Our #1 Selling Corset….Why is it SEXY

Lingerie is something that can take an average ordinary day and turn it into an extraordinary day. Intimate apparel is what every woman feels confident and sexy in! It brings out an inner beauty in us and makes us feel quite radiant. Regardless of her size and her age, a woman has the ability to dazzle her mate in something spectacular. A number of selections are popular, nevertheless there is one that is classy and chic, all the while being racy and risqué! The corset has a way of making a bold statement and screams “wow!” There are a variety of reasons why a woman wears a corset. Although most women will tell you that they put them on to tuck in their torso, corsets have crept into a fashion statement by a number of celebrities started back in the 80s by pop Icon Madonna.

This trend is increasing in popularity with the youth as well as with the everyday woman who is looking to step outside of her comfort zone. Women everywhere are admiring these corsets and looking for a variety of ways that they can feel alluring and sensual. While out and about you may also see women in corsets and jeans strolling along casually. Corsets aren’t just a piece of lingerie. They are a fashion statement.

There are different types of corsets. There are Victorian, leather, tight, bondage, full bodice, three-piece corset with garters, plus sized, and more importantly, bridal corsets. Why do women love them so much? They hold everything together and accentuate a woman’s  looks. She feels slim, pretty and shapely when she slips into a corset. Which color do you choose? My advice is to find a style and color that brings out your skin tones and looks good on you. I love black. We sell a variety of corsets at Simply Delicious Lingerie, nonetheless we have a favorite;  Sequin Corset with feathers is oh-so-sexy! This little number will fit well all the while hugging her curves. It will embrace her body. We offer classy and racy pieces that will definitely get you noticed in and out of the bedroom. Women diligently spend a lot of time choosing which lingerie items to purchase for themselves. Ladies…this is a MUST HAVE piece! Oh but don’t forget the thigh highs. This bad boy comes with attached garters that you will certainly want to take advantage of. Men L-O-V-E a woman in sheer stockings.

If you have never worn a corset, you should certainly take a gander and purchase one. Corsets have become extremely popular since every woman really wants to look her best. Keep in mind please that it is important that all women know their corset sizes before they place any orders online. The reason being a ladies corset size is often one size bigger than her bra size. If you are not sure about your corset size you could enter an appropriate shop and have your measurements taken. This is quite helpful when you are buying your corsets online.

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Dressing Properly…It Begins with your LINGERIE!

Many women that you see on the street while out and about, or even at work, or the market look fabulous on the outside…but have you ever wondered how well they looked underneath all of the layers of clothing? Sure you can feel like a million bucks on the outside but how you feel on the inside starts with what you layer yourself with when you step out of bed, and out of the shower every day. Your intimate apparel is key. I don’t know about you but knowing that I have on a piece or two of sensual lingerie seems to boost my confidence. It makes me feel pretty…it should make you feel the same!

Trying to determine which type of lingerie is not always the easiest thing to do for women, so when men go out shopping for something for their lady, just imagine how frazzled they must get? It takes time and patience in determining what we feel best in, so don’t expect to discover your true desires overnight. Experiment with several pieces to see what makes you feel fabulous!

First of all, do make sure that you know your body type and your correct size. Sure we all want to be a bit smaller but ladies, this is NO time to lie about your measurements. If you do you will find out soon that you underestimated the word ‘discomfort’ big time! You should never be embarrassed about your size. Lingerie was designed to hug and contour our curves. It accentuates our bodies and brings out the true beauty in each and every one of us. We’re all created differently and we are all unique as our own individuals. Remember too that the fabric that you choose will play a large role when it comes to finding the right piece of lingerie for YOU!

First make sure that you know if there are any allergies to any fabrics that you have. Some women itch with certain fabrics when their body’s sweat. You may need to try a few pieces out before determining which works best with your body. My suggestion would probably be to avoid tight lingerie. Not only does it make you feel awkward and uncomfortable but it smudges up your true image. Wearing tight lingerie over a period of time can cause health issues as well. If you were blessed with big breasts wear a underwire for that extra needed support.

I’ve listed a few suggestions that are sure to assist you in what to wear, or not to wear. When you select your lingerie, remember that if you feel sexy i it will make all the difference. How you look under all those layers is how you wish to be perceived. A man loves to undress his woman with his eyes…one layer at a time…so do think twice about what you slip into after stepping out of the shower if it is an evening that you are spending with that special someone. You want to really dazzle him! A babydoll or chemise with thigh highs and even a garter belt would look exquisite! So whether you are spending an evening with someone or not, it’s all about feeling good about you, so do select your lingerie according to your needs. Sexy isn’t all about the old saying….’less is more.’ Sexy is about wearing a piece of lingerie and making it stand out on your body like an artist who brings their drawing to life. It’s time to live ladies! Get playful. Get sensual. Get erotic. Every now and again it’s fun to step outside of the box.

