real. Sometimes you have to get creative and then others use the common techniques that work just the same to show that you care. What you want to do is to make her smile. It’s all about keeping your gal happy.Women love two things, nice lingerie and romance,… well perhaps three things…we love it when a man cooks for us too! Romance is a good thing and both men and women should know how to make their mate laugh, and smile. It doesn’t cost a lot of money to get someones attention, so don’t over-think it or try to go overboard here, sometimes simple is what works the best.

It’s the little things that you do that she keeps in her mind long after she is with you and it is those small things that gives her much anticipation that you will be equally as romantic around her. So what’s a fella to do to make her notice and really get her attention? Clichés aren’t bad after all! Well, you can say some things are clichés only because they’re used way too often, and when that happens they are no longer spontaneous actions,. but then, they’re a guaranteed bet. One amongst these famous platitudes is a candlelit dinner. Yes women love it when you cook for them. If you don’t know how, watch the food network and learn! Serve her up a dish that will make her mouth water  and he mind work on over time! 

  Having a romantic dinner by the candlelight is said to be one of the most intimate experiences a couple shares. This just gets better if you arrange the dinner at your place and cook the food yourself. A bottle of good wine will just be the icing on the cake and if you are lucky and she is totally impressed with you, she may want more than just a slice of pie for dessert! Remember, it‘s the little things that matter guys! 

 

Here are about 30 that will make her turn her head:

 

1. Hugs are the universal medicine…and they are free.

2. Tell her she is pretty. Women love compliments!

3. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry or whatever it is that she likes most.

4. Tell her that she’s the only girl you ever want. Don’t lie and don’t be a player!

5. Spend every second possible together when you have free time and really get to know one another.

6. Look into each other’s eyes and say nothing…eyes speak a language all of their own.

7. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her she is beautiful, and kiss her lightly.

8. When in public,  flirt with each other and be silly…people envy this and it will entice others to do as you do because they want that kind of happiness too.

9. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren’t looking.

10. Sing to each other and choose a song to be ‘just your song!’

11. Always hold her around her hips/sides.

12. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. This does not mean that you are being cheap, it means you are about to show her some romance…

13. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) Just don’t be sloppy messy…keep it fresh and fun. 

14. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart., yes I said your heart, not your penis. Women want romance not arrogant boys with sex on the brain.

15. Dance together, in the moonlight, even if you are standing in her driveway saying goodnight!

16. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.

17. Make excuses to want to see her every day!

18. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I am thinking about you.

19. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.

20. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. Be open with her.

21. Be Prince Charming and sweep her off her feet or some other handsome prince just might beat you to the punch.

22. Brush her hair out of her face for her. Women love when a man touches her face and feels her warm skin upon his hand.

23. Make sure that you introduce her to your friends. 

24. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.

25. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistake twice.

26. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.

27. Make sacrifices for each other. Even the little ones get noticed.

28. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. It sounds cheesy but women adore this.

29. Fall asleep on the phone with each other or on the couch in one an others arms.

30. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”

 

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Dirty Talk…The Naked Truth

On the contrary to what many of you may or may not think, not all dirty talk has to be hardcore. In fact, a variety people prefer their dirty talk with a softer edge. Even the most hardcore dirty talkers find that sometimes, a simple moan or sigh — or an easy, sweet comment that makes your heart melt — is enough to make certain other parts of you tingle. Communication is key, so tell them what you want and choose your words wisely. It’s time to put on your sexy voice and play.

Even in our modern era, talking about what we want when it comes to sex is still difficult. Fantasy requests can be misconstrued as saying “you are not enough for me” when, in reality, they are a huge part of our sexuality — which, if we believe statistics, a whopping 80% of our sex lives takes place in our heads. So, talking dirty is part of fantasy sex play, and can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.
When you are in a relationship where dirty talk is the norm, and you have become accustomed to pushing the envelope, it can be really tough to slow down and just enjoy the more romantic pleasures of naughty discourse. Allow me to share with you some easy- to-do dirty talk tips that will slow things down and turn on the romantic in your partner. Pay close attention, and remember, it’s really not that difficult. This is a benefit for the both of you.