 The most suitable lingerie depends on our body shape, since the idea is to highlight our attributes:

• Wide Hips: Avoid wearing thong, then your hips will be more prominent.
• Hip little: Use high-cut panties in the leg to make you look more sexy.
• Large breasts: If you want to highlight it, then use a cup underwire bra. If you want to hide them, use a cotton bra without full glass rod.
• Small Bust: It’s worth one half cup bra underwire and lining. There are bras with padding that helps to form a filling and give the impression of greater volume.
• According to your color, select lingerie with a color that contrasts with your skin.
• To wrap waist corsets are being used now come with top quality materials and conform the waist you wear any garment.
• The Clothes strapless bras with clear straps are best to wear your sleeveless garments. Sometimes it’s not as comfortable to use a strapless bra, so the clear straps will make you feel more comfortable and safe.

Why Some Men are Inconsiderate Dating Material

In relationships, there is a saying that goes like this; “Never make someone a priority when they only see you as an option.” If you don’t know what this means in the real world, you need a reality check. Relationship between two people are just that…between two people. What happens though when one of those two people seem to care more, share more, and make themselves more available and the other only seems to care about what works best for him/her? This person is selfish, needy and a real hot mess…but you won’t see that on the outside. This is the type of person that hides his/her real feelings and often acts like their life is peachy. They build up friendships, business relationships, and anything else to appease you and make you think that they are all that and a bag of chips. In retrospect, it very well maybe pretty, like someone who lies on their resume to land the right job… BUT this is a relationship, not a job, therefore, it’s time to communicate openly. You are either in it to win it and make it work, or you need to get out. Relationships are unique, but they require a lot of listening to build and grow. How can you determine if you are dating an inconsiderate man who surely isn’t good dating material? Time….give it time. 

When you begin dating someone, everything is so new, and so for the first few months it is ok to not open up and to not share as much, however, if you continue to see this person you need to make some changes. Most women that I know want a man who is attentive to them and to their needs. I’m not stating that he has to be at her ‘beck and call’  twenty-four hours a day and seven days a week, but he does need to make plans with her early in the week and set plans in advance. Most women that I know, and men too, want to have a planned schedule. I am not one to sit around and wait for someone to do something. I like to know on Monday what I am doing for the weekend. So what does a girl do if she happens to be dating someone like Mr. It’s All About Me? 

 If this man does not respect your time and always puts his priority before yours, he is selfish and inconsiderate and it is very difficult to date someone as such. However, if you care for him and you know that he reciprocates your feeling, you should give your relationship a chance. If there is a chance of love, then there is always a room for change and improvement. Here are a few things that you can do to handle your selfish and inconsiderate fella. 

The first thing you need to do is talk to him…Men don’t think clearly like women do, so put your mind frame in theirs for a moment if you will? Try and explain how his actions impact your feelings. If necessary, use examples from one of the previous occurrences to make him realize how selfish his behavior was and how much it hurt you. If there is something he does in particular like being late on dates or not calling you up on time, talk about it clearly. Tell him how his words and actions hurt you.

You do not have to ask him for justifications or reasons for that behavior but try to reach out to him as much as you can. If he doesn’t understand anything you tell him, stop talking and start pretending. If he hurts you, make it obvious through your actions. Treat him with indifference and ignorance.You don’t have to hate him but just pretend that you do when he is around. Show some selfishness in your behavior. If he doesn’t show up on time for a date, leave a message and go out on your own. Since you have never acted this way, he is bound to notice the change in your behavior.

Let him step into your shoes and understand how you feel when he acts selfish by prioritizing everything before you. It will help him to relate to your feelings and he will probably start paying more attention to his actions and that might bring about a gradual change.Only the relationship can work when both of the people make efforts to make it work and the effort should come from within the heart. If you care enough for your mate, then make the effort. This person might feel that a relationship is not a place where efforts need to be made. He might think that relationships work on their own but the truth is that they don’t. Every relationship needs a certain amount of efforts and he has to understand that his contribution is equally important. If it continues to be all about  him, him, him…it’s time to find someone who will love and appreciate you for you, you you! 

When you invest time and energy into something, you expect quick results. However, this is a person, not an object. He is a person so he needs some time to undergo emotions, realize his mistakes and then hopefully make changes. This is not something that can happen in a day. You will have to be persistent in your efforts to make him more considerate. If he is just a total moron and won’t change, or does not treat you with respect or make you first, he may not be that into you. Once or twice I’d say ok…maybe it was an oversight, but if it continues for months, it’s time to say so long. If this is the case, and I have just described you…don’t look at this as having been wasted days, weeks, or even months on this person…look at it as a tool, a learning curve for what you really do want in a man so that when the time is right, you can find the perfect fit for you. Every woman surely does deserve her ‘happy ever after.’ Do not settle. There is no “my way” or ‘your way” it has to be a combination of your efforts combined to make it work. 

Lingerie = Sex Appeal

From the turn of the century it has always been  acknowledged that lingerie equals sex appeal. How a woman looks and feels in her selected piece shows confidence and glamorous attributes. We know what looks and feels best on us and against our bodies. Nonetheless, too many men base the ideal thought of lingerie on the piece itself…oh contraire…True, yet false. I say that the lingerie piece is not sensual if it is not the perfect color for your partner. So do keep the colors simple and choose the wisely and according to your mates skin tones.