A single rose. Offer a single rose to your partner, and then gently trail the petals over their naked body. As you do, tell them what you love most about that particular body part, their curves, their freckles, their nice breasts, never-never never mention fat or cottage cheese….you’re ass will hit the floor like a brick. Don’t forget the “forgotten” erogenous zones — the feet, the ears, the back, and even that sensitive stop right below the buttocks….no big ass, flat ass, etc., comments. Spend time remembering the delicate places you touch that turns her on. She might not tell you so guys its time to start learning how to read body language!

Whipped cream. Yes, it seems kinky — and my absolute favorite…don’t forget the handcuffs. Ok, so it may be a little kinky too! But whipped cream is also a sweet classic that lovers have been using for decades to enhance their lovemaking without taking it too far into the realm of kink. Almost everyone has whipped cream in their refrigerator at some point, (if you don’t get to the store now)…..so it’s not an even unusual item to find in your home — that means the possibilities for using it are wide and varied, but always with a touch of the romantic.

Soft candlelight. Both men and women love candles. They say romance. The flicker of mellow candlelight can make anyone’s body look sexier, so light them up! Candles all around the room will cast a romantic glow, and the scent of them can lend an even richer layer of sensation to the experience. The dirty talk you use during those moments should be soft and sweet, filled with compliments, this will ease them into the mood raising their erotic zone!

Champagne. Who doesn’t love this? This is the ultimate for romantic oral sex. Why? The bubbles in the champagne will stimulate your body in all sorts of ways, while drinking it from your partner’s body will make you just slightly tipsy, which can make the encounter even hotter, steamier and soooo sexy! Want to enhance the natural flavors? Try a few strawberries, too.

Whispers. Sometimes, the easiest way to tone things down is to quiet your voice. Instead of speaking clearly, whisper oh-so-softly. This makes your partner have to get closer to hear you, and the closer you are, the more intense your touches and actions can become. Just remember to keep your dirty talk quiet from start to finish! If you follow these simple tips you’ll begin to drop that wall a little with your partner and open new doors of endless possibilities. Please keep in mind that it may not happen over night, but it will turn up the heat in the bedroom and that is the naked truth!

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Lingerie…Why Online Shopping?

I’m busy and I imagine that you are as well. We are confident in our own skin and we want to look and feel sensual, but we worked all day and we’re too tired to go out and shop.  Don’t. Go home, get out of those work clothes/ the business attire and put on something comfy. Now relax. Pour yourself a glass of wine, start dinner and browse. Look for delicious deals on the internet. Now you can feed the hunger with something sweet with a few quick clicks without having to leave your home.

Let’s face it; Not all women and men have time to go out shopping for that special something for themselves or their mate. Who has time for all that? Hectic work week, office meetings, ball games with the kiddos, etc. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we offer you sexy lingerie at luxury prices that won’t break your bank. Our sweet treats and tasty prices offer you exceptionally delicious deals round the clock.

The internet as we all know has quickly evolved as a great place to shop for many things from your vacation destinations, auto sales, weekly groceries to even your prom dress. Recent reports have shown that internet shopping is on the increase and is likely to continue to grow, so why not be part of this growing trend and jump ob board now. Stop in and see why so many customers are taking advantage of shopping online.

Lingerie sales on the internet are in the millions of dollars. Why? My thoughts are that most people are not as comfortable as most walking into a lingerie shop or an adult novelty store but place them behind a computer with a keyboard and a credit card and they now have the world at their finger tips. Bada-bing, bada-boom! One click and your order is processed and shipped in a discrete box delivered right to your doorstep. Does life get any better than this I ask you? You are one click away from finding fashionable, affordable lingerie! http://www.simplydeliciouslingerie.com/ and http://www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com, our plus size boutique.