Black and white with a touch of color to accentuate curves and shape is super hot, elegant, and it feeds the mood. It sets the tone for a romantic evening of foreplay. We all crave sex appeal…we just need to learn what color to wear, or NOT to wear. Men truly want to see what you’re wearing and they want to have the ability to follow the curves of your body with their eyes. They are undressing you with their eyes. It’s all about visuals for men. Sooo, keep it real simple and smokin’ hot! Black is sexy and you can never go wrong with this color.

Another key-note to hit on here is this; Make sure it fits well, and don’t force yourself into a size small if you need a medium or large. It’s important that you feel great in your selected piece and it’s hard to do that when you’re adjusting straps, readjusting a thong, or scratching because your outfit itches, tugs, or is giving you a wedgie. Pulling, picking, and scratching are things guys notice a mile away, so ladies, if you want to captivate your partner….give him something simple, yet elegant, but sinfully delicious to admire.

At Simply Delicious Lingerie we have an array of sexy matching sets that are simple and sexy. We all need to wear a bra and panties after all, so why not select a particular piece of ours that will define your beauty and hug your curves oh so delicately? We’ve got the selection for you in our matching set collection. It is affordable and screams sensual.

Make certain that you pull out all the stops, and by that I mean bring on the bells and whistles. Keeping it simple is the route to take. Sure the corset and bustier are fun and exciting, but not every man wants to spend a long duration of time trying to untie some crazy bra-corset concoction for a half-hour and surely that doesn’t count as foreplay, not in a mans mind any way. They want something, a piece or two that will pleasure their minds and their egos., so ladies, feed your man! Give him something tantalizing, teasing and oh so pleasing. Shop www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com for luxury lingerie at affordable prices!

A dOzEn tHiNgS To dO WiTh YoUr HoNey…

1. Go to the Park

Go with your honey to a park nearby. Swing on the swings like when you were a kid. Remember childhood memories and what part of those memories made you a better person today! Share stories! I’ve got lots of them!!

2. Watch the Sunset

Find a great spot in your area to catch the perfect sunset together. Don’t have one? It’s time then for a ‘road trip!’ Find the perfect place to watch a sunset. Mine is at the beach with my toes in the sand and a good glass of wine in my hand. This is one of my favorite things to do and guess what? It doesn’t cost a dime to do it.

3. Pack a Picnic Lunch and Enjoy Time with Your Honey…

Throw a picnic lunch together and find a shady spot to enjoy the day with your honey! Talk, laugh and make memories…its the little things that we women remember the most.

4. Play Board Games

Bring out the old favorites like Clue, Monopoly or Scrabble, or find a new board game to play. Someone has to rule Park Ave…might as well be YOU! None of these sound good? How ’bout some naked Twister?

5. Play Card Games

My personal favorite!  Have a card night. Don’t forget the wine and snacks to pass, that makes for even more fun! There are a lot of fun card games, but if this gets boring? How about a little strip poker? Now all bets are OFF! Make new fun playful memories as the layers literally unfold…

6. Have a Scavenger Hunt

Have a fun night out scavenger hunt. Think of some creatives fun ideas and work your magic! Making memories with your friends or that special someone is a special thing to do…and please… do remember the camera! Photos make the memories come alive years after the thrill and stories are gone. Loser has to make dinner for the winner!

7.How About Throwing a B.Y.O.E. Party?

This stands of Bring Your Own Everything. Guests are encouraged to bring food and drinks to share. Good times are fun times…and no one should get stuck in the kitchen making it all happen so help a friend out and have a BYOE party full of fun and good times with your close friends! It’s a fun way to meet new people who your honey shops with, golfs with, works with, etc., and a great way to get out and have some fun on a weekend evening!

8. Have a Bonfire or Campfire

Make s’mores, cuddle and drink wine by the camp fire and reminisce about good times and future plans with your honey.

9. Go Get Some Ice Cream

Hit up your local ice cream shop and indulge in your favorite dish! Get that sweet tooth craving and march on out to your local ice cream shop. Not feeling like hitting up the local ice cream store…then go to the market and pick up some ice cream, cherries, whip cream and take it home to make body sundaes with your honey…that is romantic and erotic!

10. Make Your Honey a Romantic Dinner

Plan a romantic, candlelight dinner for your spouse or loved one. Listen guys..romance need not be super expensive! It has been said that it is the thought that counts and how much time your guy/lady put into the thought process of the evening…those are the memories that you will endure and always keep close to your heart.

11. Try Grilling Something New…Get Sassy with some BBQ!

Try a new grilling recipe…every woman is addicted to Pinterest, so find something fun to make and give it a whirl! Add a little zing to your lifestyles and spice it up. It’s time to take this relationship to a new level.

12. Go to the Zoo

It has been said that it makes us feel good when we vent, and by vent I mean; go talk to the animals! Zoos are fairly inexpensive if you pack your own lunch and avoid the unnecessary extras. Make a fun day out of it! You may even make some new fury friends too! Yes go to the zoo, and then go home and kick it up a notch by getting a little wild in the bedroom…Be the hunter and allow her to be your tigress…she will slip into something sensual and erotic for some bedroom fun from Simply Delicious Lingerie! This will spice up any night and as a good friend would say…top it off with making some hot stinky sweaty monkey love!

 

Lingerie is beautiful, but it was made to come off…

 

Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com

Relationships and Trust

If you would have asked me several months ago or even a few years ago what I found most intriguing in men and being in a relationship my answer might have been something off the chart…why? Probably because I had such high expectations of what I wanted in a man and how I thought a relationship was supposed to work. It may have also been because I hadn’t been in a relationship for a lengthy enough time to give a good man a chance.

In the last several months, I’ve come to the realization that there is no perfect relationship, rather relations that are nourished with communication, and kindness. I’ve always been one who would say that if you are worth it, a man will do whatever it takes to make you happy. The truth is, it is not just about me or you. All relationships begin as a friendship and with the right nutrients and enough air to breathe on their own, they blossom over time into something that can be the start of a whole new chapter in one’s life.

 Get to know each other really well. Learn about each other’s biggest dreams and worst nightmares. We all have them, and our feelings do matter.  talk about your ideal plans for your life, where you see yourself in a few years? As mush as this doesn’t matter to many people, it is significant to some people, so lay your cards on the table. Discuss what your moral beliefs are. If you’re religious, discuss those beliefs now. Talk about how you both were raised. Share family stories that provide knowledge of how they’ve made you a better person. Learning about each other, your pasts and ideas on life is very important. Don’t carry baggage (mostly drama) into a new relationship. That is a BIG No-No, so clear the slate now!

Too many of us have preconceived notions about what relationships should or shouldn’t be. When you think a relationship should be a certain way, and yours isn’t, frustration sets in…and we all know that frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship. Another ‘not so good’ sign is if you’re trying hard to make improvements and changes, but you don’t see the same level of effort on your partner’s part. It’s not an 80/20 relationship, it has to be a 50/50. There has to be some sense of “we’re trying really hard, both making changes and that’s making a difference.’” Otherwise, you will beat yourself into the ground trying to make this person happy and in the end you will only be exhausted, and no one needs a relationship where the work is harder than the enjoyment/satisfaction of what you both share.

Has your relationship gone down hill? They say that often daily routines are one of the culprits and I agree. As their responsibilities grow and roles expand, they say that couples have less and less time and energy for each other. My non-professional advice? You have to make the time, it’s really just that simple. Nothing is so important that a 5 second text message stating that you miss him/her won’t put a smile on your partners face. A brief phone call s that they can hear your voice and know that you miss them and care is all one needs to make them smile and understand that although you are swamped with work, or chores or even family stuff that you care about them and wanted to show it. I’m not stating that your relationship is going down hill fast because of romance, but if may be, that too can be fixed. Surly this doesn’t mean that the passion is gone for good. With a little planning and playfulness, you can boost passion.

With Simply Delicious and Simply Luscious Lingerie you can go from fizzle to sizzle with our sexy lingerie and our bedroom costumes. Men love affection and getting their egos stroked, so ladies, you may have to kick it up a notch…and fellas, we women love being told that we look pretty, or that we smell good, etc.

Treat him or her as you’d like to be treated. In simple terms; ‘be nice!’ It’s not fair for one person to set boundaries and then not be expected to keep the same ones. If you want his/hers respect you are going to have to earn it. Treat them the way that you’d like to be treated.

What destroys a relationship? Jealousy has been said to be the culprit in the destruction in relationships as well as marriages. Jealousy is more about how secure and confident you are with yourself and your relationship (or the lack thereof.) Jealousy is the root of all evil. Truth be told; you can’t make your partner feel more secure” or “change their self-confidence.” This has to be up to them to do on their own. Jealousy can weigh down a relationship because it shows lack of trust, and sweetheart, without trust, you have no relationship at all.

If you think that this is untrue, come down off that cloud in La-La-Land and get with the realities of your own insecurities and stop blaming your partner for this one. Honestly, there are so many people who are very good at the blame game and not so good at pondering how they can become better partners. Instead, they demand that their partners make  changes. This is a two-way street and no one ever said that being in a relationship/marriage would be easy. The problem at hand is this; too many people give up and don’t want to try. Divorce rates have skyrocketed over the past decade or two and why? Lack of trust, jealousy, and communication. If I have said it once I’ve said it a gazillion times. Talk, talk, talk to your partner.

 

Here’s how to decide if you are in the right relationship;

1) You don’t fear it, you go with the flow and enjoy the ride

2) You don’t snoop into their lives, especially their past

3) You don’t hide your relationship from people

4) You don’t act superior to them

5) You don’t lose yourself in the relationship, it’s NOT all about YOU

6) You don’t expect that person to change, you accept them JUST THE WAY THEY ARE!!

7) You don’t take, take, take

8) You miss them when they are away

9) You don’t smother them wanting to always be together, you give them space

10) You TRUST them!

 

Panties…Know How to Pick Them!