So why is it beneficial to buy things like clothes and in particular ladies lingerie online? This scenario paves the way for online stores. Business owners like myself can gain traffic and many new sales from running an online store and indeed provide their customers with exceptional customer service. There is great potential to snapping up a great bargain or two by looking online. An online lingerie store is able to provide a greater range of women’s lingerie items for the shopper to choose from, the store owner is no longer constrained by shop floor dimensions, and can display their full bridal lingerie collection, everyday ladies underwear to the more risqué and sexy underwear collections. We specialize in bridal lingerie, honeymoon lingerie and undergarments and wedding day lingerie.

In reality it is also a lot easier to visit a great many sites as your time permits and compare the prices of your prospective purchases in the comfort of your own home, before deciding which store would indeed provide the best service.

Now, let us share with you the advantages of buying lingerie products at online stores;

 • It’s hassle-free! Since you do not need to go the store personally, you can surely save time and effort. As mentioned, this is best for working girls especially for the ones who are working at the office since they are dealing with computers often times.

• It generally comes with low price delivery. You can now have your intimate garments now without ever stepping out of the house.

• It offers a lot of varieties. Through online stores, you are be able to find brands that are not available in your area, at ease, anytime, day or night at your convenience!

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

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Relationship = Express Yourself

You don’t need diamond rings…or eighteen karat gold…fancy cars that go very fast…you know they never last, no, no. So, if we don’t need all of those things, what is it that we do need to make us happy? Long stem roses are the way to your heart, but he needs to start with your head…what if you’re dating a real jackass and he hasn’t a clue about what it is that you want or need? Sister…as Madonna sang…You’ve got to “Express Yourself!” It’s time to get verbal. Yes body language works most of the time, but if you’ve got a man that is not reading between the lines, he may be missing the entire entree, so feed him for heaven sakes! If you don’t tell him, he won’t know what it is that you truly want, need or desire!

Keep in mind, not all men are the ripest apples on the tree when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of these guys are great but they just need some nurturing.Relationships don’t just happen! What you need is a big strong hand to life you to a higher ground. Does he make you feel like you’re the queen of his throne? If he doesn’t then it’s time to move on.

But remember,…in all relationships, especially new ones, they require work and care to endure and, with time, to evolve in ways that keep both partners fulfilled. I call this the labor of love. Such labors are well worth the effort, though, since a lasting marital relationship is the most rewarding bond in life.

My non-professional advice? Put your needs first! What will make your relationship work? There are a few things that are in my opinion that need to occur and will most definitely be sensual and scream happiness together;

1) Have a quickie! Fast sex may seem unromantic, but short bursts of passion keep you bonded because they release dopamine and oxytocin, two chemicals that trigger loving feelings. This also spices it up a little!

2) Respect Your Relationships Privacy; keep this in mind- If a couple seems overly happy, they may be trying to compensate for insecurities. We all need our own space, so do give it to one another. 

3) Laying a Solid Foundation; Women and men also need to be equals in their relationship. Communication is KEY…without it, you have no relationship, and what you do have will sink like quick sand.

4) Be Compatible!!!

To be compatible means to be able to exist together in harmony. However, for you and your partner to be able to exist together or complement each other, you need three major characteristics:

(a) Contentment and enjoyment in each other’s company.

(b) Sharing each other’s goals and aspirations.

(c) Acting responsibly towards each other.

If you are content with each other and love your life together, you’ll love doing things together which you both enjoy. If you don’t communicate and talk about it, you won’t know what one another is trying to say, so for the love of God, express yourself!

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Dating; For All the Single Ladies

In the hustle and bustle of today’s society in which we live, women are finding that dating is not as easy as it used to be, nor is finding a good man who you can marry and settle down with. So what’s  a girl to do? It’s 2013 and the modern day Cinderella in her thirties, or pushing forty starts to wonder about online dating effectiveness and if that is the new super highway to take to find a man, and love?  Could it work for you?