Believe it or not…MANY women think that picking out panties is so easy. FALSE! It really isn’t as easy as you would think and if you pick out the wrong style and fit, you are going to be miserable all day long, trust me, been there-done that! There are so many styles and fabrics to choose from that it truly depend on what you like and what you need. Trust me now when I say this; “size matters.” Yes, the most important thing to know is what size you are. Just because you fit into a specific pant size does not mean that your panties are the same. You have to wear the right pair of panties or you will truly suffer through your day. Believe me when I say that there is NOTHING worse than suffering through an 8+ hour work day with underwear riding up your ass, or worse, digging into the hoo-ha.

If you wear the wrong pair, you will absolutely endure pain throughout your day and not be happy at all. There is much to be less than desired when your panties are riding up and chafing you all day. There is nothing worse and unappealing than panties that are constantly falling down or give you that awful wedgie. This can be very distracting to your day, not to mention a negative attention getter. This can all be so easily avoided by fitting your self with the appropriate sized panties from the beginning.

 Therefore, ladies, as crazy as this sounds…. here’s an idea? Grab a tape measure because you will need it. Not all store and brands make their undergarments the same, so keep that in mind. You will want to measure your waist first. You will want to have the tape measure snugly around you waist without causing any bulging. Don’t cause any cinching that could cause you to go too small. You will want to use the natural indentation and/or break at your hip and waist. If you are having a hard time finding this curve, then bend to the side. You have to wear these panties, not anyone else…so you want to make certain that they are just what you desire! You will better be able to see where this crease is and know where to measure. You’ll want to write this number down and mark it as you waist measurement. This will become very important depending on what type of panty you are buying. Hey… it’s just a helpful suggestion.

The next step is to measure your hips appropriately. You will want to wrap the tape measure around your hips in their fullest area. To make sure that the tape measure is straight, so you might need to use a mirror or get a friend to help you. It is very important to make sure the tape measure is level all the way around your whole body for the proper fit. The tape measure must be parallel with the floor and snug. Again you don’t want so snug that it causes bulges. You will also write this down to make sure that you know what size to buy. This will help with hip huggers, bikinis, many thongs, and/or string bikinis. Mot of our panties come in OS, S, M, L or XL and plus sizes too of course.

The fitting point of panties is crucial to their comfort. There are “must haves” in any panty you choose to wear, especially those that we sell at Simply Delicious Lingerie! If you are wearing panties under a sexy LBD, choose elegant, simple, panties. If you are going out with the girls or feeling frisky and playful, pull out the ‘bad girl’ panties. Regardless of the color, style, or logos, comfort is key! 

The most important thing is a comfortable crotch. Or you can go crotchless if you prefer…if you choose this path, be very careful, it can be painful if worn for more than a few hours. They will drive you to never wear those panties again no matter what. If you do find a pair with the crotch in them.The crotch of the panty should fit just right against your body. It should not bunch up in the back or the front and should be tight. For panties that horizontal crotch seems they should be visible at the front of the panties only and not slip back. If the open end of the seam is in the front make sure you do not have them on backwards. Otherwise if the seam moves back it will bunch up and be uncomfortable. The waistband should be snug but not tight around your waist or hips depending on the style of panties you buy. If it rolls up or bunches a lot then you will want to try a smaller size. You will know when the panty fits properly because the band will stay up no matter how much you move around and feel comfortable. For all panties except thongs and string bikinis, the leg band should not leave marks yet feel snug and secure.

 At Simply Delicious Lingerie , www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com we have quite a nice selection to choose from. We offer a variety of sexy lingerie and intimate delicates to choose from. Find sexy matching sets as well in our lingerie section of the website. Shop our store everyday anytime day or night. We’re always just an email away to answer any questions that you may have.

 

Simply Delicious Lingerie & Simply Luscious Lingerie;

Simply Delicious Lingerie is an online boutique specializing in sexy lingerie from designers such as Carrie Amber Intimates LLC ‘SeventilMidnight’, Be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, Raveware, and WMS Clothing. Our lingerie is the aphrodisiac of taste, and represents beauty and luxury at an affordable price. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we’ve personally selected a variety of sexy lingerie just for you and all of your sensuous rendezvous. At Simply Luscious Lingerie our motto is; Bring Sexy Home! Our Niche at SLL is our wholesale plus size lingerie membership club. *see rules and regulations. We sell accessories, Bordello shoes, Pleaser shoes, garter sets, bridal lingerie, bridal undergarments, bustier, honeymoon lingerie, wedding day lingerie, wedding garter sets, wedding petticoats, affordable plus size lingerie, Halloween costumes, sexy plus size costumes,  fantasy lingerie, matching lingerie sets, men’s underwear, men’s lingerie, sexy sets, matching sets, wholesale lingerie, sexy thigh high stockings, satin pajamas, plus size sleepwear, adult novelty items and sex swings including the Whip Smart Pleasure Swing and our newest swing…the Fetish Fantasy Yoga Sex Swing.  Our mission is to take your sexy lingerie needs to the next level of comfort, intrigue, romance and sophistication. For more information or to place an order today please visit us; www.SimplyDeliciousLingerie.com  www.SimplyLusciousLingerie.com 

Connections, Fate, and Romance…

Many times I am asked if I believe in fate? On occasion people ask me if I believed in paths crossing for a reason? The answer to both is YES, I do!  Are you a hopeless romantic? Do you believe in paths crossing? This is fate my friend. You see, every now and again fate steps in and gives you a piece of happiness that you didn’t think you deserved, and then as fast as it enters your life, it exits. Sound familiar?   Have you ever gone somewhere and met someone who you just ‘clicked’ with and wondered if he/she could be the one?