Maybe nothing else has worked for you so far, and you are still single. Maybe when you were in your twenties and early thirties you put most of your effort into your career and were way to happy to think about settling down so you watched as men would come and go. Maybe you are divorced like I was and amazed or horrified at how the dating scene has changed since you were last free? It can be a shocking experience if you aren’t prepared for it. Gone are the Ward and June Cleaver days, and gone are the Mike and Carol Brady days…today it’s Beyonce and JZ days and careers and families mesh well because times have changed and you make it work when you are in love! Gone are the days when my folks met, dated and married. Say hello to modern-day dating and living!

OK, Let’s talk age; In your thirties, you are likely to hear the biological clock ticking. Ahhh yes, women wanted babies. Many women want to start a family and be a mother. You do not have too long to find Mr. Right if you want to have a family and you are in your thirties said no one ever. New guys probably do not come into your life very often just out of the blue on a daily basis do they? What are the chances of one of them being ‘the one?’ My guess is slim to none, but if he is hang on to that one. Women are becoming single mothers all the time in this new day and age unlike 30 years ago when you were practically crucified for being a young or single mother, today the world of test tubes and in-vitro fertilization are the hip hop way to go for all the single ladies whom cannot find their dream guy and refuse to settle  just to have a baby!

Let’s get back to what brought us here in the first place. Let’s talk dating; if you go online, you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.  It’s like one big smorgasbord of men! Who imagined life could be so good on a Friday night sitting in front of your television watching Pretty Woman and sipping a glass of wine all while scoping out the internet and joining dating sites to find your very own Mr Right? Visit my blog page at http://www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.blogspot.com and scroll down to where you will find a variety of dating sites some free, some with fees, that I am happy to be an affiliate with.

Hey ladies, all of these guys are looking for someone. If you choose the right site you can be sure of meeting serious-minded guys who want the same things you want. Just be careful…looks can be deceiving! Where one site may be highly recommended and have a variety of good men, and some sites very wealthy men, there is always room for a snake in the grass to slither his way in and lie through his teeth. Shit happens, so keep your guard up and if he seems too good to be true….RUN…because he probably is! Men are real tools and players, nevertheless, there are women who play the same games, so just be cautious.

You can specify any points that are really important to you, such as politics or religion. At the same time, if you are free and willing to move or travel, you can open up your choice to guys who live outside of your city, county, state or even country. These are men that you would never meet without the internet and they could be really great men looking for the same things that you are yet unable to find his mate locally. Internet dating is really the way to go today.

Your safety should be an issue, but remember that when you meet someone on the street you do not have any way of knowing whether he is a smooth-talking serial killer or whether anything he tells you is true so take a chance. My non-professional advise? Listen to your gut.

Certainly online there is the possibility that someone will make up a whole string of lies but those people are few and far between. You can protect yourself a little by talking to him on the phone, checking up where possible, and always arranging the first few dates for a public place. Do not let him pick you up, but meet him there, at a place that you’ve selected.

You can tell somebody where you are going and arrange for them to call you at a certain time to make sure everything is okay. If you are very nervous, you could even arrange a date where you go with a group or another couple that you know. This can take some of the stress out of the date if you are very shy. However, it is not the best way for you and your date to get to know each other. Just because you are in your thirties, forties or even fifties fear not about dating. While many of our biological clocks are ticking or may even have shut down years ago, our hearts are still open for business.

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Finding Your Happy Ever After…

For the longest time most everyone I know has had their own idea about what the right person would be like, and by ‘right person’ I am talking their mate. We search and we search and often we come up empty handed…but why? Most of us have the tendencies to see the birds-eye-view. Hey folks, it’s time for a change of scenery!

What is your version of ‘happy ever after’ really? The men/women that we search out appear to really have their shit together but as we dig deeper we find that they aren’t what we anticipated, in fact, in most cases our eyes were deceived and we were not getting the true reading of them at all. Were we only seeing what we wanted to see or did we build them up so much that everything seemed impeccable?Are you looking for that perfect someone to share your life with? Finding that elusive ideal mate doesn’t come that easily for most of us because we haven’t learned the importance of being very clear in our thoughts what type of person would truly make us happy. It is nearly impossible for the universe to deliver a perfect package. 