Have you ever felt something immediately when you made a connection with someone who stayed in your mind, and your heart for as long as you can remember? A place stands out in your mind, or a song, or the smell in the salty air? It might have been something as little as their smile…nonetheless, that person changed your way of thinking and put an extra skip in your step all of a sudden.

My advice (non-professionally that is) is that when you meet someone, when fate steps in, take a chance. There is no time like the present. Say hello to that person and make conversation. Laugh with them. Go out of your way to get his/hers attention and when you do, find a way to captivate them so that you stay in their head for a long time. Speaking of time, timing is essentially everything. There are times that people come into our lives when the connection just won’t work for a variety of reasons or because one or the other of you is not ready.

There are times where years go by, or even a decade and then one day you wake up after thinking of this person who has been tucked away in the back of your mind, and you ask yourself why you met him/her all those years ago? What was the purpose? Why did it not last, and is there a chance that you can rekindle the flame?  I am a firm believer in second chances. I am a true connoisseur of romance… I had a situation in my life-like this a decade ago when I met someone who stood out and stuck in my head. Regardless whether anything would now or could ever again happen, he will always be called my friend.

He was a vision of the perfect man who was funny and kind and when he smiled he lit up the room. We met in a bar on the beach while I was out with a friend. He approached our table and we immediately made a connection and clicked. For 4 days he spent time getting to know me and then when it was time for me to leave, I was given the most beautiful goodbye. A man who barely knew me standing on his pick up truck waving to me as my plane took off on the runway. He crossed over onto private property just so that I could see him. He took a risk for me. He hauled ass to the airport to see me before I boarded my plane, but he was too late. We boarded early. Was that a sign?

 Everyday people do things that surprise us. People,who were complete strangers to me on my plane could not get over the affection that one person could display, and this man did something that will stay with me and in my memory until the end of time. Even though this man has not seen me in several years, he made me a better person. I can still see his smile, and I can still hear his laughter if I close my eyes and listen in my mind. He taught me not afraid to follow my dreams, and he gave me the inspiration to go after what I truly believed in, just like he followed me to the airport.  It’s been nearly 10 years since I met this man, and once in passing about 7 years ago I saw him again while visiting the beach with my friends. At a glance our vehicles passed at a supermarket and our eyes met. I knew it was him.

Second chances? That was mine, and I felt that if he truly wanted to see me he would make an attempt to contact me. 4 days went by and I heard nothing…so I figured that was it…he must have moved on and married or met someone and was happy. It wasn’t until we were picking up last-minute souvenirs at a local beach store when a friend and I were sitting in the car and noticed something under my windshield wiper. When I got out of the car and pulled the card from underneath the wiper blade, it was wet and the writing was smeared, but it said “I’m sorry, I wasn’t ready then…” on the reverse side was his phone number on the business card. We communicated after I made it back home again for a short while and then just like the first time he disappeared into thin air. 

Every year around this time I think of him as we met on Memorial Day Weekend on a hot sticky muggy night at a little bar on the beach called Harold’s on the ocean. Every year around this time I ponder “what if?” Every time I go back to the beach I walk into Harold’s on the ocean hoping for that connection again to rekindle the friendship that started all those years ago.   Life is full of surprises and we are blessed with those around us and who grace us with their presence. I am and always have been a live for the moment kind of gal and although this man left my life as quickly as he entered it, he will forever remain in my head. Sometimes, something like this only comes around once in a lifetime; so if this is happening to you, seize the moment. Take the chance…you may never have another one. Your heart will guide you to make the right decisions. Have fate my friends. Don’t let your dreams get washed away…  

 

 

Dating Sites…Looking for L-O-V-E or L-U-S-T?

Dating sites seem to be the route to take these days to finding love,and there are plenty of them out there to choose from…but what it if you don’t desire love, rather lust? What if you are just seeking a lover, a NSA kind of guy? What if you just want a ‘boy toy’ if you will? Someone to give you an exclusive membership to their very own pleasure ride in the sky…their personal ‘mile high club?’ A man who you don’t want to be married to rather just share your private and alone time with a few times a month on intimate dinners, weekend getaways and travel? Then you go your separate ways until your next encounter or get together? 