Are we too picky? Some would say no. I say yes. Yes because you should want what you want and settle for nothing less. Lowering your standards isn’t the answer to finding love. Who wants to settle for someone less attractive, less caring, less intelligent, etc.? Some people are on an eternal quest to find a “perfect” partner, one who probably doesn’t exist outside of the story books. Since childhood, we’ve been taught to keep an eye out for Prince (or Princess) Charming. Grown-up movies and romantic comedies perpetuate these expectations and we’re waiting for the dashing hero/heroine who will intuitively understand our plight and rescue us from our suffering. Unless you fell off the turnip truck and conked your head, this doesn’t happen…(the dashing in to save the damsel in distress part anyway…) The point I am trying to make here is that often we cannot see the true perspective in full view. You have to have the mindset of finding true love and happiness, not some mythical expectations that you’ll live happily ever after. That way, if your speculations fall short, you won’t feel so let down.

The truth is, until he or she arrives, most of the time we feel rather lost. Sure we all say that we enjoy the life of being single, but are you feeling the love when you go to sleep alone every night wishing that you had someone to share ‘pillow talk’ with? We all want love, want some lasting relationships.

The  phenomenon of it all is that many people seem to believe that it is way hard to find. I beg to differ…I believe that your mate is out there and that somewhere he sits waiting patiently too for the right woman to come his way. My grandmother used to tell me that the right kind of love was like a hidden treasure. Buried deep below the surface, nonetheless transparent to that one person who could see through the particles that tend to get in the way of our somewhat clouded vision. Looks are not everything. Character, ethics, loyalty, morals, and values are all part of the equation that you should have in your list of ‘wants and needs’ in your partner. Ones demeanor, and expression transform into our desires. Don’t skimp in the ‘must have’ department. When you meet the right person, things will all fall into place. 

This is love found looking in the mirror, an idealized image of yourself. An attitude like this is based upon non-acceptance of whom and what we really are. When we use another person to build up our own self-image, this kind of relationship is grounded in fear. Without this person we might feel as if we were nothing, and our lives were meaningless. Love can never be built upon a foundation that is not real. If we do not feel secure within ourselves, is it really so surprising we may not really be so eager, after all, for this perfect person to appear at our door?

 Many people ask me; “What keeps us from finding the love we are so hungry for?” The most common answer to this question is that we must find the perfect person. There is always something wrong with the people we meet. We look for flaws, and imperfections.

 Your particular idea of what attractive is, however, could be unrealistic. While it’s ridiculous to commit to someone you aren’t fundamentally attracted to, it’s amazing how much more attractive someone becomes when you love them. Attractiveness is a quality that can vary slightly an infinite number of times throughout the day. These variations are based partly on physical attributes but also on attitude, chemistry, personality and sense of humor.

Way too often, a first date never happens because the initial attraction isn’t there. But attraction that is fully developed on a first encounter is probably skin-deep; there isn’t much hope of ever becoming any more attracted to that person than you are right now. Mature attraction grows based on traits that may be initially less apparent. Equally important is your mindset — beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Choosing to continually look for your partner’s beauty (rather than for his/her defects) helps renew our initial attraction.

Appeal that is defined strictly in colors or measurements limits our creative capacity for seeing beauty in others. It also limits our dating options. You may be attracted to height — and that’s fine. But do you really need your partner to tower over you? You may prefer long and lean (or curvy) physiques, but are you willing to accept the common “defects” that often accompany each body type?

 Certainly ones looks are largely predetermined by DNA. However, we are made more or less beautiful by our actions and attitudes. Likewise, we have the ability to paint our impressions of others in either more generous or less generous strokes. When you find someone with the baseline traits you are looking for,… look past superficial flaws. 

My advice, and this is strictly non-professional of course,…Decide what attributes form the essential outline of your “perfect” mate; don’t worry if a few cosmetic features stray outside those boundaries. Love is art, not science. Small “imperfections” prove authenticity and can add unique beauty and dimension to a person. No he or she may not be a beauty queen or a handsome king, but oh the qualities that they hold within are worth their weight in gold and happiness is an attribute that is far more rewarding that someone who appears to have it all together on the outside but lacks so many true qualities on the inside. 