When I think about meeting a man and dating him, or being his lover, I think about two people, at first strangers coming together to form a certain sense of harmony and really connecting on a variety of levels. When I think about a relationship whether it be long term or short term, the questions is not how long will it last rather, how good do these two people mesh together each time the unite? It takes two special people coming together and feeling a connection, first via emails, texts, and the phone and then in person. Many things go into this to make all the good things unfold, but oh if you plan this out and together make goals and commitments of some sort it will all fall into place and it very well can be a win/win for both of you. What is this you ponder? It’s called synchronicity.

Need me to spell it out for you? It is the phenomenon of meaningful things happening together in such a way that they are creatively linked, although one thing did not cause the other. It is as if there is a pattern to the events that is showing you that you are going in the right direction…and the right direction is always good. When you put forth effort and enthusiasm, it shows you are genuine and sincere. You’re not playing games, you’re both adults and deserve to be treated as such. 

So many things go into the full equation of asking; “Is he really the one that will make me happy?” or “Is he going to be discreet and respect me?” If he is the right guy for you, then getting together should be like a walk in the park. Don’t sweat the small stuff…that’s what I tell my friends. Making a connection with someone is not easy at all, in fact when you meet on line it can be even more difficult because you’ve viewed a profile and determined that you like or dislike him or her. If you do like them you proceed to get to know more about them because there is some sort of an attraction and there is so much more to an individual than simply their profile alone. As long as you are completely honest and have excellent communication skills all will be fine, not to worry. Just be YOU! You will find everything falling into place as if it was ‘meant to be’. If there are obstacles now and then, they will be overcome; generally, your path will be smooth because you both went into this type of relationship with the same expectations not only as friends, but lovers. 

Not every chance encounter is magical. There may be some negative affects to meeting someone; sometimes you may meet the right person at the wrong time. Synchronicity is not there and if you try to force a relationship to happen, it will hit a brick wall, and ouch, you don’t want that! My strong non-professional advice would then be that should this happen to you; you’d better to let him go. If he is your Mr. Right, he will come back into your life again later, when it is the right time for both of you. I always say ‘don’t push fate’ it has to happen on its own. 

 

You may be looking for weeks or months for someone special and not find him, then one day you may be getting ready to close out a membership for a dating site and see a message from someone and decide to read it…it very well could be that one message that caught your eye was all that it took to produce a wonderful new friendship and passion in your life. Erotic and exotic fun may have just hit a new level. Your connection may just be explosive and then you can really kiss the dating sites goodbye!

 

 

 

Simply Delicious Lingerie…Lingerie Lingo

Not everyone knows the definition of lingerie, so we’re here to share the ‘lingo,’ our 4-1-1 if you will, because we have the pizazz that will turn ordinary into a charisma which will indeed personify extraordinary. We take great pride in our intimate apparel. Our hand selected pieces are a private label that comes with a heritage and has been a leader in lingerie, loungewear, costume wear, legwear, plus size lingerie, and accessories under the SeventilMidnight brand for well over a decade. We hope that this benefits you with your selection at our online boutique.

The impeccable craftsmanship embodies bold colors, eye catching prints along with luscious quality fabrics in hundreds of styles.

This collection has been featured in People Magazine, Playboy, Glamour, Life & Style, InStyle, Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan, Maxim, FHM, VH1, Fox TV, and the Oxygen Network. Our fascinating apparel and intimates have celebrity fans such as Katty Perry, Kim Kardashian, Denise Richards,Tera Patrick, Kendra Wilkinson, Lucy Hale, Janice Dickinson, and Naya Rivera from Glee. Amongst other designers and distributors; be Wicked, Elegant Moments, Fantasy Lingerie, iCollection Lingerie whom all contribute luxury lingerie at fabulous prices!

What is lingerie and where was it derived from? The term lingerie comes from the old French word “linge” which means linen. The term lingerie came into the English vocabulary as a euphemism for scandalous clothing unbecoming of a lady. Throughout the years, the design of lingerie has varied but the appeal is in influencing key factor in the world of seduction. Let’s face it, women love lingerie and men adore them in it. So often though, people ask me what is the difference between this and that? I’m here to share with you our perspective of lingerie.

For decades the look of lingerie strived to keep the feminine presence while it exhibits flirtatious lingerie for the lady of the 21st century! A woman’s appearance is a manifesto of who she is, and her facade transpires her into mastery. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we believe that a huge part of the anticipation is the sex appeal. Finding the right piece of sexy lingerie that accentuates your curves may not always be that easy. No two women are of the same build, therefore, the determination of recognizing a gorgeous piece is quite dazzling to the woman whereas it can be mind blowing to the person undressing her.

Corsets

A corset is a garment  worn to hold and shape the torso into a desired shape for artistic purposes.In recent years, the term “corset” has also been borrowed by the fashion industry to refer to tops which, to varying degrees, mimic the look of traditional corsets without actually acting as one. The most common and well known use of corsets is to slim the body and make it conform to a fashionable silhouette. Modern bustiers are a reincarnation and modified  version of their earlier 16th century linen cousins. They were called the “payre of bodies” and “stays”. Stays had shoulder straps and a small waist ending in flaps.Their shape was an inverted cone meant to compliment the large multi-layered skirts below. They pushed up the breasts, narrowed the waist and straightened the back. In the 80s Madonna brought the corset back to life as she wore them as an adornment in videos and at her concerts. Women went nuts over them and they were recreated keeping much of the appeal with an embellishing and bountiful glamorous flair!

There are basically two types of modern corsets. An overbust corset encloses the torso, extending from just under the arms to the hips. An underbust corset begins just under the breasts and extends down to the hips. Some corsets extend over the hips. A shorter kind of corset, which covers the waist area is called a waist cincher. A corset may also include garters to hold up stockings or alternatively a separate garter belt may be worn for that. Don’t forget to accessorize it with those sexy thigh high stockings or a titillating pair of fishnet stockings.

So what is the difference between a bustier and a corset? Well a bustier is shorter than a corset and does not attempt to shape the waist at all. Remember a bustier is designed to shape the bust whereas the corset is more about the hips and waist. Another way to make sense of it is to remember that a bustier shows off the tummy and the corset does a magnificent job of hiding it.

Bustiers

A bustier is a splendorous one-piece, tight-fitting, sleeveless garment, designed with cups and flexible boning. It is meant to fit around your breasts and down around your ribcage. It usually ends at the waist unlike a corset. Hooks and eyes, cord or ribbon, connect most of them. They are almost always strapless.They are  meant to define a woman’s shape and enhance her breasts. The bustier is often worn on the outside directly over the skin, or over other garments like blouses, shirts & t-shirts.

Chemises

A chemise is generally a woman’s garment that vaguely resembles the older shirts but is typically more delicate, most stunning and oh so provocative. Most commonly the term refers to a loose-fitting, sleeveless undergarment or  type of lingerie which is unfitted at the waist. It can also refer to a short, sleeveless dress that hangs straight from the shoulders and fits loosely at the waist. A chemise typically does not have any buttons or other fasteners and is put on by either dropping it over the head or stepping into it and lifting it up.As lingerie, a chemise is similar to babydoll,, which is also a short, loose-fitting, sleeveless garment. Typically, though, babydolls are more loose-fitting at the hips and are generally designed to more resemble a young girl’s nightgown, although many modern styles have added various sexualizing features.

Camisoles

A woman’s loose-fitting undergarment for the upper body, typically held up by shoulder straps and having decorative trimming. Camisoles are light loose fitting sleeveless tops typically made with soft cotton, delicate lace trim around the chest and held up by thin spaghetti straps. Always shorter than a chemise, the camisole typically rests on the hips but may show off the tummy too. Nowadays the camisole is a staple of any girl’s fashion and may even be worn as outerwear. Our camisoles beauty is defined with a feminine presence and an eloquent look.

Baby Dolls

A babydoll is a short, sometimes sleeveless, loose fitting nightgown or neglegee intended as nightwear for women. It sometimes has formed cups called a bralette for cleavage with an attached loose fitting skirt falling in length usually between the upper thigh and the belly button. The garment is often trimmed with beautiful lace, ruffles, appliques marabou fur, bows and ribbons, optionally with spaghetti straps. Sometimes it is made of sheer or translucent fabric like nylon, chiffon, satin, or silk.

Teddy

The teddy is basically a body suit that is sexy and fun. It can have cups for a bra, with out cups and straight or have no cups at all. No matter what kind you have the teddy will be an intricate part of your wardrobe. The word teddy is probably the first thing most people think of when they hear the word lingerie, at least it is for me. An image pops up of this sexy spaghetti strapped little lacy one-piece suit right? Well the teddy is more than just that. The teddy adds flare to your clothing by enhancing what you have and hiding any flaws you might think you have. Find your favorite color and wear it with confidence. A Teddy is lingerie which combines both a camisole top and a panty into a single piece. A teddy can have many variations but most are made of light, delicate fabrics that fit smoothly and comfortably over the torso. They hug your body and fit your curves so that the breathtaking overture is captivating and astonishing!

Garter Belts

Today, a garter belt is considered exotic lingerie. The belt is worn around the waist or hips directly against your skin. The silky or fishnet stockings are attached to the garter belt from four to eight dangling straps with clips. These straps are called garters. To complete this exotic lingerie look, a pair of high-heeled shoes could be worn for an added effect. This sexy lingerie look could also be complemented with a push-up bra, see through bra or other type of matching bra. The result is a sexy look that will definitely get your partner’s attention. The temperature will go from steamy to sweltering in the bedroom with this erotic piece!

Sexy Matching Set

These days matching lingerie sets array from sheer lingerie sets to flirty boy shorts. The possibilities are endless. Sexy matching lingerie sets add style and expression to any look. Nonetheless, the assortment of accessible types can be quite challenging to find. With an assortment of women’s intimate apparel at our boutique, we focus on the sensuous appetite of those who wear it and those whom encounter it. After all, we are the aphrodisiac of taste and our quality merchandise will seduce your mind, and tantalize your soul. The cliche’ of these pieces being taboo are no more. Now a centerpiece of fashion worn with high self-esteem and confidence. At Simply Delicious Lingerie we carry pieces that enunciate sexy and seductive and will have you feeling confident from the inside out.