 

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Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

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ThiNgS tHat MaKe HiM tUrN HiS hEaD…

Are you captivating, classy, or stunning? Do you have what it takes to turn heads? What’s looking sexy without being sleazy? How far does one go to look hot to trot, but not enough to make those around you laugh behind your back with ridicule?My advice… Keep it real simple, and extraordinary. Keep that “wow” factor alive and keep him coming back for more! All boys like the candy so give them a little bit of sugar…slowly!

Adding a few unexpected touches and glamorous essentials will certainly will help do the trick. It’s about dressing in fabrics that feel great against your skin. Sexy looks work for any age or budget. Here’s how to add sizzle to your look without sacrificing your modesty. Rule of thumb; a man will always turn his head in view of a classy woman, but a trashy woman won’t get you the time of day. It takes very little to catch his eye and his attention, so what are you waiting for?

1. Wear something ordinary in an unexpected way that will say “WOW!”

It doesn’t have to be a huge statement like wearing a jacket backwards; subtle alterations pack the chicest punch. For example, take a basic man’s white shirt (slightly over sized), unbutton it, wrap it so that one side overlaps the other and tuck in.) Quite the turn on to men, and it makes your curves whatever they man be look sexy and appealing.

2. Tease him, but just a little….

No need to bare your breasts, even with lace. Nude linings, camisoles and slips all keep you covered while the lace itself stays really suggestive. Tease him with a little…not a lot. Give him something to make his mouth water and crave more…

3. Add a head piece

Nothing attracts attention quite like a hat. …just not one like the princesses wore at the big royal wedding a few months ago that grabbed so much national attention. First, it takes guts to wear one. Second, it takes panache to carry it off. Combine the two qualities and you get major sex appeal. Stay with classic shapes, for example; the fedora, the beret… to make it easier to pull off.

4. Accessorize with soft on the shoulders

Skip every other piece of jewelry, pull your hair back and make sure your makeup stays soft. This look goes great with bare shoulders and updos, too. Definitely an after-dark look,…and quite the sexy eye-catcher! Something light and sensual.

5. Make it shine

Black may be super sexy, but gold, silver, copper and pewter are especially luminous when you’re going for that over the top look. Look for simple shapes (the story here is the fabric and color, not the line of the outfit) and tones that flatter your skin color. Pass on major jewelry and makeup to let the dress really shine. You’ll stand out, but in a sassy and sensual way!

6. Adopt a simple look 

The pencil style  is a classic example of a dress with an allure all of its own, form-fitting, but not too tight, shows your curves and turns heads. My choice; the LBD. Never will you go wrong with this piece of history.

7. Wear shades

Perhaps the single sexiest item you can own are a great pair of sunglasses. They add tons of mystery, look cute even on top of your head and actually serve the practical purpose of protecting your eyes. My eyes are important to me and yours should be too. I don’t leave home without my Pradas, Diors or Jimmy Choos!

8. Make a grand ole’ exit

 Sexy is all about surprises, so a deceptively simple dress from the front can be a showstopper in the back. Open backs, lace-up backs, great dress trains all make for dramatic effects. Nothing says “see you later” better than that vivid image that will be stuck in is head when you walk away….so make it sexy, stunning and mind jolting!

9. Stay soft with touchable fabrics

Forget everything you’ve ever heard about hardcore leathers or sparkly sequins being heat-inducing. Yeah they look hot, but cashmere, silky satin, buttery soft suede’s are the real scene-stealers. Touchable fabrics not only invite an other’s touch, they have the added bonus of feeling great against your skin so you feel pampered and sexy.

10. How about RED?

Pale lips may be trendy, but nothing does the job like red. Use lip liner for a perfect appearance, choose a creamy matte in a red that best suits your skin tone (blue-reds for darker skin tones; oranges for olive; true reds for blondes). Use a light hand for the rest of the face because the lips should take center stage. Pucker up gals! Red is hot and sexy!

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